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i am so so depressed hello my husband of 20years, been together 22 and have 3 teenage children has told me that throughout our marriage he has had lots of affairs and one night ... 18 May 09, by SoVeryTired Latest 22 May 09 by Mrs Ingledew 1 2 3 4	Replies:25 :1146	Latest by Mrs Ingledew 22 May 09
Hello I feel so stupid.... Hi, just need to talk to someone. My wife and I have 3 children 6yo, 3yo and 1 yo. We have always had our twoing and froing as all marriaed couples do. ... 06 May 09, by pleomax Latest 21 May 09 by JoannaA 1 2 3 ... 9	Replies:61 :2181	Latest by JoannaA 21 May 09
selling the family home and a house in spain i am just going through my divorce and i feel so lost need some help. ... 21 May 09, by penego Latest 21 May 09 by FabDad	Replies:1 :221	Latest by FabDad 21 May 09
Hello I've been divorced for 6 years, mine was not complicated, no property, no assets just two kids, now aged 22 and 18, and a dog to share and my ex husband was vio ... 20 May 09, by bandana Latest 21 May 09 by seetumail	Replies:4 :304	Latest by seetumail 21 May 09
Hello Hello, my name is Karen, I live in a seaside town in Devon and have been married for 14 years. I have 3 children, 13, 11 and 8. After a very difficult ... 20 May 09, by theironingfairy Latest 20 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :217	Latest by NellNoRegrets 20 May 09
6 months down the track... It is 6 months since i found out about my stbx extra-marital-online-in-home-behind-my-back affair ... 5 since final decision was taken and announced to our 2 ki ... 20 May 09, by froginthebog Latest 20 May 09 by froginthebog 1 2	Replies:7 :633	Latest by froginthebog 20 May 09
Just saying hi ..... Hi, I have just registered on this site. I was married for 20 very long months after living with my husband for 20 months. I have two children now a ... 20 May 09, by rosalind Latest 20 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :239	Latest by NellNoRegrets 20 May 09
Deceit over years just found out My wife and I have been married since 2001 and I have a step daughter who is 15 and a son who is 6 years old, she has always been very secretive about her finan ... 19 May 09, by hjf2y16 Latest 20 May 09 by mickwilz 1 2	Replies:10 :641	Latest by mickwilz 20 May 09
Hello Hi Everyone I would just like to say hi to all. I have just registered on this site. I am about to go through divorce proceedings with my wife of 17 years.< ... 19 May 09, by blankcanvas Latest 20 May 09 by mickwilz	Replies:1 :269	Latest by mickwilz 20 May 09
After 28 years it's coming to an end or is it I turn 55 this week and looks like my marrage is over. My wife stopped letting me touch her after going through a ruff year. She lost both parents but ... 19 May 09, by hclowns Latest 19 May 09 by Elle	Replies:6 :252	Latest by Elle 19 May 09
No, the second time was no better So, I don't do this kind of thing. Then again, I'm finding myself doing a lot of things I don't do lately, so why not? The short of it is that I'm currently wra ... 25 Apr 09, by ECTheorySTS28 Latest 19 May 09 by Elle 1 2	Replies:8 :554	Latest by Elle 19 May 09
Intro Hi, I have been seperated from my wife for over a year. She found someone else after 30 years of marriage. She took our 8 year old daughter, our 20 year old son ... 19 May 09, by florider Latest 19 May 09 by Elle	Replies:2 :241	Latest by Elle 19 May 09
wanted to introduce myself since I am new here Hi everybody!! I'm so glad to have found this site. My name is Noma and I am a mother to two beautiful children. My husband has put me through hell these las ... 19 May 09, by MzNoma Latest 19 May 09 by Payback1	Replies:2 :250	Latest by Payback1 19 May 09
Hiya all! Just a quick post to say hello, and introduce myself! I'm Rach, just turned 36 and live with my 8 year old daughter. I am divorcing my husband ... 19 May 09, by Rach_on_the_fence Latest 19 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :268	Latest by NellNoRegrets 19 May 09
Hi everyone Afternoon everyone, Found this site while googling - wish I had found it a 'few months back' - still better late than never Well, quick resume ... 19 May 09, by Payback1 Latest 19 May 09 by Payback1	Replies:2 :267	Latest by Payback1 19 May 09
Hi Hi, 44year old male. Was happily married, great relationship for 27 years. Wife just 'changed', announced she was leaving and taking my kids. Moved out ... 19 May 09, by Sad24 Latest 19 May 09 by Sad24	Replies:2 :312	Latest by Sad24 19 May 09
Hello Hi everyone. Recently been told by my wife of 15 years that we are finished. Have two children 12 and 14 and a mortgage. Feeling lonely, vulne ... 18 May 09, by HappyC Latest 19 May 09 by Brunswick 1 2	Replies:7 :519	Latest by Brunswick 19 May 09
Need advice Non Molestation & Occupation Order My partner left his ex seven months ago he has 2 children to her and he is to go to court tomorrow to get access. At first she let him have contact however this ... 19 May 09, by KP28 Latest 19 May 09 by mumtoboys	Replies:1 :273	Latest by mumtoboys 19 May 09
Hey I am new to all this my partner is the one in the worst ... 17 May 09, by hopskipandjump Latest 19 May 09 by hopskipandjump	Replies:2 :221	Latest by hopskipandjump 19 May 09
What a superb site ! Hi My name is Richard - been looking for a site like this for a while ! ... 18 May 09, by theharks Latest 18 May 09 by Shezi	Replies:2 :292	Latest by Shezi 18 May 09
Introducing myself Hi. I'm after advice or support, or just to get a load off my chest. Really you couldn't make this stuff up, but I guess it'll be a familiar kind of story on h ... 01 Apr 09, by black shuck Latest 18 May 09 by GuernseyGuy 1 2	Replies:11 :563	Latest by GuernseyGuy 18 May 09
Divorce Calculator I was wondering if anybody could give me an answer. The divorce calculator asks about children from the marriage, is there an age at which the number of childre ... 18 May 09, by POMPEYJEFF Latest 18 May 09 by rubytuesday	Replies:1 :283	Latest by rubytuesday 18 May 09
weewivvy - How much longer Hi just found this excellent forum. ... 11 May 09, by notgood Latest 18 May 09 by JoannaA 1 2	Replies:7 :623	Latest by JoannaA 18 May 09
Falling apart Hello I've spent all morning looking through this website, reading the forum mostly, and trying to pluck up the courage to register and post. ... 16 May 09, by GennyJane Latest 17 May 09 by Shezi 1 2	Replies:12 :584	Latest by Shezi 17 May 09
Hey everybody Hi all, Does divorce have to be that bad, I am separated from my wife cos she says she no longer loves me and wants to find love again. (which she has now..5 we ... 15 May 09, by Billy05 Latest 17 May 09 by YNK000 1 2 3	Replies:14 :846	Latest by YNK000 17 May 09
hello everyone hi everyone. i seperated from my husband 2 years ago leaving the family home. my husband kept everything in the house and i thought or had hoped once we had res ... 16 May 09, by sarkky1 Latest 17 May 09 by sarkky1	Replies:3 :230	Latest by sarkky1 17 May 09
Advice needed regarding custody of children... Hello all. Basically I'm desparately in need of some advice regarding my separation and need to know whether my wife has the right to remove our childr ... 17 May 09, by Bloo Latest 17 May 09 by ClimbMountains	Replies:5 :241	Latest by ClimbMountains 17 May 09
Hello Happe Here Hi, ive just left a 22 year relationship (15 of them married). I have 2 kids 16 and 13, im sad, scared and feel very alone. We had been unhappy for years, h ... 11 Apr 09, by happe Latest 17 May 09 by happe 1 2 3	Replies:19 :971	Latest by happe 17 May 09
Its doing my head in!!! Hello Everybody, First post on here, looks like the place to be for some advice and wisdom. I’ve been with my wife now for 13 years, married for ... 17 May 09, by polishpete Latest 17 May 09 by shinyhappypeople	Replies:1 :264	Latest by shinyhappypeople 17 May 09
Hi - never thought i'd be somewhere like here! Hi I found this forum looking for help. Can't ask friends or family as I feel so stupid! Wife says she doesn't love me. We have agreed that ... 16 May 09, by joesteelman Latest 17 May 09 by chris75	Replies:6 :292	Latest by chris75 17 May 09
Hi all i'm coco12 and my lofe is one big mess This is all new to me these forums but I thought I give it a go 16 May 09, by coco12 Latest 17 May 09 by Elle	Replies:2 :264	Latest by Elle 17 May 09
my third & last divorce!! hi, im not very good on the pc, self taught to keep me from interacting with my ex. im hoping that you lot out there can keep me sain. im having a tough time wi ... 15 May 09, by anxiety123 Latest 16 May 09 by YNK000	Replies:2 :248	Latest by YNK000 16 May 09
What to do... Hi, I'm looking for advice, my husband and i have been together 3 1/2 yrs and got married 14months ago. Its never been all consuming and fantastic, but he i ... 15 May 09, by Peardrops Latest 15 May 09 by Peardrops	Replies:2 :252	Latest by Peardrops 15 May 09
New Post Hi I am new to this site, in process of divorcing my husband, been together 20 years, hardest decision I ever had to make to split but can see light at end of t ... 12 May 09, by susiemc Latest 15 May 09 by mumof5 1 2 3	Replies:17 :820	Latest by mumof5 15 May 09
Just managing to keep going Hello after 16 years of marriage my wife gave up her job and returned home to her parents leaving me and four boys to manage in a new town. I work ful ... 13 May 09, by fridage Latest 15 May 09 by NewHorizons 1 2	Replies:9 :549	Latest by NewHorizons 15 May 09
Divorce and the aftermath Hi I am currently living with my STBX, getting divorced (he has instigated the divorce) We were having a few problems for 6mths and we never spoke abou ... 29 Apr 09, by Bundle Latest 15 May 09 by sutman6 1 2 3 4	Replies:27 :1088	Latest by sutman6 15 May 09
Well - here I am....... After 19 years of marriage and 5 years together before that my wife has decided she doesn't want to be married to me anymore. She admitted to me last month that ... 13 May 09, by noteasy Latest 15 May 09 by gettingadjusted 1 2 3 4	Replies:25 :1000	Latest by gettingadjusted 15 May 09
2 years down the line - does it ever get easier? Hi, I have been separated for almost two years, within that time I have settled the financial side of things but my problem is that my stbx won't come ... 13 May 09, by pinks204 Latest 15 May 09 by Fiona	Replies:3 :240	Latest by Fiona 15 May 09
Separation - Fresh Pain I have been married for 21 years and have 2 children, 19 and 16. I am away from home all week and sometimes am only at home on a Saturday night. Over the past 2 ... 13 May 09, by POMPEYJEFF Latest 14 May 09 by Young again 1 2 3	Replies:15 :768	Latest by Young again 14 May 09
help my partner doesnt want a divorce i left becuase i felt threatened, my solicitor says i have grounds, th ... 13 May 09, by distressed Latest 13 May 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :268	Latest by NellNoRegrets 13 May 09

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