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Husband has left for younger woman Hi all, this is my first time at this but thought I'd give it a go like ... 11 Jun 08, by nixxy Latest 11 Jun 08 by phoenix1 1 2	Replies:9 :1772	Latest by phoenix1 11 Jun 08
First Post - terrified! Hi, We've been married for 8 yrs & after 3 years of threatening, I have finally had enough & am about to file for divorce. A lot of unpleasant h ... 11 Jun 08, by CazzerM Latest 11 Jun 08 by Pundit	Replies:1 :448	Latest by Pundit 11 Jun 08
Where do I begin...!? Hello all.. Well, what a site..! so much to take in. a bit daunting.. my situation is; I have been separated since Oct 2006 and the 4 children live wit ... 10 Jun 08, by Weeble Latest 11 Jun 08 by redoctober	Replies:2 :700	Latest by redoctober 11 Jun 08
Feeling Bereaved My husband (15yrs cohabiting in marital home, 8 married, 2 children) has recently announced he wants to separate. He has been working abroad for 18mths after ta ... 10 Jun 08, by bluesky Latest 11 Jun 08 by bluesky 1 2	Replies:12 :1351	Latest by bluesky 11 Jun 08
I can't be the only one I'm going through a divorce now and it's something that I've wanted to happen for years... I just never thought it would be this vicious or stressful. I met ... 10 Jun 08, by NiallS Latest 10 Jun 08 by redoctober	Replies:1 :817	Latest by redoctober 10 Jun 08
Hi everyone Just found this site and appreciate the wealth of information and advice. Nothing beats hearing peoples real life experience. Have split from long term ... 10 Jun 08, by lemoncake Latest 10 Jun 08 by rubytuesday	Replies:1 :557	Latest by rubytuesday 10 Jun 08
Hello Hi I am Claudette and I have just joined this site. I just turned 30 and I have been separated from stbx since January. I filed for divorce which sho ... 09 Jun 08, by Claymic78 Latest 10 Jun 08 by Dadsrus	Replies:5 :491	Latest by Dadsrus 10 Jun 08
HELLO I am new to the site and after reading some of the forums i can totally relate to a lot of people. I am in what my hubby calls a trial seperation. He moved out ... 10 Jun 08, by JUE35 Latest 10 Jun 08 by JUE35	Replies:6 :498	Latest by JUE35 10 Jun 08
Hi - new member Hi All I found your forum browsing the net for some support around divorce, and I already feel it has helped me a lot. It's good to know that I'm not ... 10 Jun 08, by Sun 13 Latest 10 Jun 08 by lpfour	Replies:1 :428	Latest by lpfour 10 Jun 08
Hello All Hi all Newbie here. Have been a regular hoverer on the site for about 2 months, however, now feel confident and strong enough to come out of the sh ... 10 Jun 08, by Still_Happy Latest 10 Jun 08 by IKNOWNOW	Replies:2 :647	Latest by IKNOWNOW 10 Jun 08
aahhh! what do I do Hi all, Find myself in this awful situation. I have been with hubby for 8 years have 2 children, 7 and 5 year old. My husband is a compulsive gambler a ... 10 Jun 08, by cantplaynomore Latest 10 Jun 08 by IKNOWNOW	Replies:1 :567	Latest by IKNOWNOW 10 Jun 08
First post Just saying "hello" Got divorced nearly a year ago ,but the finances aren't sorted yet . Sat in a very miserable prison cell , sorry , 1 bedroom f ... 09 Jun 08, by sealion Latest 10 Jun 08 by jay9376	Replies:3 :752	Latest by jay9376 10 Jun 08
Not sure I should be here Hello I have been married for 13 yrs and we have 3 daughters. The middle child is severely disabled. I have had a lot of hard times in this ma ... 09 Jun 08, by Brigid100 Latest 09 Jun 08 by hadenoughnow 1 2	Replies:9 :1303	Latest by hadenoughnow 09 Jun 08
Intro Hi there I came online in search of support groups for people in my position and I came across this site, which is brilliant IMHO. I'm 28, rec ... 09 Jun 08, by DublinGirlFriday Latest 09 Jun 08 by marriaa	Replies:3 :482	Latest by marriaa 09 Jun 08
Is there life after divorce?????????? Hello all, am new to this internet communication. The ex would never have allowed such freedom. I separated in September 2007 after hitting "rock bottom&q ... 08 Jun 08, by bethan Latest 09 Jun 08 by rubytuesday	Replies:5 :587	Latest by rubytuesday 09 Jun 08
Im not sure Yes ive filed for divorce from my husband of 18 years. But now im not sure?. I think i still love him. We were good together. ... 09 Jun 08, by janeyleeds Latest 09 Jun 08 by rubytuesday	Replies:2 :604	Latest by rubytuesday 09 Jun 08
Going through hell! Hi - I am 41 and married with two boys aged 15 and 11. My story starts when my husband took a job in China on a year's contract. He had been made redundant fo ... 08 Jun 08, by linda.c Latest 09 Jun 08 by wonderwoman 1 2	Replies:7 :1187	Latest by wonderwoman 09 Jun 08
Just seperated. w kids from in and out of marriage Hi, Walked out on my wife after 18 yrs. Married for 8 yrs. We have 6 yr old and I have a 4 yr old from an affair that lasted 2 years. We had a years co ... 08 Jun 08, by Diddles Latest 08 Jun 08 by 2xfoolish	Replies:2 :441	Latest by 2xfoolish 08 Jun 08
After 20 years of Marriage Having felt concerned about my relationship with my wife for some time i finally found the courage to ask her what her feeling were towards me. She sai ... 08 Jun 08, by Paddy2808 Latest 08 Jun 08 by Daisy049	Replies:4 :857	Latest by Daisy049 08 Jun 08
hello all Thought I'd say hello story starts; with soon to be ex for 7 years, living together before we got married a year and a half ago, paid all bills worked a ... 02 Jun 08, by nozzer Latest 08 Jun 08 by Daisy049 1 2	Replies:7 :1070	Latest by Daisy049 08 Jun 08
Just starting Hi, just starting down the yellow brick road to divorce, know its the right thing to do but oh my God, so many emotions!!!!!!! Is it just me or am I going m ... 07 Jun 08, by wonderwoman Latest 08 Jun 08 by wonderwoman	Replies:6 :602	Latest by wonderwoman 08 Jun 08
Hello! Advice needed! Hi, im Mandy, i have been divorced 7 years now but had no financial settlement and have now been informed i can make a claim. Any advice on where in th ... 05 Jun 08, by mlwigmore Latest 05 Jun 08 by D L	Replies:1 :480	Latest by D L 05 Jun 08
Hi, I'm new, be kind lol Hi all, I'm new, my husband walked out 3 weeks ago leaving 3 children, I'm struggling to cope with the stuff he's done but struggling even more to come to terms ... 05 Jun 08, by feelingsad Latest 05 Jun 08 by feelingsad	Replies:3 :409	Latest by feelingsad 05 Jun 08
children? i have three children aged 16, 12, and eighteen months, the eldest is living with my ex 200 miles away, problem is that he is trying to get my 12 yr old daughte ... 05 Jun 08, by doomandgloom	Replies:0 :549
Wife decided that it was over Hi,I'm new to the whole thing, my wife told me 6 weeks ago that she want ... 05 Jun 08, by Geordie2 Latest 05 Jun 08 by mike62	Replies:1 :363	Latest by mike62 05 Jun 08
Life in General Hi joined for chat and info. Going through divorce and husband who left me for my best friend is not playing ball. Whoever said the women take the men to the ... 05 Jun 08, by ghosthunter Latest 05 Jun 08 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :525	Latest by Marshy_ 05 Jun 08
Divorce is easy. CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL THE KIDS WHO WERE BORN IN THE 1920's, 30's 40's, 50's, 60's and 70's !! First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked ... 04 Jun 08, by DIY Divorce Latest 04 Jun 08 by DIY Divorce	Replies:5 :604	Latest by DIY Divorce 04 Jun 08
hello all I'm new My husband told me 3 weeks ago that he's having an affair then he left. he's put the house on the market. we've been married 16 months we have 2 children aged 8 ... 03 Jun 08, by rose3436 Latest 04 Jun 08 by D L 1 2	Replies:9 :1092	Latest by D L 04 Jun 08
new kid on the block He there just thought I would introduce myeslf. I had a child when I was married, the relationship broke down , I felt as though our relationship wasn't working ... 25 May 08, by rueluck Latest 04 Jun 08 by rasher	Replies:4 :578	Latest by rasher 04 Jun 08
Hello, I am new here Hello everyone. I am new to the site, and thought I would introduce myself. I am a 30yo man who is getting a divorce after just two years of marriage. If you ... 03 Jun 08, by soon2bex Latest 03 Jun 08 by mrsnomore	Replies:1 :523	Latest by mrsnomore 03 Jun 08
Story so far After a painful period of time, i left my wife last october. Lodging with a friend ever since. In january i met someone else and subsequently she is petitioning ... 02 Jun 08, by cheltonian Latest 03 Jun 08 by Shezi	Replies:1 :520	Latest by Shezi 03 Jun 08
meet up in Manchester Hi all, For the northern contingent have been asked try and organise a meet up in Manchester. To guage interest please post here, and will ... 24 May 08, by mishmine Latest 03 Jun 08 by Mistral55 1 2 3 4	Replies:24 :3438	Latest by Mistral55 03 Jun 08
My situ Probably posting in the wrong place. Sorry. My situation in a nutshell is wife has fallen out of love with me. Haven't told the kids yet(6 & 9). This W/E pr ... 02 Jun 08, by bats Latest 03 Jun 08 by Vail	Replies:3 :471	Latest by Vail 03 Jun 08
Separation good evening I am considering separating from my marriage after 18 years. My problem is my husband refuses to leave the house adn refuses to sign a leg ... 02 Jun 08, by unhappylady Latest 03 Jun 08 by mike62	Replies:3 :714	Latest by mike62 03 Jun 08
Hi Hello everyone. ... 02 Jun 08, by midnight56 Latest 02 Jun 08 by CrusaderGirl	Replies:4 :498	Latest by CrusaderGirl 02 Jun 08
i'm new hello everyone stumbled on this site when I was trying to look up some of the timescales for how long various aspects of a divorce can take. I've found ... 01 Jun 08, by maude Latest 02 Jun 08 by maude	Replies:5 :693	Latest by maude 02 Jun 08
Hello Everyone! Hi, I've been married nearly 19 years, have two children (daughter aged 15 and son aged 13) and it looks as though I'm heading for divorce. My husband ... 01 Jun 08, by Tey Latest 02 Jun 08 by hadenoughnow	Replies:3 :519	Latest by hadenoughnow 02 Jun 08
supporting role My partner is in the traumatic process of divorcing his alcoholic wife and I am trying to support him . I was nearly in the same position myself 3 years ago but ... 01 Jun 08, by Soulmate07	Replies:0 :399
Hello Bet you can't guess why I joined this forum! I don't know why I shou ... 01 Jun 08, by Soupdragon Latest 01 Jun 08 by Soupdragon	Replies:3 :554	Latest by Soupdragon 01 Jun 08
help... 2 babies, shared parenting? Financials? Hi, I don't know if there is anyone out there who wants to give me advice? In process of divorce and my ex is demanding joint residence of our 2 kids. 1 ... 31 May 08, by busybungle Latest 01 Jun 08 by IKNOWNOW 1 2	Replies:9 :1175	Latest by IKNOWNOW 01 Jun 08

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