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Financial Issues 617 topics

Discussion on asset split, maintenance and all financial related issues for cohabitees who are separating. The financial implications of separation for cohabitees is currently very different than for married couples under English law.
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House Bills
Hi there, bit frustrated. Moved out of FMH in may(occupation order) Been paying all bills/mortgage since then. £480 pm.

My income £2200, now paying r ...
27 Aug 09, by Notgiving up
Latest 27 Aug 09 by TBagpuss
Replies:1
:350
Latest by TBagpuss
27 Aug 09
insolvency & ancilliary relief
Hi I've recently been desterted by ex who took kids (2) & said she didn't want any money (right!).
I have struggled to cope & have been declared ban ...
14 Jul 09, by dougieriley
Latest 26 Aug 09 by dougieriley
Replies:3
:384
Latest by dougieriley
26 Aug 09
Large amount of money taken out of X's account
Hi all,

X to be has been taking large money out of the joint account which he soley runs. I know where it is going due to the counterslips - his friend ...
15 Aug 09, by Moffat
Latest 25 Aug 09 by trustngo
Replies:2
:411
Latest by trustngo
25 Aug 09
divorce and pensions
after almost 37 years my husband walked out just over one year ago because of a woman who dropped him within one week , he came off the deeds to the house and w ...
21 Aug 09, by lidia
Latest 21 Aug 09 by NellNoRegrets
Replies:4
:388
Latest by NellNoRegrets
21 Aug 09
what am i entitled to if anything?
Hi
can anyone help me as i dont know where i stand?
i intend to leave my partner of 23 years.he spends most of his time working in iraq.
i live in o ...
17 Aug 09, by rocky17
Latest 18 Aug 09 by STBXIsMoneyObsessed
Replies:3
:404
Latest by STBXIsMoneyObsessed
18 Aug 09
prenuptual agreement
My wife has left to live at her mothers home and is insisting in a divorce. I was married 19 years then divorced ,lived with second wife for 11 years the marrie ...
14 Aug 09, by coluk
Latest 14 Aug 09 by LittleMrMike
Replies:4
:453
Latest by LittleMrMike
14 Aug 09
How bad does it get?
Hi,
After incurring £12k of solicitor fees and more to come, I have been advised by the solicitor that my Ex can win the Sale Order she is trying to obtain ...
13 Aug 09, by rob1969
Latest 14 Aug 09 by LittleMrMike
Replies:2
:377
Latest by LittleMrMike
14 Aug 09
car money
Me and my ex fiance bought a car together in 2007 for us and our 2 kids with some money his mum had given us as a present. When he got the money, he put it in a ...
11 Aug 09, by menaregreedy
Latest 12 Aug 09 by STBXIsMoneyObsessed
Replies:1
:383
Latest by STBXIsMoneyObsessed
12 Aug 09
do i have to move or sell the house
hi my wife wants us to separate i dont do i have to move out of my house ...
08 Aug 09, by dave1961
Latest 09 Aug 09 by markp
Replies:9
:854
Latest by markp
09 Aug 09
Life assurance
Life assurance

What and how much does Life Assurance play part in a divorce? My X2b has a Life Assurance plan and I don’t.
Money has been paid in ...
07 Aug 09, by Moffat
Latest 09 Aug 09 by facebooked
Replies:1
:394
Latest by facebooked
09 Aug 09
Seperation Agreements
Is a seperation agreement a good thing prior to a convntional divorce?..

What exactly is a seperation agreement and what does that mean in law.

08 Aug 09, by unsureineed
Latest 08 Aug 09 by Tets
Replies:1
:385
Latest by Tets
08 Aug 09
out of the bag
if spouse has been caught doubling mortgage and over a period of time including before the seperation removed that extra money by withdrawing cash and hidding s ...
06 Aug 09, by hands
Latest 06 Aug 09 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:324
Latest by hadenoughnow
06 Aug 09
'Reasonable' split of bills?...
My wife an I are separating (within the last week)however for financial reasons and our son (7 years old) are required to stay in the same house until sold and ...
04 Aug 09, by ribble01
Latest 05 Aug 09 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:427
Latest by hadenoughnow
05 Aug 09
Advice needed re : repossession of marital home
I left my ex last year and he moved his mistress into the marital home. The deal was that they pay the mortgage and bills and that the property would be sold on ...
04 Aug 09, by desperate08
Latest 05 Aug 09 by NellNoRegrets
Replies:1
:378
Latest by NellNoRegrets
05 Aug 09
Cohabitation
Hi
I have been happily divorced since 2001. Have 2 children 16 and 13 for whom I pay CSA with no issues. My question is this.
In the court order I am pa ...
27 Jul 09, by dave64
Latest 03 Aug 09 by dave64
Replies:3
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Latest by dave64
03 Aug 09
An order of ancillary relief is not adhered to
After a very abusive marriage of thirty years my friend finally gained her decree absolute in May. Now two months down the line her ex continues his vindictive ...
02 Aug 09, by gloomy days
Latest 03 Aug 09 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
:404
Latest by hadenoughnow
03 Aug 09
advice needed please
my daughter and partner were engaged and bought a house together each put the same amount of money in and both names are on the deeds and mortgage documents. Th ...
01 Aug 09, by worriedmother16
Latest 01 Aug 09 by worriedmother16
Replies:2
:410
Latest by worriedmother16
01 Aug 09
How can I ensure he pays and does not go back
Hi All

I am wondering if there is any way I can make my husband pay a fixed amount towards the running of the marital home he has walked out on.
He ...
27 Jul 09, by Mo25
Latest 27 Jul 09 by Mo25
Replies:3
:370
Latest by Mo25
27 Jul 09
Separation - Mortgage and Equity
Help!

I separated from my ex partnr of nearly 10 years last year.

He now wants money from the equity of the house, and is demanding being take ...
23 Jul 09, by twinkle1
Latest 23 Jul 09 by twinkle1
Replies:2
:387
Latest by twinkle1
23 Jul 09
ex is going bankrupt
Hi, My ex and I have a have had a joint mortgage for 3 years. 1yr ago he moved out after we split up-leaving me to pay the whole mortgage per month.
Since t ...
13 Jul 09, by kelly01
Latest 14 Jul 09 by kelly01
Replies:3
:507
Latest by kelly01
14 Jul 09
Forcing the sale of house?
Hi, not sure if this is the right forum so feel free to move if it isnt. Right, bought a house with my ex-girlfriend of many years in july 2008, needed total re ...
09 Jul 09, by LMM
Latest 10 Jul 09 by LittleMrMike
Replies:4
:409
Latest by LittleMrMike
10 Jul 09
Getting return of financial gift
We married in June 06, separated May 09. I left the maritial home which is in his name (though my money bought a large chunk of it). I am now renting. I don' ...
06 Jul 09, by herewegoagain22
Latest 08 Jul 09 by Active8
Replies:3
:378
Latest by Active8
08 Jul 09
I am leaving my parnter of seventeen years
I am leaving my parnter of seventeen years we have lived together for fourteen years both on the mortage and both work and pay it.
We have a business togeth ...
06 Jul 09, by piglet32
Latest 06 Jul 09 by piglet32
Replies:2
:391
Latest by piglet32
06 Jul 09
dedds to house
my ex partner not married, left me and my 2 yr old son in 1998, his name is on deeds but he has never paid a penny towards the house or any maintanance for his ...
01 Jul 09, by cags
Latest 02 Jul 09 by eyeris
Replies:2
:350
Latest by eyeris
02 Jul 09
home ownership
if i seperate from my co-habiting partner of 2 years and she insists on staying in the family home with our son , how would a court make me pay the morgage as t ...
30 Jun 09, by lord allum
Latest 01 Jul 09 by LittleMrMike
Replies:2
:414
Latest by LittleMrMike
01 Jul 09
Question regarding lost money in Joint accounts?
S2bx made me sign over 3 joint accounts to him when I was at my lowest point, at the time I had no idea what I was signing. Any way over £31000 has gone missin ...
05 Mar 09, by Cinders35
Latest 27 Jun 09 by timmy77
Replies:2
:354
Latest by timmy77
27 Jun 09
sale of family home
can my ex keep dropping the price of our home without my approval? he is doing this as his soon to be wife works for a solisitor and seems to have her in his 'p ...
23 Jun 09, by 7wHayes
Latest 23 Jun 09 by constanza
Replies:1
:395
Latest by constanza
23 Jun 09
cohabitation 3 years later financial and property
Hi I seperated around 3 years ago from my ex girlfriend, we lived in my house for around 16 years with her daughter who was 4 when they moved in. SHe did not wo ...
20 Jun 09, by asta
Latest 20 Jun 09 by asta
Replies:2
:367
Latest by asta
20 Jun 09
House Deeds
Is there anyone who may be able to give me advice regarding splitting from my partner. We currently have a house which is in joint names and joint mortgage, al ...
18 Jun 09, by jak820
Latest 18 Jun 09 by dukey
Replies:1
:379
Latest by dukey
18 Jun 09
dividing assets
ive been married to a controling ,unreasonable compulsive lier for the last 4 years,we are now seperated but unfartunatly have to liv ein the same house at the ...
12 Jun 09, by mandmc
Latest 14 Jun 09 by Fiona
Replies:2
:437
Latest by Fiona
14 Jun 09
dividing assets
my husband and i got back together breifly,he was living in the rented marital home ,and i in a small grotty flat.we signed a lease,for a new rented property,he ...
13 Jun 09, by mandmc
Latest 14 Jun 09 by Fiona
Replies:3
:391
Latest by Fiona
14 Jun 09
remortgage
just found out in court x2b remortgaged our FH without telling me in 2003. In court he said it was a joint decision. How can I proove I dont know anything about ...
12 Jun 09, by ssoria
Latest 12 Jun 09 by saffron1968
Replies:1
:398
Latest by saffron1968
12 Jun 09
Help!!! Ex used my name to lower his tax band.
Hi,

Wasn't sure if anyone would be able to give me any advice or where to put my question (and I'm worried sick).... anyway here goes.

Seperat ...
12 Jun 09, by Cinders35
Latest 12 Jun 09 by when will it all end?!
Replies:1
:416
Latest by when will it all end?!
12 Jun 09
likely outcome?
Hi all, hope i can learn something from your collective wisdom!

Unmarried couple, I'll call them 'female' and 'male'
2 grown-up children living in ...
09 Jul 08, by campbell
Latest 09 Jun 09 by campbell
Replies:5
:513
Latest by campbell
09 Jun 09
Amending a seperation agreement
Hi

My partner left his wife about 18 months ago. They agreed she would keep the huose, car and everything in it, but not touch his pensions or bonuses. ...
09 Jun 09, by LouLou101
Latest 09 Jun 09 by LouLou101
Replies:2
:410
Latest by LouLou101
09 Jun 09
Need some advice please
Hi,

Does anyone know how much it would cost just to ask a solicitor to send a letter or two - no more than that.

Basically my ex's conveyancin ...
06 May 09, by TUFKAB
Latest 07 Jun 09 by fluffy76
Replies:3
:403
Latest by fluffy76
07 Jun 09
FORCED SALE
I SPLIT FROM MY GIRLFRIEND 3 YEARS AGO I HAVE A 5 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER WITH HER SHE HAS MY DAUGHTER AND LIVES IN THE HOUSE WE BOTH BROUGHT TOGETHER NEVER MARIED TH ...
26 May 09, by KEVIN6126
Latest 07 Jun 09 by start of my new life
Replies:7
:982
Latest by start of my new life
07 Jun 09
The Mortgage!
Hi! I am new on this forum! Me and my husband have recently separated and he is very eager to pay the full mortgage, even though he knows it is nearly double wh ...
02 Jun 09, by suziraf
Latest 06 Jun 09 by Elle
Replies:1
:422
Latest by Elle
06 Jun 09
Talk about taking the mick and screwing the system
Hello......

Please bear with me whilst I have a good rant!! I split with my ex over two years ago, we have a daughter who is at primary school. We were ...
04 May 09, by mrmister
Latest 22 May 09 by TRT
Replies:2
:440
Latest by TRT
22 May 09
Seperating - help with £
Hi
I'm seperating with my partner (not married) we are both joint names on the mortgage. he has offered me £5k and we have over £100k equity in the house. ...
11 May 09, by whitney
Latest 11 May 09 by whitney
Replies:2
:478
Latest by whitney
11 May 09

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