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Child Support 1610 topics

Here you can discuss all aspects of child support, including child maintenance issues and your experience of the Child Support Agency.
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Saving money for Child
Hello Guys,

Anyone aware of what is best way to save money for the child for her future? Please note I am a NRP and child lives with ex.
What I wan ...
17 Feb 10, by NonMolest
Latest 17 Feb 10 by nbm1708
Replies:5
:400
Latest by nbm1708
17 Feb 10
have the money but dont want it to go to kids
Hi,

I was divorced about 15 years ago now when my twin girls were about 3 months old.

They are now coming up 15 and my ex is wanting me to pay ...
10 Nov 09, by dereknjan
Locked
Latest 14 Feb 10 by rubytuesday
Locked
Replies:98
:5473
Latest by rubytuesday
14 Feb 10
Child Support whilst at university
I divorced in 1996. There was a court order for my ex husband to pay monthly towards the costs of my 3 children. This was set to finish at the end of full tim ...
30 Jan 10, by Sharon Martin
Latest 13 Feb 10 by femellabates
Replies:2
:464
Latest by femellabates
13 Feb 10
How can this be right?
Hi all,
My ex is a very wealthy man, 2 huge houses, a few nice new cars...holidays all the time with his wife and THEIR child (he doesnt take the 2 children ...
30 Jan 10, by LouCheshire
Latest 12 Feb 10 by femellabates
Replies:10
:691
Latest by femellabates
12 Feb 10
Maintenance reduced if long distance relationship.
Hi Does anyone know if the nrp is able to reduce maintenance if they have to travel a long distance to see their children?
Bearing in mind my ex's geographi ...
12 Feb 10, by bevs
Latest 12 Feb 10 by jokerman
Replies:1
:443
Latest by jokerman
12 Feb 10
Payments from an overseas CSA
I have just heard that after a court order made in New Zealand my ex will have to make payments via the NZ CSA. I was wondering if there was anyone else out th ...
14 Dec 09, by rowdy
Latest 11 Feb 10 by reiner4
Replies:1
:353
Latest by reiner4
11 Feb 10
Varying my consent order and CSA
My consent order is now coming up to a year old and I'm looking for some advice and thoughts on a variation as things are really badly skewed.

I agreed ...
31 Dec 09, by alexanda
Latest 09 Feb 10 by alexanda
Replies:10
:973
Latest by alexanda
09 Feb 10
Starting child maintenance
Hi everyone!
Just looking for some advice. My STBX left the MH mid November and has moved into a rented house. He is still paying mortgage on our 2nd home i ...
07 Feb 10, by Lookto2012
Latest 07 Feb 10 by spooky
Replies:3
:336
Latest by spooky
07 Feb 10
Cohabiting and th CSA
Although my STBX had set up child support, I felt that in the future I didn't want to have to contact him for anything, and knew that we were entitled to more, ...
22 Jan 10, by Donelovinhim
Latest 02 Feb 10 by perrypower
Replies:6
:357
Latest by perrypower
02 Feb 10
Child Support?
My husband and I have been separated for 3 years, not divorced. We have a daughter of 5 years, he is english and I moved abroad to my country once we separated ...
31 Jan 10, by alexiasss
Latest 02 Feb 10 by alexiasss
Replies:3
:293
Latest by alexiasss
02 Feb 10
Stay at home Dads and child support
Advice please!
My husband and I are moving house soon due to a change of job on my part. He will not have a job in our new area, and due to exorbitant chil ...
27 Jan 10, by juttabeck
Latest 01 Feb 10 by juttabeck
Replies:4
:545
Latest by juttabeck
01 Feb 10
CSA - Salary Increase
Does anyone understand the CSA rules on changes in circumstances? If the NRP receives a salary increase which leads to an increase in the amount payable to the ...
22 Jan 10, by Meg11
Latest 31 Jan 10 by Meg11
Replies:2
:516
Latest by Meg11
31 Jan 10
CSA
Can anyone advise please?

For csa payments for self employed, is it calculated on full monies gained or monies after tax?

We have been paying ...
30 Jan 10, by tiredmum
Latest 31 Jan 10 by tiredmum
Replies:5
:403
Latest by tiredmum
31 Jan 10
CM in consent order -yes or no?
The long distance financial negotiations seem to be nearing an end, division of capital is agreed but STBX is talking about a certain amount of child maintenanc ...
30 Jan 10, by miffy1
Latest 30 Jan 10 by miffy1
Replies:2
:362
Latest by miffy1
30 Jan 10
30 Jan 10, by maggie
Replies:0
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Jacked in his job - avoiding payments ?
Hi Folks
4am and can't sleep....going through the divorce from hell and its making me ill.
Separated 2 years, divorce underway. STBX had been paying ma ...
22 Jan 10, by Camelia
Latest 28 Jan 10 by femellabates
Replies:2
:326
Latest by femellabates
28 Jan 10
Large Difference in Earnings/Income
Mother earns £18k
Father earns £45k

13 year old child has a 50:50 Shared Residence Order in place and Father currently pays £111 to the Mother.< ...
23 Jan 10, by BobbyTheBudgie
Latest 28 Jan 10 by femellabates
Replies:9
:763
Latest by femellabates
28 Jan 10
Ex living with working girlfriend
My ex has told me he will soon be moving in with his girlfriend. She has a full-time job, so will that affect the child maintenance?
I currently get £5 a w ...
23 Jan 10, by AnnoyedMummy
Latest 28 Jan 10 by femellabates
Replies:6
:543
Latest by femellabates
28 Jan 10
CSA....Is this right????
My ex husband stop paying child support in August. He lives with his girlfriend and rents out the house he owns. The girl at the estate agents that deals with t ...
26 Dec 09, by justm3x
Latest 28 Jan 10 by femellabates
Replies:12
:893
Latest by femellabates
28 Jan 10
Tertiary Education - PGCE
Hi

My husband has a court order that states he shall pay CM for his 2 children "until they attain the age of 17 or cease full time education (whic ...
24 Jan 10, by Hebe
Latest 26 Jan 10 by Hebe
Replies:4
:324
Latest by Hebe
26 Jan 10
why no c/s
why when i went to court for a/r did i not get advised about ex paying c/s,three kids and never ever got 1 penny,who is at fault my sol,my barister,the judge,i ...
25 Jan 10, by woodentop
Latest 25 Jan 10 by nbm1708
Replies:1
:353
Latest by nbm1708
25 Jan 10
variartion of consent order periodical payments
Does anyone know the process for someone to request the court to look at an application to vary periodical payments as set out in consent order more than 18 mo ...
18 Jan 10, by dlc1
Latest 18 Jan 10 by dlc1
Replies:12
:991
Latest by dlc1
18 Jan 10
Second wife
Hi,

My step-children visit regularly and my husband is very responsible about CSA (20% of his income) and spousal maintenance (SM) payments. Unfortunat ...
18 Jan 10, by DKWOH
Latest 18 Jan 10 by rubytuesday
Replies:2
:425
Latest by rubytuesday
18 Jan 10
Daughter living & supported by STBX
Hello, just joined forum although reading for months now. Very sorry to hear so many sad cases arising from divorce.

Thankfully my separation has been ...
17 Jan 10, by Jellytoo
Latest 17 Jan 10 by Jellytoo
Replies:4
:368
Latest by Jellytoo
17 Jan 10
help
i have no assets no morgage no money, i have a daughter over 18 in ft education married for 21 years and committed adultry. I have agreed £600 a month till dau ...
14 Jan 10, by styler
Latest 14 Jan 10 by saffron1968
Replies:1
:530
Latest by saffron1968
14 Jan 10
high and incorrect child support payments
Hi, I wonder if anyone call help! My husbands has always paid Child to support to his ex via attachment of earnings. Having recently gone through his huge pile ...
11 Jan 10, by melsywooh
Latest 11 Jan 10 by nbm1708
Replies:2
:427
Latest by nbm1708
11 Jan 10
Child Support with varying income
If maintenance for children is set by court based on income, but that income varies in subsequent years, (ie. company puts me on short time / gives me a bonus / ...
10 Jan 10, by JohnPC
Latest 11 Jan 10 by JohnPC
Replies:4
:348
Latest by JohnPC
11 Jan 10
Confidentiality
When we go to court re: child maintenance (am asking for more than the CSA say as they only take into account his wage and not his extensive other incomes) I am ...
09 Jan 10, by Maysie01
Latest 09 Jan 10 by Maysie01
Replies:4
:401
Latest by Maysie01
09 Jan 10
CSA, Contact, heaps of grief
Need some support from others that have been through this....Basically here's whats going on
Separated in 2007, husband was playing away, not divorced yet, ...
08 Dec 09, by Camelia
Latest 06 Jan 10 by Camelia
Replies:10
:718
Latest by Camelia
06 Jan 10
Consent order ?index linking
Not sure if index linking is what I mean! but what is the norm for terming consent orders to reflect increased wages or increased value of house?

XH ...
05 Jan 10, by Spiral
Replies:0
:337

Child Psychology and Their Needs
Hi All.

I have recently been aware that my daughter is displaying aggressive behaviour towards my ex wife. My ex has not mentioned this to me, other th ...
05 Jan 10, by Manwhocares
Latest 05 Jan 10 by Manwhocares
Replies:4
:334
Latest by Manwhocares
05 Jan 10
step child maintenance
hi i have been married 6 years and just found out he was cheating... he left and moved in with his girlfriend.. now my daughter has been brought up as his own a ...
04 Jan 10, by exwifey
Latest 04 Jan 10 by TBagpuss
Replies:1
:337
Latest by TBagpuss
04 Jan 10
Extending child support into adulthood?
My youngest child is 17 years old and has disabilities. She failed her level 2 course (GCSE level) at college as she floundered with the one hour in class help ...
02 Jan 10, by Maysie01
Latest 03 Jan 10 by Fiona
Replies:1
:359
Latest by Fiona
03 Jan 10
Second property CSA variation
Hi

I have a second property worth £150,000 which has no income (rental or any other business) nor the possibility of it generating any annual income i ...
16 Dec 09, by NigelH
Latest 02 Jan 10 by Warner
Replies:1
:445
Latest by Warner
02 Jan 10
What are my rights, X is like a financial spounge
Hello there,
I have been divorced for 5 years now, untill a month ago i had my eldest daughter (now 18) and she had the youngest (now 16)

The x wor ...
31 Dec 09, by Mullins
Latest 02 Jan 10 by Elle
Replies:19
:1245
Latest by Elle
02 Jan 10
Changing Child Support Payments
Hi,

I was divorced in 2001 and have been paying £400 in child support for a single child since then. The amount was verified in a consent order, which ...
28 Dec 09, by raafie01
Latest 30 Dec 09 by Sommer1
Replies:1
:330
Latest by Sommer1
30 Dec 09
CSA - POLICE exhusbands salary calc way wrong.
I have had to resort to using CSA. My Xhusband was paying mortgage til September when house was sold. I am now homeless living with sister and my 2 kids. My X ...
23 Dec 09, by cheatedon08
Latest 23 Dec 09 by cheatedon08
Replies:8
:1017
Latest by cheatedon08
23 Dec 09
Expat Status and Child Support Payments
I'm currently doing a trial psoting overseas in Sadi Arabia. I'm still on the UK payroll at the same salary, and subject to UK tax etc, so no change in CSA pay ...
19 Dec 09, by mcmalago
Replies:0
:480

Child Support
I have stopped receiving Child support from CSA 6 months ago and on contacting them they quote from her employer who happens to be a solicitor that her wages fa ...
17 Dec 09, by divad
Latest 17 Dec 09 by Fiona
Replies:6
:266
Latest by Fiona
17 Dec 09
Priorities
Hello, it's me again.

A moral issue I think more than anything else but I am in a situation where I want to apply to the CSA so that I can contribute t ...
17 Dec 09, by Nick_w79
Latest 17 Dec 09 by nbm1708
Replies:1
:292
Latest by nbm1708
17 Dec 09

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