The UK's largest and most visited divorce site.
Modern, convenient and affordable services.
We've helped over 1 million people since 2007.

Click this button for details of our

email, phone nbr and free consultations.

How To Contact Us

Introduce Yourself 4834 topics

New to the site? Why not write a short post to introduce yourself and describe your situation. Reach out and connect with our community.

Useful Resources for this Topic

Subject	Replies /	Latest
At the end of my tether Hi been married for 26 years. Husband has always been prone to throwing what I can only call tantrums.As he has got older has progressivly worse and sometimes v ... 22 Jul 09, by jacq05 Latest 27 Jul 09 by jacq05	Replies:4 :232	Latest by jacq05 27 Jul 09
Hello - new mum of a small whirlwind I am already very glad I have found this great resource - I was directed here from mumsnet (another great resource). I am currently a single mum to a b ... 26 Jul 09, by katie7 Latest 26 Jul 09 by mumtoboys	Replies:3 :267	Latest by mumtoboys 26 Jul 09
Introduction Hello, My name is David and I have recently separated from my wife. Even though we have not started the divorce, I feel that is where we are headed. I did not ... 25 Jul 09, by dkvist Latest 25 Jul 09 by Joff	Replies:2 :207	Latest by Joff 25 Jul 09
21 Years of misery Hi everyone, I've spent all day reading here as Husband left note this a.m to say he'd be staying away tonight and I feel the time has come to separate. That's ... 25 Jul 09, by enliven Latest 25 Jul 09 by enliven	Replies:2 :237	Latest by enliven 25 Jul 09
Separating after 19 years After 19 years of marriage my wife has told me she no longer loves me and does not want to be with me anymore.? We have 3 children who I love dearly and I a ... 24 Jul 09, by Sunshine8473 Latest 25 Jul 09 by Brunswick 1 2	Replies:8 :607	Latest by Brunswick 25 Jul 09
Male Menopause I am convinced my hubby is not well. He wants to divorce me after 27 years together, 24 years married. He says he doesn't love me anymore - I and everybody th ... 24 Jul 09, by luis Latest 24 Jul 09 by Lilibet	Replies:3 :321	Latest by Lilibet 24 Jul 09
Joined at last Hi everyone, I have finally joined this at last (I have read posts to try and glean info as my sol is rubbish!!). My divorce is taking longer than expected and ... 24 Jul 09, by wagonwheel007 Latest 24 Jul 09 by dukey	Replies:3 :259	Latest by dukey 24 Jul 09
Do I need to admit adultery if I don't contest My husband went to work in Iraq against my wishes in Sept 2007. We have a daughter who was just 5 at the time and I have a son who was 15 from a previous relat ... 20 Jul 09, by victoriasharp Latest 23 Jul 09 by victoriasharp 1 2	Replies:11 :994	Latest by victoriasharp 23 Jul 09
dont know what to believe anymore hubby an I married for 28 years, found out last year he had been having affair for 5 years with his ex secretary, also married, he says its over, I want to bel ... 23 Jul 09, by ausgirl Latest 23 Jul 09 by flick5	Replies:2 :341	Latest by flick5 23 Jul 09
hubby walked out after 20 years hi 2 weeks ago, my hubby walked out after 20 years together. we've been married for 5 years and have 3 children. his reason was he doesn't love me no m ... 21 Jul 09, by tubbies7 Latest 22 Jul 09 by daisygreen 1 2	Replies:8 :633	Latest by daisygreen 22 Jul 09
Trying to be brave!! Hi there, I've just found this site when I googled "How to tell your husband you're leaving" and you look like the kind of people that can underst ... 20 Jul 09, by Nickkii Latest 22 Jul 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:2 :443	Latest by dissapointed dad 22 Jul 09
Introduction Going through final stages of a divorce following 21 years of marriage. My wife had an affair and asked me to leave the matrimonial home when i found out. We ha ... 21 Jul 09, by cw172 Latest 21 Jul 09 by hadenoughnow	Replies:4 :190	Latest by hadenoughnow 21 Jul 09
It's harder than I thought Hi everyone I've been floating round on the edges of wikivorce for a few weeks. I'm three weeks into a separation after 10+ years together and almost 8 ... 21 Jul 09, by winnie09 Latest 21 Jul 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :248	Latest by NellNoRegrets 21 Jul 09
general advice ! Weve been married for almost 4 years. Due to very sad circumstances we are getting divorced. Its all amicable as neither of us wants to hurt the other. We w ... 20 Jul 09, by ajftk Latest 20 Jul 09 by boredwithwaiting	Replies:1 :228	Latest by boredwithwaiting 20 Jul 09
Hi I'm new to this site and was initially looking for some advice re child maintenance. I've been separated from my husband for over 3 years and neither o ... 19 Jul 09, by chocolategirl Latest 20 Jul 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :208	Latest by NellNoRegrets 20 Jul 09
Canada Hi Everyone! I have been separated since Jan 2009. I'm having an amazing journey of self-discovery. It's nice to know there's a group of people like this! 18 Jul 09, by s6789	Replies:0 :264
Living in Denial Been together 25 yrs, married 15 years, two kids 14 and 10. They have been at it for 3 years now, she worked for him. Last year he went and opened up ... 16 Jul 09, by Rewob Latest 17 Jul 09 by megan09	Replies:6 :222	Latest by megan09 17 Jul 09
Not know if I should go through with divorce ? Hi Just looking for advice really ,although everyone on this site seems ... 17 Jul 09, by serena Latest 17 Jul 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :219	Latest by NellNoRegrets 17 Jul 09
hi need advice help hi all posted today on depression forum please read im 39 year man whos live has been turned upside:( ... 17 Jul 09, by am13 Latest 17 Jul 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :268	Latest by NellNoRegrets 17 Jul 09
Re: Advise on separation but not married..? My partner has decided to walk out of our relationship when there was nothing wrong with it. So it has ended for no reason, he doesn't even want to talk about i ... 17 Jul 09, by Angelise Latest 17 Jul 09 by D L	Replies:1 :231	Latest by D L 17 Jul 09
Move on Hi to all. Been married for 27 years and the last 3 yrs we have slept separately, no one else involved have 2 teenage children who know whats going on. My q ... 16 Jul 09, by tyman Latest 16 Jul 09 by BreakupAngelsKirsten	Replies:1 :241	Latest by BreakupAngelsKirsten 16 Jul 09
non compliance of court order HELP? I'm in the SIXTH year of a divorce.(as petitioner)I got the decree absolute and court/consent order 18 months ago. Part of that order was the instruct ... 13 Jul 09, by frustr8tedandbroke Latest 16 Jul 09 by frustr8tedandbroke 1 2	Replies:11 :603	Latest by frustr8tedandbroke 16 Jul 09
Hello Just wanted to say hi, my name is Dee and I have recently left the marital home and moved into rented with youngest and oldest kids. We have been together for 2 ... 15 Jul 09, by Denby Latest 15 Jul 09 by Shezi	Replies:1 :235	Latest by Shezi 15 Jul 09
I'm thinking of separation. Help please! Dear All, First I want 2 say thanks to this website. Can I take my children with me out of the country to live abroad outside EU.I'm not from UK, but my ... 15 Jul 09, by want2dvorce Latest 15 Jul 09 by Fiona	Replies:2 :283	Latest by Fiona 15 Jul 09
divorcing my wife yet i am gutted hi everyone, we had been married 11 years and then she met someone on the net in july07. in dec i met a girl and we were both committing adult ... 15 Jul 09, by dad999 Latest 15 Jul 09 by dad999 1 2 3	Replies:18 :1046	Latest by dad999 15 Jul 09
Newbie here! Hi, just wanted to introduce myself. I'm Marian, going through the process now, although we are still under the same roof (unfortunately). I have 2 children, an ... 14 Jul 09, by justified1 Latest 15 Jul 09 by justified1	Replies:4 :247	Latest by justified1 15 Jul 09
Just wanted to say Hi. Hi I have been divorced for three years but because of the two children suppose I am still liing with the fallout from it. i just wanted to say Hi and see ... 14 Jul 09, by star2009 Latest 14 Jul 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :232	Latest by NellNoRegrets 14 Jul 09
Help Hi I am new on this forum but would like to get some advice. My wife, after 22 years of marriage, has decided to leave me. We have an 18 year old son who is ... 08 Jul 09, by Zee69 Latest 14 Jul 09 by hadenoughnow	Replies:5 :199	Latest by hadenoughnow 14 Jul 09
help! a very stressed sarah! Hey, new to the site and need some advice! Brief description so far - husband left 2 years ago after 3 months of marriage. Wedding/honeymoon/new car all paid ... 14 Jul 09, by SarahBirch123 Latest 14 Jul 09 by SarahBirch123	Replies:4 :243	Latest by SarahBirch123 14 Jul 09
What do to, what to do Hi, I just joined because I am thinking about divorce and in a situation that slowly drives me crazy, because I don't know if I should make a final decision or ... 13 Jul 09, by khaythora Latest 14 Jul 09 by Fiona	Replies:4 :350	Latest by Fiona 14 Jul 09
2nd harder than the 1st Hi Guys So glad to have found this site here's a breif outline of my situation........ Husband left 9 Jun ... 14 Jul 09, by Bluebird71 Latest 14 Jul 09 by mumtoboys	Replies:2 :240	Latest by mumtoboys 14 Jul 09
Hello I thought had better say hello to all you wiki people as I'm hoping to pick your brains! And I thought I best warn you I'm a terrible typer and my spelling goe ... 13 Jul 09, by isolex77 Latest 14 Jul 09 by TUFKAB	Replies:3 :327	Latest by TUFKAB 14 Jul 09
oh, Me, of course Hi, I've been on wiki for a few months now, and to say its been helpful is an understament. ( thanks wikifolk ) I have got my life back on track, and been a ... 14 Jul 09, by sevenovnine	Replies:0 :215
Hello, thanks for having me Hi All Found the site a few weeks ago and have recently taken the decision to post something. I am about a year into a break up which is going ... 13 Jul 09, by wikied Latest 13 Jul 09 by Macey7	Replies:3 :224	Latest by Macey7 13 Jul 09
What can I do? My husband left in March after telling me he was going to have to do a paternity test, this was for a so call friend who's partner was questioning if he was the ... 13 Jul 09, by snuggles Latest 13 Jul 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :276	Latest by NellNoRegrets 13 Jul 09
Hello - Advice needed please. Hi, I've been reading through lots of posts on this site, and have found them very informative. I hoping that someone could give me more specific advice for ... 13 Jul 09, by robb30 Latest 13 Jul 09 by robb30	Replies:2 :240	Latest by robb30 13 Jul 09
Going It Alone I have never gone onto a forum before but after reading a couple of posts I realised we all have something to share and learn from others. After being marri ... 12 Jul 09, by sbtlpb74 Latest 12 Jul 09 by sbtlpb74	Replies:2 :252	Latest by sbtlpb74 12 Jul 09
I feel I am going mad...What do I do?? Where do I start.. I have been married over 12 years now and have two children (8 & 12). I have been so unhappy over the last few years but am stuck with th ... 12 Jul 09, by justs Latest 12 Jul 09 by Itgetsbetter	Replies:3 :261	Latest by Itgetsbetter 12 Jul 09
hi I have been married 15 years and every few months my wife sulks big time - not talking and being generally nasty. I have tried talking over the years, but no lu ... 12 Jul 09, by Chris101 Latest 12 Jul 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :205	Latest by NellNoRegrets 12 Jul 09
Hi Newby alert!!! Mmm done this a bit backwards! Posted in the property and mortgages forum then found this section. If i knew how to transfer that page to her ... 08 Jul 09, by dave1968 Latest 12 Jul 09 by rosiegirl	Replies:1 :215	Latest by rosiegirl 12 Jul 09

Do you need help sorting out a fair financial settlement?

Our consultant service offers expert advice and support to help you reach agreement on a fair financial settlement quickly, and for less than a quarter of the cost of using a traditional high street solicitor.