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Child Support 1610 topics

Here you can discuss all aspects of child support, including child maintenance issues and your experience of the Child Support Agency.
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Refusing to work
This may sound like a silly question and im sure i know the answer but just to clarify really.

My ex has failed to pay any maintenance for four years, ...
09 Nov 10, by busybees
Latest 10 Nov 10 by busybees
Replies:8
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Latest by busybees
10 Nov 10
Rental Income and brough forward losses
Hi Folks,

Wonder if you can help or share experiences on the following :

Post divorce, I kept a rental property bought during the marriage. I ...
09 Nov 10, by Penworth
Replies:0
:256

Help Lovely People Child support panic..
Hi today is the one year anniversary of husband leaving my 15 yr old registered disabled son and myself. He took my daughter with him and rented a flat.We live ...
06 Nov 10, by jojojojo
Latest 08 Nov 10 by TBagpuss
Replies:1
:286
Latest by TBagpuss
08 Nov 10
CSA - Child maint.
Hi,

Does anyone know How CSA will calculate the CM, if I become self employed.

I am an employee (PAYE) and looking to start contracting and be ...
25 Oct 10, by dreams
Latest 07 Nov 10 by facebooked
Replies:7
:1103
Latest by facebooked
07 Nov 10
Can I pay my children directly?
I have trawled through many posts on here and not found one about this - if there is one my apologies.

I have two daughters 16 and 13. I do not see th ...
13 Oct 10, by bigmick
Latest 05 Nov 10 by bobsp
Replies:8
:780
Latest by bobsp
05 Nov 10
court order flouted - child payments reduced
Hello

Hi I'm reposting this as I posted in the wrong forum, sorry.

My exh and I finalized our divorce may 2009. The consent order states that ...
02 Nov 10, by lubee101
Latest 02 Nov 10 by lubee101
Replies:2
:299
Latest by lubee101
02 Nov 10
Maintenance and nursery fees
Is my stbx legally obliged to help with childcare costs seeing as it allows him to work too, or is maintenance all he needs to pay? Bearing in mind he earns th ...
02 Nov 10, by Jenna29
Latest 02 Nov 10 by Lostboy67
Replies:2
:389
Latest by Lostboy67
02 Nov 10
Is This Fair
Hi

Just met with stbx to discuss CM amongst other things and can't agree on figures. He only has to pay for 1 child as other is over eighteen. Only has ...
29 Oct 10, by Milli
Latest 31 Oct 10 by landoffairies
Replies:9
:672
Latest by landoffairies
31 Oct 10
Support of 19 and 21 year old children
My husband lost his job last year. He has been working on setting up a new business and interviewing for new jobs. He agreed with his ex that he would pay £5 ...
31 Oct 10, by shayenic
Latest 31 Oct 10 by shayenic
Replies:6
:392
Latest by shayenic
31 Oct 10
Maintenance Stopped
Up until recently, I was getting £5 a week from my ex, through the CSA. He has now stopped claiming benifits however, and is working.
He told me all this a ...
02 Oct 10, by AnnoyedMummy
Latest 28 Oct 10 by angrymama
Replies:26
:1057
Latest by angrymama
28 Oct 10
What EXACTLY is child maintenance for ?
Hi,

10 months with no payments, 4 months with no child benefit since girlfriend's ex applied for it.

Her ex has just bought himself a new car. ...
27 Oct 10, by markovandee
Latest 27 Oct 10 by Fiona
Replies:4
:295
Latest by Fiona
27 Oct 10
CSA calculation changes and contact costs
There has already been a thread about this but thgouth it maybe useful to post again. This information was provided by the CSA on the 22/10/2010 and it the curr ...
23 Oct 10, by landoffairies
Latest 25 Oct 10 by Stuart P
Replies:6
:440
Latest by Stuart P
25 Oct 10
Unbelievable - Again!!!! A rant sorry
Ok so divorced for 8 months split up for 2 years - ex was a controlling alcoholic for a large proportion of our 16 year marriage. Things have settled slightly ...
18 Oct 10, by InaBetterPlace
Latest 25 Oct 10 by Poppy 46
Replies:10
:1015
Latest by Poppy 46
25 Oct 10
Child Maintenance
My partner is getting divorced petitioned by his ex. They have 2 kids living with her. He has been paying child maintenance agreed between them since the separa ...
21 Oct 10, by csclyn
Latest 24 Oct 10 by csclyn
Replies:3
:277
Latest by csclyn
24 Oct 10
CSA Appeal
My ex husband has been paying the maintance that the csa deemed he should pay direct to my daughter. He has made an appeal to the csa as for nine months my daug ...
23 Oct 10, by Brensham
Latest 23 Oct 10 by Brensham
Replies:3
:258
Latest by Brensham
23 Oct 10
CSA and consent orders
Hi

If a consent order detailing spousal and child maintenance (not connell or segal) is over 12 months old and the NRP earns more than £2k per week ca ...
23 Oct 10, by poppy5
Latest 23 Oct 10 by poppy5
Replies:2
:393
Latest by poppy5
23 Oct 10
Paid it all !!
I gave in and paid the final payment to the c.s.a for my 19 year old to go out and party with, £230 wont go far will it.!!!
Must say tho the C.S.A are a we ...
21 Oct 10, by cavalino
Replies:0
:292

CSA Payments, Mortgages and other debts
Hi All,
New to this , so please bear with me.

I have just received a form form the CSA to complete for me to pay child maintenance. I have recently ...
14 Oct 10, by desparatedad
Latest 14 Oct 10 by MissingMySon2009
Replies:1
:354
Latest by MissingMySon2009
14 Oct 10
paying university fees
My 13 year old step-son announced on his last visit that he intends to go to university and it is likely to cost 12,000 per year.
The Uni he wants to go to ...
12 Oct 10, by brhotll
Latest 14 Oct 10 by brhotll
Replies:4
:344
Latest by brhotll
14 Oct 10
Step Children Maintenance
Just wondered whether anyone had any advice on step children and spouse maintanence.
I am married for 9 years and I want to seperate.
I have decided eno ...
11 Oct 10, by purequo
Latest 11 Oct 10 by hawaythelads
Replies:1
:294
Latest by hawaythelads
11 Oct 10
no child maintenance since February
I have a final consent order for child maintenance for £650.00 per month. My ex left his job last November and stopped paying at the end of February. He was ab ...
10 Oct 10, by Happychick
Replies:0
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CMEC gross salary
I know this is probably a long way off being implemented, although the timetable is 2011.

BUT, I have just read some information on a website that seem ...
04 Oct 10, by skeptical
Latest 04 Oct 10 by skeptical
Replies:2
:305
Latest by skeptical
04 Oct 10
Whos responsible for proving fathers parentage????
If the man isn't on the birth certificate and didnt attend the birth and doesnt believe his daughter is his but his stbx has told csa he is the father who's res ...
29 Sep 10, by JustWantsToBeFree
Latest 04 Oct 10 by BirkenheadBoy
Replies:9
:887
Latest by BirkenheadBoy
04 Oct 10
Disabled child and maintenance
Hello, I am new here

I am in the process of getting divorced. I have a 16 year old year old son with autistic spectrum disorder and I live day to day ...
18 Nov 09, by Django
Latest 01 Oct 10 by Django
Replies:12
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Latest by Django
01 Oct 10
confused!!! don't understand new rules
Hi All,

This is my first post, so hopefully someone may be able to help.

In short, I have paid a ridulous amount of CSA over the last 5 years ...
01 Oct 10, by bertie2010
Latest 01 Oct 10 by zonked
Replies:4
:420
Latest by zonked
01 Oct 10
30 Sep 10, by VBDS98
Latest 30 Sep 10 by VBDS98
Replies:4
:490
Latest by VBDS98
30 Sep 10
CSA Appeal
My ex is appealing against the CSA decision regarding maintenance for our daughter which has until she received her A-level results been paid direct to her. She ...
30 Sep 10, by Brensham
Latest 30 Sep 10 by Brensham
Replies:2
:301
Latest by Brensham
30 Sep 10
Should he help pay for childcare?
My ex husband pays child support through the CSA and when I said I was applying for a part-time university course he said that he would pay half of the childcar ...
29 Sep 10, by Jenna29
Latest 29 Sep 10 by eyes on horizon
Replies:2
:369
Latest by eyes on horizon
29 Sep 10
CSA and variation disputes
Does anyone know what happens when one parent applies for a variation to reduce child maintainance, provides proof but the parent with care keeps disputing it?< ...
29 Sep 10, by mrsthailander
Latest 29 Sep 10 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:443
Latest by rubytuesday
29 Sep 10
child maintenance.
:angry: Divorced Jan.2010,work part time.Ex agreed to pay £650PM fo ...
25 Sep 10, by teecee123
Latest 26 Sep 10 by sunnyjim123
Replies:1
:311
Latest by sunnyjim123
26 Sep 10
child maintenance thru csa
Hi

i'm looking for advise regarding the csa and nrp earning money out of the uk but living in the uk for only 90 days per year therefore being classed ...
24 Sep 10, by jayny46
Latest 25 Sep 10 by jayny46
Replies:3
:313
Latest by jayny46
25 Sep 10
is child maint actually fair on the paying parent?
My ex has only every paid me the odd chq over 3 yrs since split. We have 2 children 8 & 10. Everytime I ask for help, he states the argument that he has t ...
20 Sep 10, by homegal
Latest 22 Sep 10 by totallylost
Replies:15
:1716
Latest by totallylost
22 Sep 10
CSA talk rubbish im sure
i have 2 kids with previous relationship and 1 with my now divorcing wife, i phoned the CSA to say that with the 1 child we have a private maintenence agreement ...
20 Sep 10, by dunkirkmale
Latest 21 Sep 10 by zonked
Replies:3
:479
Latest by zonked
21 Sep 10
Csa
Hi, wondered if someone cld help pls. My stbx has cut aminteneance by third. I have 3 children and he has decided to pay minimum 25% of his declared earnings. E ...
19 Sep 10, by survive
Latest 21 Sep 10 by NewHorizons
Replies:3
:293
Latest by NewHorizons
21 Sep 10
How can I calculate my projected assessment??!
Hi,

I have the potential to leave my current permanent employment and take a lucrative contract. However! I am terrified that having taken on the contr ...
20 Sep 10, by Linkous130000
Latest 20 Sep 10 by Linkous130000
Replies:2
:398
Latest by Linkous130000
20 Sep 10
Ltd Companies, shares and dividends
Does anybody have any experience of CSA calculations involving directors with shares and dividends.

Also, any comments on variation requests in these c ...
18 Sep 10, by dadanon
Latest 19 Sep 10 by Fiona
Replies:2
:431
Latest by Fiona
19 Sep 10
CSA old rules moving in with girlfriend with child
Hi thanks..

heres me now..payment for one child age 14 at his mum
rent my house...little income..maybe £500 a year after deductions

wages ...
16 Sep 10, by Fallenhero
Latest 17 Sep 10 by Fallenhero
Replies:4
:478
Latest by Fallenhero
17 Sep 10
enforcement of consent order
Hi

I have a consent order in place with my ex which is 12 months old in November, when I will probably go to the CSA. My ex has underpaid the consent ...
14 Sep 10, by wilsosu
Latest 16 Sep 10 by afla
Replies:1
:452
Latest by afla
16 Sep 10
Is there anything I can do?
I first claimed via the CSA 5 years ago, that claim was ignored so the benefit agency submitted another on the following year, also ignored. A year later they s ...
14 Sep 10, by anne2010
Latest 14 Sep 10 by landoffairies
Replies:2
:331
Latest by landoffairies
14 Sep 10
Advice on enforcing consent order
My partner has a consent order in place for CM. (+12 months)

Her ex wants to reduce CM payments.

CSA have no jurisdiction as her ex is paid sa ...
06 Sep 10, by BigVee
Latest 14 Sep 10 by JanieB
Replies:3
:349
Latest by JanieB
14 Sep 10

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