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Hello! I'm just having a look round here, reading what people have posted, and thinking that this is a really great service. I have been married to my husband ... 30 Jun 09, by Cariade Latest 01 Jul 09 by Cariade	Replies:2 :226	Latest by Cariade 01 Jul 09
just looking i though i'd just pop in and see what this was all about since i found out last week my wife had joined this little community after reading an article in the Ma ... 28 Jun 09, by steve401 Latest 01 Jul 09 by NellNoRegrets 1 2 3 4	Replies:21 :1106	Latest by NellNoRegrets 01 Jul 09
My story!!!!! Hi, I am new to the site. My husband left me in September last year after we had tried relate etc. We have just completed mediation and I am about to is ... 30 Jun 09, by amanda39 Latest 30 Jun 09 by amanda39	Replies:3 :304	Latest by amanda39 30 Jun 09
FDRA - coming to an agreement Hello there Last thursday I attended the FDRA for my divorce which has been going on for the last 17 months. My stbx is a serving soldier in the Army ... 30 Jun 09, by foxyfowler Latest 30 Jun 09 by foxyfowler	Replies:2 :256	Latest by foxyfowler 30 Jun 09
hi all im new!! hi everyone i have jsut left my husband after 4 years of marriage. i knew he was cheating on me but had no proof at the time i left him but i do now and he has ... 30 Jun 09, by gillypkk Latest 30 Jun 09 by mumtoboys	Replies:2 :252	Latest by mumtoboys 30 Jun 09
Hi everyone - I'm new here! Hi Everyone I am new on here. I left my husband just over a year ago after 12 years of a miserable marriage! I took my daughter and moved int ... 30 Jun 09, by Cleo16 Latest 30 Jun 09 by D L	Replies:1 :224	Latest by D L 30 Jun 09
general matters Hi, folks, I'm new to this site and unfortunately this game. I'm 50, my wife and myself have agreed to seperate, we have two children aged 6 and 9 and to be hon ... 30 Jun 09, by albionfc1 Latest 30 Jun 09 by D L	Replies:1 :239	Latest by D L 30 Jun 09
Hi Everyone Hi All, Well, where do i start? I am just at the beginning of what appears to be a complex and damn expensive (god im in the wrong profession ... 30 Jun 09, by bosslady38 Latest 30 Jun 09 by D L	Replies:1 :290	Latest by D L 30 Jun 09
Decree nisi today. Hi all, Decree nisi pronounced today. A small forward step in a jungle of madness. Its been 2 years since we separated and nothing at all has actually ... 30 Jun 09, by chapchap Latest 30 Jun 09 by moonstar04 1 2	Replies:9 :608	Latest by moonstar04 30 Jun 09
Hi Everyone What a great sight and as requested I going to tell about my situation. About 4 months ago I found a file on my husbands computer, on it were a number ... 29 Jun 09, by mouseygirl Latest 29 Jun 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :226	Latest by NellNoRegrets 29 Jun 09
help Hello -you may think Im crazy -!!!Ileft my husbnd six years ago - my fault ---Ilost it- and saw other men from a phone chatline of all places ! He soon started ... 29 Jun 09, by smart275 Latest 29 Jun 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :229	Latest by NellNoRegrets 29 Jun 09
what now My wife and i have agreed to seperate having grown apart in the last 4 years, we have tried councilling and it helped me understand certain things. What now? i ... 28 Jun 09, by mdrb1979 Latest 29 Jun 09 by BreakupAngelsJackie	Replies:2 :248	Latest by BreakupAngelsJackie 29 Jun 09
Gutted Hi Just found this website while looking to see if the money I am expecting from my husband was unreasonable - as he seems to think. Only foun ... 28 Jun 09, by clairee79 Latest 28 Jun 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :297	Latest by NellNoRegrets 28 Jun 09
this is what is left of me i am a 42 year old female who lives just outside Glasgow. 3 weeks ago I got dropped the bombshell that my husband of 17 yrs was moving out and moving in wit ... 27 Jun 09, by van Latest 28 Jun 09 by lovelost	Replies:3 :246	Latest by lovelost 28 Jun 09
Hi - just signed on. How good is mediation? Hi I'm a dad living in London and am a respondent in a divorce application. We're about to go through financial disclosure and then (maybe) agree on child resid ... 26 Jun 09, by ENYO Latest 28 Jun 09 by ENYO 1 2	Replies:13 :563	Latest by ENYO 28 Jun 09
Need help Hi Im 47 years of age with two children, a boy who is married and he is going to be a dad at the end of august and a girl who lives with her partner and has ... 26 Jun 09, by Bagpussy Latest 27 Jun 09 by Bagpussy	Replies:2 :235	Latest by Bagpussy 27 Jun 09
just about to tell my husband I am leaving Hi all. My sister told me about this site so I thought I should have a look and see if I can get some support. I can't stay married to my husband any m ... 26 Jun 09, by loopyloo2968 Latest 27 Jun 09 by mummybear38 1 2	Replies:13 :616	Latest by mummybear38 27 Jun 09
Hi! I'm new! Hi, I have just found this site and wish I had seen it a while ago when I was going through separation, Boy did I need some support!! I just wondered w ... 23 Jun 09, by jeannie8 Latest 27 Jun 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :264	Latest by NellNoRegrets 27 Jun 09
Upside down and inside out my life that is! After 17 years of co habiting we finally seperated early this year. I was effectively made homeless as my partner bought the house (while i was pregnant) in his ... 26 Jun 09, by tkwad Latest 26 Jun 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :296	Latest by NellNoRegrets 26 Jun 09
hello everyone hi there ive been reading the boards all afternoon.ive been married almost 23yrs.i have three grown up children and my husband and i are legal guardians for our ... 24 Jun 09, by mags1234 Latest 26 Jun 09 by mags1234	Replies:2 :236	Latest by mags1234 26 Jun 09
Mortage back payments since the split Hi. Hope you can help... My current partner's marriage broke up in August 2006 when his estranged wife decided to be with someone else. In January 2007 ... 25 Jun 09, by jessica_bluebell Latest 26 Jun 09 by jessica_bluebell	Replies:2 :289	Latest by jessica_bluebell 26 Jun 09
It's going to court - self representation? Hi New to the forum. My partner is currently finalising his divorce. Financial negotiations have broken down and his ex-wife is taking it to court. ... 25 Jun 09, by Outsider Latest 26 Jun 09 by Outsider	Replies:2 :240	Latest by Outsider 26 Jun 09
Nightmare Wife has just decided that she would like a divorce, try as i can shes not budging, so after 10 yrs thats that. worried about all sorts as im sure is u ... 24 Jun 09, by cdodvr Latest 26 Jun 09 by ENYO	Replies:6 :208	Latest by ENYO 26 Jun 09
hi everyone just found wikivorce We have been through a rough patch for the last 18 months and my wife wants me to go, then 2 weeks ago found out she has breast cancer, she has had op and waiti ... 26 Jun 09, by 0004gas Latest 26 Jun 09 by Macey7	Replies:2 :247	Latest by Macey7 26 Jun 09
slainte Or hello and good health I have been divorced since 2005 and i wish there had been something like wikivorce around then! I read about the site and thoug ... 25 Jun 09, by saoirse Latest 25 Jun 09 by Tets	Replies:1 :198	Latest by Tets 25 Jun 09
hi all just a quick background on myself I have been seperated from my ex for about 3.5 years due to the breakdown in our marrage (not to mention the other ma ... 25 Jun 09, by clue_les Latest 25 Jun 09 by clue_les	Replies:2 :234	Latest by clue_les 25 Jun 09
Marriage hs become a sham Hi - new boy here. I just need to get my feelings off my chest so hope this is the right place. Been married 8 years and have 2 wonderful boys. We no longer see ... 25 Jun 09, by Beardy Latest 25 Jun 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :246	Latest by NellNoRegrets 25 Jun 09
Not as alone as I thought I was.... Quick recap * Was married 12 yrs / 4 lovely children / aged 11,9,8,6 * Moved out FMH almost 2 yrs ago / discovered wife having affair for over a yr prev ... 24 Jun 09, by Strings152 Latest 25 Jun 09 by Yoda	Replies:2 :252	Latest by Yoda 25 Jun 09
Hello all I am already divorced and have been for many years. Best thing I ever did. Instead of being one half of something I was the whole and I have made of my ... 23 Jun 09, by lifesajoke Latest 25 Jun 09 by Angel557	Replies:1 :268	Latest by Angel557 25 Jun 09
i dont know what to think hello everyone im new to this site and im hoping that some one can help me.i have just moved in with my partner who is divorcing his wife.she left the marital h ... 23 Jun 09, by confused partner Latest 25 Jun 09 by D L	Replies:1 :215	Latest by D L 25 Jun 09
She refuses to share in costs I am married to this successful doctor. I am a successful engineer myself. She refuses to share costs of living. I want to divorce her with minimum damage. She ... 23 Jun 09, by Mgebali Latest 25 Jun 09 by D L	Replies:1 :283	Latest by D L 25 Jun 09
Hello Stumbled across this helpful site, being half way across the world going through similar experiences, hello to all of you. I am in the process of divor ... 25 Jun 09, by laila2003 Latest 25 Jun 09 by D L	Replies:1 :216	Latest by D L 25 Jun 09
I am a newbie Oooh this is scary! A little about myself! Have seperated from my husband who I was married to for 15 years. We have been seperated for 4 months. I ... 25 Jun 09, by funny_farm Latest 25 Jun 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :232	Latest by NellNoRegrets 25 Jun 09
just discovered wikivorce read about this site in work today, great idea to identify with others " in the same boat ". i'm really confused about what to do about my relatio ... 24 Jun 09, by castiel Latest 24 Jun 09 by cassy	Replies:2 :243	Latest by cassy 24 Jun 09
Very Confused! Hi, I am SO new to all this, read about site today in the Daily Mail. I separated from my husband in February this year, after 20 years of marriage. I ... 23 Jun 09, by alli bee Latest 24 Jun 09 by alli bee	Replies:4 :265	Latest by alli bee 24 Jun 09
reccesion and the home not selling. 23 Jun 09, by 7wHayes Latest 24 Jun 09 by LittleMrMike	Replies:1 :298	Latest by LittleMrMike 24 Jun 09
Another Newbie! Hi, Read about the site in the newspaper this morning and it struck a chord! I'm a long way through the process compared to lots of people here and div ... 23 Jun 09, by Yoda Latest 24 Jun 09 by Shezi	Replies:2 :258	Latest by Shezi 24 Jun 09
\"Be Happy\" The last words my late Dad said to me before he died were "For God's sake, be happy." He knew without me saying anything that I wasn't and it was jus ... 22 Jun 09, by EnoughIsSufficient Latest 23 Jun 09 by optimistpessimist 1 2	Replies:7 :541	Latest by optimistpessimist 23 Jun 09
time to introduce myself Dear All, I thought it was time I introduced myself after lurking in the shadows for a while. I'm afraid it is rather a sad and pathetic little story, ... 20 Jun 09, by whyme? Latest 23 Jun 09 by Shezi	Replies:6 :309	Latest by Shezi 23 Jun 09
Hello posters A sad place here but good to discover I'm not alone facing the harsh reality of a marriage down the pan. Going for a look around the site now and hope ... 23 Jun 09, by Invadersmustdie Latest 23 Jun 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :307	Latest by NellNoRegrets 23 Jun 09

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