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Hi Hello, am looking for advice and support to survive the mistakes I have made in life and how best to navigate them keeping my childrens best interests ... 19 Apr 09, by Agatha Latest 19 Apr 09 by Agatha	Replies:4 :205	Latest by Agatha 19 Apr 09
Money's too tight to mention! Hi New to this so here goes! Have been considering divorce for some years now. I don't know if my circumstances are unusual but we jointly own the marital ... 18 Apr 09, by Boudicca45 Latest 18 Apr 09 by Boudicca45	Replies:2 :252	Latest by Boudicca45 18 Apr 09
Introduction Hello.Am still feeling pretty raw - husband left 8 weeks ago after 26 years of marriage. Usual cliche - younger woman only she has two young children as well. W ... 18 Apr 09, by Louise58 Latest 18 Apr 09 by angeldust	Replies:3 :282	Latest by angeldust 18 Apr 09
partner leaving with my 18 month angel god this is hard, i have been with my partner for 11 years now and have a beautiful little girl. She has decided to leave the relationship, take my girl, then d ... 18 Apr 09, by uneasy Latest 18 Apr 09 by Fiona	Replies:2 :223	Latest by Fiona 18 Apr 09
Seperation Hi, Im married and find myself and wife on the verge of seperation aftr three years. we recently bought a house together which she has now moved out of. We have ... 18 Apr 09, by jetpilot Latest 18 Apr 09 by GuernseyGuy	Replies:3 :217	Latest by GuernseyGuy 18 Apr 09
Hello Hi there My husband walked out on myself and our 2 young children (then 5 and 3) in Dec 2006 having kept going missing, not coming home after work and ... 17 Apr 09, by kentgal Latest 18 Apr 09 by kentgal	Replies:3 :268	Latest by kentgal 18 Apr 09
Who am I ? Hmm I am introducing myself here, as a new member to the forums. Brief potted history, divorced many moons ago, looking back now I would say it was very nasty, ... 17 Apr 09, by J WW Latest 18 Apr 09 by Shezi	Replies:2 :316	Latest by Shezi 18 Apr 09
My brother Hi I am writing this on behalf of my brother who was told to leave the mat home 2 weeks b4 xmas, he is staying with my sister but his wife is playing on all his ... 17 Apr 09, by jde09 Latest 17 Apr 09 by jde09	Replies:2 :271	Latest by jde09 17 Apr 09
Wife HaAs Left Me And The Children Hi All, I am very new to this forum business but thought I would join in the hope that I could get some support and advice. I live in the UK a ... 16 Apr 09, by Brunswick Latest 17 Apr 09 by Shezi 1 2	Replies:11 :543	Latest by Shezi 17 Apr 09
Very easy to get married, so hard to get unmarried Marriage disaster - lasted less than 3 months. Very strong unreasonable behaviour grounds and he intends to contest me. ... 16 Apr 09, by mihral Latest 16 Apr 09 by Princess at Heart	Replies:1 :221	Latest by Princess at Heart 16 Apr 09
Clueless newbie, court on Friday 17th April! Help! stumbled across this site, was looking for info on what happens at ... 15 Apr 09, by 2youngones Latest 16 Apr 09 by 2youngones	Replies:2 :231	Latest by 2youngones 16 Apr 09
seperation hican anyone give any advice,i seperated in aug 2008 and left the family home in nov.i am in a flat on my own paying all the bills ect,including a large amount ... 15 Apr 09, by sirrom57 Latest 15 Apr 09 by Shezi	Replies:2 :211	Latest by Shezi 15 Apr 09
a hello Don't quite know what to put here... recently separated after 15 years together, 3 kids. She just decided she didn't want to be married to me anymore. She tells ... 15 Apr 09, by Bauer71 Latest 15 Apr 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:4 :242	Latest by dissapointed dad 15 Apr 09
son needs help i am on here because my son is seperated from his wife after his adultery but is at his wits end about his rights and i dont know how to advise him or help him. ... 14 Apr 09, by itsasin Latest 14 Apr 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :269	Latest by NellNoRegrets 14 Apr 09
and me too.... ....Hi, i'm going through this awful, painful, life-wrecking thing called divorce too! My husband of five years and partner of 15 years told me he wanted a div ... 13 Apr 09, by kitcat3 Latest 13 Apr 09 by kitcat3	Replies:2 :244	Latest by kitcat3 13 Apr 09
thought i would introduce myself from what i have read on this site already i feel it is going to be a good place to be. i have already posted in the depression and stress forum detail ... 13 Apr 09, by Jasken Latest 13 Apr 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:1 :254	Latest by dissapointed dad 13 Apr 09
would love some moral support!! hiya, im really looking for some advice and support, it would be great to find people who r going through simular circumstances ... 13 Apr 09, by enox69 Latest 13 Apr 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :268	Latest by NellNoRegrets 13 Apr 09
Hiya I've just joined this site. I was married 21 years, and my ex is now divorcing me for adultery even though we've been separated for 2.5 yrs. I ... 13 Apr 09, by bantam Latest 13 Apr 09 by dukey	Replies:2 :319	Latest by dukey 13 Apr 09
Hello? Hello - I just came across the site by chance, looking for some help, inspiration or just someone who know's what this feels like. My husband left last year aft ... 13 Apr 09, by Magnolia22 Latest 13 Apr 09 by yoy	Replies:1 :242	Latest by yoy 13 Apr 09
Newly seperated & here for friendly chat HI everyone....This is my first post after just finding this site.....I get a good vibe from the other posts so here goes. I was married for 23 years and my hus ... 13 Apr 09, by linda_g_n Latest 13 Apr 09 by Elle	Replies:1 :261	Latest by Elle 13 Apr 09
Another newbie here too ;-) Hi all Another one here who has had a nice surprise over Easter and I dont mean a large easter egg...my husband asked me for a divorce on Friday night. ... 12 Apr 09, by jenpen Latest 12 Apr 09 by startingagain09	Replies:3 :243	Latest by startingagain09 12 Apr 09
Hello...... Thought it would do me some good to put my situation down in black and white. Last week my husband decided to end our marriage and walked out on me and our DD, ... 12 Apr 09, by weeone Latest 12 Apr 09 by startingagain09	Replies:1 :302	Latest by startingagain09 12 Apr 09
name change In case you are wondering, I was calling myself Ann Onymous but decided to stop being paranoid. Nell ... 31 Aug 08, by NellNoRegrets Latest 12 Apr 09 by flower09	Replies:6 :333	Latest by flower09 12 Apr 09
Hi there Hi to everyone who uses this site. I only subscribed a few days ago and the messages of support have been great, thanks. I was married for 27 years, 3 ... 11 Apr 09, by Georgygirl Latest 11 Apr 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :328	Latest by NellNoRegrets 11 Apr 09
Hi all i'm new to all this even though i've been split up for nearly two years now. She has just decided to sort the financial things out, funnily enough its just befo ... 11 Apr 09, by sedge Latest 11 Apr 09 by dukey	Replies:3 :231	Latest by dukey 11 Apr 09
Hi All; Getting Used To On Here Part of the message is hidden for the guests. Please log in or register to see it. 11 Apr 09, by horse88 Latest 11 Apr 09 by dukey	Replies:3 :251	Latest by dukey 11 Apr 09
Hi from a newbie Hi everyone, Having spent the last couple of days roving round the site I thought it was about time I said 'hello' properly. I am currently co ... 09 Apr 09, by kayekay Latest 10 Apr 09 by dukey	Replies:5 :286	Latest by dukey 10 Apr 09
Hello There Hi everyone Have managed to do it !!! Divorced but stressed !! Have still got financial settlement to go through . Have quite a history and feel victim ... 10 Apr 09, by dasgirl Latest 10 Apr 09 by dukey	Replies:1 :249	Latest by dukey 10 Apr 09
Another newbie! Hello I'm new to all this and struggling with sleeping at the moments so have taken to browsing. I have been with my huband for 17 years from ... 10 Apr 09, by Adele Latest 10 Apr 09 by NellNoRegrets 1 2	Replies:11 :681	Latest by NellNoRegrets 10 Apr 09
Hello from a new guy Hi, glad I found this site/forum. I have to say after reading what some of you guy's and girls are going through makes my situation seem like a walk in the park ... 10 Apr 09, by Mad_Mazcan Latest 10 Apr 09 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :250	Latest by Marshy_ 10 Apr 09
Another newbie seeks advice on settlement wow great site and forum. I've been married for 8 years and am certain - and will get proof! - that my wife is having an affair. She's been frosty for over ... 10 Apr 09, by Ragley Latest 10 Apr 09 by Tets	Replies:1 :271	Latest by Tets 10 Apr 09
Hi My name is Peter, but that username was already taken My wife ... 10 Apr 09, by peters Latest 10 Apr 09 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :264	Latest by Marshy_ 10 Apr 09
I wish I didn't need to be here Hi, Like everybody else, I'm shocked and devastated. I've been married for over 20 years. My wife has just walked out on me to be with the lo ... 02 Apr 09, by smithp2 Latest 10 Apr 09 by peters 1 2	Replies:10 :595	Latest by peters 10 Apr 09
first post - Hello! Well, it seems that I'm in an early stage compared to most here. I'm in the "spouse is about to ask for a separation" phase. Here goes. 11 da ... 03 Apr 09, by Dadx4 Latest 07 Apr 09 by TommyK 1 2	Replies:8 :549	Latest by TommyK 07 Apr 09
read this please we need advice asap My Father and his long term partner of 27 years want to marry. She has terminal cancer:(. Before they met she was married in scotland to an Irish man. They have ... 06 Apr 09, by karenmarie Latest 07 Apr 09 by karenmarie	Replies:5 :242	Latest by karenmarie 07 Apr 09
Hi - New here Hi everybody, I'm a new member, live in Gloucestershire, currently looking at being divorced from my wife of 7 years, one 4 year old girl who I love dearly, ... 07 Apr 09, by Zimbo Latest 07 Apr 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :305	Latest by NellNoRegrets 07 Apr 09
Hi, I'm new here .... I am day 11 to finding out she is having an affair. She is spending the nights at his place, in the evening we take care of the kids as best we can. She looks m ... 06 Apr 09, by TommyK Latest 07 Apr 09 by Bobbinalong	Replies:5 :370	Latest by Bobbinalong 07 Apr 09
advice re matrimonial home hi just joined this and hoping to get some good sound advice. I was married years ago and have two children who are now 16 and 14. I met a new partner in 2003 a ... 06 Apr 09, by rol03	Replies:0 :238
it only lasted 5 months!!!! Where did it all go wrong? Married at the age of 25 and over at the aged of 26, my marriage only lasted 5 months and I¡¦m now living back home with the parent ... 06 Apr 09, by gap28 Latest 06 Apr 09 by gap28	Replies:5 :372	Latest by gap28 06 Apr 09
hi im new here just wanted to say hi. been seperated for 10 months and looking for some answers to questions and new friends ... 04 Apr 09, by sexyeyes Latest 06 Apr 09 by rustic	Replies:6 :248	Latest by rustic 06 Apr 09

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