| Still hurt.... It''s been a while since I posted last and in the last month I have completed on my house, moved into my new place and my decree Nisi is due on the 9th March. M ... 24 Feb 16, by pebbleonthebeach Latest 03 Apr 16 by flowerofscotland | Replies:21 :1701 | Latest by flowerofscotland 03 Apr 16 |
| consent order hi once a consent order has been agreed and signed and the divorce has finished can an ex decide to move back into the martial home if its to be sold via the co ... Latest 27 Mar 16 by shane42 | Replies:2 :376 | |
| teaching his son to lie. A lot of you know I was married to a bully.
Over the last few I was told that my oldest son who died was under a consellor for the abuse from my ex husband. ...
19 Mar 16, by blondecazza Latest 21 Mar 16 by HeadKnowsHeartDoesnt | Replies:3 :420 | Latest by HeadKnowsHeartDoesnt 21 Mar 16 |
| Flashbacks Has anyone been bothered by flashbacks from one''s "previous" life? I''m pestered by them. For no reason at all, I relive pleasant situations ... 10 Mar 16, by WinterFrost Latest 12 Mar 16 by polar | Replies:1 :547 | |
| The Five Stages of Grief I''ve been separated for 4 years, divorced for 1 and it''s striking me how much I''ve moved on. The 5 stages of grief didn''t actually roll out the way in the w ... 11 Mar 16, by WinterFrost Latest 11 Mar 16 by itsbeenalongtime | Replies:1 :398 | Latest by itsbeenalongtime 11 Mar 16 |
| Decree Absolute Good Day
I am looking to get married in Dubai this year. For this I need the original Decree Absolute which I have lost. So I applied to Cardiff divorce cou ...
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| how to get ex-husband out of the home Hi all, I want to introduce myself. I am 48 with no children. On Jan 1 2015, I asked my husband for a divorce after 19 years of marriage. I asked him to move ou ... | Replies:0 :433 | |
| Tips: how to move on Hello All,
After 10years together my ex and I broke up in May 2015, it was his idea completely out of knowhere with no infidelity / arguments, he just ... Latest 24 Feb 16 by Declan | Replies:4 :384 | |
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| 18 Feb 16, by GoneWestWoman Latest 19 Feb 16 by Marshy_ | Replies:2 :346 | |
| Struggling Recent posts on here have set my mind going again. It''s been over 5 years since I split from my ex and the financial part was a nightmare due to him not playin ... Latest 17 Feb 16 by Vastra1 | Replies:12 :1010 | |
| Oh dear- now he wants a reconciliation Has this happened to anyone else? After divorce was made final on Christmas eve, he''s even just started seeing someone he announced last week that "s ... Latest 08 Feb 16 by HeadKnowsHeartDoesnt | Replies:7 :866 | Latest by HeadKnowsHeartDoesnt 08 Feb 16 |
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| One year on Yesterday I realised that it was exactly a year ago my ex husband left for good. So I thought I would post here to say that a year on, I feel much much better. ... Latest 07 Feb 16 by Lizziejt | Replies:5 :481 | |
| Hit a raw nerve. I''ll try to keep this brief, but isn''t it awful when you get a comment out of the blue that completely rocks you.
I was in a great mood earlier & ... Latest 05 Feb 16 by Vastra1 | Replies:7 :1040 | |
| Funny things after divorce Has anyone had or heard of really funny things about their x ?
I never talk to my x but since my daughter had her baby my x visits her regularly. < ...
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| single life Not a question, just an observation.
My daughter and I popped into a pub on the way back from a much delayed hospital appointment, as neither of us had lunc ...
26 Jan 16, by itsbeenalongtime Latest 02 Feb 16 by itsbeenalongtime | Replies:9 :1073 | Latest by itsbeenalongtime 02 Feb 16 |
| It''s been a while since I posted My ex left me in 2013 & I divorced him last year, so in August this year it will be the 3rd anniversary of the day my life went in an unexpectedly different ... Latest 02 Feb 16 by MattW1974 | Replies:7 :1025 | |
| Ex has moved in with the ow So yes I know I said I was ok with it and I''m not sure now. My 4 year old came home crying her eyes out on the first night saying she missed daddy, didn''t wan ... Latest 23 Jan 16 by Petal100 | Replies:3 :496 | |
| Latest 23 Jan 16 by NellNoRegrets | Replies:4 :496 | Latest by NellNoRegrets 23 Jan 16 |
| Divorce after pain I haven''t posted in a long while but just felt I needed too just to get others views on this.
A lot of you know I lost my eldest child last year to su ... 19 Jan 16, by blondecazza Latest 23 Jan 16 by Vastra1 | Replies:9 :1011 | |
| Hello again... Just wanted to say Hi to everyone, I was last on here 3 years ago under a different name and found this site useful and supportive at the time so thank you.. Latest 21 Jan 16 by belle43 | Replies:3 :435 | |
| Dating post divorce I know its early and that my divorce isn''t even final yet. I also know I have been cautioned by many seasoned divorcess not to do it: but I was wondering what ... Latest 15 Jan 16 by honeybees | Replies:18 :1686 | |
| So he''s moving in with her.. My ex told me two days before Christmas that he''s moving in with the ow and after a day of crying and a night of not sleeping I actually feel ok. I feel like t ... Latest 12 Jan 16 by Petal100 | Replies:2 :443 | |
| How do I know when I''m ready to date? Almost 3 years since separation, over a year since the Nisi, but only a couple of months since the Absolute and the finances still aren''t agreed & probably ... Latest 06 Jan 16 by Action | Replies:1 :411 | |
| So he''s moving in with her.. My ex told me two days before Christmas that he''s moving in with the ow and after a day of crying and a night of not sleeping I actually feel ok. I feel like t ... Latest 04 Jan 16 by NellNoRegrets | Replies:7 :1085 | Latest by NellNoRegrets 04 Jan 16 |
| Where do I start??? So, 5 years since ex left, 4 years of hell..
Think it''s time to start getting my life back on track and be happy again.
Ex left woman he left me f ... Latest 23 Dec 15 by afonleas | Replies:10 :1146 | |
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| Absolute imminent Hi. My ex can apply for the Absolute on Thursday. I feel numb. He left in April, moved in with his next target and has a huge wedding planned for next May. ... Latest 16 Dec 15 by littlegreen | Replies:2 :433 | Latest by littlegreen 16 Dec 15 |
| Confused.com........... Not posted on here for a long time, but pop in to see how people are.
It is 5 years since my ex left and I still have down days and think I should be over i ...
Latest 13 Dec 15 by sungirl | Replies:14 :1556 | |
| How to be with your ex? Long story short, I was married for 4 years, know him since school, we have two children, he started an affair with the women opposite when I was 5 months pregn ... Latest 04 Dec 15 by afonleas | Replies:9 :1116 | |
| Feeling so sad after divorce Hi
Well I got the decree Absolute through last week and I have had a few e-mail exchanges with my ex the last few days (re money, which is now all sorted). ...
Latest 04 Dec 15 by Lizziejt | Replies:8 :1155 | |
| Hello...Where did it all go wrong? Hi friends,
Just a quick question for you all, i''d be interested in the findings.
I read a newspaper article yesterday written by Amanda Plat ... Latest 29 Nov 15 by itsbeenalongtime | Replies:6 :528 | Latest by itsbeenalongtime 29 Nov 15 |
| Manchester Christmas meet I have posted details of an event in Manchester November 28th when the German Christmas markets are in the city.
I hope this gives enough time for pare ... Latest 20 Nov 15 by autumnleaves12 | Replies:14 :1361 | Latest by autumnleaves12 20 Nov 15 |
| Karmic Justice It''s been a loooooong time since I was last here, but thought it would be nice to hear others views on karma when it comes to their ex. My ex and I split up 5 ... Latest 18 Nov 15 by stemginger | Replies:4 :594 | Latest by stemginger 18 Nov 15 |
| The Aftermath, Dating and Cynicism When going through it all this website and my fellow members really helped. Haven''t posted here for ages, but have been meaning to lately. And tonight, finding ... Latest 11 Nov 15 by MrPositive | Replies:5 :604 | Latest by MrPositive 11 Nov 15 |
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| Just divorced Hi everyone. I''m Mouse, and I got my decree Absolute through on Friday. I''m not sure what I''m looking for, but need to try to work through what I''m feeling ... Latest 02 Nov 15 by belle43 | Replies:8 :1002 | |
| Ex now deceased We never signed off on the finances, he had a lot more than me but had hidden stuff so well and was being so devious that I gave up on the fight as it was so st ... Latest 26 Oct 15 by hadenoughnow | Replies:1 :388 | Latest by hadenoughnow 26 Oct 15 |
| Unprofessional conduct Hi there, I''m going through a divorce after my husband admitted cheating on me after 28 years of marriage. He worked away from home midweek, and has been slee ... 22 Oct 15, by Newforestgirl Latest 22 Oct 15 by sulkypants | Replies:2 :388 | Latest by sulkypants 22 Oct 15 |