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I'm a newbie Just wanted to tell my story... Married 3years (together 8 1/2 yrs before that, 1 child (8wks old). Found out in Dec Hubbie was having an affair (sorry ... 13 May 09, by Lilypink Latest 13 May 09 by shadow	Replies:3 :273	Latest by shadow 13 May 09
Feeling lost and confused Hi I'm new here. Been married fairly happily, or so I thought, for just over 18 years and have 3 lovely boys with my husband and a daughter from a previous rela ... 12 May 09, by superleeds442 Latest 13 May 09 by Itgetsbetter	Replies:4 :255	Latest by Itgetsbetter 13 May 09
advice needed re managing difficult divorce I am 36 yrs old, married for 14 yrs with 2 children. He left the marital home 7 mths ago and is now living with the other woman, although she's only his landla ... 13 May 09, by jane eyre 72 Latest 13 May 09 by hadenoughnow	Replies:5 :296	Latest by hadenoughnow 13 May 09
New here & don't know what to do Hi everyone, I'm new here found this the other day and thought I'd join - think I'm going to need your advice... I'm 24, married for nearly 3 years ... 09 May 09, by crossroads Latest 13 May 09 by mickwilz 1 2	Replies:7 :592	Latest by mickwilz 13 May 09
Confused Hi, It will soon be my 8th wedding aniversary but me and my husband are in the process of seperating. He instigated this when he told me he still care ... 11 May 09, by nadi.ag Latest 13 May 09 by Claymic78	Replies:4 :208	Latest by Claymic78 13 May 09
Re-introducing Myself and I need some advice. Afternoon All, As some of you know my wife left me and my two boy's (13 & 15) very recently and without much notice. We were together 18 yrs. T ... 08 May 09, by Brunswick Latest 13 May 09 by fridage	Replies:3 :279	Latest by fridage 13 May 09
Maintenance Hi, I and my wife have been married about 16 months and we are living in Scotland. We are separation and I been moved out from the house since 20 April 2009, we ... 10 May 09, by andrewchoy Latest 13 May 09 by Elle	Replies:1 :302	Latest by Elle 13 May 09
I'm a newbie Hi i'm a newbie and very confused and feeling very low so will be asking lots of questions. I seperated in January with a view to getting back together - it wo ... 12 May 09, by loopy67 Latest 12 May 09 by startingagain09 1 2	Replies:9 :492	Latest by startingagain09 12 May 09
Court orders Hi folks This web site is new to me so i`m feeling my way a bit.Firstly,i`ve been divorced for about seven years and have two boys from that marriage ag ... 11 May 09, by Marky Mark Latest 11 May 09 by Fiona	Replies:3 :235	Latest by Fiona 11 May 09
New here, Hi! Hi there, I'm a 34 year old mum to 3 kids and myself and my husband are now seperated but due to finances we are still having to share a home for the t ... 10 May 09, by pollywog Latest 11 May 09 by Elle	Replies:2 :243	Latest by Elle 11 May 09
I'm new! Hello, Thought that I would introduce myself. I'm Laura, 34, separated from my husband a couple of months ago. Things have moved fast, I've moved ... 09 May 09, by laura34 Latest 10 May 09 by muchtoomuch 1 2	Replies:8 :552	Latest by muchtoomuch 10 May 09
new here - hi Hi everyone I'm new here, very green behind the ears where divorce is concerned. I've been married nearly 13 years, have a child of 4 and have left my ... 09 May 09, by escaped Latest 09 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :391	Latest by NellNoRegrets 09 May 09
What can I expect My story is a complicated one and I dont think going into the nitty gritty would be of any use. Basically, when my wife left me she took away both of t ... 08 May 09, by wej Latest 09 May 09 by wej	Replies:2 :256	Latest by wej 09 May 09
Hello I thought its time I introduced myself ... 09 May 09, by tonyjeffs Latest 09 May 09 by rasher	Replies:5 :264	Latest by rasher 09 May 09
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Heads Or Tails Its The Legal People Who Will Win Good Day (or as good as it can be as from some of the posts I have read I can feel there is a lot of pain and distress out there). My long ter ... 04 May 09, by Remi Latest 07 May 09 by YNK000	Replies:2 :210	Latest by YNK000 07 May 09
Any thoughts? Hello to everyone..... Two daughters (14 and 11), mortgage, wife and daughter in family home Since moving out last February I have continued t ... 07 May 09, by bigmick Latest 07 May 09 by moodybird	Replies:2 :231	Latest by moodybird 07 May 09
Hello Hi, What an amazing site, what a joy to find. I've been teetering on the edge of calling it a day with my wife for months, no years now, and finall ... 06 May 09, by Biscuits Latest 07 May 09 by FabDad	Replies:6 :267	Latest by FabDad 07 May 09
Introducing myself Hi all, daunting, scary, emotional yet liberating to be divorcing my stbx! Had been togther with my stbx from the age of 17 for 14 years and I have 3 c ... 06 May 09, by Danson Latest 07 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:4 :428	Latest by NellNoRegrets 07 May 09
Divorce and Clean Break I was recently divorced back in February. I have a 11 year old son who I love greatly. My wife bought my half of the home at a reduced rate and in turn I took o ... 03 May 09, by Dazbop Latest 07 May 09 by Elle	Replies:1 :255	Latest by Elle 07 May 09
Hi Hi all I have never posted in such forum before but something drew me here. ... 06 May 09, by ciscokid Latest 07 May 09 by Elle	Replies:5 :228	Latest by Elle 07 May 09
A quick hello - I'm gonna need you! Hi all, I've been lurking for about a week, and a lot of what I read makes me cry or smile. I never knew there was so much trouble in peoples lives, but somehow ... 05 May 09, by forward Latest 06 May 09 by forward 1 2 3	Replies:14 :801	Latest by forward 06 May 09
Moving On My husband moved into another womans house 3 1/2 months ago. The woman was a friend and neighbour and still having them living up the road is torture, having ... 04 May 09, by DogLost Latest 05 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:4 :287	Latest by NellNoRegrets 05 May 09
Hello Where do I start? So much to say. I will start with a big Hello. ... 05 May 09, by Tenere Latest 05 May 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:3 :226	Latest by dissapointed dad 05 May 09
Hello Hello, Not sure where to start really as feel abit numb by whole separation situation. I've been married for 22 years (with him for 25)and have 5 year ... 03 May 09, by slowrunner Latest 05 May 09 by slowrunner	Replies:6 :292	Latest by slowrunner 05 May 09
Hello! My wife just told me shes filing for divorce! i'm kinda shocked because we have got three very small children. But its a complicated story!!I have no idea what ... 02 May 09, by gazman Latest 05 May 09 by TUFKAB	Replies:3 :290	Latest by TUFKAB 05 May 09
Still might not happen Hi im new to all this still hoping my divorce wont happen and he will come to his senses:) However havent seen him since Thursday dont know where he is but as a ... 04 May 09, by october08 Latest 04 May 09 by SadJen	Replies:3 :276	Latest by SadJen 04 May 09
Living hell Hi,my name is Mick, I have been looking through the postings to see if I can make sense of my own situation, and I am beginning to realize that the position ... 24 Apr 09, by mickwilz Latest 04 May 09 by TUFKAB 1 2 3	Replies:16 :968	Latest by TUFKAB 04 May 09
Any advice would be welcome I have a dear friend. We grew up together as war orphans, on leaving the orphanage at age sixteen, she fell pregnant, frightened of the Social Welfare she marr ... 04 May 09, by Junemarie Latest 04 May 09 by saffron1968	Replies:1 :231	Latest by saffron1968 04 May 09
Introducing myself Cheshu Hi I'm Cheshu I'm a 48 year old bloke, I live in Hertfordshire and am separated after 15 years of marriage, and I have a Teenage daughter.I'm living on my own n ... 03 May 09, by cheshu Latest 04 May 09 by cheshu	Replies:5 :246	Latest by cheshu 04 May 09
Introducing myself Hi, Just a quick note to introduce myself. Been married and divorced twice, last time in 1999. Both times very different circumstances, very d ... 03 May 09, by AmberLady Latest 03 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :247	Latest by NellNoRegrets 03 May 09
Does it get any easier I'm a few months into this divorce but the paperwork is doing my head in..the Means 1 form is a nightmare...and as for having to respond to stupid letters from ... 03 May 09, by SMF Latest 03 May 09 by SMF	Replies:2 :274	Latest by SMF 03 May 09
Hi there I just wondered if there are any nice ladies out there that would like a nice new husband! My main requirement is that you will have to actually love m ... 01 May 09, by coconuts Latest 03 May 09 by NellNoRegrets 1 2	Replies:9 :592	Latest by NellNoRegrets 03 May 09
saying hi Its odd having to introduce yourself in a forum that you wish you didnt have to be in but you need. I am divorcing my husband on grounds of unreasonable behavio ... 01 May 09, by rosiecrocodile Latest 03 May 09 by ThrowingMuse 1 2	Replies:7 :609	Latest by ThrowingMuse 03 May 09
Lonely and sad Hi everyone. I am going through a difficult time at the moment and can't seem to see through the darkness. I feel alone and sad and wonder why I let my ... 30 Apr 09, by oddsocks Latest 01 May 09 by oddsocks 1 2 3	Replies:14 :721	Latest by oddsocks 01 May 09
Here's DazBob.... Hello my name is Darren, and I was married for 15 years..... I had been thinking about divorce for the last 3 years, but always putting my childrens happine ... 01 May 09, by Dazbob13 Latest 01 May 09 by Angel557	Replies:5 :258	Latest by Angel557 01 May 09
I know I'm doing the right thing. I think. ... 29 Apr 09, by jm2009 Latest 01 May 09 by jm2009	Replies:4 :227	Latest by jm2009 01 May 09
New to this! Hi, First of all I am a bit scared, I have recently been looking on this site to make myself not feel so alone! My husband left 9 months ago. I have a 2 year ol ... 30 Apr 09, by daybyday Latest 30 Apr 09 by mistyeyed 1 2	Replies:9 :496	Latest by mistyeyed 30 Apr 09
Advice please? My partner left his wife and the divorce is imminent. My being in his life contributed to his final decision to leave but the marriage was not good for sometim ... 30 Apr 09, by Clarissa Latest 30 Apr 09 by Marshy_	Replies:3 :251	Latest by Marshy_ 30 Apr 09
new member just thought i would say hi just joined this site looks like it could be very helpful. I have decided to get separated from husband and am finding it difficult ... 29 Apr 09, by Ginalf7 Latest 30 Apr 09 by Muppetbigstyle	Replies:3 :241	Latest by Muppetbigstyle 30 Apr 09

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