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Feeling Low and Depressed Hi i have recently seperated from my wife, we have been married just short of 14yrs, we have been together for 19yrs, we have two childeren aged 9 and 12. O ... 13 Jul 08, by sikon Latest 17 Jul 08 by sikon 1 2 3	Replies:16 :1847	Latest by sikon 17 Jul 08
Hello and a question!! Afternoon all - Im Matt and I have a question - after 11 years of marriage and 2 children my wife has said she no longer wants to be married to me (its an incre ... 17 Jul 08, by matt_kent Latest 17 Jul 08 by kidsinbulgaria	Replies:1 :470	Latest by kidsinbulgaria 17 Jul 08
advice for divorcing a filipina from the uk Hallo fellow singlehood seekers and the free, Can anybody offer any advice on how to divorce a Filipna from within the UK. There is no divorce ... 16 Jul 08, by akaboo Latest 17 Jul 08 by akaboo	Replies:2 :448	Latest by akaboo 17 Jul 08
The divorce calculater? Hia, im new and hav just tried to work out how skint i am going to be when i fianaly tell my cheeting husband, that iv had enough....but when i get to the end o ... 17 Jul 08, by dontnowhattodo Latest 17 Jul 08 by dontnowhattodo	Replies:2 :381	Latest by dontnowhattodo 17 Jul 08
Fair Settlement? Hi everyone, I'm new here and at the very beginning of the divorce process i.e. we've accepted that it has to happen and are discussing the finances and practic ... 28 Mar 08, by MJJ Latest 16 Jul 08 by mango 1 2	Replies:7 :1613	Latest by mango 16 Jul 08
Rights re:pensions Hi, I separated from my ex 4.5 years ago, and our divorce was finalised in Nov 2005. I've never recieved any divorce papers at all, and even when i asked for co ... 16 Jul 08, by Steve1 Latest 16 Jul 08 by Steve1	Replies:6 :521	Latest by Steve1 16 Jul 08
This is from my profile, updated today ... 15 Jul 08, by saffron1968 Latest 16 Jul 08 by buxtonman 1 2	Replies:7 :984	Latest by buxtonman 16 Jul 08
Confused - I've told him I don't love him Hi I am new to all this and my tale is long and complicated...my own fault I guess...who else is to blame really? I will start at the beginning. M ... 24 Jun 08, by cate Latest 16 Jul 08 by small 1 2 3	Replies:14 :2221	Latest by small 16 Jul 08
Introduction from a PI Hi all, As a divorced guy in my late 30's I can share a little empathy with some members. It can be a very stressful and trying time but you can come o ... 11 Jul 08, by Provost2000 Latest 16 Jul 08 by Provost2000	Replies:2 :488	Latest by Provost2000 16 Jul 08
why is it taking soooo long? Hi, am a tired but hopeful almost divorced person. Have been in the process for over a year now and have moved from the near suicidal position to the 'can we mo ... 15 Jul 08, by Coridon Latest 15 Jul 08 by Young again	Replies:1 :437	Latest by Young again 15 Jul 08
What do i do if my heart is not in it! I have got myself into a difficult situation and now I dont know whe ... 15 Jul 08, by crossmag Latest 15 Jul 08 by redoctober	Replies:1 :467	Latest by redoctober 15 Jul 08
What should I do now? Hi Everyone, I'm solarpowered - well at least I haven't hit the bottle 13 Jul 08, by solarpowered Latest 14 Jul 08 by solarpowered	Replies:5 :504	Latest by solarpowered 14 Jul 08
new to this 17 years together and 10 years married have great wee girl of 9 years old. Husband walked out 7 weeks ago - reason he was 43 and felt life passing him by he ne ... 14 Jul 08, by Tinkerbelle Latest 14 Jul 08 by joy	Replies:2 :416	Latest by joy 14 Jul 08
Advice needed following split I have just split yesterday from my wife after 17 years of marriage. It had been very difficult the past 5 years or so for a variety of reasons and I had falle ... 14 Jul 08, by moodyblue65 Latest 14 Jul 08 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :418	Latest by hadenoughnow 14 Jul 08
Just joined and need help I have been searching around on the internet for as much help and advice as i could, but so far..not really getting anywhere. I have been married to my ... 14 Jul 08, by Lunagal59 Latest 14 Jul 08 by scaredandupset 1 2	Replies:11 :1085	Latest by scaredandupset 14 Jul 08
Accepting Its Over Hi I'm David I have been married for nearly 7 years, with my wife for 12 years and she has told me she wants us to split up. I am findng this very har ... 13 Jul 08, by carton Latest 14 Jul 08 by balamory 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:34 :2688	Latest by balamory 14 Jul 08
Help I have been married for 17 years and have been unhappy for the last few years. We have 3 beautiful children and our fighting is definately affecting them my son ... 14 Jul 08, by caz39 Latest 14 Jul 08 by caz39	Replies:2 :385	Latest by caz39 14 Jul 08
hello and help Hi Just new to the site. Splitting up after nearly 12 years of marriage and 16 years together. Have 2 children ages 6 and 2. Have no job as took redu ... 14 Jul 08, by Verso Latest 14 Jul 08 by jwb	Replies:2 :430	Latest by jwb 14 Jul 08
Mom and Dad Divorcing Hi Guys, I need some advice on my Dad Divorcing my Mom. They were married 40 years and 2 years ago my Dad met another women on the internet. ... 14 Jul 08, by strappedforcash Latest 14 Jul 08 by strappedforcash 1 2	Replies:9 :1253	Latest by strappedforcash 14 Jul 08
I'm a newy Hello there, Ive just joined this site and have already found some great useful information. I'm sperrated from my husband and am now considering d ... 14 Jul 08, by albert Latest 14 Jul 08 by dadinamillion1	Replies:4 :634	Latest by dadinamillion1 14 Jul 08
End of the world as I know it Hi, I'm Martin No point in small talk right now. My wife has met another man and is going to leave me. We've been together 25 years ... 13 Jul 08, by MartinC Latest 13 Jul 08 by ivorytower	Replies:4 :467	Latest by ivorytower 13 Jul 08
Seven months and not getting any easier Have just recently found wikivorce! My story is this: I left my x2b 7 months ago, with my son (aged 10) and moved a couple of miles away. A tough move, but one ... 06 Jul 08, by free_to_fly Latest 13 Jul 08 by Sera	Replies:2 :408	Latest by Sera 13 Jul 08
when there is someone else involved Thank you for the lovely messages I received from my previous post. The truth is out now I found out my husband has been sleeping with someone else. Hurt is not ... 12 Jul 08, by olli Latest 13 Jul 08 by Kenwood	Replies:6 :552	Latest by Kenwood 13 Jul 08
Another first timer - Cyber sex casualty Hi all and this looks to be the place for me to vent off my disappointment/anger/bewilderment as I never thought I would be in the position I'm in now so I am n ... 11 Jul 08, by Sir Glees Latest 12 Jul 08 by clark67 1 2	Replies:9 :1225	Latest by clark67 12 Jul 08
my story At 20 I married my childhood sweetheart after 5 yrs of dating. the marriage was good (a few bumps but nothing major)until 3 months ago when my ex decided he cou ... 11 Jul 08, by charis Latest 12 Jul 08 by charis	Replies:3 :404	Latest by charis 12 Jul 08
Hi and Help? New here - wish I had found this site sooner. My ex has filed with County Court to amend Consent Order - He has been trying to get me a agree a voluntary c ... 10 Jul 08, by Kitekat Latest 12 Jul 08 by Kitekat	Replies:3 :476	Latest by Kitekat 12 Jul 08
spliting up and house equity Hi my Name is reg my wife and i have come to the understanding that our life together is over and we are wanting to know if we split but not divorce can we spli ... 10 Jul 08, by reg036 Latest 11 Jul 08 by D L	Replies:1 :395	Latest by D L 11 Jul 08
first timer Hi , not really sure what to write here .been married for 8 years but with my wife for 18 years in total, have two boys 16 and 11 great kids both of them.have b ... 10 Jul 08, by bosch67 Latest 11 Jul 08 by mirfield 1 2	Replies:8 :1009	Latest by mirfield 11 Jul 08
I cant pay for everything...or do I have to? Hey everyone and anyone out there. This is my first thread, so bear with me please. My Decree absolute is due in 2 weeks. Seperated for just o ... 10 Jul 08, by dadinamillion1 Latest 10 Jul 08 by Ephelia	Replies:1 :370	Latest by Ephelia 10 Jul 08
Finally Facing Facts After a bumpy 20 year marriage to a serial adulterer, he left me (yep, he left me!) Dec 2006. Need to make financial arrangements for our two children and me. ... 09 Jul 08, by Dopey Dolly Latest 09 Jul 08 by Dopey Dolly	Replies:4 :570	Latest by Dopey Dolly 09 Jul 08
A hard decision, but I have no choice. Hello, Sorry, not entirely sure I'm in the right Forum area?! I am feeling very strange and surreal. My life is going to change forever and I am goin ... 03 Jul 08, by Beatty Latest 09 Jul 08 by Beatty 1 2	Replies:12 :1240	Latest by Beatty 09 Jul 08
Hello My Story My Story Going through my second divorce at the moment we have been married for 18 years my wife told me she wanted a divorce 2 months ago because she no lo ... 03 Jul 08, by Dylan Latest 09 Jul 08 by joy 1 2 3 ... 6	Replies:36 :3684	Latest by joy 09 Jul 08
Miscarriage and it's over? Hi, I hope it's OK to be writing here. I'm so sad and scared at the moment and don't know what's going on in my life. I have been married for nearly si ... 08 Jul 08, by sadandscared Latest 08 Jul 08 by lyndamac 1 2	Replies:10 :1055	Latest by lyndamac 08 Jul 08
Respondent (father) rights? Dear all, I have just recently joined this website - and the assistance / advice that you provide is invaluable; and to a certain extent a contributor ... 01 Jul 08, by Orca Latest 08 Jul 08 by D L 1 2	Replies:10 :1548	Latest by D L 08 Jul 08
Seven months and not getting any easier Have just recently found wikivorce! My story is this: I left my x2b 7 months ago, with my son (aged 10) and moved a couple of miles away. A tough move, but one ... 06 Jul 08, by free_to_fly Latest 08 Jul 08 by redoctober	Replies:4 :527	Latest by redoctober 08 Jul 08
This is all new to me a feeling a bit lost Hi, my husband has just left me for another woman leaving me alone with our two children aged 3 and 1. I am finding everything really difficult to cope with an ... 08 Jul 08, by Mummyof2 Latest 08 Jul 08 by fredsmith22	Replies:2 :367	Latest by fredsmith22 08 Jul 08
Just Starting Hiya All I think this is the forum to introduce yourself - My name is Denis and well this is my very short story..... About 2-3 months ago my ... 07 Jul 08, by dby47 Latest 08 Jul 08 by mike62	Replies:5 :415	Latest by mike62 08 Jul 08
New to wikivorce Hi Everyone, I am new to the site and a little nervous-although I want to find some friends and support. I have been married for 24 years- should have been ... 04 Jul 08, by PatKaye Latest 07 Jul 08 by sparrowuk 1 2	Replies:8 :982	Latest by sparrowuk 07 Jul 08
Hello Hi, my names Helen & I'm finally at the point where it's time to call the solicitors in! My life is such a car crash that Kerry Katona see ... 07 Jul 08, by help! Latest 07 Jul 08 by TMax	Replies:1 :466	Latest by TMax 07 Jul 08
Divorcing an Alcoholic Alcoholics are deceitful, manipulative and impossible to deal with. I'm delighted to be getting divorced from my alcoholic wife, and I'm happy to give ... 29 May 08, by zoltan61 Latest 07 Jul 08 by zoltan61 1 2 3	Replies:18 :4552	Latest by zoltan61 07 Jul 08

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