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Question Hello, In Oct. 2007, I signed a Marital Dissolution Agreement just to make my husband leave me alone about it.....he had a girlfriend at the time (out- ... 29 Apr 09, by Beaty	Replies:0 :196
Re-introducing myself Hi there Just re-joined the site after some time as its now time to move forward and finally get the divorce sorted. I separated in Oct 2007, ... 27 Apr 09, by Camelia Latest 29 Apr 09 by Marshy_	Replies:3 :279	Latest by Marshy_ 29 Apr 09
am i being too critical? Hi Peeps it just struck me how may disabled Peeps there are here - I was just wondering if there is a correlation between leaving someone who is disabl ... 28 Apr 09, by dissapointed dad Latest 28 Apr 09 by dissapointed dad 1 2 3	Replies:20 :804	Latest by dissapointed dad 28 Apr 09
Hi to all of you Hi to all of you, I am also new to this forum and first of all I want to say that I like this forum very much. Everyone is so caring in this forum. The ... 28 Apr 09, by henriettaM.03 Latest 28 Apr 09 by planecrazy	Replies:2 :233	Latest by planecrazy 28 Apr 09
New member Hi, i,m new to this site and wanted to say hi. 18 Apr 09, by butterbean Latest 28 Apr 09 by planecrazy 1 2	Replies:7 :563	Latest by planecrazy 28 Apr 09
Bear with me...huge weight of my shoulders!!! Oh god I need to say this to someone... This is so hard to type and has taken so long for me to realise that I need help... The guilt I feel i ... 26 Apr 09, by Muppetbigstyle Latest 28 Apr 09 by planecrazy	Replies:4 :256	Latest by planecrazy 28 Apr 09
Introduction Hi everyone, I am Hannah and left a violent relationship last year, I am not going through a divorce but have a daughter and we are currently in legal proceedin ... 26 Apr 09, by anotherinnocentgirl Latest 27 Apr 09 by marykate	Replies:3 :232	Latest by marykate 27 Apr 09
New to the forum, seeking help advice and support Hi my storey in brief follows: I have been married for some 12/13 years and after seperating last Christmas, it was unfortunate timing for our two wond ... 27 Apr 09, by GothGirl Latest 27 Apr 09 by GothGirl 1 2	Replies:7 :517	Latest by GothGirl 27 Apr 09
Hi, I'm new here. I thought I posted before, but I must not have. This seems like a really nice community. I've read some other posts. I'm having problems making this marriage ... 27 Apr 09, by Fragile Latest 27 Apr 09 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :237	Latest by Marshy_ 27 Apr 09
Why did I do this??? It's taken me all day to pluck up the courage to write this. As a woman it feels very difficult. Last july my Husband discovered i had been seeing another m ... 25 Apr 09, by planecrazy Latest 27 Apr 09 by planecrazy 1 2	Replies:9 :514	Latest by planecrazy 27 Apr 09
Seperating after only 10 months of being married Not sure where to start. My husband has decided after only being married to me for approximately 10 months that he wanted to end the relationship. His timing ... 26 Apr 09, by Twinny Latest 27 Apr 09 by Fragile	Replies:3 :282	Latest by Fragile 27 Apr 09
Confused Hi, I'm 32 years old, have a daughter who is 2 and am going through a divorce. I felt my marriage was over way beofre I told my husband I no longer loved him. 25 Apr 09, by gertrud Latest 27 Apr 09 by jay9376	Replies:1 :236	Latest by jay9376 27 Apr 09
Paralysed I think we have decided to separate/divorce. We have been discussing for ages and doing nothing. He's happy to exist as we are and I am not. I am hap ... 26 Apr 09, by Spiral Latest 27 Apr 09 by Fragile	Replies:6 :222	Latest by Fragile 27 Apr 09
Hello Hi All Just found your site, what a welcome break from the maze of ads and legal sites that I find confusing. We have been married for twenty ... 26 Apr 09, by Goinginsane Latest 26 Apr 09 by Itgetsbetter	Replies:2 :231	Latest by Itgetsbetter 26 Apr 09
Introducing me A week before Xmas, my husband of 7 yrs decided to move out cos he was depressed, didn't feel the same way about me...oh yes & I'd found the text messages e ... 26 Apr 09, by ThrowingMuse Latest 26 Apr 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :234	Latest by NellNoRegrets 26 Apr 09
Stupid. Hello, I'm Shamu, just recently separated from my husband of 12 years. We'd been together 20 years in total. We separated because he's an alcoholic,and brought ... 06 Apr 09, by Shamu Latest 26 Apr 09 by shinyhappypeople	Replies:4 :286	Latest by shinyhappypeople 26 Apr 09
Wee Me Hi folks. This is long, I'm afraid! I have been reading this site for a while and comforted that there are people feeling like me and that my story ... 08 Sep 08, by WeeKate Latest 25 Apr 09 by nurses9 1 2	Replies:10 :895	Latest by nurses9 25 Apr 09
New to the forum, and seeking advice and support Hi I'm a 34 year old woman who has been married for 11 years and with my partner for 18. Over the years our relationship has been faiing, but we always ... 18 Apr 09, by Applebasket Latest 25 Apr 09 by mishmine	Replies:4 :234	Latest by mishmine 25 Apr 09
im new here well im new dont know what im doing but been separated for 3years he comes and goes not knowing if he wants a divorce. he applied for divorce 3yrs ago and befor ... 24 Apr 09, by mellowme Latest 24 Apr 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:2 :299	Latest by dissapointed dad 24 Apr 09
1st time here, need guidance Hello, basically 22 years married, 3 children, 2 left home 1 at home 15 years of age. I am male, divorce papers are with the court, wife has admitted aduter ... 23 Apr 09, by barbanegra Latest 24 Apr 09 by shinyhappypeople 1 2	Replies:13 :593	Latest by shinyhappypeople 24 Apr 09
another newbie Such a hard sad situation the amount of people that are all having to go through separation and divorce. Thought Id start by introducing myself and then loo ... 19 Apr 09, by stargem Latest 24 Apr 09 by stargem	Replies:2 :297	Latest by stargem 24 Apr 09
What a Mess I have made...... I really cannot think as to how I have got myself into such the most dreadful mess, and of course I know the answer - my desperation has created this........... ... 20 Apr 09, by Lulu40 Latest 23 Apr 09 by Lulu40 1 2	Replies:12 :587	Latest by Lulu40 23 Apr 09
dividing marital home after divorce - please help Hi I live in Manchester and got divorced 6 months ago. Family home now on the market and expect to realise equity of about 60K. I think I ... 23 Apr 09, by snowbars Latest 23 Apr 09 by Young again	Replies:1 :241	Latest by Young again 23 Apr 09
Not sure what to say....... ....so I'll say what has happened. Hi everyone, I'm totally new to this as I am sure all of you were at one time. My wife told me a month ago that she ... 22 Apr 09, by Monkfish Latest 23 Apr 09 by Monkfish 1 2	Replies:13 :534	Latest by Monkfish 23 Apr 09
divorce settlement i want to buy my wife's half of the house. i have offered more than half the asking price by 10,000. she has agreed to this but insists that if i sell in the fu ... 21 Apr 09, by ninram57 Latest 23 Apr 09 by Imediate	Replies:2 :257	Latest by Imediate 23 Apr 09
stumped hello, back on here after 18 months.wife has finally walked out.gutted,angry scared and a lot more. i am living with mi 2 boys 17 and 20 who both earn minimum w ... 22 Apr 09, by adenuff Latest 22 Apr 09 by Marshy_	Replies:2 :220	Latest by Marshy_ 22 Apr 09
Advice please !! Hi I am very new to all this and all advice /points in the right direction will be gratefuly recieved :0) Been happily married 26 years two ch ... 21 Apr 09, by daisyroots Latest 22 Apr 09 by street_hawk_666	Replies:5 :248	Latest by street_hawk_666 22 Apr 09
newly separated and scared Hello. I am newley seperated and a bit confused. It's at my instigat ... 21 Apr 09, by lusard9 Latest 21 Apr 09 by Jollyrocket	Replies:5 :268	Latest by Jollyrocket 21 Apr 09
Hello from Northernmick My wife has just left me and I am really down - Can't eat drink or sleep. How are you supposed to cope? I am a youth worker and run a club in London. I ... 20 Apr 09, by northernmick Latest 21 Apr 09 by NellNoRegrets 1 2	Replies:12 :828	Latest by NellNoRegrets 21 Apr 09
still thinking... hi every one, been with my husband for 7 years, we got married near enough on a dare and ive been paying for it ever since. he has a terrible temper, wh ... 19 Apr 09, by fakemelons Latest 21 Apr 09 by fakemelons	Replies:4 :243	Latest by fakemelons 21 Apr 09
Getting my head around it all. Hi, I seperated from my husband in June last yr after he pushed me through a glass door. After what felt like a century (three wks), & alot of supp ... 21 Apr 09, by Sparklydiamond Latest 21 Apr 09 by Macey7 1 2	Replies:7 :605	Latest by Macey7 21 Apr 09
My story - the edited version! Hi all, Thought I would record my situation - for posterity as it were! My husband went six weeks ago today after he told me that he no longer loved me ... 16 Apr 09, by Princess at Heart Latest 21 Apr 09 by downbutnot out	Replies:6 :260	Latest by downbutnot out 21 Apr 09
Wow divorce is a messy business! Hi Just thought I'd say hi to you all out there! I have been reading the forums (and replied to a few) and think this website is such a fantastic idea ... 20 Apr 09, by enoufisenuf Latest 20 Apr 09 by honkers94	Replies:4 :321	Latest by honkers94 20 Apr 09
hi everyone just thought i would say hello to everyone. i am currently going through a divorce and my ex is being a complete and utter ?? hope to speak to ... 20 Apr 09, by mylittleangel Latest 20 Apr 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :269	Latest by NellNoRegrets 20 Apr 09
Getting ready for it all Hi, Just thought I'd say hello. I'm just preparing for all the divorce action. My wife and I split over two years ago and although we have tried to rem ... 09 Apr 09, by tommyj Latest 20 Apr 09 by tommyj	Replies:2 :241	Latest by tommyj 20 Apr 09
New Person Hi, my name is Jodie and I have been married for 8 years. My husband and Ihave just separated. We have a 6 year old son. I am 32 and looking for lots of advice ... 20 Apr 09, by jodiemay Latest 20 Apr 09 by marble1970	Replies:1 :233	Latest by marble1970 20 Apr 09
Newby I checked out this site a few weeks ago when i was still in my marriage.I didn't have any intention of joining but since then have begun divorce proceedings and ... 20 Apr 09, by Maryjayne Latest 20 Apr 09 by D L	Replies:1 :283	Latest by D L 20 Apr 09
Hi all Hi all.... well here goes, im 35 years old and have 3 wonderful children, on Thursday my husband decided he had fallen out of love with me, (after we had just c ... 19 Apr 09, by supermum3 Latest 19 Apr 09 by JoannaA	Replies:6 :275	Latest by JoannaA 19 Apr 09
a tough old year hello, another casualty of love here! been married for 9 years, but separated for 7 months now. Ive got two little girls, 6 and 8, the youngest being au ... 19 Apr 09, by unhappybunny Latest 19 Apr 09 by unhappybunny	Replies:2 :291	Latest by unhappybunny 19 Apr 09
Being divorced with a pack of lies Hi,I'm being divorced with a total pack of lies,She accused me of being a violent drunk,which never happened.when she in fact was having an affair.In the divorc ... 19 Apr 09, by stavros Latest 19 Apr 09 by stavros	Replies:6 :235	Latest by stavros 19 Apr 09

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