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DIY Divorce 832 topics

Discussion on DIY divorce services as an alternative to using a solicitor. How much does it cost? How long does it take? What if we can't agree?
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divorce denied! what to do now?
i had filed for a divore under the grounds of 2 years separation and respondent consents- to my huge shock the judge has denied the divorce stating:
'please ...
02 Sep 09, by charlie22
Latest 03 Sep 09 by charlie22
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Latest by charlie22
03 Sep 09
advice - should i do a DIY Divorce?
hi

need some advice please.

My husband and I have been separated for six months and we have decided to have a clean break and get divorced. I ...
31 Aug 09, by neverforget
Latest 01 Sep 09 by Fiona
Replies:4
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Latest by Fiona
01 Sep 09
Consent Order / Separation
Hello

I'm in the process of splitting up with my wife. We have more or less agreed on how to split the equity in the house and who is looking after our ...
27 Aug 09, by DavePee
Latest 28 Aug 09 by DavePee
Replies:2
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Latest by DavePee
28 Aug 09
Affidavit D80B
Just wanted a little advice on the oath section of the Form D80B please. If there is no medical report or Statement of Arrangements, do I just line through thos ...
27 Aug 09, by bongopat
Latest 27 Aug 09 by bongopat
Replies:2
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Latest by bongopat
27 Aug 09
Completion of Divorce Petiton/ A little help plse
1)I am a bit stumped about what to put down in para 3 - court jurisdiction.

I have read the guidance notes but they just confuse me.

My husban ...
26 Aug 09, by mivorce
Latest 27 Aug 09 by TBagpuss
Replies:1
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Latest by TBagpuss
27 Aug 09
Where do I start?
Hi
My husband and I seperated just over a year ago, we have agreed to be amicable, and would like to divorce without the cost of solicitors etc etc, but we ...
12 May 09, by KJB
Latest 26 Aug 09 by abc321
Replies:5
:336
Latest by abc321
26 Aug 09
bailiff services
Hi can anyone tell me if this is the norm and what should i do next i applyed to the courts for bailiff service on the 3/4/09 been back to the courts a number o ...
25 Aug 09, by wontout
Latest 25 Aug 09 by wontout
Replies:2
:341
Latest by wontout
25 Aug 09
divorce and addresses
Hi, Im about to start divorcing my husband, and I plan to do it myself, the problem I have is I dont want my husband to know where i'm living, my husband wasnt ...
22 Aug 09, by singring57
Latest 22 Aug 09 by NellNoRegrets
Replies:1
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Latest by NellNoRegrets
22 Aug 09
Strong enough UB reasons???
Hi All,
I have submitted my application to the DIY site I am using and they have come back saying that the dates should be in the last 6 months, unless its ...
13 Aug 09, by FreshStart2009
Latest 13 Aug 09 by happyagain
Replies:5
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Latest by happyagain
13 Aug 09
Help - return to court for AR
HI

I attended my 1st appointment for AR at court over last year. Afterwards my ex and I decided to try to resolve things amongst ourselves. Discussio ...
08 Aug 09, by Tasha
Latest 11 Aug 09 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:334
Latest by hadenoughnow
11 Aug 09
Unreasonable Behaviour Reasons
Hi there
I am new to this site and have found lots of helpful info out already am starting to fill my forms in for divorce on grounds of unreasonable behavi ...
09 Jul 09, by babycoops57
Latest 09 Aug 09 by mrsound
Replies:7
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Latest by mrsound
09 Aug 09
The Petition
Does anyone know if there is anywhere that you can see examples of how to write the Petition with regards to Unreasonable behaviour I know what I want to say bu ...
06 Aug 09, by JayneEyre
Replies:0
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When is a will legal
Hi,

My ex and I are not divorced yet, he still did not respond to my petition a year ago, although he is the one who left us because of OW.
My ex a ...
29 Jul 09, by Petrof
Latest 29 Jul 09 by elvis_fan
Replies:3
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Latest by elvis_fan
29 Jul 09
Form D8 - the Prayer
hi

I've been apart from my husband for 4 years & now I'm starting off a DIY divorce. Getting on well so far with completing the D8 but am stuck wi ...
29 Jul 09, by littledancer
Latest 29 Jul 09 by D L
Replies:1
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Latest by D L
29 Jul 09
help with d80 affidavit
just filling in this form and have a few questions.

q4 is about do you concider respondants behaviour has affected your health.
it has!!!, but does ...
07 Jul 09, by stbf
Latest 22 Jul 09 by stbf
Replies:2
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Latest by stbf
22 Jul 09
petiton
Hi am doing a DIY Divorce after eight years of marriage and the house being in her name. but we have been paying for everything fifty fifty. kids all left home ...
20 Jul 09, by wontout
Latest 20 Jul 09 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
:278
Latest by hadenoughnow
20 Jul 09
application for Decree Absolute
Hi
I have to send an affidavit with my application for the Decree Absolute as the Nisi was issued over 12 months ago. Is there an example anywhere of what ...
19 Jul 09, by Lizbeth
Latest 20 Jul 09 by Lizbeth
Replies:2
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Latest by Lizbeth
20 Jul 09
Spousal Maintenance
What is it?

The legal term for spousal maintenance is “periodical payments”, which are governed by section 21(1) of the Matrimonial Causes A ...
19 Jul 09, by D L
Replies:0
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Degree absolute
Hi

The ex applied for divorce and received degree nisi in June 2007. We have now agreed our financial matters with a clean break that was ratified by ...
13 Jul 09, by saccam
Latest 13 Jul 09 by D L
Replies:4
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Latest by D L
13 Jul 09
D8 item (13) {d} assistance please
Under PARTICULARS on the form D8, I need to give details of how the seperation came about in 13d, what are they expecting to be written here and in how much det ...
07 Jul 09, by jakeblues68
Latest 07 Jul 09 by jakeblues68
Replies:2
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Latest by jakeblues68
07 Jul 09
PRAYER Costs assistance
In the D8 form under PRAYER Costs, who should be ordered to pay the costs?

My STBX will have Legal Aid, I will not. We both agree to divorce but may ha ...
07 Jul 09, by jakeblues68
Latest 07 Jul 09 by jakeblues68
Replies:2
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Latest by jakeblues68
07 Jul 09
Acknowledgment of service not completed
Hi, I am new to this site and not sure if anyone can help me.

I have petitioned for divorce without the aid of a solicitor, which was fairly straight f ...
03 Jul 09, by Roxi
Latest 04 Jul 09 by Ephelia
Replies:1
:334
Latest by Ephelia
04 Jul 09
Petition assistance
Hi,

Just wondered if there are any online guides and templates for filling in the petition.

I have managed most of it but would like assistanc ...
02 Jul 09, by jakeblues68
Latest 02 Jul 09 by jakeblues68
Replies:2
:406
Latest by jakeblues68
02 Jul 09
Sworn translation or notorised translation?
Hi,

I got married in Spain, so I need to get the marriage certificate translated into English. Can I have it translated myself (or even by me - I tran ...
29 Jun 09, by MCD73
Latest 30 Jun 09 by D L
Replies:10
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Latest by D L
30 Jun 09
costs
ok so quick question.

Received a letter from her without prejudice saying that she will not contest the grounds of the divorce and that if i do not emp ...
29 Jun 09, by gettingadjusted
Latest 30 Jun 09 by gettingadjusted
Replies:9
:756
Latest by gettingadjusted
30 Jun 09
Unreasonable Behaoviour
Hi,
i would like to divorce my husband.
i have met someone else and yes technically had an affair but my marrigae was over long before it happened, alth ...
18 Jun 09, by rsdeeva
Latest 27 Jun 09 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:336
Latest by rubytuesday
27 Jun 09
what if grounds not excepted or cross petition
hi,
i have filled for divorce on unreasonable behaviour, what would i have to do next if instead of signing and returning the forms my stbx
1 objects t ...
16 Jun 09, by stbf
Latest 24 Jun 09 by mugagain
Replies:4
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Latest by mugagain
24 Jun 09
Change of name during divorce proceedings
Hi everyone, can you help?
have nearly completed my DIY divorce, just waiting for time to pass to apply for decree absolute. As the divorce has taken a whil ...
21 Jun 09, by carol64
Latest 23 Jun 09 by carol64
Replies:2
:556
Latest by carol64
23 Jun 09
HOW TO CONTEST A DECREE NISI ?
I have just received the decree nisi form but have never really been in agreement with formalising the divorce as a regular churchgoer. I accept that my wife ma ...
22 Jun 09, by heswall5
Latest 23 Jun 09 by didojane
Replies:2
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Latest by didojane
23 Jun 09
Case law
Hi,

I was hoping to use the surgery this evening for some help with case law. Does anyone know of any case law for long cohabitation resulting in marri ...
16 Jun 09, by Gingernut
Latest 16 Jun 09 by Gingernut
Replies:2
:419
Latest by Gingernut
16 Jun 09
Help with D8 form please
Hi,

I have just joined this site and am finding it a great help! Each day I log on here I find myself feeling a bit more positive.

My husband ...
11 Jun 09, by JS74
Latest 15 Jun 09 by TBagpuss
Replies:1
:308
Latest by TBagpuss
15 Jun 09
Should I do a DIY Divorce
My Husband left in Dec after 10 yrs of marriage to move in with his new girlfriend and son.

We have 3 kids together, he has until a week a ago he paid ...
12 Jun 09, by stumpy123
Latest 13 Jun 09 by Fiona
Replies:7
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Latest by Fiona
13 Jun 09
Q4 on Form D80A
Hi everyone

Q4 on D80A... State briefly your reasons for saying that the respondent has committed the adultery alleged.

Can I just say I belie ...
03 Jun 09, by happycamper
Latest 12 Jun 09 by happycamper
Replies:2
:407
Latest by happycamper
12 Jun 09
evidence in court
Hi I am representing myself in my case. Will I be able to use emails from my X as evidence that she has been lying in her form E. I have got into her email ac ...
10 Jun 09, by james62007
Latest 11 Jun 09 by james62007
Replies:2
:420
Latest by james62007
11 Jun 09
Form D8 - the prayer ancillary relief section
Hi all

I am currently filling out the D8 form (doing a DIY divorce) and see from this web site that I should not cross out any of the options in the An ...
03 Jun 09, by Waffle
Latest 10 Jun 09 by Time to move on
Replies:1
:337
Latest by Time to move on
10 Jun 09
I gave her everything do i need to see a solicitor
My divorce hearing was passed in april. i suppose it is time to make the financial settlement. I have given my wife everything two houses - both with mortgages ...
08 Jun 09, by newday
Latest 10 Jun 09 by LawHound
Replies:5
:307
Latest by LawHound
10 Jun 09
How to prove my separation
Hi, I'm wondering if anyone can help me with a bit of information - I have separated but not yet got a separation agreement finalised and I need to prove my sep ...
31 May 09, by Meigui7
Latest 01 Jun 09 by D L
Replies:1
:368
Latest by D L
01 Jun 09
TESTIMONIALS FROM THOSE WHO HAVE USED THIS SITE?
Hello

Brand new to this site. It looks very attractive compared to the £2K I've just been quoted by my solicitor; and thats if everything goes to plan ...
27 May 09, by PIPCAT2
Latest 28 May 09 by downbutnotout
Replies:7
:634
Latest by downbutnotout
28 May 09
Starting the divorce process
My wife and I have been separated for over a month now, and I want to start the divorce process on the grounds of adultery. We have a rough agreement on how to ...
25 May 09, by Kekkon
Latest 26 May 09 by forever friends
Replies:7
:696
Latest by forever friends
26 May 09
Divorce petition my reasons is this ok
Just doing my divorce petition and I wnated to check if my reasons sound ok and are worded correctly or are they to detailed. Any help would be great please?
25 May 09, by stbf
Latest 26 May 09 by Fiona
Replies:5
:474
Latest by Fiona
26 May 09

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