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Saying Hello - preparing for the worst. Hi Just registered and hoping to fing good advice. Have been seperated for over two years now. Have been putting off going for a divorce really since s ... 08 Nov 08, by bunkered Latest 08 Nov 08 by cindygirl	Replies:2 :346	Latest by cindygirl 08 Nov 08
38 Days to Homlessness after Divorce Hi, I am happy to have found this forum. Hopefully I can help one or two others while seeking some help myself. I should say although I am English ... 08 Nov 08, by InjusticeinEurope Latest 08 Nov 08 by InjusticeinEurope	Replies:2 :463	Latest by InjusticeinEurope 08 Nov 08
dazed and not knowing what to ask about divorce. husband left me 6mths, left me with all unpaid bills and to tell the children he was leaving that day as he hadnt told any of them. He left as he thought i ... 06 Nov 08, by melissa Latest 06 Nov 08 by lizzybenn	Replies:1 :391	Latest by lizzybenn 06 Nov 08
Newbie Here Hello, not sure exactly where i'm posting here but i'll give it a go! I have separated from my ex, he has moved out and living with a friend at the mom ... 06 Nov 08, by natbat2012 Latest 06 Nov 08 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :338	Latest by NellNoRegrets 06 Nov 08
To name or not to name...? My husband admitted adultery with a family friend when we split over 7 months ago. To me it was such a bombshell and totally out of the blue after a 10 year ma ... 05 Nov 08, by Mary68 Latest 06 Nov 08 by Sun 13	Replies:6 :649	Latest by Sun 13 06 Nov 08
interim maintenance Hi, just signed petition, agreed to 2 years separation as just want it all sorted quickly. Extb cohabiting with new partner (she has no kids, own home ... 05 Nov 08, by truecolours Latest 05 Nov 08 by justm3x	Replies:3 :417	Latest by justm3x 05 Nov 08
keep a roof over my head i would be intrested to know if any one can help, i bought my house 5 years before i met my soon tobe ex wife. after she moved in she only contributed aroun ... 05 Nov 08, by mtberuk Latest 05 Nov 08 by Marshy_ 1 2	Replies:10 :809	Latest by Marshy_ 05 Nov 08
Not coping too well HIya: 26 years married in December, and here I am after being verbally abused by an alcoholic for at least the last 10 years finally instigating divorce proceed ... 04 Nov 08, by Tuttifruiti Latest 05 Nov 08 by rubytuesday 1 2	Replies:12 :1133	Latest by rubytuesday 05 Nov 08
Hi there... I literally stumbled on this as I think I'll need a lot of the support and help on here... Separated from my husband at the end of September (my choice ... 04 Nov 08, by hazel1974 Latest 04 Nov 08 by marriaa	Replies:5 :341	Latest by marriaa 04 Nov 08
Hi all, new to this, looking for some guidance.. Hi all out there, I'm hoping I can get some help and who knows maybe even offer some! Briefly, I'm not divorced but am in a bit of a situation about contact ... 02 Nov 08, by dansdad Latest 04 Nov 08 by chris5926	Replies:5 :418	Latest by chris5926 04 Nov 08
American and Brit about to split Hi, I am new to the forum and like most of you, probably never imagined you would ever turn to this type of forum for support. My husband and I have been marri ... 04 Nov 08, by Greenweenie Latest 04 Nov 08 by LittleMrMike	Replies:2 :304	Latest by LittleMrMike 04 Nov 08
acrimonous divorce hi, im in the middle of a very bitter (on his part) divorce. he is making everything exceedingly difficult and even after 6 months on from my petition i have no ... 03 Nov 08, by calamitysal Latest 04 Nov 08 by Molly	Replies:4 :369	Latest by Molly 04 Nov 08
I want to win her back:theres no one else i need any woman who has gone through any of this to advise me please:the context i very complex so please bear with me. I am 47 and my wife of 8 yrs i ... 27 Oct 08, by Meonly Latest 03 Nov 08 by cindygirl	Replies:6 :496	Latest by cindygirl 03 Nov 08
will he ever leave me alone? last september i told my husband id had enough of his drinking, posessiveness and jealousy. after 20 years id finally come to the end of the line. he seemed to ... 03 Nov 08, by calamitysal Latest 03 Nov 08 by Angel557	Replies:2 :327	Latest by Angel557 03 Nov 08
Divorce after tender age of 60 I’m a young 62 year old, recently retired, and trying to deal with the feelings that my 35 years of marriage is about to end. Nothing really happened except ... 03 Nov 08, by gettingrealmad Latest 03 Nov 08 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :304	Latest by Marshy_ 03 Nov 08
Feeling alone, lost & confused Hi, I am a married man age 31 going on 32, my wife is a few years older than me and we have a 3 year old daughter. Our relationship has always had it's ups ... 02 Nov 08, by ennorab Latest 03 Nov 08 by Marshy_	Replies:5 :412	Latest by Marshy_ 03 Nov 08
me Hello All I have been seperated for almost 2 years now. Been a tough couple of years and I have had to learn a lot practically and emotionally. I was ... 31 Oct 08, by jue_drop2 Latest 02 Nov 08 by Jollyrocket	Replies:2 :349	Latest by Jollyrocket 02 Nov 08
Drawn out divorce proceedings Hi, I'm a newbie to this site and am hoping to get some advice. My divorce proceedings have been going on for nearly four years now! We had no childre ... 01 Nov 08, by shabbagirl Latest 02 Nov 08 by Sera	Replies:6 :424	Latest by Sera 02 Nov 08
Very tentative Hi everyone, I am very tentatively dipping my toe in the water of separation/divorce. I have been married a long time, have two children and know my husband wou ... 02 Nov 08, by annakarenina Latest 02 Nov 08 by annakarenina 1 2	Replies:10 :824	Latest by annakarenina 02 Nov 08
new to site. help please hello, im new to this. here goes. i seperated from my wife a year ago but lived in the house for 6 months in the house seperately. i saw my son for less tha ... 31 Oct 08, by chatsworth08 Latest 01 Nov 08 by Shezi	Replies:5 :417	Latest by Shezi 01 Nov 08
Hello everyone Hi, i'm currently going thru divorce - been seperated 2 years now and have been to cort twice, its a bit difficult as he lives in singapore. We both ea ... 01 Nov 08, by hmj14 Latest 01 Nov 08 by dukey	Replies:1 :360	Latest by dukey 01 Nov 08
What a pickle! Ok well here goes, my husband of 8 years has left me (with absolutely no warning) 3 weeks ago. He's left me to care for our 3 boys all under 7. He is s ... 30 Oct 08, by Puddytat Latest 31 Oct 08 by Marshy_ 1 2 3	Replies:18 :1488	Latest by Marshy_ 31 Oct 08
destroyed. hi thoght id share my experience as the info on this site has been really helpful and supportive thankyou.... right i suppose il start from the beginning- < ... 30 Oct 08, by rani21 Latest 31 Oct 08 by rani21	Replies:3 :338	Latest by rani21 31 Oct 08
First Post - feeling strong today Hi So this is my first post by way of introduction. A month ago my husband of 5 year and 8 years together decided that "he could not do t ... 30 Oct 08, by Carolyn Latest 31 Oct 08 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:4 :383	Latest by NellNoRegrets 31 Oct 08
New Post Hi All, New to this site and firstly wanted to say just how informative and supportive it has been already. Have so many questions and don't r ... 29 Oct 08, by Needanewlifeplease Latest 31 Oct 08 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :343	Latest by NellNoRegrets 31 Oct 08
Hi and eeek Hi I am new to the forum and am 43. I have just left my husband to live on my own with my 14 yr old daughter. We are struggling to survive financially and are d ... 30 Oct 08, by JoJoddm Latest 31 Oct 08 by cindygirl	Replies:4 :518	Latest by cindygirl 31 Oct 08
First Post Hello. A very brief into into my story so far. My husband and myself have basically lived like house mates for the past few years. He seems to think t ... 29 Oct 08, by zedzed Latest 30 Oct 08 by Shezi 1 2	Replies:7 :804	Latest by Shezi 30 Oct 08
my 1st post - it's a biggie Since I'm new, thought I'd better give you the full story (so far). Questions are at the end.... Oct 06 Wife tells me that she's not sure if she wa ... 29 Oct 08, by jockman67 Latest 29 Oct 08 by unic	Replies:4 :451	Latest by unic 29 Oct 08
me and getting over it. my husband of 4 years together for 10 years announced in march this year that he no longer loved me and that he wanted me to leave the house we had built togeth ... 28 Oct 08, by sarahw Latest 29 Oct 08 by jm53629	Replies:3 :397	Latest by jm53629 29 Oct 08
Division of Assets After a marriage of nearly 20years, my estranged wife(45) has seeing her linedance partner(70) for the past 4years and our relationship began falling apart, acc ... 29 Oct 08, by galaxy96 Latest 29 Oct 08 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :309	Latest by Marshy_ 29 Oct 08
His complicated finances delaying Hello everyone, I'm 13 months into a divorce and he will only move out of FMH he says ''when legally obligated to do so'' He spends most of his days in ... 29 Oct 08, by 012jollyLass Latest 29 Oct 08 by 012jollyLass 1 2	Replies:7 :1090	Latest by 012jollyLass 29 Oct 08
Looking for answers - when there are none I was completely shocked when my wife told me she didn't "feel the same way" about me anymore. We had been married for 12 years and together ... 28 Oct 08, by HelterSkelter Latest 29 Oct 08 by HelterSkelter	Replies:2 :374	Latest by HelterSkelter 29 Oct 08
Stunned Hi. With no warning my husband of 5 years and 16 years together told me three weeks ago that he doesnt love me anymore,has no feelings for anyone and wants to s ... 28 Oct 08, by Jackie111 Latest 28 Oct 08 by rasher	Replies:4 :614	Latest by rasher 28 Oct 08
defended divorce Hi everyone, my name is rosamundis, I left my husband nearly six months ago and instituted proceedings based on irritrievable breakdown of marriage. We have bee ... 28 Oct 08, by rosamundis Latest 28 Oct 08 by lovebeingadad	Replies:1 :299	Latest by lovebeingadad 28 Oct 08
arguing hi, i googled 'how to stop arguing' and happened upon this site. still finding my way but, as proposed, this post is to introduce myself. i'm not sure if i have ... 28 Oct 08, by muchosensitivo Latest 28 Oct 08 by Goldie120	Replies:1 :283	Latest by Goldie120 28 Oct 08
Disability and divorce - any experiences ? Hi, I wonder if anybody can help or has any similar experiences? My wife who has been going blind for over 15 years (with all the problems that that br ... 27 Oct 08, by everfeltyouvebeencheated Latest 27 Oct 08 by LittleMrMike	Replies:1 :337	Latest by LittleMrMike 27 Oct 08
My wife is seeing another man! - I'm distraught! Hi everyone, This is my first post & I'm looking for any support in my matter. I have read posts on this forum and will try and give as best pi ... 27 Oct 08, by WhyMe! Latest 27 Oct 08 by polar 1 2	Replies:8 :1105	Latest by polar 27 Oct 08
ex is dying again dont know if anyone can help me here, but my ex is lying in his bed saying that he has a malignant cancer. Two years back he had a similar terminal illness but ... 26 Oct 08, by leah2008 Latest 27 Oct 08 by Fiona	Replies:6 :735	Latest by Fiona 27 Oct 08
Hi all I have just really started contemplating divorcing my husband. We have been married 12 years and together 15 but our marriage has been in serious troub ... 26 Oct 08, by lb2605 Latest 26 Oct 08 by Tets	Replies:3 :364	Latest by Tets 26 Oct 08
Hi all I have just really started contemplating divorcing my husband. We have been married 12 years and together 15 but our marriage has been in serious troub ... 26 Oct 08, by lb2605 Latest 26 Oct 08 by lb2605	Replies:2 :350	Latest by lb2605 26 Oct 08

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