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DIY Divorce 832 topics

Discussion on DIY divorce services as an alternative to using a solicitor. How much does it cost? How long does it take? What if we can't agree?
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Partner 7yrs separated. Absolute straight away?


Hi, My partner has been separated 7years. He''s got some forms to fill in for divorce but he thinks he can apply s ...
24 May 12, by Queeny
Latest 24 May 12 by dukey
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24 May 12
Form H, now self-repping, past solicitor usage?
This really is a punt in the dark ...

I''m only at the Nisi stage, haven''t started proceedings for a financial order yet, but got side-tracked into lo ...
15 May 12, by SilverFir
Latest 16 May 12 by .Charles
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Latest by .Charles
16 May 12
Next Step Advice - Wife ignoring petition
I served my wife the Petition (for unreasonable behaviour to which she agreed) and she received it on the 4th Oct. She rang me that day so I know she received t ...
15 Nov 11, by joeboro
Latest 16 May 12 by joeboro
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16 May 12
Spousal Maint query
Would Party A be likely to get any spousal maintenance in the following scenario?

Party A
Does not have the child or any visitation rights c ...
14 May 12, by kingpleb
Latest 14 May 12 by kingpleb
Replies:3
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Latest by kingpleb
14 May 12
Jurisdiction Problem (Scotland-England)
Hi,

I used to live in Scotland and got separated from my Ex in Dec 2010. We do not have any children or joint property. She DOES NOT want divorce.
...
10 May 12, by nemo707
Latest 11 May 12 by Fiona
Replies:1
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Latest by Fiona
11 May 12
no acknowledgement of service, what next?
hello, i managed myself through my divorce with the help of this site (and my solicitor) 2 years ago...now i find i am trying to help my new partner do the same ...
10 May 12, by sunshiny_sarah
Latest 10 May 12 by dukey
Replies:1
:373
Latest by dukey
10 May 12
Nisi
Hi
I have received a "certificate of entitlement to a decree" from the court today.....is this a decree Nisi as it dosn''t say? It also sa ...
04 May 12, by haley68
Latest 06 May 12 by dukey
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06 May 12
06 May 12, by EGGBOX
Latest 06 May 12 by dukey
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Latest by dukey
06 May 12
Absolute- more than 1 yr from Decree Nissi??
Hi, I understand that if you can''t get your finances in order within 1 yr of a Decree Nissi it can cause problems getting a Decree Absolute?? Is just a extra f ...
04 May 12, by barmywithitall
Latest 04 May 12 by dukey
Replies:1
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Latest by dukey
04 May 12
Confused over the D80A form
Hi, I was wondering if anyone could help me?:S

I want to apply f ...
29 Apr 12, by pauljoe
Latest 04 May 12 by haley68
Replies:7
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Latest by haley68
04 May 12
Re-service not required
Hello

Just getting to the Decree Nisi of my divorce when the Petition has been knocked back. Apparently I made an error, which I have already done. It ...
02 May 12, by begeegs
Latest 02 May 12 by dukey
Replies:1
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02 May 12
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Latest by dukey
25 Apr 12
21 Apr 12, by maggie
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Triplicates
I am currently in the process of filling in my consent order form and wondered do these have to be sent to the court in triplicate form? Everything else I have ...
18 Apr 12, by EFCL
Latest 18 Apr 12 by EFCL
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Latest by EFCL
18 Apr 12
Completing form D80E - 5 years separation
Hello All

I hoping some-one out there is able to help with a couple of questions on form D80E - affidavit in support of 5 years separation

...
01 Apr 12, by bagpuss001
Latest 01 Apr 12 by bagpuss001
Replies:2
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Latest by bagpuss001
01 Apr 12
Nisi Date
Got our Nisi date this morning. 4th April. However, I am away on holiday then and I really wanted to submit our Consent Order as soon as the Nisi was confirmed. ...
23 Mar 12, by EFCL
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How do I get service deemed to have been received?
My husband lives in Spain and is being difficult about the divorce. I left him two years ago (after 40 years of marriage) as he was getting drunk every day and ...
18 Mar 12, by Gingernut49
Latest 21 Mar 12 by Gingernut49
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21 Mar 12
Affidavit completed - What next?
Last week I went to the court with my completed affidavit and swore on oath with a court official. The court took all the forms off me there and then to submit, ...
20 Mar 12, by EFCL
Latest 20 Mar 12 by EFCL
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20 Mar 12
Amicable agreement to divorce - solicitors needed?
My husband of nearly 7 years and I have agreed, very amicably so far, to divorce. I sought some legal advice before speaking to him and understand that it''s po ...
18 Mar 12, by SMCD2005
Latest 18 Mar 12 by livinginhope
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Latest by livinginhope
18 Mar 12
The PSU?
This looks a very useful service and was recommended by the legal helpline today.

Does anyone know if they only come with you if you are in the court t ...
14 Mar 12, by ExhidMoob
Latest 14 Mar 12 by ExhidMoob
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14 Mar 12
form E
Hi, ive just registered as i need a bit of help filling in my form E. Does anyone know if i have to get a solicitor or someone at the court to sign my Form E be ...
13 Mar 12, by sarah197001
Latest 13 Mar 12 by Hereshopin
Replies:4
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Latest by Hereshopin
13 Mar 12
Decree Nisi
Hi my partner is due to get his decree Nisi in 3 weeks time.

He is keen to get the Absolute asap, he was advised from a lawyer to agree to the divorce ...
05 Mar 12, by dpants
Latest 06 Mar 12 by dpants
Replies:5
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Latest by dpants
06 Mar 12
2 yr seperation
I am going down the diy divorce route and am in the process of completing the forms for 2 yr separation. I am struggling what to put in the statement of case se ...
03 Mar 12, by ixisate
Latest 03 Mar 12 by LittleMrMike
Replies:1
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Latest by LittleMrMike
03 Mar 12
Experiencing reasonable behavior from ex
Hi wiks experiencing unreasonable behavior from ex husband completing Ancillary Relief with out a solicitor self reping.were do I stand in terms of communicatin ...
01 Mar 12, by louie33
Latest 01 Mar 12 by dukey
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Latest by dukey
01 Mar 12
''Piece of string'' question.
I spoke to the court today, they confirmed they''ve had stbx''s Acknowledgement of Service back... Now I realise this is probably a difficult question to answer ...
15 Feb 12, by MDA
Latest 16 Feb 12 by MDA
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Latest by MDA
16 Feb 12
Unreasonable Behaviour Grounds
Hi all,

I''m planning to divorce my husband on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour. We''re going for a DIY divorce as we don''t want to spend lots of ...
15 Feb 12, by Amanda79
Latest 15 Feb 12 by ouchthishurts
Replies:5
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Latest by ouchthishurts
15 Feb 12
18 Oct 11, by maggie
Latest 26 Jan 12 by Young again
Replies:1
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Latest by Young again
26 Jan 12
Self representing
I have been separated for three years, live seperatly from my ex and ran the course of mediation to no avail. I then ran out of funds for solicitor for divorce ...
24 Jan 12, by Shiner123
Latest 25 Jan 12 by livinginhope
Replies:2
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Latest by livinginhope
25 Jan 12
Divorce on 5 yr separation
Hi,
Please I need some advise/pointers to get my Divorce.
I was fighting my case in India for last 8 yrs but the Girls family started harassing me by no ...
23 Jan 12, by kraj
Latest 24 Jan 12 by kraj
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Latest by kraj
24 Jan 12
Respondent will not reply after bailiff service
It's been more than 8 months since I started proceedings but the respondent keeps hoping to frustrate proceedings by playing deaf and dumb.

She receive ...
28 Dec 11, by svvennssson
Latest 29 Dec 11 by ditchedagain11
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Latest by ditchedagain11
29 Dec 11
McKenzie friend
Hi there,
I am hoping someone will be able to help. I have just decided to become litigant in person as a necessity as money run out for legal advice
20 Dec 11, by inneedofadvice
Latest 22 Dec 11 by dukey
Replies:1
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Latest by dukey
22 Dec 11
My ex filed a D10 form defending. Wot nxt?
Please help...
I filed for divorce on 3rd March 2011- Two years with consent. My ex went back on his word and refused to acknowledge or give consent.
I ...
12 Dec 11, by svb
Latest 13 Dec 11 by svb
Replies:2
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Latest by svb
13 Dec 11
Nisi allowed - how do i get the costs?
Hi all,

I have just been awarded my Nisi which i am thrilled about! He has also been ordered to pay the costs!

My question is, how does this a ...
19 Nov 11, by ncscooby
Latest 02 Dec 11 by ncscooby
Replies:3
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Latest by ncscooby
02 Dec 11
post consent order stress
Hello!
I think I know the answer to this one...
Consent order passed Oct 4th. decree Absolute passed 9th November. Nothing is outstanding.
Ex is now ...
30 Nov 11, by wavingnotdrowning1
Latest 30 Nov 11 by dukey
Replies:3
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Latest by dukey
30 Nov 11
EX160 fee remission
Has any members been successful with an EX160 fee remission application.

If so how long did it take to process and how much discount did you get.
< ...
22 Nov 11, by dukey
Latest 24 Nov 11 by dukey
Replies:3
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Latest by dukey
24 Nov 11
Acknowledgement of service
Husband has sent acknowledgement back to court on the 9th November (it was issued by court on 12th October) so at the last minute. he has not said yes or no t ...
13 Nov 11, by cricket1
Latest 13 Nov 11 by cricket1
Replies:4
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Latest by cricket1
13 Nov 11
Consent Order
After short marriage of 1 year I am petitioning for divorce from my husband. There are no children, no property, savings etc., We had only known each other fo ...
01 Nov 11, by cricket1
Latest 02 Nov 11 by cricket1
Replies:4
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Latest by cricket1
02 Nov 11
Form D84 - URGENT help please
Hi all

Luckily today i received the acknowledgement from the court to say that he has sent the papers back! Big relief!

HOWEVER.....he is sayi ...
31 Oct 11, by ncscooby
Latest 01 Nov 11 by dukey
Replies:3
:352
Latest by dukey
01 Nov 11
Recent experience of county court....
Hi all,

I just thought i would post up about the experience i had at the county court yesterday.

I went along to file my divorce papers....the ...
11 Oct 11, by ncscooby
Latest 11 Oct 11 by WhiteRose
Replies:3
:450
Latest by WhiteRose
11 Oct 11
Unreasonable behaviours reasons - Is this ok?
Hi all, would like to say thanks for all your help so far, very much appreciated!

I am hoping to submit my papers next week, and wanted to put my reaso ...
08 Oct 11, by ncscooby
Latest 09 Oct 11 by Fiona
Replies:23
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Latest by Fiona
09 Oct 11

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