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Hi some advice please Have being going thru the divorce process for 10 mnths now ex refuses to disclose his finances with attempts from my solicitor and a mediator letter. Not entitl ... 10 Jul 09, by Broomstick40 Latest 12 Jul 09 by dukey	Replies:1 :215	Latest by dukey 12 Jul 09
Hello Hi, my husband of 25 years told me last week that he was having an affair, oops sorry, I mean he's "in love". Things haven't been great between us fo ... 10 Jul 09, by sophe Latest 11 Jul 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :186	Latest by NellNoRegrets 11 Jul 09
help please help my daughter and her new husband wants to move back to england from scotland with her children from her first marriage,she told her ex a month ago th ... 11 Jul 09, by oak959 Latest 11 Jul 09 by oak959	Replies:2 :209	Latest by oak959 11 Jul 09
Hello Hello, I got legally married last year May 08 (Pakistan). I then had the wedding day in July 08. After which She moved to the UK in August 08 and subse ... 11 Jul 09, by alexss Latest 11 Jul 09 by alexss	Replies:3 :184	Latest by alexss 11 Jul 09
Happily married but partner's ex-partner a problem Hello, feeling a little out of place as I'm actually happily married and my partner (thankfully!) never married her difficult ex. However, she does have a beaut ... 10 Jul 09, by Wannagohome Latest 11 Jul 09 by Tets	Replies:1 :258	Latest by Tets 11 Jul 09
Ex lives abroad. Hi, new to this and looking for a little advice from anyone. I am living back in the uk now my ex has stayed out in spain with the kids this we agreed on a ... 11 Jul 09, by Markey t Latest 11 Jul 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :240	Latest by NellNoRegrets 11 Jul 09
Divorcing, second time Hi All Well, I never thought that I would find myself in this position....again. 43 years old, and now two failed marriages, gutted beyond belief. The ... 07 Jul 09, by soulfollower Latest 10 Jul 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :221	Latest by NellNoRegrets 10 Jul 09
Hi Hi my name is pam,and i have just joined today I am just coming to the end of my divorce and have done mediation and sorting out financial statis, how ... 10 Jul 09, by pamela1969 Latest 10 Jul 09 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :225	Latest by Marshy_ 10 Jul 09
divorce settlement Hi Ihad an arranged marriage in 1989. Ihad suffered years of domestic abuse till in 2004 i left with nothing. Ileft with just my daughter at that time. My Ex is ... 06 Jul 09, by Amy1971 Latest 10 Jul 09 by .Charles	Replies:4 :226	Latest by .Charles 10 Jul 09
I am new to this crap. I have been with my partner for 26 years. I literally jumped from the frying pan to the fire when I first met him. I was already in trouble, involved with the w ... 07 Jul 09, by Myana Latest 09 Jul 09 by JoannaA	Replies:3 :229	Latest by JoannaA 09 Jul 09
divorcing at 24!! hey all, Im 24, divorcing on grounds of UB and dont know what to make of things! Too be told my stbx that iwont meet anyone else at 24 as we h ... 02 Jul 09, by divorcedat24 Latest 09 Jul 09 by JoannaA	Replies:6 :290	Latest by JoannaA 09 Jul 09
domestic bills My sister is currently separated. Both parties remain in the family home which is jointly owned. Her husband refuses to pay his share of the domestic bills. ... 08 Jul 09, by brufus Latest 08 Jul 09 by brufus	Replies:2 :237	Latest by brufus 08 Jul 09
To divorce or not to divorce Feel uncomfortable talking about this to people i know and yet it's the only thing i can think about right now, so if i don't talk it feels like i'll burst. My ... 08 Jul 09, by drowning Latest 08 Jul 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :225	Latest by NellNoRegrets 08 Jul 09
Say hello? Hi All So, I'm taking the big step of introducing myself in the hopes that I'll find a pal or two to wander around the forums and catch up over a virtu ... 07 Jul 09, by Teejay Latest 08 Jul 09 by daisygreen 1 2	Replies:7 :616	Latest by daisygreen 08 Jul 09
Hi, never thought I would joining this club! Aged nearly 60 but my stbx has me doubting my own sanity and I need to be out of it. nice to be part of the site, been lurking for some days. ... 08 Jul 09, by krazykat Latest 08 Jul 09 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :248	Latest by hadenoughnow 08 Jul 09
Dont have a clue!! [img] Im divorcing a man with bpd (borderline personality disorder). T ... 07 Jul 09, by TheGenieM Latest 08 Jul 09 by LittleMrMike	Replies:1 :265	Latest by LittleMrMike 08 Jul 09
House selling hell! Hi everyone I'm fairly new to this website, been looking at posts for a while trying to get an idea of things, thought it's about time I actually did a ... 05 Jul 09, by Classicat Latest 07 Jul 09 by Classicat	Replies:2 :238	Latest by Classicat 07 Jul 09
New Hi everyone, I'm going through a miserable time right now, my husband just told me he wants a divorce after we moved from Arizona to Texas. I'm back in Arizona ... 07 Jul 09, by seven7 Latest 07 Jul 09 by rubytuesday	Replies:1 :311	Latest by rubytuesday 07 Jul 09
Divorce, house in negative equity Hi there I have been married since 2006 and in Aug 08 and i bought a house for my husband and I to move into. Due to various debts that my husband had ... 06 Jul 09, by jen 19999 Latest 07 Jul 09 by smalik	Replies:1 :324	Latest by smalik 07 Jul 09
Is there someone else out there? I am new to this site and would like to hear from people who are in a similar situation to me. My marriage broke up about 2 years ago and although much has happ ... 06 Jul 09, by maryt1968 Latest 06 Jul 09 by mumtoboys	Replies:5 :223	Latest by mumtoboys 06 Jul 09
Hello, I'm new Hi All, Thought I'd introduce myself, thanks x ... 04 Jul 09, by Lilibet Latest 06 Jul 09 by loramy 1 2	Replies:11 :537	Latest by loramy 06 Jul 09
speed of residency order Hi, Dont know if I should be on here but trying to support Daughter is driving me insane.Had a few Divorces in the past so Ive been through the mill mys ... 06 Jul 09, by suporter Latest 06 Jul 09 by Fiona	Replies:1 :247	Latest by Fiona 06 Jul 09
asian woman- desperate- help sought hi, I am new to this site and have posted already today in the financial site. I am Asian and had an arranged marriage in 1988- having met my husband ... 06 Jul 09, by 272727 Latest 06 Jul 09 by mumtoboys	Replies:1 :245	Latest by mumtoboys 06 Jul 09
hey, guys! hey everyone! 25 years old with 1year old baby and 3 years of emotional abuse and neglecting. came to that point where i just cant keep on that one way trying s ... 06 Jul 09, by Antonia2009 Latest 06 Jul 09 by gorgeous	Replies:2 :226	Latest by gorgeous 06 Jul 09
Weary Xmas 2007 my husband of 20 years told me he had fallen head over in heels in love with someone else. I had no idea anything was wrong with our relationship. At ... 05 Jul 09, by monkeyfish1 Latest 06 Jul 09 by YNK000	Replies:3 :333	Latest by YNK000 06 Jul 09
Hello from East Hello all Im new to this site. Have this week applied for divorce. grounds - my Husbands drinking and nasty behaviour to me and to our beautiful 15 year old dau ... 05 Jul 09, by loramy Latest 06 Jul 09 by loramy	Replies:2 :258	Latest by loramy 06 Jul 09
\"His Possessions\" ! Hi all. Just joined and would welcome any advice on the following. After my husband became a physical, mental and verbally abusive alcoholic, the police took hi ... 27 Jun 09, by bubbles165 Latest 05 Jul 09 by wigwambam	Replies:6 :249	Latest by wigwambam 05 Jul 09
Hi, here for my Dad Hi there, thanks so much for this site I am here looking for ... 24 Jun 09, by Moog Latest 05 Jul 09 by Marshy_	Replies:3 :265	Latest by Marshy_ 05 Jul 09
Hello, I'm new to this site Hi, I am a 49 year old woman and my husband and I have just decided to separate after 27 years together. It's fairly amicable at the moment, the decisi ... 04 Jul 09, by honeybomb Latest 04 Jul 09 by Macey7	Replies:3 :253	Latest by Macey7 04 Jul 09
help hello everyone i have just split from my wife she moved out about 2 weeks ago with my 2 kids and its starting to get messy and i dont know what to do n ... 03 Jul 09, by TX1 Latest 04 Jul 09 by TX1	Replies:4 :198	Latest by TX1 04 Jul 09
new to the forum - Intro Hi all new to this particular forum so just wanted to say hello from a rainy day in the Midlands! 03 Jul 09, by FemalePI Latest 04 Jul 09 by TUFKAB 1 2	Replies:7 :525	Latest by TUFKAB 04 Jul 09
Looking for some support to cheer me up! Hello - have just found this site whilst researching my current situation. Have been with (cannot call him my partner!) the other person who lives and owns the ... 01 Jul 09, by fleure11 Latest 03 Jul 09 by White_Crow	Replies:5 :387	Latest by White_Crow 03 Jul 09
new to this what can i say...the story... my 20 year old niece moved in 3 years ago...everything was fine.. she is a beautiful girl. my husband has known her since ... 02 Jul 09, by SOSAD519 Latest 02 Jul 09 by Gene Hunt	Replies:2 :231	Latest by Gene Hunt 02 Jul 09
advice Hi, my husband left just over a week ago and it has not ended on good terms. I had to get the police involved because he refused to leave one day when I ask ... 02 Jul 09, by lamine Latest 02 Jul 09 by lamine	Replies:2 :199	Latest by lamine 02 Jul 09
Still filled with pain Hi everyone, I'm an old newbie. Had been married for nearly 46 years when i received a text from husband informing me that he was "moving out to g ... 01 Jul 09, by june202 Latest 02 Jul 09 by june202	Replies:6 :254	Latest by june202 02 Jul 09
Hubby left me and 3 kids for OW after 20yrs!! Hi everyone, I found out 1 month ago that my husband was having affair with his bosses girlfriend and after huge row and upsets he left the next day to ... 30 Jun 09, by emmyb41 Latest 02 Jul 09 by Jordan995	Replies:6 :281	Latest by Jordan995 02 Jul 09
He left on Monday Hi he left monday , we have been married 10 years been to hale and back but allways been there for each other and I thought we always would be . Then the weeken ... 02 Jul 09, by gems123 Latest 02 Jul 09 by gems123	Replies:4 :238	Latest by gems123 02 Jul 09
New! Hi all:) Found this site today whilst researching the divorce stages step by step. I'm divorcing my husband after 11 years and we're only just at the ... 01 Jul 09, by boredwithwaiting Latest 01 Jul 09 by Thelongroad	Replies:2 :227	Latest by Thelongroad 01 Jul 09
Just a quick Hello to all and one question I stumbled over this site when I googled a question and it looks good, have to explore some more but thought I would say Hi to all. Without the ins and ... 01 Jul 09, by pleaseuself Latest 01 Jul 09 by Marshy_	Replies:3 :244	Latest by Marshy_ 01 Jul 09
Advice needed Hi there, I am a 65 year old who is at the end of a 40 year relationship. Fifteen months ago I found out that my wonderful husband had been having an e ... 01 Jul 09, by champagnedemon Latest 01 Jul 09 by jsmith1234	Replies:1 :238	Latest by jsmith1234 01 Jul 09

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