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Seperating with step-children Well here I am, second marriage failed, you really would think that I would have learnt by now. Last time was reasonably amicable, helped by the fact t ... 26 Mar 09, by Bikesafe Latest 26 Mar 09 by Fiona	Replies:1 :276	Latest by Fiona 26 Mar 09
new user Hello, my name is enchanted and I have just found this forum. I have been divorced 2 years after 30 years of marriage. 25 Mar 09, by enchanted Latest 25 Mar 09 by smurfy	Replies:2 :304	Latest by smurfy 25 Mar 09
hi welcome to my nightmare so far! I have been married for three and half years and have two children the youngest being 3 months old. I met my husband about twelve years ago and we were friends ... 24 Mar 09, by anna28 Latest 25 Mar 09 by anna28	Replies:6 :285	Latest by anna28 25 Mar 09
Hi everyone Hi Help I am new to this. I am married myself and so is my current partner. My partner has 2 kids and I have none. He will be leaving his wife so we can live ... 25 Mar 09, by freedom72 Latest 25 Mar 09 by Elle	Replies:2 :250	Latest by Elle 25 Mar 09
Stuck My name is David, I am separating from my wife of nine years. We have 2 children, both boarding full-time. I live, perhaps at least previously, a comfortable l ... 21 Mar 09, by David09 Latest 23 Mar 09 by dukey	Replies:2 :205	Latest by dukey 23 Mar 09
A complicated mess Hi Just found this site and have had a read through some of the trauma you are going through If you don't mind I would like to get my story off my chest. 23 Mar 09, by biker dad Latest 23 Mar 09 by toyourhealth 1 2	Replies:8 :626	Latest by toyourhealth 23 Mar 09
newbie hi everyone,going through divorce was amicable now a little messy,need help and advice ... 23 Mar 09, by ajbenchboy Latest 23 Mar 09 by Shezi	Replies:3 :238	Latest by Shezi 23 Mar 09
Hello anyone Hi My brother recommended this site to me. I'm married & have been for almost 25 years. Last June I told my husband I didn't want to be togethe ... 23 Mar 09, by FinB	Replies:0 :218
21 and looking for a divorce Hi I'm Dee. I'm a mother to a wonderful little girl named CiCi. I hate to say it but my daughter is the only reason I got married. Her father and I were 18 when ... 23 Mar 09, by alias19 Latest 23 Mar 09 by Shezi	Replies:2 :256	Latest by Shezi 23 Mar 09
What it says on the tin..... Hi, I'm new here and hoping it will help me following my divorce and subsequently playing the role of non-resident parent to my eldest son, which I find particu ... 23 Mar 09, by sickandtired Latest 23 Mar 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :284	Latest by NellNoRegrets 23 Mar 09
I guess we all have a story Hi. my name is David and at 53 I find myself struggling with the technology and my situation. Not sure what to say and how to say it, so will just introduce m ... 22 Mar 09, by DWH99 Latest 22 Mar 09 by Shezi	Replies:3 :217	Latest by Shezi 22 Mar 09
Hi! I am new here, but I am glad I found someone who might understand what I have been going through. Thanks much for listening, Cindy 22 Mar 09, by snowtigercindy Latest 22 Mar 09 by YNK000	Replies:3 :242	Latest by YNK000 22 Mar 09
Getting divorce I have been married nearly 20 years and for the past 13 years of those have wanted out but stayed because of my children - PLEASE DO NOT DO THIS - children grow ... 21 Mar 09, by illene	Replies:0 :216
So glad to find you guys. Hi all. I'm currently in the process of starting a petition for divorce. I've been separated for over 2 years now and we have both had partners since. A ... 21 Mar 09, by liberated Latest 21 Mar 09 by liberated	Replies:4 :212	Latest by liberated 21 Mar 09
introdution hy people ... 21 Mar 09, by pascoa Latest 21 Mar 09 by angeldust	Replies:2 :208	Latest by angeldust 21 Mar 09
new to this Hi everyone, my name is adam, i am currently going through a seperation, due to my wife and friend/neighbour getting way to friendly, between the 2 families inv ... 20 Mar 09, by adamano Latest 20 Mar 09 by Lsot1	Replies:4 :224	Latest by Lsot1 20 Mar 09
Another stat for the forum hello all, i suppose this is the best part of the forum to bear my thoughts and story, will try not to bore you all, but it may turn out long. ... 19 Mar 09, by CantBhappening Latest 20 Mar 09 by startingagain09	Replies:4 :241	Latest by startingagain09 20 Mar 09
Australian Affair Hi Ive been married for 20 years 2 children. My wife started talking to someone on the internet who lived in Australia in September 2008, it started with emails ... 17 Mar 09, by onlyone Latest 19 Mar 09 by Elle	Replies:5 :255	Latest by Elle 19 Mar 09
Accept his draft petition? Hi my sister is in the process of getting divorced. He has pinned adultery on her and threw her out of their home. She's now living back with her pare ... 19 Mar 09, by supportivesister Latest 19 Mar 09 by GuernseyGuy	Replies:3 :288	Latest by GuernseyGuy 19 Mar 09
Getting there!! A new girl! Been divorced for a year. Main problem is lonliness. All my family are abroad, have my lovely dogs which keeps me in touch with my ex. Sill ... 19 Mar 09, by izzybizzy Latest 19 Mar 09 by izzybizzy	Replies:2 :257	Latest by izzybizzy 19 Mar 09
i need help hi im Matt, i was married for 15yrs got divorced last year, i have 2 kids both under 14 which i look after 3 days a week, my x wife is still in the fmh, with he ... 19 Mar 09, by mattone Latest 19 Mar 09 by mattone	Replies:2 :235	Latest by mattone 19 Mar 09
ello everyone Hello folks, never thought i'd be on a forum like this but then who does ... 19 Mar 09, by nicwolverine Latest 19 Mar 09 by nicwolverine	Replies:2 :265	Latest by nicwolverine 19 Mar 09
Gay husband Hi I have been married to a gay husband for 17 years!, yes unbelievable I found out about 6 years ago but he does not know that I know. I stayed with h ... 18 Mar 09, by spyra Latest 18 Mar 09 by mez	Replies:5 :430	Latest by mez 18 Mar 09
Feeling positive but scared Hi, just a quick intro. Made the decision to go for a divorce (will be my 2nd!). So feeling positive about my future in many ways. Looking ah ... 18 Mar 09, by herewegoagain22	Replies:0 :267
confused - not sure what to do Husband has said spark has gone after he had an affair and now I feel trapped in a lovless marriage as I can't bring myself to leave ... 16 Mar 09, by elliedill Latest 18 Mar 09 by Elle	Replies:1 :211	Latest by Elle 18 Mar 09
my head is spinning!! Well, i have finally done it and after 25 years and 4 children later, i have said that i am unhappy and not in love. That was so hard and now i am staying in a ... 13 Mar 09, by which direction man Latest 17 Mar 09 by NellNoRegrets 1 2	Replies:8 :637	Latest by NellNoRegrets 17 Mar 09
Help - at the end of my tether! Hi my name is Sophie and I am at my wits end. I am 44 years old and have been married to Andy since 2003. I have two children, Jake 22, and Sasha 18 from a prev ... 17 Mar 09, by sophiebentley Latest 17 Mar 09 by Itgetsbetter	Replies:3 :265	Latest by Itgetsbetter 17 Mar 09
yes, another new face hi all, just introducing myself on here. early stages i think, i still cannot believe this is happening, and how much the ex has changed. married for 16yrs ... 17 Mar 09, by fine Latest 17 Mar 09 by Puddytat	Replies:1 :254	Latest by Puddytat 17 Mar 09
it's so broken and can't be fixed hello unlike alot of people here I am the one who is looking to separate and here is my story .. married for 8 years with two children 3 and 6 ... 16 Mar 09, by islandm Latest 16 Mar 09 by rhiannon555	Replies:4 :287	Latest by rhiannon555 16 Mar 09
Im a newbie and at my wits end Hi I have been divorced over a year seperated for two. I have two lovely children 5 and 3. When i first split with ex he was reasonable good at hav ... 16 Mar 09, by MrsM Latest 16 Mar 09 by Fiona	Replies:1 :241	Latest by Fiona 16 Mar 09
Hi I'm new and would like some support Came across this site after me and my husband split in January he wants a divorce he told me recently it turns out now he doesn't want any children and I do whi ... 15 Mar 09, by Molly05 Latest 16 Mar 09 by smurfy 1 2	Replies:9 :620	Latest by smurfy 16 Mar 09
Control Freak Won't Move Out or The Turning Worm I have looked on here so many times and taken heaps of general advice and lots of comfort but now I think I need to ask for relevant experience. Severa ... 14 Mar 09, by NoReverseGear Latest 16 Mar 09 by mum23	Replies:2 :274	Latest by mum23 16 Mar 09
JUST SEPARATED NEED ADVICE SURPRISE SURPRISE Hi to all, My marriage of 5 years has come to an end (been together for 10).We have two children 10 and 4, we have decided to separate and I have obvio ... 14 Mar 09, by bigwills Latest 16 Mar 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:4 :280	Latest by dissapointed dad 16 Mar 09
Dont make same mistake I did Think this feels bit like therapy on here so am gonna let you all know how stupid I was. Split from fiance in early 2006 when discovered he he was pathological ... 10 Mar 09, by tango1967 Latest 16 Mar 09 by Elle 1 2 3	Replies:18 :897	Latest by Elle 16 Mar 09
LOL, seperated for 5 days & divorce started by him Hi, I left my marital home Friday of last week - I got the 1st letter of solicitor for start of proceedings, has only been 5 days....obviously I made the right ... 13 Mar 09, by paula2404 Latest 16 Mar 09 by M0407	Replies:5 :268	Latest by M0407 16 Mar 09
Hello - am separating and feeling a bit bruised Hi My husband and I decided to separate in January after six years. We have been together since the age of 17 and married at 19. We'd ha a few problems ... 13 Mar 09, by kittenboo Latest 13 Mar 09 by kittenboo	Replies:2 :247	Latest by kittenboo 13 Mar 09
I'm a little late lol Hey there,a friend of mine told me about this site so i thought i would join.Ive been divorced twice the last time was 6 years ago although we technicaaly seper ... 12 Mar 09, by butterfly40 Latest 13 Mar 09 by pink123	Replies:2 :285	Latest by pink123 13 Mar 09
recently separated (not married) - lots of issues Not sure where to start. partner and I separated sept 08. have daughter ... 28 Feb 09, by osprey1 Latest 12 Mar 09 by osprey1 1 2 3	Replies:18 :810	Latest by osprey1 12 Mar 09
Hello and help! Hello, I'v been readingthis forum for a few days and thought I'd sign up. My name's Ed, I'm 31 and about to file for divorce from my 33 year old wife. ... 14 Feb 09, by eddy123 Latest 12 Mar 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:5 :258	Latest by dissapointed dad 12 Mar 09
Hi, I'm new Hey everyone I hadn't seen this place before and it looks like just what I needed. I'm 35 (only just) and in the process of divorcing so I'm s ... 12 Mar 09, by Superkav Latest 12 Mar 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:3 :284	Latest by dissapointed dad 12 Mar 09

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