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life at the moment I am currently experiencing divorce anger and found this web ... 06 Jul 08, by tiredandemotional Latest 06 Jul 08 by tiredandemotional	Replies:6 :451	Latest by tiredandemotional 06 Jul 08
new here I have looked at this website for a long time and never quite had the courage to post. My husband walked out on our marriage with no warning 6 months ago.We had ... 05 Jul 08, by downbutnot out Latest 05 Jul 08 by joy	Replies:2 :363	Latest by joy 05 Jul 08
hello hello i am so sad sat writing this. I never thought I would be in this position. My husband of 2 years (we've been together for 8) has told me he no lo ... 05 Jul 08, by olli Latest 05 Jul 08 by Sun 13	Replies:3 :476	Latest by Sun 13 05 Jul 08
Court Procedure I will be going to court soon and I am really confused about what will happen. We are up to the stage where I have submitted my E form to my solicitor. Will I r ... 04 Jul 08, by Hep Latest 05 Jul 08 by dawn1	Replies:4 :429	Latest by dawn1 05 Jul 08
Hello - Yes, another new one Hi Everyone, I'm so glad that I stumbled across this site. My wife and I have reached the conclusion that the best thing for both of us is to ... 04 Jul 08, by humanist Latest 05 Jul 08 by humanist	Replies:3 :537	Latest by humanist 05 Jul 08
not the best timing Of course it never is... I fear this will sound like some trashy article but here it is the real deal But I must be thinking about divorce at possibly the w ... 04 Jul 08, by moveonup Latest 04 Jul 08 by rubytuesday	Replies:1 :396	Latest by rubytuesday 04 Jul 08
Confused..... So... . my story where do I begin. I've been unwell for a long time, mentally and physically. . not bad but enough it seems to send my wife to distract ... 04 Jul 08, by FearAndLoathing Latest 04 Jul 08 by ghosthunter	Replies:3 :493	Latest by ghosthunter 04 Jul 08
The end of a nightmare Hi all, I have been viewing some of your posts over the past few weeks and it is only now that I feel brave enough to join you all. I threw my ... 04 Jul 08, by Gunnersaurus Latest 04 Jul 08 by dawn1	Replies:1 :394	Latest by dawn1 04 Jul 08
Hello Everyone Thought I would finally introduce myself as I have been looking at wiki for weeks and it has been a huge help. My story briefly!! Been married 13years n ... 04 Jul 08, by mirfield Latest 04 Jul 08 by mirfield	Replies:3 :424	Latest by mirfield 04 Jul 08
Stay or Go ? Hi I need help..its unusally for me I dont usually find myself here asking for help but now I dont know where to turn and would appreciate your advice ... 03 Jul 08, by npb1965 Latest 04 Jul 08 by oldgreymare	Replies:4 :482	Latest by oldgreymare 04 Jul 08
Hello hope to be my new friends Hello All Just found your forum First thing are avatars allowed on here.. if so I could not find out how to upload mine... Having a thick moment 02 Jul 08, by vincentfan Latest 03 Jul 08 by vincentfan 1 2	Replies:13 :1320	Latest by vincentfan 03 Jul 08
my introduction Hi Wikinoids I am new here looking for new friends and as much support ... 02 Jul 08, by vlad_depeche1 Latest 03 Jul 08 by Aimzybaby1983	Replies:2 :484	Latest by Aimzybaby1983 03 Jul 08
Where to start Hi all, At the begining I suppose. My wife has moved out after 10 years, we have no children and no one else is involved. We have spo ... 30 Jun 08, by gazpilot Latest 03 Jul 08 by jay9376	Replies:3 :440	Latest by jay9376 03 Jul 08
My story - welcome to my world ..... Hi Everyone, I am so glad I have discovered this community... in the first few days, I have found out more useful info than in the six weeks since he l ... 28 Jun 08, by JessieJ Latest 02 Jul 08 by polar 1 2 3 4	Replies:25 :2436	Latest by polar 02 Jul 08
Hi Hi, New to this, my name is Steve, I am nearly 45 and I have been married for 8 and a half years to my wife Jacqui; we have 2 adorable kids (most of the tim ... 01 Jul 08, by Steve Alty Latest 02 Jul 08 by hadenoughnow 1 2	Replies:11 :1097	Latest by hadenoughnow 02 Jul 08
3 months since he left - 3 days on Wiki!! Hi A few days ago I was looking up divorce on Google and found this site. Never been on a blog or "chat room" so who says life has nothing new to ... 27 Jun 08, by Jollyrocket Latest 01 Jul 08 by Sun 13	Replies:4 :597	Latest by Sun 13 01 Jul 08
Introducing myself and some questions Hello all, I have just joined the site and it is looking like it is going to be really helpful. I separated 15 months ago and have two daughte ... 01 Jul 08, by cornishboy Latest 01 Jul 08 by poppy5	Replies:2 :420	Latest by poppy5 01 Jul 08
Hello Hi, thought I'd say hello properly. I'm Maysie and I have just started off my divorce. My marriage was always emotionally abusive and 5 years ago I moved into a ... 01 Jul 08, by Maysie01 Latest 01 Jul 08 by joy	Replies:1 :413	Latest by joy 01 Jul 08
Where do I even start? Hi everyone, I hope this site is as useful to me as it seems to have been to lots of you. Is it possible to get trust back,how many second chances should yo ... 01 Jul 08, by scaredandupset Latest 01 Jul 08 by Maysie01	Replies:2 :446	Latest by Maysie01 01 Jul 08
Thanks my friend is getting a divorce. Just a quick one to say she is always on this place, in chat and reading stuff and it really helps her. So thanks all for bei ... 01 Jul 08, by DB7	Replies:0 :294
Advice anyone... Hello everyone, I am very new to this site and so far have found it very interesting but scary how many awful stories people have. Early last ... 25 Jun 08, by lovinpinkstuff Latest 30 Jun 08 by lovinpinkstuff	Replies:4 :659	Latest by lovinpinkstuff 30 Jun 08
New Hello I'm new! New here and new to divorce! 4 months ago my husband decided he didn't love me anymore and left after not quite 2 years of marriage. ... 31 May 08, by suzannec30 Latest 30 Jun 08 by joy 1 2 3	Replies:15 :1737	Latest by joy 30 Jun 08
Newly single This is my story. I lost my mum to cancer 3 months ago and a week after that my husband announced he wanted to spend more time with his friends, he sai ... 29 Jun 08, by bramham77 Latest 29 Jun 08 by Donnylass	Replies:3 :653	Latest by Donnylass 29 Jun 08
Hi - new to this and getting desperate! Hi, I would like to give you my story in the hopes that there is a way out of the situation! I seperated from my husband on 28th January 2007 and m ... 29 Jun 08, by wilma Latest 29 Jun 08 by wilma	Replies:5 :421	Latest by wilma 29 Jun 08
Hi am new here would just like to say Hi,am so glad I have found a site like this as I too am going through the emotional rollercoaster of splitting up. All quite new ... 22 Mar 08, by anotherone Latest 29 Jun 08 by anotherone 1 2 3	Replies:16 :2039	Latest by anotherone 29 Jun 08
\"I'm So Fortunate\"...... Hi everyone, I really do class myself as being very fortunate in the fact that my upcoming Divorce is amicable and straight forward, my heart goes out to the on ... 29 Jun 08, by Abi 2 Latest 29 Jun 08 by stillalive	Replies:3 :400	Latest by stillalive 29 Jun 08
How do you all cope with the really bad days? Hi - thanks to all who messaged me yesterday - helps to know I'm not completely alone. Have lots of friends and family who care but don't think they really und ... 09 Jun 08, by linda.c Latest 28 Jun 08 by Kalamari 1 2 3	Replies:17 :1955	Latest by Kalamari 28 Jun 08
just to say hi & to ask if anyone has used DIY just wanted to say hello - and to say how relieved and excited i am to have found this site. I'm a 38 year woman with two children and about to seperat ... 20 Jun 08, by gillybean70 Latest 28 Jun 08 by gillybean70	Replies:4 :1021	Latest by gillybean70 28 Jun 08
glad to be here What a blessing to find this sight! A small intro of me.... I am a 43year old female, x walked 2 years ago with a friend but has never admitted it!!!!!! ... 27 Jun 08, by jive queen Latest 27 Jun 08 by peterc	Replies:1 :342	Latest by peterc 27 Jun 08
just to say Hi Isn’t it funny that you think "my divorce is so unique and the separation so traumatic I bet no-one has made the same experience" and then all of su ... 27 Jun 08, by stillalive Latest 27 Jun 08 by stillalive	Replies:4 :460	Latest by stillalive 27 Jun 08
Why am I here? Hi My hubby drove me out of my home, poisoned our daughter against me and told me that if I didn't divorce him, (I get legal aid) he would make my life hell. I ... 25 Jun 08, by lillyanne Latest 27 Jun 08 by sealion 1 2	Replies:11 :1163	Latest by sealion 27 Jun 08
help needed please! Hi Can someone poss help with this question I haven't noticed anyone else mention this problem. I am married to a man for 14 years who suffers ... 25 Jun 08, by sadsally Latest 26 Jun 08 by hadenoughnow	Replies:5 :527	Latest by hadenoughnow 26 Jun 08
This is going to be so hard. Hi - I'm Alice. It's a week tomorrow that my husband finally realised he had crossed a line and left the marital home. In that week I have, wi ... 25 Jun 08, by SadEyes Latest 26 Jun 08 by phoenix1	Replies:5 :540	Latest by phoenix1 26 Jun 08
I'm new and feeling stuck I'm new and feeling stuck....in all senses of the word. I've never used an internet forum of any kind before..I don't even know what any of the icons mean.... I ... 23 Jun 08, by Gridlock Latest 25 Jun 08 by Daisy049	Replies:3 :488	Latest by Daisy049 25 Jun 08
New Here Like another member although I registered some time ago, I have never been in any internet chatroom before so here goes. 57 year old male, married for 35yrs and ... 24 Jun 08, by Staffa Latest 25 Jun 08 by Daisy049	Replies:4 :525	Latest by Daisy049 25 Jun 08
Starting proceedings.. Hi, I've stumbled across this site while looking at DIY Divorce kits. I've been separated from my husband since the beginning of 2005, after getting ma ... 21 Jun 08, by sillybridget Latest 25 Jun 08 by wazo	Replies:4 :668	Latest by wazo 25 Jun 08
Urgent advise.. please help Hi... im currently going through a divorce and im living in a house that my husband owns. We have been married for 9 years and have a 5 year old child. My husba ... 24 Jun 08, by missyk Latest 24 Jun 08 by LittleMrMike	Replies:1 :384	Latest by LittleMrMike 24 Jun 08
New here-need help... divorcing an alcoholic Hi I am getting ready to ask my husband to move out. He recently admitted to a drinking problem, but is not being very proactive on doing anything about it. ... 24 Jun 08, by amaya Latest 24 Jun 08 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :396	Latest by hadenoughnow 24 Jun 08
Shockedandstunned Hello. Like my username I am shocked and stunned. I recently found out that my wife of just over a year has been having an affair. I am so upset about ... 22 Jun 08, by shockedandstunned Latest 24 Jun 08 by Purple Princess 1 2	Replies:7 :1075	Latest by Purple Princess 24 Jun 08
Hi I am new Looks like I may be going for a divorce soon. Have been separated for nearly 3 years, and married for 20. I am a 53 year old man. The marraige was never goo ... 23 Jun 08, by elephantandcastle Latest 24 Jun 08 by elephantandcastle	Replies:2 :582	Latest by elephantandcastle 24 Jun 08

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