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Hi, I'm New Hi All, I am hoping this site can help.... I came home from picking up a friend from the rail station yesterday to find my husband had packed ... 19 May 08, by madmummy Latest 19 May 08 by mrsnomore 1 2	Replies:7 :1131	Latest by mrsnomore 19 May 08
ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! I split up with my husband three years ago. Due to domestic violence I left and he stayed in the house. I bought another house and it took me a year to get him ... 19 May 08, by theblondone Latest 19 May 08 by mike62	Replies:1 :473	Latest by mike62 19 May 08
where do i start? hi, here goes been married 24 years,daughters both over 2 ... 18 May 08, by caverton Latest 19 May 08 by topaz	Replies:2 :615	Latest by topaz 19 May 08
Help and Advice would be Welcome Hi all, This is a little complicated. I am thinking of divorce and here are the details. Married only 3 years but cohabiting for 5 years before that and tog ... 18 May 08, by itsnotmyfault	Replies:0 :424
Curtain Rods - Priceless Received this via email from my mum this morning, made me laugh xx xx Sarah xx CURTAIN RODS----PRICELESS She spent the first day pack ... 17 May 08, by IKNOWNOW Latest 17 May 08 by gadgetdad	Replies:2 :763	Latest by gadgetdad 17 May 08
At the beginning of the a better time A newbie popping on to say Hi Quick Background 18 months ago STBX Hub had affair with work colleague after 10 years of marriage and 2 children. He ... 14 May 08, by mrsnomore Latest 16 May 08 by mrsnomore	Replies:3 :529	Latest by mrsnomore 16 May 08
Hello all Hi everyone. I just joined the forum and thought I would say hello to the community before I jump right in. 15 May 08, by Floyd Latest 16 May 08 by Angel557	Replies:5 :527	Latest by Angel557 16 May 08
How did i end up here Hello, like anyone entering into marriage - i didnt expect it to end in divorce. I thought that we loved each other, I thought that we had the same life goals a ... 12 May 08, by Shell_shocked Latest 16 May 08 by jay9376	Replies:5 :727	Latest by jay9376 16 May 08
Hi Everyone Just found this site today and I am soooo glad! I've been reading qui ... 15 May 08, by Janey7 Latest 16 May 08 by jay9376	Replies:2 :453	Latest by jay9376 16 May 08
Denying her allegatons. Hi all, need some help from people who have/are going through the same as me. I received my divorce papers around 18/19th April, but they were sent to ... 10 May 08, by Welshdad Latest 16 May 08 by jay9376	Replies:3 :750	Latest by jay9376 16 May 08
What next??????????!!!!!!!!! My wife and I split up a few weeks ago and she had got set up with a new house etc.We were dealing with things amicably and I had accepted the situation.One of ... 15 May 08, by vodanok Latest 15 May 08 by rasher	Replies:3 :485	Latest by rasher 15 May 08
introducing myself i feel like i'f lost my whole life ! wife and daugter moved out early feb been on own since ,don't seem to be able to get my head round the situation. in brief ... 14 May 08, by fish6 Latest 15 May 08 by marriaa	Replies:3 :858	Latest by marriaa 15 May 08
Some advice please Hi all, I am hoping that some of you may be able to offer me some advice. My husband left me 6 weeks ago after only 8 months of marriage, I had my susp ... 14 May 08, by Sambuca Latest 14 May 08 by LittleMrMike	Replies:1 :614	Latest by LittleMrMike 14 May 08
Alimony or Welfare I'm Daryl, I've been divorced for three years and I think it's time my ex joins the 21st century and be an independent "liberated" woman. I'd like to ... 14 May 08, by dlow Latest 14 May 08 by Fiona	Replies:1 :595	Latest by Fiona 14 May 08
decree absolute confusion Hi,Wondering if anyone can help! I was married briefly (under 2yrs) in 2000.We seperated abruptly due to a few reasons, my decision.We both got solicitors a ... 14 May 08, by ibish888 Latest 14 May 08 by ibish888	Replies:2 :802	Latest by ibish888 14 May 08
Telling the children Hello to all board members. This is my first post here and probably won't be my last. I didn't think Divorce would be so stressfull 13 May 08, by JemappelleHal Latest 14 May 08 by mike62	Replies:3 :709	Latest by mike62 14 May 08
acknowledgement of service-confused hi all! have just recieved acknowledgement of service on 2yr separation i agree to divorce going ahead but financial issues havn't been resolved as x h wont giv ... 13 May 08, by twink10 Latest 14 May 08 by D L	Replies:1 :605	Latest by D L 14 May 08
Hi - Help Please My wife has recently left the family home and i shall continue as the main career to our son who will live with me. I have built up a little nest egg which ... 08 May 08, by goodbye bad times Latest 12 May 08 by Not here now 1 2	Replies:13 :1271	Latest by Not here now 12 May 08
Scared and don't know what to do for best Hi I'm new to this site and was so pleased to find it, reading some of your messages has really made me realise that my situation isn't as bad as some of you, a ... 11 May 08, by Roobarb Latest 12 May 08 by BreakupAngelsJackie	Replies:2 :499	Latest by BreakupAngelsJackie 12 May 08
There is HOPE after divorce! I was married once - for 24 years. My nasty divorce was finalized in April of 2007, so it's been a little over a year since "officially" divorced. My ... 08 May 08, by itsokay Latest 11 May 08 by itsokay	Replies:2 :1160	Latest by itsokay 11 May 08
I'm new and I now have to enforce a Costs Order Hey everyone, I'm 27 and divorcing my ex after a short marriage. We married in Pakistan in 2005, and I brought her to the UK in 2006. The marriage broke down af ... 10 May 08, by shivers	Replies:0 :387
This is an amazing place! Hi - I wish I'd known about this place when I was getting divorced - maybe I wouldn't have made so many mistakes. But then again, maybe my mistakes have been my ... 10 May 08, by BreakupAngelsJackie Latest 10 May 08 by Fiona	Replies:2 :478	Latest by Fiona 10 May 08
Newbie - thinking about it hi there, my wife left and took the kids. i'm thinking about taking some action as she's stalling for some reason. i keep asking her what she wants but sh ... 06 May 08, by danuunad Latest 10 May 08 by BreakupAngelsJackie	Replies:2 :684	Latest by BreakupAngelsJackie 10 May 08
STARTING DIVORCE PROCEEDINGS Hi all I am new to this so I may go around the houses before I actually get to the question I want to ask. I have been married for over 4 and ... 02 May 08, by TIAMARIA Latest 09 May 08 by Fiona	Replies:3 :607	Latest by Fiona 09 May 08
struggling to get through this. Hi. Am an applicant in a divorce involving domestic abuse and violence both towards myself and my 3 children. Am currently pregnant with my 4th child to the sam ... 08 May 08, by e.l.o Latest 08 May 08 by sexysadie	Replies:1 :462	Latest by sexysadie 08 May 08
Hi - new and in dire need of help and advice Hi I'm posting on behalf of a friend of mine. She's 30 and has been married for 12 years. She has 2 year old twins. Her husband is emotionally and phys ... 08 May 08, by london123 Latest 08 May 08 by Sera	Replies:2 :584	Latest by Sera 08 May 08
Very confused Hi all Am currently at very early stages of divorce (i am the applicant) on grounds of UB. Stbx just up and left in November 2007 and left me with ... 06 May 08, by lunatic32 Latest 07 May 08 by Gingerkitty	Replies:3 :759	Latest by Gingerkitty 07 May 08
A tentative \"hullo\" I will be petitioning for a divorce from my wife of 7 years. We have 2 young children (4 and 6), from whom I have been living separate from for 14 months. We ow ... 11 Feb 08, by Loremipsom Latest 06 May 08 by hadenoughnow 1 2	Replies:9 :1314	Latest by hadenoughnow 06 May 08
Re husband I have separated from my husband 2 years ago in July, We sold our house, I have now bought my own house, and so has he. We do not have kids. The pro ... 05 May 08, by Chameleon Latest 05 May 08 by TMax	Replies:1 :449	Latest by TMax 05 May 08
Hello, have just joined Hi, stumbled accross this site and wish I'd found it a while back, I've been divorced a year now. So this is my story - Met my husband when I was 20 and ... 05 May 08, by daisygreen Latest 05 May 08 by lost24	Replies:3 :626	Latest by lost24 05 May 08
How do I get him to leave? My husband will not leave the family home even though the relationship is completely over. He lost his job 18mths ago and has no intention of finding another a ... 05 May 08, by Saddened Latest 05 May 08 by LittleMrMike	Replies:2 :541	Latest by LittleMrMike 05 May 08
I'm new my divorce has just come through and I'm really relieved. Is that right? I am so relieved I am doing an interview with Grazia magazine about how divorce can be ... 04 May 08, by theblisome Latest 05 May 08 by TMax	Replies:1 :644	Latest by TMax 05 May 08
new in town I am just starting down this path and very hurt and confused. I have been a great very hands on father to 4 kids over last 10 years. I have also worked very ... 01 May 08, by jdepp_555 Latest 04 May 08 by ancillarycilla	Replies:3 :797	Latest by ancillarycilla 04 May 08
Back to square one Hi, been using this site for a while and have posted a few times. Problem is I seem to have gone back a few months in my recovery. After 14 months of separartio ... 01 May 08, by Chill Latest 01 May 08 by Ladybelle	Replies:4 :537	Latest by Ladybelle 01 May 08
Hi I'm new Hi everyone. My situation is somewhat complicated. I have been marriage for 10 years. I am seriously considering a divorce from my husband. He had an affai ... 01 May 08, by JAF Latest 01 May 08 by NYCnoMoney	Replies:3 :586	Latest by NYCnoMoney 01 May 08
Trying so hard but its getting to me. Hello Everyone Hope you dont mind a miserable person joining he he.I have lately felt so alone and have never in my life felt so hopeless. I h ... 30 Apr 08, by Leigh Latest 01 May 08 by Leigh 1 2	Replies:12 :1450	Latest by Leigh 01 May 08
Hello everyone Hello, I'm a newbie. My hubby and I have separated - he has moved in with a single woman two doors away and is having an affair with her. I am very sad and desp ... 29 Apr 08, by merielalice Latest 30 Apr 08 by marriaa 1 2	Replies:8 :1316	Latest by marriaa 30 Apr 08
hi hi everyone-just joined today.Didn't know such things existed but lots of us in the same boat it seems. take care ... 29 Apr 08, by bingram Latest 29 Apr 08 by marriaa	Replies:2 :466	Latest by marriaa 29 Apr 08
new to the forum Greetings everyone, My name is Ivan and i am in the process of divorce after about 27 years. Have FDR in about five weeks. I have 5 children (aged 26,2 ... 28 Apr 08, by ivan Latest 29 Apr 08 by ivan	Replies:4 :591	Latest by ivan 29 Apr 08
Acceptance hi all.. having a bad day....been chatting in the lounge and that helps but have to have a rant... ive been on this site for over a week now a ... 29 Apr 08, by Daisy049 Latest 29 Apr 08 by Rowrow 1 2	Replies:9 :1556	Latest by Rowrow 29 Apr 08

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