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Introduction and anxious over financial settlement Hi, I was with my soon to be ex for nearly 25 - childhood sweethearts - thought we'd be together forever; 4 kids; 18 down to 12. Anyway, back in end of ... 31 May 08, by lark Latest 01 Jun 08 by lark	Replies:4 :460	Latest by lark 01 Jun 08
Money help & advice Hi all, I'm new to this so go easy on me ok lol just been dumped by my common law wife after 16 years, she got out of my bed & into a "mates" bed ... 31 May 08, by Tony61 Latest 31 May 08 by rubytuesday	Replies:1 :430	Latest by rubytuesday 31 May 08
Confused Hi, I am completely new to this having been told that I am surplus to requirements (I don't love you anymore). My emotions are all over the place a ... 30 May 08, by Dadsrus Latest 30 May 08 by Shelia	Replies:4 :541	Latest by Shelia 30 May 08
Please Help - Need Advice Desperately I think its over. She cannot come to terms with the fact I helped my secretary with her house move without telling her. There was & is no relationship with ... 30 May 08, by tamit Latest 30 May 08 by smoker	Replies:6 :644	Latest by smoker 30 May 08
Dum dum dum....another one bites the dust... Hi all, Just wanted to introduce myself. My name's Christian and my wife and I have just seperated. She broke the news to me 3 weeks ago. I wa ... 27 May 08, by carcharodon Latest 30 May 08 by jay9376	Replies:3 :508	Latest by jay9376 30 May 08
separation Hi All, I'm John and although i am not going through a divorce (not legally married), but i am going through hell as my relationship has just come to a ... 30 May 08, by stimo Latest 30 May 08 by stimo 1 2	Replies:7 :1263	Latest by stimo 30 May 08
Need to know where I stand Hi New to thie site, and in need of some advice. My wife and I have recently separated after 5 Yrs & 9Mths marrage. She has moved out the marital h ... 26 May 08, by Dave71 Latest 29 May 08 by IKNOWNOW	Replies:1 :514	Latest by IKNOWNOW 29 May 08
.. ... 25 May 08, by notmuchlongernow Latest 29 May 08 by rasher	Replies:4 :850	Latest by rasher 29 May 08
Another newbie... Hi there. Not sure how much I'll be here, I swung on in when doing a google search for 'divorce entitlement'. I'm sure I'll tap your collective brains ... 29 May 08, by TraceyUK Latest 29 May 08 by mrsnomore	Replies:2 :651	Latest by mrsnomore 29 May 08
Just joined Hi everyone, well I'm just going through my second divorce, didn't see it coming this time, after 17 years was rather a shock. Anyway that happened 12 ... 28 May 08, by Poppie Latest 29 May 08 by Poppie	Replies:4 :752	Latest by Poppie 29 May 08
Hello everyone Hi everyone, I'm Smooshy (aka Julie) and am in the process of a long protracted divorce at the moment. Been to court 3 times for Ancillary Relief proc ... 28 May 08, by Smooshy Latest 28 May 08 by CrusaderGirl	Replies:1 :748	Latest by CrusaderGirl 28 May 08
Just found you today.... so thanks for having me! Im about to invite hub to my next relate session to drop the bomb that I no longer wish for us to be married. Ive been with him fo ... 28 May 08, by em7609 Latest 28 May 08 by marriaa	Replies:1 :395	Latest by marriaa 28 May 08
Newbie on list Hi I'm in the first stages of my second divorce. My solicitor has still to receive petition from my husband's lawyer. I've agreed that he can ... 27 May 08, by uxornomore Latest 28 May 08 by jay9376	Replies:5 :768	Latest by jay9376 28 May 08
Recently separated and in need of some advice The reason for the seaparation briefly is that I suspected my wife of having an affair about 4 months ago. I confronted her and this led to her saying that she ... 27 May 08, by st3v3 Latest 28 May 08 by dawn1	Replies:1 :677	Latest by dawn1 28 May 08
Dumped after 11 years Hi every1. Just signed up to wiki after being left by my husband a week before our 11th Wedding anniversary. Ive got 5 kids & it came as a total shock. As f ... 27 May 08, by LadyAquarius Latest 27 May 08 by daisygreen	Replies:1 :687	Latest by daisygreen 27 May 08
introduce myself and my dilemma This is liqin, 26,new for this forum. I am not married yet but I am experiencing a similar situation:I am wondering whether to break up with my current girl ... 27 May 08, by loveliqin Latest 27 May 08 by rubytuesday	Replies:3 :513	Latest by rubytuesday 27 May 08
want to leave but ..... Hello everyone, Another newbie here. I've been married nearly 8 years but I'm pretty much at the end of my tether, however its my 2 sons that keep me ... 26 May 08, by moose2 Latest 26 May 08 by emma b	Replies:4 :614	Latest by emma b 26 May 08
Introducing myself & situation and inviting commen What can I say, I fell in love with someone who was using box ticking to select a husband and father. I ticked the right boxes and she seduced me. She made out ... 08 May 08, by Hammersley1965 Latest 26 May 08 by Goofyfoot	Replies:4 :622	Latest by Goofyfoot 26 May 08
I'm so confused - 26 and heading for divorce! Hi I left my husband about 5 months ago, I feel like such a fraud on here though, I look at everyone else's problems and feel like I don't deserve to f ... 24 May 08, by Lea_26 Latest 26 May 08 by HAL	Replies:4 :595	Latest by HAL 26 May 08
what a mess Hi, im new to website still learning the ropes. Just before xmas I found out my husband was having an affair with a girl 28 years younger than me who i used t ... 26 May 08, by JJ49 Latest 26 May 08 by greenfrog	Replies:1 :405	Latest by greenfrog 26 May 08
Legal separation or Divorce?? Hi everyone, I am new hear and thought I would introduce myself and hopefully gain some much needed advice. I was married for 12 years and my ... 25 May 08, by weepeople Latest 25 May 08 by Elle	Replies:2 :637	Latest by Elle 25 May 08
Hi, Im new and lost on what to do. Hi. I will try and make a long story short. I have been in a relationshi ... 25 May 08, by lost34 Latest 25 May 08 by rueluck	Replies:3 :504	Latest by rueluck 25 May 08
Looking for support Hi, this could be a long drawn out message. My husband of 32 years has been having an affair for over four years. He did confess to this over 3 years ago pro ... 24 May 08, by mrsonmyown Latest 24 May 08 by megan 1 2	Replies:8 :1106	Latest by megan 24 May 08
Hello - advice needed please Hi, my name is Carole and I live in the North West (UK), and am 45 with one son (14). I wondered if anyone can give me any advice, I have been divorced ... 24 May 08, by MT1 Latest 24 May 08 by MT1	Replies:2 :446	Latest by MT1 24 May 08
Newbie Here Hi All, i have been with my partner for 4 years, he has been seperated for 5years and divorced for just under 4. he has 2 children who are 8 and 6 we are cu ... 24 May 08, by xhxsx Latest 24 May 08 by Not here now 1 2	Replies:7 :1291	Latest by Not here now 24 May 08
help Hi Im new to this and feel lost Im 37 years old and looks like Im losing my marriage. Mu husband is violent and in denial and its never going to get better. I ... 24 May 08, by sweetbaby Latest 24 May 08 by marriaa	Replies:4 :522	Latest by marriaa 24 May 08
Property and divorce Hi, I am a property developer and landlady, I have run the business with my daughter for over 4 1/2 years. we now have 30 properties that are rented out. 23 May 08, by dawn1 Latest 23 May 08 by Elle	Replies:1 :432	Latest by Elle 23 May 08
Splitting of Marital Assets and Inheritance Hi Everyone, This is my first time on here and I have lots of questions that I wonder if you could advise me on! First a little bit of history ... 22 May 08, by Sunshinedays Latest 23 May 08 by sicofit 1 2	Replies:7 :1745	Latest by sicofit 23 May 08
What do I do now??!! Hi all - am new to this site today and am looking for some advice since I am sure my solicitor thinks I am just a complete control freak/nuisance!!! My ... 23 May 08, by charlieh Latest 23 May 08 by charlieh	Replies:4 :598	Latest by charlieh 23 May 08
**** just a quick warning ****** just a quick warning, looks like the spammers are doing the rounds again,(This email address is being protected ... 23 May 08, by Not here now Latest 23 May 08 by megan	Replies:1 :445	Latest by megan 23 May 08
trying to find a way to deal with joint debt My divorce was finalised a year and half ago, it was no big loss I accepted that the marriage was over about a year or so before we agreed to divorce. we have b ... 21 May 08, by BABYCAKES78 Latest 22 May 08 by downAndOutInParisLondon	Replies:2 :748	Latest by downAndOutInParisLondon 22 May 08
divorced and with a divorcing partner! Hi - divorced many years ago (when all the laws were very different), moved to another area of the country and my 2 children are now at uni. I co-habit with my ... 22 May 08, by janjak Latest 22 May 08 by Fiona	Replies:1 :419	Latest by Fiona 22 May 08
introduction Hello, I've been reading the site for a while as a guest and found it really helpful and full of useful advice especially for people like me who just c ... 22 May 08, by rowanswood Latest 22 May 08 by Elle	Replies:2 :371	Latest by Elle 22 May 08
Hello, new member and a bit shocked to be here Hi there, I am still a bit shocked to find that my wife of 10 years wants to divorce me, wants me to move out of our home but still support her as I do now. ... 21 May 08, by coping so far Latest 21 May 08 by marriaa	Replies:3 :545	Latest by marriaa 21 May 08
Never thought I would be here! This is my first time writing on the forum, and my breathing is difficult, my eyes are filling with tears, and I think I need to run. My husband of 42 ... 20 May 08, by oldgreymare Latest 21 May 08 by marriaa	Replies:6 :563	Latest by marriaa 21 May 08
Brief Introduction Hi everyone, I'm new to the site, just registered this evening. My husband said in January that he wanted us to divorce, sell the house etc etc. Having spen ... 21 May 08, by blodwyn Latest 21 May 08 by rasher	Replies:2 :429	Latest by rasher 21 May 08
Scottish law Hi, Egberts here, because I like the coffee? I am new to the site and a first time user. Can any one help with Scottish law. The divorce guide is very ... 20 May 08, by egberts Latest 21 May 08 by Fiona	Replies:4 :724	Latest by Fiona 21 May 08
Hopefully I won't be hated because of this post. I've been looking for advice on the whole divorce area and hopefully I've found the right place. I'll give you the story so far. It's really long for ... 20 May 08, by reingold22 Latest 20 May 08 by mrsnomore	Replies:3 :624	Latest by mrsnomore 20 May 08
Hello, I'm new Here is a link to my problem/question 19 May 08, by scatterbrain Latest 19 May 08 by scatterbrain	Replies:2 :466	Latest by scatterbrain 19 May 08
What men/women do that make you scream Can I ask for your help please! I need some input for my new book - what makes you scream about the opposite sex. I can guess some of the answers, but to make ... 17 May 08, by BreakupAngelsJackie Latest 19 May 08 by BreakupAngelsJackie 1 2 3 4	Replies:24 :2581	Latest by BreakupAngelsJackie 19 May 08

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