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Hello Everyone Hi everyone, this is all new to me so aplogies of not sure what to write really. My ex and I spllit at the start of 2009 and every since I have shared caring of ... 30 Dec 09, by Running Man Latest 30 Dec 09 by Running Man	Replies:2 :208	Latest by Running Man 30 Dec 09
New to the Site Hi Everyone, I'd like to know whether anyone can advise me on my options. My husband and I are still trying to sort our marriage out but I'd like to b ... 29 Dec 09, by ana sophia Latest 30 Dec 09 by ana sophia	Replies:1 :213	Latest by ana sophia 30 Dec 09
Keep calm and carry on... Hi there. Well here goes... Just spent my 1st Christmas without the partner I met when I was in my 1st year at uni; we were together for over 25 years and marr ... 29 Dec 09, by Roses are red Latest 30 Dec 09 by Roses are red 1 2	Replies:8 :670	Latest by Roses are red 30 Dec 09
My Story My ex husband left 5.5 years ago.. he had an affair and left leaving 2 children 2 & 4. He made things very difficult by not seeing the children or ... 28 Dec 09, by klr1 Latest 30 Dec 09 by Sommer1	Replies:6 :244	Latest by Sommer1 30 Dec 09
Hi!!! Just joined after finding out my soul mate of the last 24 years ( married 17 years )has been having a secret relationship for the last 2 years with a younger wo ... 29 Dec 09, by Lookto2012 Latest 29 Dec 09 by Lookto2012	Replies:5 :199	Latest by Lookto2012 29 Dec 09
my story its been over a year and still coming to terms with my split, he was stolen from me by a philopino, he was my sole mate. I cant move on as I am still in the hou ... 29 Dec 09, by jinxy Latest 29 Dec 09 by Fiona	Replies:3 :257	Latest by Fiona 29 Dec 09
A Quite christmas Well me and kids had a very peaceful christmas,did what we wanted when we wanted,no one controlling the tv,kids downstairs with the playstation etc not being to ... 28 Dec 09, by santasusanna Latest 29 Dec 09 by Marshy_ 1 2	Replies:9 :468	Latest by Marshy_ 29 Dec 09
Glad I found this forum Hi, I'm Dave, and I've just discovered this forum and hope to feel better when I can share my feelings with others. My wife decided she wants to divorc ... 28 Dec 09, by dave1963 Latest 29 Dec 09 by dave1963	Replies:5 :239	Latest by dave1963 29 Dec 09
Business assets My wife and I both work, no children. I have additional income from a small business I run as a self-employed undertaking, run from home. My wife does not work ... 28 Dec 09, by oscar9 Latest 29 Dec 09 by Fiona	Replies:1 :442	Latest by Fiona 29 Dec 09
hello everyone Hi Everyone i am new here so id thought id stop by and say Hi ... 27 Dec 09, by shelly1m Latest 28 Dec 09 by Pauline1	Replies:2 :288	Latest by Pauline1 28 Dec 09
Hello Hello Although not recently seperated the idea of chat rooms and forums is a very recent idea. My husband and I split up 18 months ago and although I h ... 27 Dec 09, by Pauline1 Latest 27 Dec 09 by meand3	Replies:1 :185	Latest by meand3 27 Dec 09
just seperated Hi all Glad to have found this site been a great help over the last few weeks. Thoght i would take the opportunity to introduce myself and tell my stor ... 25 Dec 09, by jerseygirl100 Latest 27 Dec 09 by gladface	Replies:5 :255	Latest by gladface 27 Dec 09
new to forum Hi i am new to forum and divorce i do not know what to expect or what the rest of my life has in store for me. i have decided to divorce my husband after 20 yea ... 27 Dec 09, by sweetp Latest 27 Dec 09 by meand3	Replies:3 :250	Latest by meand3 27 Dec 09
finance first me and my wife sold our house after long arguments i left house was sold for 400.00 after debts paid it left 280.000 i recieved from my wife 135.000 a ... 14 Dec 09, by michael brearley Latest 25 Dec 09 by LittleMrMike	Replies:1 :207	Latest by LittleMrMike 25 Dec 09
dont know what to do i have been seperated around 6 weeks after 11 years together and im still where i was that very first day he walked out im in my forties and didnt think for one ... 14 Dec 09, by whitepetal Latest 25 Dec 09 by Lucretia 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:28 :1181	Latest by Lucretia 25 Dec 09
Just dipping my toe in... Hello..I'm just getting used to the idea of being single after a long time married. There's been alot over a long time that's got me to this point of even think ... 23 Nov 09, by Livvy Latest 24 Dec 09 by Livvy 1 2	Replies:7 :537	Latest by Livvy 24 Dec 09
New to seperation I have recently separated from my wife as she has been unfaithful. I desperately love her but our rows and arguments have more than likely sealed our fate. An ... 19 Dec 09, by Iain1 Latest 24 Dec 09 by tigger2	Replies:3 :323	Latest by tigger2 24 Dec 09
Nightmare that just won't go away I am 31 years old and I divorced my ex-husband last year on the grounds of his unreasonable behaviour(he didn't contest the divorce). At the time he wouldn't s ... 13 Jun 09, by Zen1977 Latest 24 Dec 09 by Zen1977	Replies:4 :249	Latest by Zen1977 24 Dec 09
Contact with daughter Hi all. Firstly what a great site, spent many hours reading through threads.Helps a little to know your not on your own. Been separated about a year and ... 23 Dec 09, by mikergj Latest 23 Dec 09 by Shezi	Replies:2 :239	Latest by Shezi 23 Dec 09
The son, the mediator. Hi, I'm just looking for some information on financial settlement in a divorce. My parents separated about 2 years ago, no official divorce yet, and no ... 23 Dec 09, by Ianson Latest 23 Dec 09 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :246	Latest by Marshy_ 23 Dec 09
Here goes! Just joined so thought i'd say hello. Separated 4 months after almost 21 yrs marriage. No one else involved(never has been)just drifted apart, although I was on ... 22 Dec 09, by browndog Latest 23 Dec 09 by Fiona	Replies:1 :289	Latest by Fiona 23 Dec 09
unsure . hi everyone its nice but sad to know that I,m not the only one going through this horrible time.im in the middle of a divorse and my husband wont compleat an ... 26 Nov 09, by cosytoes Latest 22 Dec 09 by cosytoes	Replies:2 :215	Latest by cosytoes 22 Dec 09
Abducted by Aliens Exactly a year ago today my husband left the family home to see the woman he was having an affair with saying he needed "to sort things out". We had ... 21 Dec 09, by Mrs Mellors Latest 21 Dec 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:4 :465	Latest by NellNoRegrets 21 Dec 09
Bemused This message has been removed by Wikivorce Team. ... 13 Mar 08, by Ephelia Latest 20 Dec 09 by JackieH	Replies:4 :389	Latest by JackieH 20 Dec 09
what to do Hey, my husband and I have just separated, and at the moment he refuses to have any contact with me, which is very frustrating as there are things that we need ... 15 Dec 09, by missmarmite Latest 18 Dec 09 by Mr decieved	Replies:4 :213	Latest by Mr decieved 18 Dec 09
New member Hi I am a new member and heres my story, would love to hear any advice or info.. will try to "Bullet Point" Length of marriage 24 year, 2 grow ... 15 Dec 09, by mistressmel Latest 17 Dec 09 by LittleMrMike	Replies:3 :226	Latest by LittleMrMike 17 Dec 09
cafcass bias, abusers of childrens rights. Dear all. I find that on reading the many comments obout Cafcass, that i must concur. I have always been a wonderful Father to my 7 yr old son. But now due ... 16 Dec 09, by Onlylexus Latest 17 Dec 09 by Marshy_ 1 2 3	Replies:18 :1066	Latest by Marshy_ 17 Dec 09
I'm new, thought I should say hi. Hi, First of all I'm a man so sharing this with anyone is difficult as I haven't even told some of my closest friends yet. My wife of 17 years formed a ... 16 Dec 09, by Froggy123 Latest 16 Dec 09 by Macey7	Replies:2 :254	Latest by Macey7 16 Dec 09
Hello everybody Sorry for being rude.... I forgot to introduce myself before I posted. Thanks for such a wonderful site, I've read loads so far. I am a stay at home mu ... 14 Dec 09, by Totocoelo Latest 16 Dec 09 by Totocoelo 1 2	Replies:8 :604	Latest by Totocoelo 16 Dec 09
a struggle i found out my husband had an affair last year after 5 years of marriage and we have been trying to sort things out for the last 12 months. it has been very di ... 15 Dec 09, by spags Latest 15 Dec 09 by muchtoomuch	Replies:1 :234	Latest by muchtoomuch 15 Dec 09
Emotionally exhausted Hi I am new to this forum and I think it would have been wise to check it out 9 months ago. I will try & be brief... We had been together 6 years bu ... 14 Dec 09, by blue64 Latest 15 Dec 09 by DancingButterfly 1 2	Replies:7 :597	Latest by DancingButterfly 15 Dec 09
help - i need advice please! Hi, I am new to this site and am hoping someone may have some advice for me. I have been married for 30 years. Last Boxing Day my husband told me he had bee ... 15 Dec 09, by deludedgirl Latest 15 Dec 09 by Ephelia	Replies:1 :225	Latest by Ephelia 15 Dec 09
HELP Please! Hello lovely peole, my husband has moved out and we have been separated for 2 months now. We have been married for 7 years and we have a joint mortgage ... 15 Dec 09, by Nina in wonderland Latest 15 Dec 09 by Nina in wonderland	Replies:5 :258	Latest by Nina in wonderland 15 Dec 09
Well this isn't much fun.. Hi everyone, I'm new to this site but came for some help and answers. The whole subject of divorce was totally unchartered territory for me 6 weeks ago, but I'm ... 14 Dec 09, by kettlechip Latest 14 Dec 09 by Elle 1 2	Replies:7 :545	Latest by Elle 14 Dec 09
Assetts verses debts. Hi.Does anyone know if I am liable for half the debts that may be left over, once all our assetts have been taken away from the debt? Thanks. Kathy: ... 14 Dec 09, by Kathy 2344 Latest 14 Dec 09 by Soldierbluenomore	Replies:1 :230	Latest by Soldierbluenomore 14 Dec 09
In bits Hi. First time post. I have been told that this should help. Relationship broke down over a year ago. Stress at work and debt forced me to not ... 11 Dec 09, by Duggernaut Latest 13 Dec 09 by Duggernaut	Replies:5 :245	Latest by Duggernaut 13 Dec 09
alone after divorce Hi i have had a bad year had a mental breakdown going through a divorce lost my job and my step kids will not get in touch this is the first chirstmas ... 29 Nov 09, by JOESUKI Latest 13 Dec 09 by Amoco 1 2 3	Replies:17 :663	Latest by Amoco 13 Dec 09
Drained by separation Hi just introducing myself. I am 22, separated from my partner of 6 years 2 months ago. I have a 1 year old boy and I feel awful for him going through this. 11 Dec 09, by MsJones Latest 13 Dec 09 by Mitchum	Replies:2 :227	Latest by Mitchum 13 Dec 09
joint tenancy and seperation - new use. Pls HELP! have just registered in the hope someone can help or put my mind at rest. Story goes like this...moved in to my then-partner's housing assoc prop following ... 06 Dec 09, by sadperson Locked Latest 11 Dec 09 by Tets Locked	Replies:6 :263	Latest by Tets 11 Dec 09
abusive marriage a friend of mine living in the uk is involved in a physically and verbally abusive marriage, she wants to leave but she has 2 kids and has no idea where to star ... 10 Dec 09, by kungfumasterchan Latest 10 Dec 09 by rubytuesday	Replies:1 :289	Latest by rubytuesday 10 Dec 09

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