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crazy situation My first post so I thought I would say hi. I'm not divorced yet and, in fact, the problem is getting a separation at this point in time. She just doesn't seem ... 28 Jul 08, by Zarty Latest 29 Jul 08 by redoctober	Replies:1 :451	Latest by redoctober 29 Jul 08
Well here I am ... Just now I am at home alone. Have reached the final end of a protracted marriage where playing 'Pollyanna' was never going to work. I am sad, really sad as I ha ... 28 Jul 08, by Frankee1 Latest 29 Jul 08 by Roobarb 1 2	Replies:8 :905	Latest by Roobarb 29 Jul 08
calculator Hi Have been looking at calculator and have a few things Im unsure about , maybe someone out there can help me . Why does the wife get 60% of net assets? If ... 28 Jul 08, by shinyhappypeople Latest 28 Jul 08 by dukey	Replies:2 :379	Latest by dukey 28 Jul 08
What happened there then? Well here I am. 3 years ago my husband's affair was discovered. 18 mo ... 27 Jul 08, by Betrayed Latest 28 Jul 08 by joy 1 2	Replies:9 :1072	Latest by joy 28 Jul 08
Hi Hi My name is Roger i amm 55 years old and have just been put in the re-cycling bin after 33 years of marriage. Its a big step to start over after all these yea ... 28 Jul 08, by witsend99 Latest 28 Jul 08 by stillalive	Replies:3 :454	Latest by stillalive 28 Jul 08
she just dissapeared my wife left saying it was because i did not love her (i love more than anything)went to work she sent kids to cinema,kids got home to an empty house with a let ... 28 Jul 08, by gasmeter Latest 28 Jul 08 by mishmine	Replies:6 :645	Latest by mishmine 28 Jul 08
I don't know what to do Hi, My husband has left me to have an affair with a woman at work....he is seeing a counsellor and trying to make up his mind what he wants.....he won' ... 27 Jul 08, by 40 Not Out Latest 28 Jul 08 by stillalive	Replies:6 :625	Latest by stillalive 28 Jul 08
Taking the plunge! Hi, Just wanted to briefly say hi and outline my story! So hello 26 Jul 08, by Lemonjelli Latest 27 Jul 08 by marriaa	Replies:3 :425	Latest by marriaa 27 Jul 08
Look up idiot in the dictionary and you'll see me Hello, I’ve been lurking around the site for awhile and have finally plucked up the courage to introduce myself (thanks to Thomoswt). Firstly I’m no ... 26 Jul 08, by Log Latest 27 Jul 08 by Log 1 2	Replies:11 :1291	Latest by Log 27 Jul 08
Financial Hi all, brief outline: lived as man n wife since 99, supported him ( own ltd comp)sorted accounts software n tech support/trained staff/set up ... 26 Jul 08, by Dynamite Latest 27 Jul 08 by hadenoughnow	Replies:2 :537	Latest by hadenoughnow 27 Jul 08
I'm new and Useless on this type of site - help Hi everyone - having spent a few nights over the last month or so stumbling around this site are there any tips people can give me to get the best out of it? 21 Jul 08, by Bloke123 Latest 26 Jul 08 by mishmine	Replies:6 :636	Latest by mishmine 26 Jul 08
wits end Hello. I wonder if anyone can help me? Long story short (not an unfamiliar story either I'll bet)... wife of 14 years wants out - thinks grass is greener elsewh ... 23 Jul 08, by flummox Latest 26 Jul 08 by flummox	Replies:3 :510	Latest by flummox 26 Jul 08
Where to start Hi all, I do not know where to start, I have been seperated from my husband for what will be 4 years april 09..The reson neither has done any thing about divorc ... 25 Jul 08, by Julles Latest 25 Jul 08 by Julles	Replies:2 :438	Latest by Julles 25 Jul 08
Broken Hearted 37yrs married no warning just walked 2 be with woman 22yrs younger no contact with sons or his own family who have always been so closeknit.So heartbroken and d ... 24 Jul 08, by old shoe Latest 24 Jul 08 by Matt/24/7 1 2	Replies:7 :1041	Latest by Matt/24/7 24 Jul 08
4 Kids, 11 years and now she don't love me Hi I am 15 days into a new life; a life I did not see comming. LAst week I was a total wreck and I really do not know who the person I called my wife ... 17 Jul 08, by dadbot Latest 24 Jul 08 by dadbot	Replies:5 :531	Latest by dadbot 24 Jul 08
Non Disclosure I have received my decree absolut. On separation my husband had a small business which we agreed not to disclose, and I retained equity of £100000. He said tha ... 24 Jul 08, by AnnaS Latest 24 Jul 08 by AnnaS	Replies:2 :532	Latest by AnnaS 24 Jul 08
Hi all from sad, scared and lonely. My last few years of marriage were a mess, I was really horrid but I thought he was too. I had hoped we would separate for a year, I would have some freedom fro ... 23 Jul 08, by fitbird Latest 23 Jul 08 by Convict_Keeper	Replies:5 :812	Latest by Convict_Keeper 23 Jul 08
Having left - now what do I do? Hello, I have not been in a chat room before and I feel rather silly talking to people that I cannot see. But oh well.. I have been with my husband for ... 20 Jul 08, by hopeful24 Latest 23 Jul 08 by jenny123	Replies:6 :755	Latest by jenny123 23 Jul 08
Introduction to me - new member Jason Hi Everyone, Just found this site today ( Monday 21st July ) and already find it quite reassuring that so many other people in similare situations are ... 21 Jul 08, by jasoncal Latest 22 Jul 08 by dawn1	Replies:1 :412	Latest by dawn1 22 Jul 08
Hello to all Just wanted to introduce myself. I am 29 and have 3 very young boys. They are 4, 3 and 8 months. That's the benefits of my marriage now here is what happened ... 22 Jul 08, by smiffy2906 Latest 22 Jul 08 by smiffy2906	Replies:3 :398	Latest by smiffy2906 22 Jul 08
Am I being taken for a fool Hi all, lots of you hsve seen me in the chat room and have spoken to me and I often feel very guilty for taking up so much time when im feeling low as there are ... 17 Jul 08, by saffron1968 Latest 22 Jul 08 by saffron1968 1 2 3	Replies:20 :2208	Latest by saffron1968 22 Jul 08
Another newbie Hi all Just wrote an emotinal filled blog so thought i should do something more constructive . It has been over 4 weeks since the bomb was dropped . Wh ... 22 Jul 08, by Bri66 Latest 22 Jul 08 by Bri66	Replies:6 :490	Latest by Bri66 22 Jul 08
advice on settlement Hi, I am looking for an advice. I came from other country and my husband had a house and assets. I left a good career opportunity in my country but came to live ... 16 Jul 08, by mango Latest 22 Jul 08 by Kevin01 1 2 3 ... 12	Replies:82 :8848	Latest by Kevin01 22 Jul 08
Hi I'm new Hi, I've already been on chat tonight, but thought I'd introduce myself on here too. I'm 27 and live in Wales. I'm in the messy process of divorcing my ... 21 Jul 08, by SleepyBear Latest 22 Jul 08 by Dadsrus	Replies:3 :822	Latest by Dadsrus 22 Jul 08
hello from a concerned brother hi there, Just thought i'd say hello and give a little info about me. I'm not divorcing, but rather am here on behalf of my sister, helping her through ... 21 Jul 08, by paul10l Latest 21 Jul 08 by phoenix1	Replies:1 :352	Latest by phoenix1 21 Jul 08
Moving abroad Hi My Husband and I have been separated now for just over a year. We have a 7 year old daughter who I would like to move back to my homeland with once the divor ... 18 Jul 08, by homeland Latest 21 Jul 08 by downbutnotout	Replies:1 :681	Latest by downbutnotout 21 Jul 08
introduction to me Hi everyone have posted on the site for a while now but thought I should introduce myself properly. I am 48yrs old and have been married for 25yrs but a ... 21 Jul 08, by froofroo Latest 21 Jul 08 by Gingercat	Replies:4 :415	Latest by Gingercat 21 Jul 08
share of assets pending divorce proceedings I am a UK citizen and got married in London to a South African citizen in 1994. We resided in the UK (1994 to 1996), South Africa (1996 to 1999), UK ( ... 20 Jul 08, by uksouthafrica Latest 21 Jul 08 by Young again	Replies:1 :602	Latest by Young again 21 Jul 08
Unknown whereabouts I have been seperated for over 20yrs,no property or children problems. Need to divorce now,i am on income support,i have very little money,i do not know where m ... 20 Jul 08, by hopefulhattie Latest 21 Jul 08 by anotherone	Replies:3 :551	Latest by anotherone 21 Jul 08
Stress and depression Hi, I am new here. I am feeling very stressed and vulnerable at the moment so I though it would be good to write here. My relationship lasted f ... 20 Jul 08, by feelingdown Latest 20 Jul 08 by joy	Replies:2 :395	Latest by joy 20 Jul 08
Hi folks Hi peeps, Joined the other day and missed this "introduce yourself". In the very early stages of seperating (4 weeks ago) and found this by a ... 20 Jul 08, by Convict_Keeper Latest 20 Jul 08 by joy	Replies:3 :395	Latest by joy 20 Jul 08
Hello, I'm new here Hi there, I've only recently found this website and can see that I have hours of reading material here which I'm sure will be helpful & supportive. ... 19 Jul 08, by Gingercat Latest 20 Jul 08 by Shezi	Replies:2 :662	Latest by Shezi 20 Jul 08
New here Hi - I'm new here. Like most people I didn't really think I'd ever need to be on a divorce forum but my marriage is now over. As a total internet/forum junkie ... 20 Jul 08, by littlemama Latest 20 Jul 08 by Shezi	Replies:1 :559	Latest by Shezi 20 Jul 08
Hi im new can anyone help me? Hi I hope someone can help me with the following: Ive been seperated from my wife for over two years and have recently put in a divorce petition. I st ... 19 Jul 08, by paul1 Latest 19 Jul 08 by Sera	Replies:1 :424	Latest by Sera 19 Jul 08
In limbo Hi, I've been on here for a while now and just want to say a little bit about my situation. It has been complicated for a long time. I seem to be reaching some ... 19 Jul 08, by Mneme Latest 19 Jul 08 by Sera	Replies:1 :400	Latest by Sera 19 Jul 08
Divorce Fault divorce can affect the dispersion of property and will appropriate an immediate divorce in nations where there is a waiting period necessitated for no-fau ... 19 Jul 08, by aaron133	Replies:0 :350
so this is how it feels? i feel like a part of me has died. i feel like i have nothing to live for anymore. i feel like i have no future. i feel so unwanted, rejected, unlovable. i feel ... 15 Jul 08, by damselindistress Latest 18 Jul 08 by polar 1 2 3	Replies:16 :1792	Latest by polar 18 Jul 08
Trapped!!!!! Hi, Yes new to this site and hope to get some sort of answers or guidence pls. had been with partner for 6 years, got married only lasted 9 mont ... 16 Jul 08, by muggedoff Latest 18 Jul 08 by Monitor441	Replies:1 :663	Latest by Monitor441 18 Jul 08
first post, tearfull dad first post of what i will know will be a lengthy stay around these pages, heres my quick story. Just found out today wife has been cheating!gutted,emot ... 17 Jul 08, by dadforever Latest 17 Jul 08 by buxtonman 1 2	Replies:12 :1195	Latest by buxtonman 17 Jul 08
Divorce - financial settlement Hi, reading lost of stuff yesterday helped a lot, so I decided to join. In short - my ex had an affair for a long time, I asked him to leave which he did. He li ... 17 Jul 08, by Petrof Latest 17 Jul 08 by hadenoughnow 1 2	Replies:8 :1312	Latest by hadenoughnow 17 Jul 08

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