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hi hi everyone well where to start?this hurts like hell,ten years ago my wife had an afair and to cover her actions told friends and family I had drove her to it,a ... 05 Apr 09, by montydog Latest 06 Apr 09 by TommyK	Replies:6 :233	Latest by TommyK 06 Apr 09
My Wife has left me and not sure what to do. Hi From my user name you probably have worked out that I’m in the Navy. Just over 4 weeks ago my wife told me that she wanted to separate an ... 06 Apr 09, by sailor si Latest 06 Apr 09 by rustic	Replies:1 :298	Latest by rustic 06 Apr 09
My intro & a question or two I am the Husband….. Our respective ages; H 43–W 34 The number of children you have and their ages; 2 kids – 4 and 8 How many ni ... 26 Mar 09, by smithy00 Latest 06 Apr 09 by smithy00	Replies:6 :247	Latest by smithy00 06 Apr 09
Considering Divorce / Legal Seperation but Hello everyone, I separated from my wife in September 2007, on the grounds of me having an extra marital affair. I am currently living alone in rented ... 06 Apr 09, by JustCallMeMac Latest 06 Apr 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :236	Latest by NellNoRegrets 06 Apr 09
false allegation of breach of non molestation ord My son has had a non molestation order, residence order served on him stating false allegations of violence toward his ex. the child was only 2 weeks old at the ... 28 Dec 08, by mumtormented Latest 05 Apr 09 by Elle 1 2	Replies:7 :1489	Latest by Elle 05 Apr 09
Hallo! Hi I am 33 and am currently in the process of divorcing my husband of 4 and a half years. I don't think I should have gotten married in the first place, ... 03 Apr 09, by Ratula Latest 05 Apr 09 by Elle	Replies:3 :241	Latest by Elle 05 Apr 09
Hi, am new here and stumbling a bit! Hi, finally decided after over 4 years of purgatory, separation and living out of a bag, that despite my heinous indiscretion that the current situation is not ... 04 Apr 09, by Thiscantgoon Latest 04 Apr 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :416	Latest by NellNoRegrets 04 Apr 09
divorce pending Hi my name is Beverly gregson. I found out my husband was having an affair and asked him to leave in january. We had been married for 9 years. I married him 2ye ... 03 Apr 09, by beverlygregson Latest 04 Apr 09 by dukey	Replies:1 :295	Latest by dukey 04 Apr 09
My Mother-in-Law wants my children without me!!!! My Husband walked out last week! But I have already been and sort legal advice before he did this. His parents have taken a dislike to me since our son was born ... 07 Mar 09, by gutted5 Latest 03 Apr 09 by Beat Down Dad 1 2	Replies:7 :678	Latest by Beat Down Dad 03 Apr 09
g'day from downunda Hi all, I'm new here but have been chatting a little on the chat site & thanks for all the support on there. So here's my introduction, is any neede ... 03 Apr 09, by applemac Latest 03 Apr 09 by moonstar04	Replies:2 :352	Latest by moonstar04 03 Apr 09
New to forum, lonely, devasted & scared.... Hi, Wow, I feel so shocked and devastated to even be just typing this. I was not married to my partner, but so many of your stories ring true ... 29 Mar 09, by ArtyKoala Latest 02 Apr 09 by nasus 1 2	Replies:12 :580	Latest by nasus 02 Apr 09
Newbie Hi there.. What a great site this is i have stumbled on!! I have just fo ... 01 Apr 09, by nurses9 Latest 02 Apr 09 by Angel557	Replies:1 :191	Latest by Angel557 02 Apr 09
Hello, im new to here!!! Hi, im new to here but i have been separate for 3 years!! To begin with it was quite easy as it was my decision but then as the years have went by its got harde ... 02 Apr 09, by shygirl Latest 02 Apr 09 by chris75	Replies:3 :271	Latest by chris75 02 Apr 09
hi Hi, I've just registered. I don't know where to begin as I am totally ignorant about the subject. After 33 years together my husband just told me this afternoon ... 31 Mar 09, by sonbol63 Latest 01 Apr 09 by sonbol63	Replies:3 :228	Latest by sonbol63 01 Apr 09
husband wants a divorce and to sell house and busi I am 40 and my husband 39. We have been married for 8 years and two children, one age 12 and one age 10 who is disabled. I got fed up of his cheating and called ... 31 Mar 09, by whatjustice? Latest 01 Apr 09 by chrisjoy	Replies:4 :380	Latest by chrisjoy 01 Apr 09
new to this!! Hi, Having spent the last 7 months living with my 2 children I have now decided to start the divorce... It is the only way I think I am going ... 01 Apr 09, by SWEETYTEETEE Latest 01 Apr 09 by RLands	Replies:2 :229	Latest by RLands 01 Apr 09
I'm new to this site Hi everyone I'm recently separated and I realise that I'm pretty clueless. At the end of January this year, my wife of 11 years announced that she was ... 30 Mar 09, by kadunaman Latest 01 Apr 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:3 :286	Latest by dissapointed dad 01 Apr 09
A bit about me! Hi The site says i should introduce myself so here i go! I met my husband whilst on holiday when i was 21, after 5 months of being back in the ... 31 Mar 09, by lizzimai Latest 01 Apr 09 by Torres09	Replies:3 :253	Latest by Torres09 01 Apr 09
Hellllooooooooooo! No Offence, but this is one forum I never wanted to join!< ... 01 Apr 09, by MrsX Latest 01 Apr 09 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :204	Latest by Marshy_ 01 Apr 09
Potted History Hi, thought I should jot down some words to introduce myself. Separated from my ex-partner of 7 years almost two years ago. We have three wonderful ch ... 31 Mar 09, by Walking After Midnight Latest 31 Mar 09 by Walking After Midnight	Replies:2 :246	Latest by Walking After Midnight 31 Mar 09
My Story Hi, This is my first post on the site and I just wanted to let you know a bit about my story. Me and my wife first met at University about 6 y ... 30 Mar 09, by Torres09 Latest 31 Mar 09 by rhiannon555 1 2	Replies:12 :607	Latest by rhiannon555 31 Mar 09
Any help appreciated Hello all, I am about to apply for a divorce, and was wondering if I should bother with a solicitor, or even if I need one. My story: I am a U ... 31 Mar 09, by ammokeith Latest 31 Mar 09 by ammokeith	Replies:4 :245	Latest by ammokeith 31 Mar 09
stupid question "HOW DO I FIND MATES ????" when we met back in 1991 I used to have loads of mates and go out loads, But loves a funny thing I met her, fell in love, ... 27 Mar 09, by ginger geordie Latest 31 Mar 09 by Itgetsbetter 1 2	Replies:12 :661	Latest by Itgetsbetter 31 Mar 09
New Hi, I am new to the forum because everything i read seems to be about married couples. I wanted to see if there was anyone out there who could offer any advice ... 30 Mar 09, by nic1 Latest 30 Mar 09 by Fiona	Replies:2 :230	Latest by Fiona 30 Mar 09
so sad This looks a friendly forum:) I have been married for 20 years this year, I got with hubby when I was a teenager, we have 3 children aged 20, 17 and 14 ... 30 Mar 09, by Miss Piggy Latest 30 Mar 09 by NellNoRegrets 1 2	Replies:7 :596	Latest by NellNoRegrets 30 Mar 09
introducing myself This is my second visit here after bottling out the first time round i will introduce myself , i am 38 years old female seperated from husband for 2 years but s ... 29 Mar 09, by SIGHOFRELIEF Latest 30 Mar 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :282	Latest by NellNoRegrets 30 Mar 09
im new I HAVE ONLY BEEN ON THIS SITE FOR A FEW DAYS AND TRYING TO WORK MY WAY AROUND IT .. CAN SOMEONE TELL ME HOW TO EDIT MY PROFILE . iVE CLICKED ON EDIT MY PROFILE ... 30 Mar 09, by muchtoomuch Latest 30 Mar 09 by YNK000	Replies:1 :272	Latest by YNK000 30 Mar 09
Ijntroducing Myself Hi ... have just found this site, and am intrigued. I was divorced - rather, I divorced my ex - three years ago. I have custody/residence of my childre ... 29 Mar 09, by AlbaTheScot Latest 30 Mar 09 by Elle	Replies:3 :254	Latest by Elle 30 Mar 09
Devastated Hi everyone, As I write this I am sobbing; I don't know what to do. I cannot eat or sleep. I have been with my husband 23 years (21 married) a ... 25 Mar 09, by loopyloo45 Latest 29 Mar 09 by Krystaltips 1 2	Replies:11 :587	Latest by Krystaltips 29 Mar 09
Separation Hi- My husband and I have been separated for three years. He left me as I thought because he wanted a break. I was always optimistic he would comeback if I gave ... 25 Mar 09, by binocular Latest 29 Mar 09 by binocular	Replies:6 :248	Latest by binocular 29 Mar 09
The long and winding road I am almost 10 years into an acromonious separation/divorce and have never found the mental resources to finally go through with it due to the stress that the s ... 27 Mar 09, by Slopalongplacidly Latest 29 Mar 09 by rubytuesday	Replies:4 :255	Latest by rubytuesday 29 Mar 09
hello!! Hi everyone, my name is elan and I have separated from my wife since 2005. We have a daughter who lives with my wife over 200 miles away from me, so this is ... 25 Mar 09, by elanskid Latest 28 Mar 09 by Grace_Amazing	Replies:1 :230	Latest by Grace_Amazing 28 Mar 09
two people stressed out! Hi everyone, my wife has been talking divorce for a while now. we're both stressed out, my job was very unsafe last year, she's been starting an HR office i ... 28 Mar 09, by neildd Latest 28 Mar 09 by Nettle	Replies:1 :223	Latest by Nettle 28 Mar 09
new to here! Hiya! Hi all, Just wanted to introduce myself. Im new here! My situation at the moment is I have only been married 2 and a half years (been together near ... 27 Mar 09, by rustic Latest 28 Mar 09 by neildd	Replies:5 :362	Latest by neildd 28 Mar 09
Does it really get better! Hi have just joined this site, and its the first time since my divorce started I don't feel like I am the only one going through it all. Its a very sad ... 27 Mar 09, by RLands Latest 27 Mar 09 by muchtoomuch	Replies:5 :284	Latest by muchtoomuch 27 Mar 09
Hi Im Pixie6, need help finding my sparkle!! Hi I am very new to this but desparation has caused me to seek advice so if anyone could help Id be so grateful. My situation is that Ive been with my ... 27 Mar 09, by pixie6 Latest 27 Mar 09 by Claymic78	Replies:2 :388	Latest by Claymic78 27 Mar 09
hi I'm new...help...I need a good solicitor Hi everyone, I am new to this whole forum thing so forgive me if I make mistakes. I have 2 children, am currently going through a separation and divorce proceed ... 26 Mar 09, by norty Latest 27 Mar 09 by YNK000 1 2 3	Replies:19 :771	Latest by YNK000 27 Mar 09
14 months on and I find you! Hello, I googled for some information and found this website. I have been doing really well over the last few months, but the events of the last few w ... 22 Mar 09, by absl Latest 27 Mar 09 by absl 1 2	Replies:11 :662	Latest by absl 27 Mar 09
Hi Hi, Just thought I'd post this as I am thinking about getting a divorce have been married for 8 years but 4 years of that I have been seperated from hi ... 26 Mar 09, by closh0608 Latest 26 Mar 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :225	Latest by NellNoRegrets 26 Mar 09
New user Hi everyone I've been seperated from my husband for over a year and we are both in new relationships.we have started divorce proceedings and have just had a ... 25 Mar 09, by Alligg Latest 26 Mar 09 by Alligg 1 2	Replies:8 :593	Latest by Alligg 26 Mar 09

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