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My Situation. Dear Friends, Thanks for taking some time to take a peek at a slice of my life. I had been married for 14 years, 3 lovely children and become successfu ... 31 May 09, by 14warren Latest 01 Jun 09 by sensitive	Replies:1 :214	Latest by sensitive 01 Jun 09
ME AND MY DILEMMA hello Folks, I stumbled across this web site and i am really glad i did, from what i have seen so far its a very informative site with lots of info that i h ... 29 May 09, by localgirl53 Latest 31 May 09 by localgirl53	Replies:4 :333	Latest by localgirl53 31 May 09
Another new one Hello all I thought I would add a quick intro as I have spent many hours reading through old threads and posts, some really good advice on here 30 May 09, by anynamewilldo Latest 30 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :231	Latest by NellNoRegrets 30 May 09
will my life get better? Hi,i am just in the middle of seperation from my husband after 18 yrs,he is an alcoholic and has chosen this over his family,i have given him many chances to ch ... 30 May 09, by dee67 Latest 30 May 09 by dee67	Replies:2 :375	Latest by dee67 30 May 09
intro hi ive just joint this forum as recomended by a friend on here im 44 female and seperated 3 yrs ago after 20 yrs of marriage, my husband wont agree to a div ... 27 May 09, by billie44 Latest 30 May 09 by TUFKAB	Replies:3 :205	Latest by TUFKAB 30 May 09
hello out there Hi, never in my wildest dreams did I imagine I would be here today. I th ... 29 May 09, by timesup Latest 29 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :259	Latest by NellNoRegrets 29 May 09
What to do next Hello every one, I am new to this forum with a dilema. I have not been the greatest of husbands and whilst not thinking I have been abusive, I have on ... 15 May 09, by ub40fan Latest 29 May 09 by Marshy_ 1 2	Replies:13 :565	Latest by Marshy_ 29 May 09
Hi everyone! Although this is supposed to be the intro section, I'm pretty sure theres going to be a lot here thats going to need splitting off into the other forums 29 May 09, by stressedNbusy Latest 29 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :215	Latest by NellNoRegrets 29 May 09
Introducing myself Hello - I'm a 50+ year old male separated for nearly a year from my wife of 20+ yrs.....she is a volatile unpredictable person who, ashamed though I am to admit ... 25 May 09, by abc111 Latest 29 May 09 by abc111 1 2	Replies:8 :582	Latest by abc111 29 May 09
New boy Hi ppl just found this website and looking for a bit of advice on my situation hope you can help:) ... 28 May 09, by GazzaH Latest 28 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :234	Latest by NellNoRegrets 28 May 09
Intro and question I have been married for 5 years now and have 2 beautiful children. My wife had previously wanted to leave me prior to my second child being born but stayed beca ... 25 May 09, by Drew 8 Latest 28 May 09 by Drew 8	Replies:2 :294	Latest by Drew 8 28 May 09
Separation Agreement I am new to this and have not posted before, so not sure if I am asking this in the right place. I am separating but currently still living in the MH. I am want ... 28 May 09, by Fabmum Latest 28 May 09 by rubytuesday	Replies:5 :326	Latest by rubytuesday 28 May 09
Totally Devastated Hi, haven't really used this site but now feels the right time to do so. I did introduce myself the other week and since then life has taken a turn for the wor ... 28 May 09, by theironingfairy Latest 28 May 09 by mintymurray	Replies:1 :362	Latest by mintymurray 28 May 09
Hello Hi, I thought I would become a member and see if I can get some advice on my situation after reading numerous posts from other members over the past few weeks!< ... 28 May 09, by gtlt Latest 28 May 09 by asc1903	Replies:2 :200	Latest by asc1903 28 May 09
serial divorcee! Hi, i put serial divorcee in the title bar as i told my dad thats what i am now! Am just about to be divorced for the 2nd time, both marriages only lasted 3 yea ... 22 May 09, by halolady Latest 27 May 09 by Elle	Replies:1 :317	Latest by Elle 27 May 09
Hi , I,m definately a forum member now ! ,Hi , Ive buzzed this forum once or twice over the last few months while I wasnt sure what was happening , But things have deteriorated and I think its time to ... 25 May 09, by lionel Latest 27 May 09 by cerealkilla999	Replies:4 :327	Latest by cerealkilla999 27 May 09
introducing myself Hi to Everyone I am +50 male.My wife left our house last December.We have been separated since then and she admitted that there is someone else.I do wa ... 25 May 09, by Bry Latest 27 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:5 :267	Latest by NellNoRegrets 27 May 09
When does it stop hurting? My husband & I agreed to put some space between us last June, afer he had a relationship with another woman and had signed himself up to several internet da ... 24 May 09, by jma28 Latest 27 May 09 by happyian 1 2	Replies:7 :630	Latest by happyian 27 May 09
A week has gone by and time for introduction I signed up to this site about a week ago but have been a bit all over the shop to put something down about what is happening. For the past two years I ... 26 May 09, by venetia Latest 26 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :237	Latest by NellNoRegrets 26 May 09
UK or OZ? Hi, this is me... I split with my husband 12 months ago shortly after emigrating from UK to Australia. I returned to UK and he stayed in Oz. Both agr ... 25 May 09, by jowa Latest 26 May 09 by D L	Replies:1 :281	Latest by D L 26 May 09
Intro My first ever posting. Hurt and bemused just about covers it. I focused my entire life on my wife, home, our security and ultimately the kids,for 18 years. Th ... 26 May 09, by hurtandbemused Latest 26 May 09 by Brunswick	Replies:2 :212	Latest by Brunswick 26 May 09
Hello and some help please Hello to you all. Hope a lot of you have got things sorted and are now helping folks like me. My wife who I have lived with for 14 years (married only ... 25 May 09, by asc1903 Latest 26 May 09 by asc1903	Replies:2 :258	Latest by asc1903 26 May 09
Selling the marital home Hi everyone. Hope someone can help. Just wondered if anyone knows what the situation is with regards to selling the marital home. Have been d ... 25 May 09, by Jade Latest 26 May 09 by Jade 1 2	Replies:9 :556	Latest by Jade 26 May 09
Financial worries! Finally got my Decri nisi !Am going ahead to apply for the Absoloute for my sanity !The Ex is still in the marital home .The children & me are currently liv ... 24 May 09, by imms Latest 25 May 09 by imms 1 2	Replies:7 :584	Latest by imms 25 May 09
Life Will Get Better Hi, I have read the posts/blogs on this site for over a year whilst my own divorce has rumbled on. It bagan in November 2007. Married for 16 years with 2 ch ... 25 May 09, by GoldenWings Latest 25 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :249	Latest by NellNoRegrets 25 May 09
intro me as a woman getting divorced after 35 years due to my husbands adultery whilst working abroad. He even brought her over and she lived here until her visa ran out ... 25 May 09, by joyted Latest 25 May 09 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :268	Latest by hadenoughnow 25 May 09
Hello I have been married for 17 years, have two children aged 8 & 10 There is a small mortgage on the FH. I need to get out of the marriage but don ... 25 May 09, by WhiteFeather Latest 25 May 09 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :247	Latest by hadenoughnow 25 May 09
hello and HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Are you sitting comfortably ?.....then I will begin. Married since 1986 but seperated in 1997 and I left the marital home (council owned property) and rente ... 25 May 09, by timfee Latest 25 May 09 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :245	Latest by hadenoughnow 25 May 09
help violent husband wants full custody Hi not sure who else to ask, I apologise for it being so long. I have left my husband due to violence, it went on for years then i vowed if it happened ... 24 May 09, by emmey Latest 25 May 09 by toto1978 1 2	Replies:8 :649	Latest by toto1978 25 May 09
end of relationship due to debt & bankruptcy Hi all, dont know really where to start so i will go straight in and say my 17 year long relationship is coming to an end mainly due to debt which has ... 24 May 09, by toto1978 Latest 25 May 09 by toto1978	Replies:2 :294	Latest by toto1978 25 May 09
hi need a bit help i have found this site with just a question to ask .i split up from ex month ago we werent married .he owes me 2500 on credit card in my name ,can i get it chan ... 25 May 09, by ladygrumpy Latest 25 May 09 by rubytuesday	Replies:3 :343	Latest by rubytuesday 25 May 09
Where to Start Just wanted to say hello to you all. I am just getting to grips with all of this and have loads to chat about. My husband, a police officer, has told me he wa ... 24 May 09, by Saluki Latest 24 May 09 by Saluki	Replies:2 :229	Latest by Saluki 24 May 09
hi, a rotten divorce need help hi i'm new and going through a rotten divorce my husband has this extreme hatred for me and children [17&14] its dreadful anyone in same boat ... 24 May 09, by m9975 Latest 24 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:4 :280	Latest by NellNoRegrets 24 May 09
when do you know when to give up Hello everybody, When do you know when to give up, im still in love with my wife, but she says she hate me, and doesnt love me anymore, but am i hanging on ... 23 May 09, by panelman Latest 24 May 09 by Runnerduck 1 2	Replies:7 :522	Latest by Runnerduck 24 May 09
newbie HI everyone Here to give and receive a bit of support. Always like to hear from new friends. Good luck and best wishes John ... 23 May 09, by jon3vans Latest 23 May 09 by rubytuesday	Replies:2 :325	Latest by rubytuesday 23 May 09
wife asked me to leave Hello everybody, im really in need of some practical advice, i love my wife dearly, and im sure despite her telling me she hates me , and doesnt love me, th ... 23 May 09, by panelman Latest 23 May 09 by D L 1 2	Replies:9 :610	Latest by D L 23 May 09
Hello Hi, I'm 28 and petitioning my divorce I left 5 months ago for a variety of reasons. Bex ... 23 May 09, by Angelbex Latest 23 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :219	Latest by NellNoRegrets 23 May 09
Children meeting the new partner Hi , ive been separated for 2 years now. I'd been with my husband for 15 years. I suffered mental abuse and he cheated on me. I thought i was going insane. ... 23 May 09, by louise.s Latest 23 May 09 by louise.s	Replies:2 :266	Latest by louise.s 23 May 09
Intro - I don't feel so isolated now Hello I've descended into madness, come back and gone back down again over my wife of four years (together for 8) She had two girls when I met ... 22 May 09, by choll15 Latest 23 May 09 by himji	Replies:2 :292	Latest by himji 23 May 09
lost and confused hi, not really sure why im doing this but then everything is strange and sureal at the moment.here goes... to put you in the picture I ran a small printing busi ... 22 May 09, by TraderCol Latest 22 May 09 by TraderCol 1 2	Replies:7 :531	Latest by TraderCol 22 May 09

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