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My ex wont sell the house Hi there, i would like some advice on my rights as a separated parent. My wife and i were married for 16 years we have three children aged 12,14 & 18. W ... 03 Apr 15, by Jodda Latest 13 Apr 15 by Marshy_	Replies:4 :603	Latest by Marshy_ 13 Apr 15
Lost decree absolute Hi, Been on & off here since 2008 & am glad of the support. I have moved twice since my divorce & I have realised that somewhere along the way t ... 24 Mar 15, by mez Latest 26 Mar 15 by mez	Replies:2 :389	Latest by mez 26 Mar 15
Daughter not wanting to stay with Dad I''m just wanting some advice please. I have been divorced 17 months and we have 4 children. Our older 3 kids are young adults but our youngest is 8. There has ... 22 Mar 15, by bulldog Latest 23 Mar 15 by bulldog 1 2 3	Replies:17 :1319	Latest by bulldog 23 Mar 15
seeing ex after a long time. Just returned from a shopping trip and for the first time in 4 years I saw my ex husband. He looked away but I looked straight at him and saw the sad person ... 08 Mar 15, by blondecazza Latest 12 Mar 15 by Marshy_	Replies:5 :452	Latest by Marshy_ 12 Mar 15
It''s not how you start it''s how you finish .... Hello all haven''t been on here for a while but I am now 6 months post divorce and wanted to drop in to firstly say a huge thank you to all those in this forum ... 08 Mar 15, by Butterfly Lady Latest 08 Mar 15 by HeadKnowsHeartDoesnt	Replies:4 :355	Latest by HeadKnowsHeartDoesnt 08 Mar 15
Future relationships For those of you that have been brave enough to want to have another relationship. How do you know when you are ready?. I met a guy last year who I went ... 25 Jan 15, by blondecazza Latest 03 Mar 15 by Declan 1 2 3 ... 6	Replies:35 :2315	Latest by Declan 03 Mar 15
Alone surrounded by couples This is still one of the hardest parts of divorce for me, and something I really have to force myself to do even coming up to 2 years post-divorce. That is goi ... 20 Feb 15, by Vastra1 Latest 01 Mar 15 by polar 1 2 3	Replies:20 :1178	Latest by polar 01 Mar 15
life, what life? dear all, who finds himself/herself in a situation where you go out and you are supposed to have a good time, yet you get that awful sad, low, and lonely feelin ... 26 Feb 15, by sherrara Latest 28 Feb 15 by sherrara 1 2 3	Replies:14 :1421	Latest by sherrara 28 Feb 15
What ever happened to the first knew. I have recently been wondering what ever happened to the person I first knew or have I never really known him at all or was it all a lie. How do people have ... 24 Feb 15, by blondecazza Latest 25 Feb 15 by blondecazza 1 2	Replies:9 :860	Latest by blondecazza 25 Feb 15
Inspirational Wiki-Member on Radio this morning A long-term Wikivorce member will be interviewed on BBC Radio5live this morning around 10:30am to talk about how she set up her own (successful) business follow ... 24 Feb 15, by rubytuesday Latest 24 Feb 15 by rubytuesday	Replies:3 :496	Latest by rubytuesday 24 Feb 15
Feeling like I can''t do this anymore. Today was a really bad day. One of the worst ever. Throughout this divorce hell the one thing that has sustained me is my close relationship with my ch ... 13 Feb 15, by Patsy39 Latest 21 Feb 15 by bulldog 1 2 3	Replies:15 :1327	Latest by bulldog 21 Feb 15
access to marital home i had a harrasment order for one year finishes sunday 22 february,,am i allowed to enter marital home with surveyor to value said marital property,,which is in ... 19 Feb 15, by spudski Latest 20 Feb 15 by spudski	Replies:2 :379	Latest by spudski 20 Feb 15
Protecting my childrens inheritance I was divorced last year and after a court battle received 50% of the marital home sale which I have used to buy another property outright. I have been with my ... 11 Feb 15, by Cornfield Latest 16 Feb 15 by Fiona	Replies:6 :406	Latest by Fiona 16 Feb 15
Post Xmas .... As a old wiki,I have not been surprised to see that a load of new members have joined the ranks. I personally would like to welcome you,although very s ... 29 Dec 14, by afonleas Latest 09 Feb 15 by Vastra1	Replies:3 :468	Latest by Vastra1 09 Feb 15
about fear and prevention need opinions, experiences (and emotional support) I have been dating a younger woman for a good year and a half, who I met soon after divorce. We ... 08 Feb 15, by changingtimes Latest 09 Feb 15 by sherrara	Replies:1 :362	Latest by sherrara 09 Feb 15
Get involved - what happens to your dress? Wikivorce really helped me with my divorce in 2010. I wondered if any women on the site would be interested in giving back as I did? 08 Feb 15, by JCorcoran Latest 08 Feb 15 by HeadKnowsHeartDoesnt	Replies:2 :425	Latest by HeadKnowsHeartDoesnt 08 Feb 15
IDIOT I AM ! Married 23 yrs then divorced 6 years & it''s like it''s day one.Thought from the start of the divorce I had jumped the gun. Gave him 70% to clear his debts. ... 04 Feb 15, by mez Latest 04 Feb 15 by mez	Replies:4 :438	Latest by mez 04 Feb 15
Flashbacks. I wanted to ask if anybody else has flashbacks to what happened during their marriage. A few times now I''ve dreamt about it to the point where it has awoke ... 01 Feb 15, by blondecazza Latest 03 Feb 15 by blondecazza 1 2	Replies:8 :1068	Latest by blondecazza 03 Feb 15
Ex Demanding more Hi, Been divorced for a couple of years now. The Ex is living in rented accommodation with our son. I am paying maintenance every month. She i ... 27 Jan 15, by EdwardG Latest 28 Jan 15 by MrsMathsisfun	Replies:5 :366	Latest by MrsMathsisfun 28 Jan 15
Divorce 2012 Hello.. Divorced 1st husband after marital problems, separation and started living separate lives. We have one school aged son. Divorce was complet ... 22 Jan 15, by SheRaa Latest 25 Jan 15 by mango561	Replies:1 :389	Latest by mango561 25 Jan 15
Can a Divorce be Cancelled or Reversed? If I wanted to get back with my husband and cancel or reversed my Divorce, can that be done? ... 22 Jan 15, by SheRaa Latest 22 Jan 15 by NWGuy 1 2	Replies:7 :999	Latest by NWGuy 22 Jan 15
Making Your New Life Great Hi Everyone, I thought I would just drop in to give an update that will hopefully show the eventual contentment to all those who are in the early despairing tim ... 18 Jan 15, by Forester Latest 21 Jan 15 by samz 1 2	Replies:7 :881	Latest by samz 21 Jan 15
Odd question with no idea where to post it... I want to apologize in advance... (although my therapist recently told me that I seem to spend a whole lot of my time unnecessarily apologizing for mys ... 19 Jan 15, by StillShining Latest 19 Jan 15 by maccy2	Replies:3 :369	Latest by maccy2 19 Jan 15
paperwork from divorce Hi Now that my divorce is over and done with I have all the extensive paperwork dealing with the last 18 months of my life, what should I do with it all? I ... 15 Jan 15, by driven40 Latest 16 Jan 15 by driven40 1 2	Replies:7 :855	Latest by driven40 16 Jan 15
Dreams about Ex Wife I have been split from ex now for four years but past 4 weeks I have had at least 3 dreams about getting back with ex wife! All those times I have woken up ... 03 Oct 14, by mightyredmen Latest 12 Jan 15 by blondecazza 1 2	Replies:8 :1047	Latest by blondecazza 12 Jan 15
Food for thought What would you do with your last jelly bean </div> <div class="started"> 08 Jan 15, by <span class="kwho-user">littlegreen</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <div id="klastpostphone" class="visible-phone"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/453298-food-for-thought#453378" title="Very thought provoking. Treat each day as your last and make it happy and special. Thanks LG x" rel="canonical">Latest</a> 10 Jan 15 by <span class="kwho-user">HeadKnowsHeartDoesnt</span> <div class="pull-right"> </div> </div> <div class="pull-left"> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="replies">Replies:<span class="repliesnum">2</span></div> <div class="views">:<span class="viewsnum">451</span></div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="container-fluid"> <div class="row-fluid"> <div class="span12"> <span class="lastpostlink"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/453298-food-for-thought#453378" title="Very thought provoking. Treat each day as your last and make it happy and special. Thanks LG x" rel="canonical">Latest</a> by <span class="kwho-user">HeadKnowsHeartDoesnt</span> </span> <br> <span class="datepost"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> 10 Jan 15</span> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class="category"> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452765-which-direction"><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class="span5"> <div class="krow"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452765-which-direction" title="When our break up happens we are totally lost. Add to this the mess that follows with finances, kids, living arrangements etc. I personally was totally lost and pressures seemed to mount daily. I do..." class=" topictitle">Which direction?</a> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added preview of post in latest posts list --> <br/> <div class="post-preview"> When our break up happens we are totally lost. Add to this the mess that follows with finances, kids, living arrangements etc.<br> <br> I personally was totally ... </div> </div> <div class="pull-right"> </div> <div class="started"> 04 Jan 15, by <span class="kwho-user">polar</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <div id="klastpostphone" class="visible-phone"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452765-which-direction?start=7#452864" title="Your final destination was hopefully mapped out round about the time you chose to do certain subjects at school. Whether those lead to your chosen career or would have lead you into..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> 04 Jan 15 by <span class="kwho-user">polar</span> <div class="pull-right"> </div> </div> <div class="pull-left"> <div class="pagination pagination-small"> <ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452765-which-direction?start=0" title="Page:1">1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452765-which-direction?start=7" title="Page:2">2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="replies">Replies:<span class="repliesnum">10</span></div> <div class="views">:<span class="viewsnum">842</span></div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="container-fluid"> <div class="row-fluid"> <div class="span12"> <span class="lastpostlink"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452765-which-direction?start=7#452864" title="Your final destination was hopefully mapped out round about the time you chose to do certain subjects at school. Whether those lead to your chosen career or would have lead you into..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> by <span class="kwho-user">polar</span> </span> <br> <span class="datepost"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> 04 Jan 15</span> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class="category"> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/449650-new-year-2015"><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class="span5"> <div class="krow"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/449650-new-year-2015" title="What hopes and achievements are we aiming for the new year?. I got told Monday that I''ve found my Courage and my confidence is back which my ex has tried for 20 years to knock. My key things for the..." class=" topictitle">New Year 2015</a> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added preview of post in latest posts list --> <br/> <div class="post-preview"> What hopes and achievements are we aiming for the new year?.<br> I got told Monday that I''ve found my Courage and my confidence is back which my ex has tried f ... </div> </div> <div class="pull-right"> </div> <div class="started"> 20 Nov 14, by <span class="kwho-user">blondecazza</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <div id="klastpostphone" class="visible-phone"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/449650-new-year-2015?start=7#452785" title="I would really like this to be ''my year''. The last 4 years have been pretty horrendous at times - separation, divorce, child with big anger issues, cataract surgery (both eyes), menopause, caring..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> 04 Jan 15 by <span class="kwho-user">fluffyninja</span> <div class="pull-right"> </div> </div> <div class="pull-left"> <div class="pagination pagination-small"> <ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/449650-new-year-2015?start=0" title="Page:1">1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/449650-new-year-2015?start=7" title="Page:2">2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="replies">Replies:<span class="repliesnum">13</span></div> <div class="views">:<span class="viewsnum">879</span></div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="container-fluid"> <div class="row-fluid"> <div class="span12"> <span class="lastpostlink"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/449650-new-year-2015?start=7#452785" title="I would really like this to be ''my year''. The last 4 years have been pretty horrendous at times - separation, divorce, child with big anger issues, cataract surgery (both eyes), menopause, caring..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> by <span class="kwho-user">fluffyninja</span> </span> <br> <span class="datepost"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> 04 Jan 15</span> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class="category"> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452511-2015"><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class="span5"> <div class="krow"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452511-2015" title="In case I am in no fit state later Happy new year to everyone I hope 2015 brings everything you are looking forward to. For me it''s a new start for those just on the road welcome and you will get there in the end. :lol:" class=" topictitle">2015</a> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added preview of post in latest posts list --> <br/> <div class="post-preview"> In case I am in no fit state later<br> <br> Happy new year to everyone I hope 2015 brings everything you are looking forward to. For me it''s a new start for th ... </div> </div> <div class="pull-right"> </div> <div class="started"> 31 Dec 14, by <span class="kwho-user">driven40</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <div id="klastpostphone" class="visible-phone"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452511-2015?start=7#452584" title="Happy new year to all wiki''s" rel="canonical">Latest</a> 01 Jan 15 by <span class="kwho-user">Home alone feeling better</span> <div class="pull-right"> </div> </div> <div class="pull-left"> <div class="pagination pagination-small"> <ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452511-2015?start=0" title="Page:1">1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452511-2015?start=7" title="Page:2">2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="replies">Replies:<span class="repliesnum">11</span></div> <div class="views">:<span class="viewsnum">827</span></div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="container-fluid"> <div class="row-fluid"> <div class="span12"> <span class="lastpostlink"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452511-2015?start=7#452584" title="Happy new year to all wiki''s" rel="canonical">Latest</a> by <span class="kwho-user">Home alone feeling better</span> </span> <br> <span class="datepost"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> 01 Jan 15</span> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class="category"> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452472-never-seems-to-get-easier"><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class="span5"> <div class="krow"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452472-never-seems-to-get-easier" title="In about half an hour my two daughters go back to mum and her live in bf. I have had them since Xmas day and my God even after 4 years it never seems to get easier . Feel this wave of sadness washing..." class=" topictitle">Never seems to get easier</a> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added preview of post in latest posts list --> <br/> <div class="post-preview"> In about half an hour my two daughters go back to mum and her live in bf.<br> I have had them since Xmas day and my God even after 4 years it never seems to get ... </div> </div> <div class="pull-right"> </div> <div class="started"> 30 Dec 14, by <span class="kwho-user">mightyredmen</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <div id="klastpostphone" class="visible-phone"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452472-never-seems-to-get-easier#452560" title="Sending you a hug too. Divorce has often been described as a roller coaster and the recovery process like snakes and ladders. Your kids visit coming to an end must be hard. There''s no getting..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> 31 Dec 14 by <span class="kwho-user">stemginger</span> <div class="pull-right"> </div> </div> <div class="pull-left"> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="replies">Replies:<span class="repliesnum">5</span></div> <div class="views">:<span class="viewsnum">336</span></div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="container-fluid"> <div class="row-fluid"> <div class="span12"> <span class="lastpostlink"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452472-never-seems-to-get-easier#452560" title="Sending you a hug too. Divorce has often been described as a roller coaster and the recovery process like snakes and ladders. Your kids visit coming to an end must be hard. There''s no getting..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> by <span class="kwho-user">stemginger</span> </span> <br> <span class="datepost"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> 31 Dec 14</span> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class="category"> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452225-what-don-t-kill-you-makes-you-stronger"><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class="span5"> <div class="krow"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452225-what-don-t-kill-you-makes-you-stronger" title="I awoke to the devastating news on Monday that my beloved uncle had suddenly passed away. The last few days I''ve been very thoughtful of what actually matters in life and that is family. Over the..." class=" topictitle">What don''t kill you makes you stronger.</a> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added preview of post in latest posts list --> <br/> <div class="post-preview"> I awoke to the devastating news on Monday that my beloved uncle had suddenly passed away.<br> The last few days I''ve been very thoughtful of what actually matt ... </div> </div> <div class="pull-right"> </div> <div class="started"> 27 Dec 14, by <span class="kwho-user">blondecazza</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <div id="klastpostphone" class="visible-phone"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452225-what-don-t-kill-you-makes-you-stronger?start=14#452540" title="Hear, hear!:)" rel="canonical">Latest</a> 31 Dec 14 by <span class="kwho-user">NellNoRegrets</span> <div class="pull-right"> </div> </div> <div class="pull-left"> <div class="pagination pagination-small"> <ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452225-what-don-t-kill-you-makes-you-stronger?start=0" title="Page:1">1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452225-what-don-t-kill-you-makes-you-stronger?start=7" title="Page:2">2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452225-what-don-t-kill-you-makes-you-stronger?start=14" title="Page:3">3</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="replies">Replies:<span class="repliesnum">15</span></div> <div class="views">:<span class="viewsnum">1052</span></div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="container-fluid"> <div class="row-fluid"> <div class="span12"> <span class="lastpostlink"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452225-what-don-t-kill-you-makes-you-stronger?start=14#452540" title="Hear, hear!:)" rel="canonical">Latest</a> by <span class="kwho-user">NellNoRegrets</span> </span> <br> <span class="datepost"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> 31 Dec 14</span> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class="category"> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452081-not-struggling-exactly-but"><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class="span5"> <div class="krow"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452081-not-struggling-exactly-but" title="Hello, I split from my ex almost 6 years ago now, divorced for just over a year. Things have moved on in my life - I moved into my own house & have been seeing my partner for over 5 years. I..." class=" topictitle">Not struggling exactly but...</a> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added preview of post in latest posts list --> <br/> <div class="post-preview"> Hello,<br> <br> I split from my ex almost 6 years ago now, divorced for just over a year.<br> <br> Things have moved on in my life - I moved into my own house & ... </div> </div> <div class="pull-right"> </div> <div class="started"> 23 Dec 14, by <span class="kwho-user">Dazed</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <div id="klastpostphone" class="visible-phone"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452081-not-struggling-exactly-but?start=14#452208" title="Your post rings a lot with me Eliza. The adapting part especially linked to an overpowering parent. My x wrote me a letter after she left basically outlining how she was controlled by bullying parents..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> 26 Dec 14 by <span class="kwho-user">polar</span> <div class="pull-right"> </div> </div> <div class="pull-left"> <div class="pagination pagination-small"> <ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452081-not-struggling-exactly-but?start=0" title="Page:1">1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452081-not-struggling-exactly-but?start=7" title="Page:2">2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452081-not-struggling-exactly-but?start=14" title="Page:3">3</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="replies">Replies:<span class="repliesnum">20</span></div> <div class="views">:<span class="viewsnum">1177</span></div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="container-fluid"> <div class="row-fluid"> <div class="span12"> <span class="lastpostlink"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/452081-not-struggling-exactly-but?start=14#452208" title="Your post rings a lot with me Eliza. The adapting part especially linked to an overpowering parent. My x wrote me a letter after she left basically outlining how she was controlled by bullying parents..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> by <span class="kwho-user">polar</span> </span> <br> <span class="datepost"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> 26 Dec 14</span> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class="category"> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/451840-children-and-the-aftermarth"><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class="span5"> <div class="krow"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/451840-children-and-the-aftermarth" title="I know alot of members on here worry about the effects that it will have on children. I wanted to post this to show if you remain a stable parent and give them all the encouragement you can what they..." class=" topictitle">Children and the aftermarth</a> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added preview of post in latest posts list --> <br/> <div class="post-preview"> I know alot of members on here worry about the effects that it will have on children.<br> I wanted to post this to show if you remain a stable parent and give t ... </div> </div> <div class="pull-right"> </div> <div class="started"> 18 Dec 14, by <span class="kwho-user">blondecazza</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <div id="klastpostphone" class="visible-phone"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/451840-children-and-the-aftermarth?start=7#451952" title="Last poster you look too young to have kids at Uni ;-) My wife left when daughter to previous relationship was 13 it really affected her as she was only 4 when I met my wife.....I think eldest is..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> 20 Dec 14 by <span class="kwho-user">Joslo</span> <div class="pull-right"> </div> </div> <div class="pull-left"> <div class="pagination pagination-small"> <ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/451840-children-and-the-aftermarth?start=0" title="Page:1">1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/451840-children-and-the-aftermarth?start=7" title="Page:2">2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="replies">Replies:<span class="repliesnum">13</span></div> <div class="views">:<span class="viewsnum">807</span></div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="container-fluid"> <div class="row-fluid"> <div class="span12"> <span class="lastpostlink"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/451840-children-and-the-aftermarth?start=7#451952" title="Last poster you look too young to have kids at Uni ;-) My wife left when daughter to previous relationship was 13 it really affected her as she was only 4 when I met my wife.....I think eldest is..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> by <span class="kwho-user">Joslo</span> </span> <br> <span class="datepost"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> 20 Dec 14</span> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class="category"> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/451696-moving-on-after-voyeur-husband"><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class="span5"> <div class="krow"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/451696-moving-on-after-voyeur-husband" title="It''s a long story...I''ll try and condense. Met my ex-husband whilst at University. Got engaged after 11 months and married after 2 years - August 2013. We went on honeymoon and returned 2 weeks..." class=" topictitle">Moving on after voyeur husband</a> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added preview of post in latest posts list --> <br/> <div class="post-preview"> It''s a long story...I''ll try and condense.<br> <br> Met my ex-husband whilst at University. Got engaged after 11 months and married after 2 years - August 201 ... </div> </div> <div class="pull-right"> </div> <div class="started"> 15 Dec 14, by <span class="kwho-user">FindTheSilverLining</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <div id="klastpostphone" class="visible-phone"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/451696-moving-on-after-voyeur-husband#451723" title="Agree with Marshy. Devastating to find out about secret life you knew nothing about. None of it is your fault. Deal with it properly instead of just burying. I agree that things tend to resurface otherwise." rel="canonical">Latest</a> 16 Dec 14 by <span class="kwho-user">AngieP</span> <div class="pull-right"> </div> </div> <div class="pull-left"> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="replies">Replies:<span class="repliesnum">3</span></div> <div class="views">:<span class="viewsnum">1060</span></div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="container-fluid"> <div class="row-fluid"> <div class="span12"> <span class="lastpostlink"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/451696-moving-on-after-voyeur-husband#451723" title="Agree with Marshy. Devastating to find out about secret life you knew nothing about. None of it is your fault. Deal with it properly instead of just burying. I agree that things tend to resurface otherwise." rel="canonical">Latest</a> by <span class="kwho-user">AngieP</span> </span> <br> <span class="datepost"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> 16 Dec 14</span> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class="category"> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/247358-dating-and-moving-on"><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class="span5"> <div class="krow"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/247358-dating-and-moving-on" title="I have now been seperated from my stbx for almost a year. She initiated the split and my confidence has taken a huge knock. During the past year I have concentrated on my two young daughters and all..." class=" topictitle">Dating and moving on</a> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added preview of post in latest posts list --> <br/> <div class="post-preview"> I have now been seperated from my stbx for almost a year. She initiated the split and my confidence has taken a huge knock.<br> <br> During the past year I have ... </div> </div> <div class="pull-right"> </div> <div class="started"> 24 Jan 11, by <span class="kwho-user">mightyredmen</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <div id="klastpostphone" class="visible-phone"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/247358-dating-and-moving-on?start=21#451554" title="That''s cheering to hear you have progressed into a relationship the old fashioned way Sturmer! That sums it up so well, the dilemma of having to decide yes or no to a relationship before you really..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> 14 Dec 14 by <span class="kwho-user">Vastra1</span> <div class="pull-right"> </div> </div> <div class="pull-left"> <div class="pagination pagination-small"> <ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/247358-dating-and-moving-on?start=0" title="Page:1">1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/247358-dating-and-moving-on?start=7" title="Page:2">2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/247358-dating-and-moving-on?start=14" title="Page:3">3</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/247358-dating-and-moving-on?start=21" title="Page:4">4</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="replies">Replies:<span class="repliesnum">23</span></div> <div class="views">:<span class="viewsnum">1485</span></div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="container-fluid"> <div class="row-fluid"> <div class="span12"> <span class="lastpostlink"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/247358-dating-and-moving-on?start=21#451554" title="That''s cheering to hear you have progressed into a relationship the old fashioned way Sturmer! That sums it up so well, the dilemma of having to decide yes or no to a relationship before you really..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> by <span class="kwho-user">Vastra1</span> </span> <br> <span class="datepost"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> 14 Dec 14</span> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class="category"> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/451006-humpf"><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class="span5"> <div class="krow"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/451006-humpf" title="As a new personal low, I''d like to report I just sent a private message to myself, quite a feat for a guy who is yet to understand the toaster settings. Long live and prosper to you all." class=" topictitle">Humpf</a> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added preview of post in latest posts list --> <br/> <div class="post-preview"> As a new personal low, I''d like to report I just sent a private message to myself, quite a feat for a guy who is yet to understand the toaster settings.<br> <b ... </div> </div> <div class="pull-right"> </div> <div class="started"> 05 Dec 14, by <span class="kwho-moderator">dukey</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <div id="klastpostphone" class="visible-phone"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/451006-humpf?start=7#451380" title="I have to confess... I have done that on this website too :woohoo: :woohoo: To be honest I was a little excited too that someone had sent me a PM even! :silly:" rel="canonical">Latest</a> 11 Dec 14 by <span class="kwho-user">freefalling</span> <div class="pull-right"> </div> </div> <div class="pull-left"> <div class="pagination pagination-small"> <ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/451006-humpf?start=0" title="Page:1">1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/451006-humpf?start=7" title="Page:2">2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="replies">Replies:<span class="repliesnum">10</span></div> <div class="views">:<span class="viewsnum">786</span></div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="container-fluid"> <div class="row-fluid"> <div class="span12"> <span class="lastpostlink"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/451006-humpf?start=7#451380" title="I have to confess... I have done that on this website too :woohoo: :woohoo: To be honest I was a little excited too that someone had sent me a PM even! :silly:" rel="canonical">Latest</a> by <span class="kwho-user">freefalling</span> </span> <br> <span class="datepost"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> 11 Dec 14</span> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class="category"> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/441030-think-i-may-have-been-too-soft-on-ex"><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class="span5"> <div class="krow"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/441030-think-i-may-have-been-too-soft-on-ex" title="Hello everyone, not been on here for quite some time, but need to vent and hopefully get some advice from anyone thats been in a similar predicament. Divorced in January 2014, ex has been living with..." class=" topictitle">Think I may have been too soft on ex</a> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added preview of post in latest posts list --> <br/> <div class="post-preview"> Hello everyone, not been on here for quite some time, but need to vent and hopefully get some advice from anyone thats been in a similar predicament.<br> <br> D ... </div> </div> <div class="pull-right"> </div> <div class="started"> 31 Jul 14, by <span class="kwho-user">Flubalub1690</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <div id="klastpostphone" class="visible-phone"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/441030-think-i-may-have-been-too-soft-on-ex#451375" title="A divorce is a fresh start for the both of you, a chance for your life to take a new turning. If you''re uncomfortable with your ex being so prominent in your life - if it really grates or upsets you..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> 11 Dec 14 by <span class="kwho-user">SpeedbirdOne</span> <div class="pull-right"> </div> </div> <div class="pull-left"> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="replies">Replies:<span class="repliesnum">5</span></div> <div class="views">:<span class="viewsnum">270</span></div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="container-fluid"> <div class="row-fluid"> <div class="span12"> <span class="lastpostlink"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/441030-think-i-may-have-been-too-soft-on-ex#451375" title="A divorce is a fresh start for the both of you, a chance for your life to take a new turning. If you''re uncomfortable with your ex being so prominent in your life - if it really grates or upsets you..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> by <span class="kwho-user">SpeedbirdOne</span> </span> <br> <span class="datepost"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> 11 Dec 14</span> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class="category"> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/447658-christmas"><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class="span5"> <div class="krow"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/447658-christmas" title="Well here''s a topic we all dislike Christmas... It''s seems a time for families and couples..and however much we all try and pretend it''s not on its way...its everywhere in the stores and im sure..." class=" topictitle">Christmas</a> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added preview of post in latest posts list --> <br/> <div class="post-preview"> Well here''s a topic we all dislike Christmas...<br> It''s seems a time for families and couples..and however much we all try and pretend it''s not on its way.. ... </div> </div> <div class="pull-right"> </div> <div class="started"> 26 Oct 14, by <span class="kwho-user">blondecazza</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <div id="klastpostphone" class="visible-phone"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/447658-christmas?start=35#451201" title="Yay well done Home alone I put my up bloody early dressed and redressed it lol..joys of window dressing I guess. I''ve only put a tree up but that''s enough for me. Onwards and upwards to us all and..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> 08 Dec 14 by <span class="kwho-user">blondecazza</span> <div class="pull-right"> </div> </div> <div class="pull-left"> <div class="pagination pagination-small"> <ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/447658-christmas?start=0" title="Page:1">1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/447658-christmas?start=7" title="Page:2">2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/447658-christmas?start=14" title="Page:3">3</a></li><li><a class="disabled">...</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/447658-christmas?start=35" title="Page:6">6</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="replies">Replies:<span class="repliesnum">39</span></div> <div class="views">:<span class="viewsnum">1876</span></div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="container-fluid"> <div class="row-fluid"> <div class="span12"> <span class="lastpostlink"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/447658-christmas?start=35#451201" title="Yay well done Home alone I put my up bloody early dressed and redressed it lol..joys of window dressing I guess. I''ve only put a tree up but that''s enough for me. Onwards and upwards to us all and..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> by <span class="kwho-user">blondecazza</span> </span> <br> <span class="datepost"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> 08 Dec 14</span> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class="category"> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/449612-feeling-really-miserable-and-need-a-hug"><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class="span5"> <div class="krow"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/449612-feeling-really-miserable-and-need-a-hug" title="I didn''t think I''d be posting on here again. My last post was a really positive one telling the world ''I''M OVER HIM!!!'' And I am, but right now I feel utterly and overwhelmingly miserable. I..." class=" topictitle">Feeling really miserable and need a hug!!</a> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added preview of post in latest posts list --> <br/> <div class="post-preview"> I didn''t think I''d be posting on here again.<br> <br> My last post was a really positive one telling the world ''I''M OVER HIM!!!''<br> <br> And I am, but rig ... </div> </div> <div class="pull-right"> </div> <div class="started"> 19 Nov 14, by <span class="kwho-user">Patsy39</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <div id="klastpostphone" class="visible-phone"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/449612-feeling-really-miserable-and-need-a-hug?start=14#450836" title="Sorry to hear you''re having a blip Patsy, please don''t be tough on yourself, especially about the kiss at the party (no one will care as much as you do, they probably either didn''t notice, or just..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> 04 Dec 14 by <span class="kwho-user">Vastra1</span> <div class="pull-right"> </div> </div> <div class="pull-left"> <div class="pagination pagination-small"> <ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/449612-feeling-really-miserable-and-need-a-hug?start=0" title="Page:1">1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/449612-feeling-really-miserable-and-need-a-hug?start=7" title="Page:2">2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/449612-feeling-really-miserable-and-need-a-hug?start=14" title="Page:3">3</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="replies">Replies:<span class="repliesnum">14</span></div> <div class="views">:<span class="viewsnum">1403</span></div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="container-fluid"> <div class="row-fluid"> <div class="span12"> <span class="lastpostlink"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/449612-feeling-really-miserable-and-need-a-hug?start=14#450836" title="Sorry to hear you''re having a blip Patsy, please don''t be tough on yourself, especially about the kiss at the party (no one will care as much as you do, they probably either didn''t notice, or just..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> by <span class="kwho-user">Vastra1</span> </span> <br> <span class="datepost"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> 04 Dec 14</span> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class="category"> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/450360-finally-over-the-line"><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class="span5"> <div class="krow"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/450360-finally-over-the-line" title="Hi Well today I got my Absolute through, I am officially not married anymore. It has been a very long road for me and at times only the support from this site kept me going. Its fair to say that..." class=" topictitle">Finally over the line</a> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added preview of post in latest posts list --> <br/> <div class="post-preview"> Hi<br> Well today I got my Absolute through, I am officially not married anymore.<br> It has been a very long road for me and at times only the support from thi ... </div> </div> <div class="pull-right"> </div> <div class="started"> 28 Nov 14, by <span class="kwho-moderator">Lostboy67</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <div id="klastpostphone" class="visible-phone"> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/450360-finally-over-the-line?start=7#450616" title="LB, I''m glad that the community here helped you through - a new chapter in your life is in front of you, and I know it will be one filled with better days, lots of memorable times with your boys, and..." rel="canonical">Latest</a> 01 Dec 14 by <span class="kwho-moderator">rubytuesday</span> <div class="pull-right"> </div> </div> <div class="pull-left"> <div class="pagination pagination-small"> <ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/450360-finally-over-the-line?start=0" title="Page:1">1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/450360-finally-over-the-line?start=7" title="Page:2">2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="replies">Replies:<span class="repliesnum">11</span></div> <div class="views">:<span class="viewsnum">826</span></div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"> <div class="container-fluid"> <div class="row-fluid"> <div class="span12"> <span class="lastpostlink"> <!-- IJR Nov 2023 - added IF to only show reply link if any replies --> <a href="/forum-index/life-after-divorce/450360-finally-over-the-line?start=7#450616" title="LB, I''m glad that the community here helped you through - a new chapter in your life is in front of you, and I know it will be one 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