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hi hi im new to this my wife left me six morths ago after 18 yaers of marage and as move up to her new boyfriends place in Leicester and left me with my two kids n ... 23 Aug 09, by jaybull Latest 23 Aug 09 by JackieH	Replies:2 :198	Latest by JackieH 23 Aug 09
divorce hi evey one, new to this site looking for advice and support.not very good with this computor. my marrige of 30 ys ending.husband had affair last yr, tried to m ... 21 Aug 09, by suzi q Latest 23 Aug 09 by JackieH	Replies:5 :218	Latest by JackieH 23 Aug 09
New here, with mixed emotions Hi all, thank you for reading. 2 months have gone by and me and my partner are over. My choice, my decision. A four year relationship thats had it all. Fun, ... 17 Aug 09, by neen32095 Latest 23 Aug 09 by sandrew 1 2	Replies:10 :648	Latest by sandrew 23 Aug 09
Still baffled Hi, I've not used anything like this before and would just be grateful for some advice/opinions. My husband andI have been separated four and a half years, he ... 23 Aug 09, by A Holly Latest 23 Aug 09 by Ephelia	Replies:1 :290	Latest by Ephelia 23 Aug 09
a new member seeks help What a good idea. A place to air grievances, ask questions, tell yourstory to people who are interested. Unlike some of my acquaintences who simply get bored ... 23 Aug 09, by joyfull Latest 23 Aug 09 by asram	Replies:1 :378	Latest by asram 23 Aug 09
Baffled Been separated four and a half years, one ten year old son, have been putting off sorting divorce for several reasons, mainly financial, but have been advised t ... 23 Aug 09, by A Holly Latest 23 Aug 09 by mez	Replies:1 :222	Latest by mez 23 Aug 09
It's a damn shame My beautiful husband and father of our 3 children suffered a traumatic brain injury 9 years ago. He's been yelling ever since. I see glimmers of who he used to ... 23 Aug 09, by Hedgewitch Latest 23 Aug 09 by Sun 13	Replies:3 :238	Latest by Sun 13 23 Aug 09
HI Hello people, just found this site and have been reading threads for hours! So many people with so much experience and so much advice. My stor ... 20 Aug 09, by chiggers Latest 23 Aug 09 by sue184 1 2	Replies:10 :507	Latest by sue184 23 Aug 09
Life after divorce takes years to re-establish you Hello Everyone Just joined after reading a great article about this site. I have been divorced for nearly 3 years now (separated nearly 5) I had wen ... 18 Aug 09, by Shirl13 Latest 23 Aug 09 by Shirl13 1 2	Replies:7 :479	Latest by Shirl13 23 Aug 09
ME Well I too have stumbled on this site like so many of you whilst sitting on my own and wondering what I am going to do! After being together for 27 year, 25 ... 22 Aug 09, by palacemand Latest 23 Aug 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:4 :253	Latest by NellNoRegrets 23 Aug 09
What do you have to do to get it right? After 22 years together and 19 years of marriage (wife 41, myself 48) in april this year my wife told me that she is no longer feeling the same way about me and ... 21 Aug 09, by sandrew Latest 22 Aug 09 by sandrew 1 2 3 4	Replies:24 :879	Latest by sandrew 22 Aug 09
Hello, I'm Margot I am the founder and Executive Director of a nonprofit called Visions Anew, The Divorce Resource for Women. We connect divorcing w ... 22 Aug 09, by visions	Replies:0 :233
My story Hi, Just wanted to introduce myself and see if anyone else is in a similar situation, or can offer any advice. My husband and I were married f ... 22 Aug 09, by Bulletproof Latest 22 Aug 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :240	Latest by NellNoRegrets 22 Aug 09
saying hello So i say Hello to eve ... 21 Aug 09, by allofmyheart Latest 21 Aug 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :246	Latest by NellNoRegrets 21 Aug 09
Had enough I have been with my husband for 32 years. Have put up with adultery,verbal abuse cannot tolerate any more. We have two grown daughters and one approaching 16. ... 21 Aug 09, by prettymummy Latest 21 Aug 09 by prettymummy	Replies:6 :215	Latest by prettymummy 21 Aug 09
Well the forum says Introduce yourself.. Hi all, How did I stumble on to this site... You guessed it, because my marriage is down the pan... Wouldn't say we had the perfect marria ... 21 May 09, by AutumnSong Latest 21 Aug 09 by Lucretia 1 2 3	Replies:15 :789	Latest by Lucretia 21 Aug 09
Hi Hi. I am 52 years old from Northern Ireland, going through the initial stages and heartbreak of a seperation from my wife (of 28 yrs)and best friend of ... 20 Aug 09, by David 46 Latest 20 Aug 09 by Duffy1	Replies:2 :251	Latest by Duffy1 20 Aug 09
New and need advice Hi All I'm new here, no offence - I really don't want to be. Been with hubby for 24 years married 16 of them. In a nutshell, hubby has fallen head ... 18 Aug 09, by Nota Latest 20 Aug 09 by complicated... 1 2 3	Replies:18 :893	Latest by complicated... 20 Aug 09
Hello and Help?? Hi, Well it says say hello so here goes.. Hello.. I am a 30 year old female in need of a bit of help. i have my divorce and with that a court order for ... 20 Aug 09, by alisexis Latest 20 Aug 09 by alisexis	Replies:2 :242	Latest by alisexis 20 Aug 09
Greetings from Surrey Ok am new here so am writing this post to say hello to all the members - look forward to meeting many more of you. Even after a short scan through the ... 19 Aug 09, by weddphotog Latest 20 Aug 09 by STBXIsMoneyObsessed	Replies:2 :227	Latest by STBXIsMoneyObsessed 20 Aug 09
Anyone here from Glasgow,Scotland,UK? Hi,I've just joined and wonder if there's any support groups/individuals who may like to meet up/e-mail/private message in my area? My divorce finally came ... 07 Jan 09, by miss haversham Latest 19 Aug 09 by cisco 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:32 :1257	Latest by cisco 19 Aug 09
Getting a divorce and I am scared and confused! After 5 years with my wife, I have finally decided that I want a divorce but I am not sure where to start, I guess by contacting a divorce solicitor? M ... 18 Aug 09, by HRCBladeGaz Latest 19 Aug 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :260	Latest by NellNoRegrets 19 Aug 09
Intoducing Sam Hi. The wife has just told me its all over. We've been married 12 years and have 2 school age kids. I expect she will look after the kids full time - or at best ... 18 Aug 09, by sam2261 Latest 18 Aug 09 by Lucretia	Replies:5 :301	Latest by Lucretia 18 Aug 09
how do i set up a contact center can any body help i need to set up a contact center to see my kids but dont know how is there any one out there that can help? ... 17 Aug 09, by pickled Latest 18 Aug 09 by TBagpuss	Replies:1 :326	Latest by TBagpuss 18 Aug 09
Need advice please! Hi I am new to this so please bear with me! I have been divoced now for 18 months, seperated for 3 years. Our 8 year old daughter has just decided that she want ... 16 Aug 09, by ingrid74 Latest 18 Aug 09 by TBagpuss 1 2	Replies:12 :575	Latest by TBagpuss 18 Aug 09
advice for mate I need some advice for an aquaintance who "thought he was divorced" from his Thai wife. I do not have all the details but his current fiancee who has ... 17 Aug 09, by palawanman Latest 18 Aug 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :289	Latest by NellNoRegrets 18 Aug 09
New here! HI I am Blithe, I'm single and don't have any kids. I join this forum coz I found that this forum is really an interesting forum, the topics are really inte ... 18 Aug 09, by BlitheCassia Latest 18 Aug 09 by Private Detective	Replies:1 :254	Latest by Private Detective 18 Aug 09
I'm grappling with the future I have been separated for almost 6 months, after 20 years of marriage moving out of the marital home in March. I am paying £600 per month (23% of my net incom ... 17 Aug 09, by Anyoneconfused Latest 18 Aug 09 by Anyoneconfused	Replies:2 :351	Latest by Anyoneconfused 18 Aug 09
New to this. Hi all. Hi there, just introducing myself. I did my own divorce and am at the stage of completing the 'absolute', although, I left it for a year, and now don't know ... 17 Aug 09, by ee1968 Latest 17 Aug 09 by ee1968	Replies:4 :358	Latest by ee1968 17 Aug 09
FIRST APPOINT I have no solicitor but have to attend a first appointment next week. I dont know what happens at this meeting? Does my 'soon to be' ex's solicitor at ... 16 Aug 09, by abraham Latest 17 Aug 09 by abraham	Replies:2 :234	Latest by abraham 17 Aug 09
Looking For Advice! Hi there. I am new to this site and was really looking for any advice with how to cope with divorce. I have been separated from my wife for just over a year and ... 16 Aug 09, by buzz33 Latest 17 Aug 09 by buzz33	Replies:2 :279	Latest by buzz33 17 Aug 09
Hi everyone - I am separating after 30 years. Hi everyone - I am in the early stages of separation after 30 years of marriage! It all feels so scary and I need as much help and advice as i can get - i h ... 14 Aug 09, by holistic Latest 16 Aug 09 by holistic 1 2 3	Replies:16 :784	Latest by holistic 16 Aug 09
thinking about divorce - in a bad place right now Hi everyone I wanted to introduce myself and see what advise i cano get for my situation. I have been with my husband for 7 years, married for ... 16 Aug 09, by neverforget Latest 16 Aug 09 by littlegf	Replies:2 :259	Latest by littlegf 16 Aug 09
Who am I? ... 26 Jul 09, by Spadge Latest 16 Aug 09 by Shimmer 1 2 3 4	Replies:23 :982	Latest by Shimmer 16 Aug 09
stuck in mud and floundering - help!!! Hi all I'm new on here so bare with me. I'm separted and have been for almost a year. So why do I still feel so bad? In fact a feel worse now than in th ... 15 Aug 09, by sunnismile Latest 16 Aug 09 by sophe	Replies:6 :288	Latest by sophe 16 Aug 09
topsy turvy divoced aug last year consent order october he got 55% i got 45 still awaiting to sign french house to him on order his delay daughter lived with h ... 15 Aug 09, by hook line sinker	Replies:0 :247
Lurking Well, I've been lurking around this site for a while now and I felt it time to introduce myself. I' ll try and keep it compact. Married 26 years 1st ... 13 Aug 09, by Boo2u21964 Latest 14 Aug 09 by joey1963 1 2	Replies:7 :550	Latest by joey1963 14 Aug 09
nasty man Hi everyone. This is my first time here and I am looking for a little advice if anyone can offer. My problem started when my husband took a fancy to my bes ... 14 Aug 09, by wheresthefightgone Latest 14 Aug 09 by wheresthefightgone	Replies:4 :264	Latest by wheresthefightgone 14 Aug 09
Sister suicidal over husband's affair Help My sister has lost all interest in life since her husband said he is having an affair. She feels she has failed in everything and I want to help her bu ... 10 Aug 09, by boohoosob Latest 12 Aug 09 by Sun 13 1 2	Replies:10 :605	Latest by Sun 13 12 Aug 09
Totally Bemused Hi I'm currently going through a Divorce and the Decree Nis ... 10 Aug 09, by Defendant Latest 12 Aug 09 by abi	Replies:4 :280	Latest by abi 12 Aug 09

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