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New here... just dont know were to start Hi, As the title says I really dont know were to start... Breif story so far... I have felt that we have been slowly drifting appart since July ... 11 Aug 09, by Noodle14 Latest 11 Aug 09 by STBXIsMoneyObsessed	Replies:1 :288	Latest by STBXIsMoneyObsessed 11 Aug 09
I'm new to this! Hi all, I've just found this website and think this may be just what I need to get my head round the happenings of the last few weeks. My Story: I first sta ... 10 Aug 09, by angieo1979 Latest 11 Aug 09 by joey1963 1 2	Replies:11 :558	Latest by joey1963 11 Aug 09
I feel in a financial trap Hi, the last few months have been hell. My story is complicated but here goes. Married 15 years together for 20. Two children, 5 and 7. After councelling ... 10 Aug 09, by nj@rr@m01 Latest 11 Aug 09 by LittleMrMike	Replies:1 :273	Latest by LittleMrMike 11 Aug 09
distraut elderley friend in need Hi I have been trawling the internet, trying to find information that may help an elderly lady that I know, who is currently in the process of court proceed ... 08 Aug 09, by advisor1 Latest 10 Aug 09 by advisor1 1 2	Replies:7 :635	Latest by advisor1 10 Aug 09
Hello from a newbie - here's my story Hi everyone, My name's Simon and I'm just about to turn 28. I've only just discovered this site and I'm glad I've found it as I think it will help me enormo ... 09 Aug 09, by Simon20_08 Latest 09 Aug 09 by mrsound	Replies:2 :417	Latest by mrsound 09 Aug 09
Life begins at 40! Hello all! Today is Sunday August 9th. I am in the middle of a two week holiday and have had time to reflect which I suppose you do when there isn't w ... 09 Aug 09, by om69 Latest 09 Aug 09 by Bobbinalong	Replies:2 :243	Latest by Bobbinalong 09 Aug 09
Not sure which way to turn....... Hello everyone, I look forward to reading, contributing and learning from this site over the next few months; no doubt I will very quickly become addicted and w ... 09 Aug 09, by ponygal44 Latest 09 Aug 09 by saffron1968	Replies:1 :246	Latest by saffron1968 09 Aug 09
struggling with life without wife Hi everybody... Im new to wikivorce and also new to being seperated. I don't usuly go onto forums or chat online,i don't even have a facebook site.I sh ... 07 Aug 09, by eyes open Latest 09 Aug 09 by STBXIsMoneyObsessed 1 2 3 4	Replies:23 :1240	Latest by STBXIsMoneyObsessed 09 Aug 09
Life after Divorce Hi guys and gals, I hope this message finds you well. My name is Anabelle and i just thought i'd introduce myself. Like you, i have a great interest in how ... 08 Aug 09, by AnabelleM Latest 08 Aug 09 by Holloway	Replies:1 :244	Latest by Holloway 08 Aug 09
Hello all... Hello Everyone, I'm new here, so bear with me please ... 07 Aug 09, by Holloway Latest 08 Aug 09 by Holloway	Replies:6 :234	Latest by Holloway 08 Aug 09
My partner's decree absolute My partner was notified of his decree nisi back in 2000 but it never got to the absolute stage. Obviously his estranged wife didn't want to apply for it. He's ... 03 Aug 09, by rita59 Latest 08 Aug 09 by rita59 1 2	Replies:10 :476	Latest by rita59 08 Aug 09
Ex is delaying financial disclosure This may cheer up all the men who feel women always get it all their own way. My husband (stbx) abruptly left me just after New Year 2007 after a 2 1/2 years m ... 08 Aug 09, by rachumcake Latest 08 Aug 09 by 012jollyLass	Replies:3 :1806	Latest by 012jollyLass 08 Aug 09
new to this forum Hi I wanted to introduce myself and ask for general advice. I'm 40 and my wife is 34. We've been married nearly 6 years (wedding anniversary on 16t ... 27 Jul 09, by nc1 Latest 07 Aug 09 by nc1	Replies:5 :249	Latest by nc1 07 Aug 09
Dad of 4 being shown the door Where do I start? My wife asked me for a separation at the start of last month, a week and a day after I was made redundant from my position as a prope ... 05 Aug 09, by im4 Latest 07 Aug 09 by Mneme 1 2	Replies:7 :531	Latest by Mneme 07 Aug 09
A step into the unknown Hi all After two weeks of reading your articles I’ve taken the plunge and signed up to this fantastic site. Reading your stories, both happy and sad, has ... 06 Aug 09, by jonboy65 Latest 07 Aug 09 by jonboy65	Replies:2 :231	Latest by jonboy65 07 Aug 09
How much of his army pension am i entitled to :unsure:Hi i am currently married to a ex service man we were married in august 1987 and he is time sevred 22yrs i am totaly confused as to why as he puts it ge ... 31 Jul 09, by jacqui48 Latest 05 Aug 09 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :328	Latest by hadenoughnow 05 Aug 09
Divorce petition on 5 year separation on hold why? ... 01 Aug 09, by zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz Latest 05 Aug 09 by AmitSharma	Replies:2 :259	Latest by AmitSharma 05 Aug 09
Moving on after divorce Hi guys and gals, I hope this message finds you well, My name is Anabelle and i just thought i'd introduce myself. Like you, i have a great interest in ... 04 Aug 09, by AnabelleM Latest 05 Aug 09 by Bon431	Replies:3 :337	Latest by Bon431 05 Aug 09
Newbie Hi all hope everyone is well. I am brand new to this site and am hoping that i will be able to get some knowlage etc to make me feel a bit better about ... 05 Aug 09, by crazy123 Latest 05 Aug 09 by STBXIsMoneyObsessed	Replies:1 :226	Latest by STBXIsMoneyObsessed 05 Aug 09
Made it this far! Hi to everyone, I am a newbie to this site & have been transfixed by all the info and support here! I have been seperated for 2.5 years & am now ... 04 Aug 09, by grace1992 Latest 05 Aug 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :264	Latest by NellNoRegrets 05 Aug 09
new to this site hi everyone, can anyone help me, i am going monday next wk to a solictor for a divorce on my x hubby, who left me in jan 09, just found out he has had a child w ... 04 Aug 09, by haybay40 Latest 04 Aug 09 by haybay40	Replies:5 :218	Latest by haybay40 04 Aug 09
hi everyone I am a solicitor with experience in family law, particularly in dealing with property and ancillary relief. I am not here to push you to use my busines ... 04 Aug 09, by AmitSharma Latest 04 Aug 09 by STBXIsMoneyObsessed 1 2 3	Replies:16 :1024	Latest by STBXIsMoneyObsessed 04 Aug 09
reflection... Hello You know the scene in 'Gladiator' when he is walking through the cornfield,towards his beautiful home,his beautiful wife and his kids,well its like th ... 04 Aug 09, by marky123456 Latest 04 Aug 09 by STBXIsMoneyObsessed	Replies:1 :332	Latest by STBXIsMoneyObsessed 04 Aug 09
Family law advice! Hi everyone, My name is Vasoulla Constantinou and I am a family law solicitor. I have just joined this site and I look forward to chatting with you al ... 04 Aug 09, by vas.constantinou Latest 04 Aug 09 by D L	Replies:4 :263	Latest by D L 04 Aug 09
Devestated Daughter My husband left last Friday to live with someone else, bolt from the blue for us all. Son 19 & daughter 15. Son took it all in his stride, daughter devastat ... 04 Aug 09, by julie321 Latest 04 Aug 09 by Marshy_	Replies:5 :300	Latest by Marshy_ 04 Aug 09
seperation in australia Can someone, an Australiam, please explain the process of seperation and what's involved if you've been married less than a year? Hope someone can help me out h ... 02 Aug 09, by robv Latest 04 Aug 09 by rosiegirl	Replies:1 :232	Latest by rosiegirl 04 Aug 09
So upset - my wife has gone forever Hi all. I'm crying as I write this so please bare with me if I ramble. To be honest I don't know what I'm asking I just need to get this out. My wife a ... 02 Aug 09, by Look Ahead Latest 02 Aug 09 by Lucretia	Replies:5 :567	Latest by Lucretia 02 Aug 09
Worried and feeling alone Hi Im new to all this but heres my story I met my husband 29 years ago I was divorced with 2 children 5 & 7 we married in 1985 and had a son in 1986 My ... 02 Aug 09, by AGB Latest 02 Aug 09 by AGB	Replies:2 :222	Latest by AGB 02 Aug 09
Hi to everyone and help hi My name is elaine and i'm new to this. i am at the moment going through a nasty divorce. can't believe how complicated it gets and the cost and time involved ... 02 Aug 09, by sevioure Latest 02 Aug 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :233	Latest by NellNoRegrets 02 Aug 09
Please help me, I'm so worried and confused! Hi, this is my first post on here so please be gentle with me. I have also posted this on the finance forum in the hope that somebody might be able to offer so ... 01 Aug 09, by Helianthus Latest 01 Aug 09 by LittleMrMike	Replies:1 :278	Latest by LittleMrMike 01 Aug 09
didnt expect to end up like this Hi, Im new to this site and really not sure what to put........ I got married this year, whirlwind romance which ended very quickly and very badly for ... 01 Aug 09, by sparky113 Latest 01 Aug 09 by dukey	Replies:1 :210	Latest by dukey 01 Aug 09
Bit lost I recently split from my wife who has now returned to the UK. I live overseas and want to get a divorce, we were only married 18 months. Not sure what I need to ... 30 Jul 09, by expatman Latest 31 Jul 09 by BreakupAngelsKirsten	Replies:1 :236	Latest by BreakupAngelsKirsten 31 Jul 09
Hi. Wife decided she moves out is only option. Not really sure what to write...but here goes. We were both married previously (not to each other!)and got married 6 years ago (just had anniversary if ... 30 Jul 09, by Paul.B Latest 30 Jul 09 by Jack808	Replies:4 :232	Latest by Jack808 30 Jul 09
Hello from a good guy in a bad place Where do I start? My story is not unusal. I feel almost guilty sharing, many folks have been though so much more but I feel the need of support from go ... 26 Jul 09, by rowlf Latest 30 Jul 09 by jimmcv 1 2 3	Replies:20 :819	Latest by jimmcv 30 Jul 09
I'm a good guy -Didn't think it would come to this Hi everyone, I'm sure I am not unique in my situation (unfortunately), but I hope you'll forgive letting you know where I am at. I'm 32 years ... 29 Jul 09, by Broken but not beaten Latest 30 Jul 09 by smurfy	Replies:3 :267	Latest by smurfy 30 Jul 09
Thought I was going quite well... ... but then it crept up on me! Hello - I am currently divorcing my husband. He left me for good in February after dithering about whether to stay or go for mon ... 29 Jul 09, by daaatn Latest 30 Jul 09 by muchtoomuch	Replies:1 :220	Latest by muchtoomuch 30 Jul 09
New on here but not to divorce proceedings! Hello everyone. I am so glad I found this site as I am at the end of my tether with my solicitor and my whole divorce process. I started my divorce proceeding ... 28 Jul 09, by dinkydo Latest 29 Jul 09 by dinkydo 1 2	Replies:7 :564	Latest by dinkydo 29 Jul 09
Me. I'm not so good at this sort of stuff so bare with me. I'm 41, male and currently I'm scared almost senseless. 8 weeks ago my wife told me that she wanted e ... 28 Jul 09, by jimmcv Latest 28 Jul 09 by jimmcv	Replies:6 :245	Latest by jimmcv 28 Jul 09
its a scarey thing! [img] Hi My names michelle and i have 2 boys age 15 and 18. I have been married for 6 years (2nd marriage) and its now gone sour. My 2 boys are really ... 27 Jul 09, by choc123mich123 Latest 28 Jul 09 by Bon431	Replies:5 :300	Latest by Bon431 28 Jul 09
Here to learn Hi everyone, I will not add a link to our website so this page will not be remove. We are launching a new divorce mediation website and we are here to l ... 28 Jul 09, by ilanziv Latest 28 Jul 09 by Tets	Replies:1 :232	Latest by Tets 28 Jul 09

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