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anyone offer any advice? Hello everyone. In 2007 I explained to my husband that the marriage was over, we had tried but it just wasnt any good. After a heart to heart and denial he fi ... 09 Jun 09, by VeraCatherine Latest 09 Jun 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :270	Latest by NellNoRegrets 09 Jun 09
Hello Hello everyone, my wife of 23 yearss announced just over 4 weeks ago she had a new man who she'd known for 6 weeks, last week she moved out of our home and into ... 09 Jun 09, by Dave Astated Latest 09 Jun 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :180	Latest by NellNoRegrets 09 Jun 09
Just to say hi Just to say hi folks. I'm pretty sh*t at the mo. Waiting for Nisi and finding stbx totally unco-operative. Won't even let me have insurance forms to get mort ... 08 Jun 09, by Karenhy Latest 09 Jun 09 by Karenhy	Replies:5 :307	Latest by Karenhy 09 Jun 09
false allegations/custody/social services Hi, my ex is trying to have my daughter removed from my care by claiming I am starving/abusing her. He has called social services, got his dad to call ... 09 Jun 09, by flowerfairy Latest 09 Jun 09 by flowerfairy	Replies:4 :294	Latest by flowerfairy 09 Jun 09
Seeking people in similar situation Hi. I'm hoping to make contact with others who have asked for a divorce after many years of marriage. I feel sure it's the right thing for me to do, but I'm sti ... 08 Jun 09, by akaNicole Latest 09 Jun 09 by Payback1	Replies:2 :270	Latest by Payback1 09 Jun 09
Hi 08 Jun 09, by jane1164 Latest 09 Jun 09 by gladface	Replies:3 :201	Latest by gladface 09 Jun 09
newby i'm new to this - hubby and i talking about splitting - 2 kids - very wo ... 08 Jun 09, by vickimac Latest 09 Jun 09 by gladface	Replies:2 :191	Latest by gladface 09 Jun 09
My Story Hi, This is the first time I've posted, but I'm sure you've heard this before. About 6 weeks ago I found a secret email account that my husband had that was ... 27 Apr 09, by determined Latest 09 Jun 09 by determined 1 2	Replies:7 :572	Latest by determined 09 Jun 09
im new to this and not very good at it! 08 Jun 09, by stanley Latest 08 Jun 09 by Itgetsbetter	Replies:2 :288	Latest by Itgetsbetter 08 Jun 09
Saying hallo Hallo - I think I'm doing this right (if nothing else it ... 08 Jun 09, by EmmaB0vary Latest 08 Jun 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :239	Latest by NellNoRegrets 08 Jun 09
Help wanted please! It's a very long story, but I will try to put in a nutshell. Married much younger foreign girl, after 3 months she tells me that if I do not help her defraud a ... 08 Jun 09, by aragorn Latest 08 Jun 09 by aragorn	Replies:3 :226	Latest by aragorn 08 Jun 09
Hello and hope you can help I was 60 last September and hubby dropped a bombshell on me 3 weeks later and subsequently left the marital home on the pretext of a 'trial separation' which ha ... 08 Jun 09, by TizzI Latest 08 Jun 09 by Tets	Replies:1 :360	Latest by Tets 08 Jun 09
Hi Help and advice needed Evening all, I was married for 14 years with 2 children 6 and 5, i work offshore and have just found out my wife has left the marital home taking good with ... 27 May 09, by mintymurray Latest 07 Jun 09 by Elle	Replies:5 :249	Latest by Elle 07 Jun 09
priority not option hi all, just found this site and hopefully it will be just what i'm looking for.... I'm just about to separate from my husband, not really sure which direct ... 05 Jun 09, by LemonJelly Latest 07 Jun 09 by LittleMrMike	Replies:1 :263	Latest by LittleMrMike 07 Jun 09
Hello from new member - Stop Fighting Over The Kid Hello Wikivorce Members: I am an attorney from Baltimore, Maryland USA. I have been through one of the ugly types of Divorce and Child Custody battles. ... 04 Jun 09, by MikeTheLawyer.com Latest 07 Jun 09 by Elle	Replies:1 :306	Latest by Elle 07 Jun 09
New to site and in desperate need of support Hi there, I've just joined and hope to get some support and understanding from others in the same position as me. My Decree Nisi is through so nearly there but ... 06 Jun 09, by rosyposy Latest 07 Jun 09 by rosyposy 1 2	Replies:11 :529	Latest by rosyposy 07 Jun 09
Help required ...... please! I am presently in a relationship that has me on my knees at least once or twice a week, begging to be released. It is not that there is anything particularly wr ... 02 Jun 09, by lesson to learn Latest 07 Jun 09 by rosiegirl 1 2	Replies:8 :583	Latest by rosiegirl 07 Jun 09
Getting divorced - spousal maintenance Hi, My wife and I are getting divorced after a 5 years+ separation. We are currently doing mediation, but it looks like we will not reach an agreement ... 04 Jun 09, by markus Latest 07 Jun 09 by markus	Replies:6 :258	Latest by markus 07 Jun 09
Hi I'm new to this forum Hi Ive only recently joined this forum because Ive finally decided to push ahead and end my marriage. I have had so much conflicting advice (mainly from people ... 08 Sep 08, by suet64 Latest 07 Jun 09 by suet64	Replies:2 :333	Latest by suet64 07 Jun 09
Is anyone else this hateful? Know what? It doesn't get better. I made a vow, till death do us part I meant it. I've been over this and over this, all I can think of is Someone has to die. ... 23 May 09, by KorkieKd Latest 06 Jun 09 by KorkieKd 1 2	Replies:11 :567	Latest by KorkieKd 06 Jun 09
hi I'm 34 years old, was married 6 1/2 years when my husband left. We have a 3 1/2 year old son. Currently going through the divorce procedure. I'm Iri ... 29 May 09, by silvergirl267 Latest 06 Jun 09 by silvergirl267	Replies:2 :197	Latest by silvergirl267 06 Jun 09
Hi All Well hello to all. I am new to this site and wish it had been around a few years ago when I was going through the worst of times. Just to intr ... 06 Jun 09, by CaringDad Latest 06 Jun 09 by CaringDad	Replies:2 :250	Latest by CaringDad 06 Jun 09
Is there any win in this for me Hi, Ive stumbled across this by chance and already feel less isolated. Mine has been a long relationship - how this phrase has come back to haunt me- over 25ye ... 04 Jun 09, by tenyearstoolate Latest 06 Jun 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :240	Latest by NellNoRegrets 06 Jun 09
newbe Hi all, im a newbe to this site so please excuse me if i make too many mistakes. im a father of 4 children which was seeing every saturday until recentl ... 05 Jun 09, by bothered Latest 06 Jun 09 by dukey	Replies:3 :214	Latest by dukey 06 Jun 09
Getting there, but it's not easy..... My husband walked out nearly two years ago, leaving me with three small children (all at primary school). He has not contributed towards the cost of running th ... 06 Jun 09, by Little Kate Latest 06 Jun 09 by Itgetsbetter	Replies:1 :223	Latest by Itgetsbetter 06 Jun 09
divorce Hi I'm new to this site, just looking for a bit of support and advice. I've been married 7 years and have twin boys that are 6. In Feb my husband quite visc ... 05 Jun 09, by marymary123 Latest 06 Jun 09 by Elle	Replies:3 :248	Latest by Elle 06 Jun 09
Total breakdown in communication. just joined up after seeing article in yesterdays times and have been reading about members experiences with interest. I have just petitioned for divorce fr ... 05 Jun 09, by raceyrunner Latest 05 Jun 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :309	Latest by NellNoRegrets 05 Jun 09
How do I get strong enough not to keep calling My husband has left me 4 weeks ago, and all I do is call him, but he never answers my calls, and then I start feeling bad for chasing him and begging him to co ... 21 May 09, by Lorrae Latest 05 Jun 09 by NellNoRegrets 1 2 3	Replies:15 :968	Latest by NellNoRegrets 05 Jun 09
Hi-feel hopelessly lost and confused? cos I do! this is all such a nightmare - as if splitting up wasn't bad enough - then all the forms!!! ... 04 Jun 09, by ron28158 Latest 04 Jun 09 by rubytuesday	Replies:1 :257	Latest by rubytuesday 04 Jun 09
nunpty heads Hello , How does one make sure one does not end up with a numpty head man , again ? What are the signs to look for that you are onto a losing battle? Please rep ... 04 Jun 09, by big bird Latest 04 Jun 09 by Krystaltips	Replies:3 :328	Latest by Krystaltips 04 Jun 09
Advice Hi I am posting in the vain hope that I can pick the brains of all you lovely forum people to help out my incredibly stressed partner 04 Jun 09, by Wonder Woman Latest 04 Jun 09 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :186	Latest by Marshy_ 04 Jun 09
Hi Hi, found this site after reading an article in the times today, & it was just at the right time! My husband of 14 years has left & wants a div ... 04 Jun 09, by MrsUnhappy Latest 04 Jun 09 by Kimmi	Replies:4 :255	Latest by Kimmi 04 Jun 09
New to this/ coming to terms with the past Hello, I am new to this. 9 months ago my husband of 28 yrs announced that he had found the "love of his life and soulmate". Since that time I have mov ... 04 Jun 09, by Mary Alice	Replies:0 :222
Hello Hi In process of seperation; my soulmate no longer loves me ... 02 Jun 09, by coasdad Latest 03 Jun 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:1 :215	Latest by dissapointed dad 03 Jun 09
I was too late I'm a male, 36 years old. I met the love of my life 3 years ago in April of 2006. We moved fast and were married in July 2007. I have (had) an addictio ... 02 Jun 09, by Legion Latest 03 Jun 09 by Legion	Replies:2 :210	Latest by Legion 03 Jun 09
Hi Hello, I am so glad I stumbled across this site, as I am totally lost as to what to do. I just turned 32, have two little boys (3 and 2) and h ... 01 Jun 09, by mary_pullings Latest 02 Jun 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:4 :270	Latest by dissapointed dad 02 Jun 09
In a difficult place! Hi there I used this site several years ago for my new partner during his divorce and it was brilliant. Now I find myself in a rotten position and wond ... 28 May 09, by Peaceful Life Latest 02 Jun 09 by Fiona	Replies:1 :229	Latest by Fiona 02 Jun 09
Children Hi I'm Andrew and new to this. Firstly the Seperation was my fault after 2 affairs over a 7 year period. During that period I moved out for 3 months after my fi ... 02 Jun 09, by Andrewhjames Latest 02 Jun 09 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :177	Latest by Marshy_ 02 Jun 09
Confused, hurt but having to move on Hi there everyone, I never thought I would ever be writing on any forum, let alone a divorce forum. I don't know where to start as the last 7 months have been ' ... 30 May 09, by ellen62 Latest 01 Jun 09 by plum1217 1 2	Replies:11 :581	Latest by plum1217 01 Jun 09
Divorce Settlement Hi to anyone who can help me. I left my husband in Feb 07 due to his drinking, behaviour as he would not leave the matrimonial home. I have 3 ... 31 May 09, by ddenmar Latest 01 Jun 09 by ddenmar	Replies:5 :209	Latest by ddenmar 01 Jun 09

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