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Still can't really believe he has left me... Just over 6 weeks ago my DH told me that he loves me very much but doesn't want to be married to me - he had met someone else at work (who is going through a na ... 28 Nov 08, by Angel24 Latest 29 Nov 08 by Faithful 1 2	Replies:7 :866	Latest by Faithful 29 Nov 08
Some advice please! I think my H is playing dirty I have reason to think that my H is trying to sell his business to avoid it being taken into account in any settlement. Does anyone know whether he is able to ... 29 Nov 08, by Newlife2009 Latest 29 Nov 08 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :399	Latest by NellNoRegrets 29 Nov 08
Advice pls! Hi. I'm new to the site and am looking for some advice regarding my situation. I would like to start divorce proceedings. Only been married since march ... 16 Nov 08, by kooki Latest 28 Nov 08 by kooki	Replies:5 :444	Latest by kooki 28 Nov 08
Getting involved again!!!! Hello. i've been split for about a year now to the day. Just got my own place and am just about divorced for the second time. First time was my fault(adultery). ... 28 Nov 08, by csinick Latest 28 Nov 08 by shinyhappypeople	Replies:1 :351	Latest by shinyhappypeople 28 Nov 08
Not Coping any advice........ I am having trouble facing people outside the home. It seems to be getting worse. I am not sleeping and feel constantly sick. I know it is early days as I only ... 24 Nov 08, by LilT2009 Latest 28 Nov 08 by Imediate 1 2	Replies:12 :1004	Latest by Imediate 28 Nov 08
please help Hi All im new to this site... please can someone advise me. I was married for approx 4 months and then separated and went through div ... 28 Nov 08, by STRESSXXX Latest 28 Nov 08 by STRESSXXX	Replies:2 :380	Latest by STRESSXXX 28 Nov 08
amazing torment have just joined site after a quick look at peoples views and opinions. just a quick scribble about my self married 20 years 3 children ,wife left me in jun ... 26 Nov 08, by fatboy slim Latest 28 Nov 08 by fatboy slim 1 2	Replies:12 :935	Latest by fatboy slim 28 Nov 08
Looking for a solicitor Hello. New to this. Hoping please for advice about a good solicitor - thanks. My wife has just petitioned for divorce on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour. ... 23 Nov 08, by LessTraveled Latest 28 Nov 08 by lovelife 1 2	Replies:8 :777	Latest by lovelife 28 Nov 08
Hello All Hi. Dad, mid 30's, wife walked out taking son after 2 yr marriage 6 months ago. Not getting any easier. How does anyone get through t ... 26 Nov 08, by Saturdad Latest 27 Nov 08 by j007	Replies:3 :315	Latest by j007 27 Nov 08
New to wikivorce and need some advice Hi all, For the last 7 weeks I have been trying to come to terms that my wife has asked for a sepeartion as "she loves me but isn't in love with me&quo ... 23 Nov 08, by j007 Latest 27 Nov 08 by j007	Replies:5 :606	Latest by j007 27 Nov 08
just had the bad news All new to this. Married nearly 9 years, together for 13, three kids aged 16-23, not mine but treated as such. Had really difficult times last 18 month ... 27 Nov 08, by Leewardman Latest 27 Nov 08 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :417	Latest by NellNoRegrets 27 Nov 08
New here but here goes Hi Just kicked my other half out as found out he was having an affair. Been married 20 years with 2 children. The worst of it is he blamed his kids for ... 22 Nov 08, by LilT2009 Latest 27 Nov 08 by SeeingTheLight 1 2	Replies:7 :968	Latest by SeeingTheLight 27 Nov 08
Hi, Any Help / Advice For a desperate Dad After going through a rough patch in my marriage of 20yrs my wife went through depression & decided she wanted me out. I said i wasnt going anywhere &am ... 27 Nov 08, by Ritchie Latest 27 Nov 08 by sun_shadow	Replies:3 :380	Latest by sun_shadow 27 Nov 08
finding it very hard my husband left me three months ago i suspected he was having an affair with a friend of mine but he denied it as did she the denial went on for until three ... 27 Nov 08, by cardwell Latest 27 Nov 08 by cardwell	Replies:2 :310	Latest by cardwell 27 Nov 08
Cant Move On Hi all, I am glad to have joined and hope that someone can help with advice on how to move on when I still love my ex wife so very much. The b ... 27 Nov 08, by furrygwar Latest 27 Nov 08 by furrygwar	Replies:5 :383	Latest by furrygwar 27 Nov 08
New and looking for experiences from others OK here goes this could be long so I'll start with the question and then do the story bit! My question is did anyone go through divorce with their pare ... 26 Nov 08, by Newlife2009 Latest 26 Nov 08 by Zara2009	Replies:2 :384	Latest by Zara2009 26 Nov 08
new to this..... Here goes I recently got married (7 months ago) and now as me and my husband are unhappy, we want to get divorced, but I need to know first if I'm legally married in the ... 25 Nov 08, by Daisy_123 Latest 25 Nov 08 by Sera	Replies:1 :325	Latest by Sera 25 Nov 08
Does it work? will it last for ever? Hello there everyone!!! Well this is all new to me - so sorry if I do go on....... My situation is I was married to my ex husband for over 10. ... 25 Nov 08, by jasper5986 Latest 25 Nov 08 by marriaa	Replies:2 :412	Latest by marriaa 25 Nov 08
what happens after the final hearing? Hi to everyone Im no computer wizzard and even though this site is probably really easy to navigate This is my first time and not really sure what im d ... 21 Nov 08, by cheekychops Latest 23 Nov 08 by Elle 1 2	Replies:7 :1059	Latest by Elle 23 Nov 08
Is there any hope? Dear Peoples, I am desparate and need somehelp and advice. My ex-partner left me (in the UK) some 5 years ago and returned to her home town in Ital ... 21 Nov 08, by Dharmesh Latest 23 Nov 08 by dukey 1 2	Replies:9 :876	Latest by dukey 23 Nov 08
Hello New on here and just thought id say hi.Newly seperated and looking for somewhere for me and my 2 daughters to live as ex wont leave house.Scared sad and feeling ... 22 Nov 08, by anne40 Latest 22 Nov 08 by LittleBlackDress	Replies:2 :338	Latest by LittleBlackDress 22 Nov 08
what to do with cheating wife Been married for ten years and 8 months ago found text messages between the wife and work colleague had been sending to each other. She denied there was anythin ... 17 Nov 08, by dunnowaht08 Latest 22 Nov 08 by Noris 1 2 3	Replies:19 :1806	Latest by Noris 22 Nov 08
Hi from happy separated person Hello to all other separated people on here and those thinking of it;) My story is probably no different to some others, hopefully i might get sum help ... 22 Nov 08, by Noris Latest 22 Nov 08 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :337	Latest by NellNoRegrets 22 Nov 08
Hello Users @ WikiVorce Just wanted to say Wikivorce is a great Idea and after reading some of the posts so are the users! Keep up the good advise guys..... ... 21 Nov 08, by MnM	Replies:0 :510
divorce dutch style Hi Everyone, I am new to this site. To be honest I am hoping to get some insight into a situation that is really affecting me during this time of my divorce. I ... 21 Nov 08, by den haag mom	Replies:0 :288
Sorry but it's gonna be long Hello All, My name is Jacquie and I have 4 wonderful children 1 from my previous marriage. Myself and my husband have really had problems sinc ... 19 Nov 08, by mumof4 Latest 21 Nov 08 by mumof4	Replies:3 :402	Latest by mumof4 21 Nov 08
heads messed up My head is messed up, I cannot stop the constant headaches. I have been married for 10years have two fantastic children aged 7 and 4. I left my home in March th ... 21 Nov 08, by MARK_1974 Latest 21 Nov 08 by MARK_1974	Replies:4 :418	Latest by MARK_1974 21 Nov 08
Hi Fellow wikivorcers I am in the middle of the divorce process. OMG I feel for each and every one of u. My ex has just offored me 15,000 in an email which was far from pleasent, ver ... 20 Nov 08, by littletill Latest 21 Nov 08 by Marshy_	Replies:5 :373	Latest by Marshy_ 21 Nov 08
Advice Divorcing a Policeman pls! I would really appreciate any good advice regarding divorcing a policeman. Married for 32 years,he has 22/30 in the job and he's pushing for a divorce to prote ... 20 Nov 08, by Floaty Latest 20 Nov 08 by Floaty	Replies:4 :647	Latest by Floaty 20 Nov 08
How do you stop feeling hurt, angry and betrayed? hi everybody, i am a new kid on the block in the separation and divorce game. My husband dumped me unceremoniously after a weekend away with friends at the ... 01 Nov 08, by Clear Cloud Latest 20 Nov 08 by Sadgit 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:32 :2771	Latest by Sadgit 20 Nov 08
she gave up on me Hi all, It is with heavy heart I write this today with the realisation that I cant put back together what we had. It all started 7 yrs ago with thi ... 20 Nov 08, by hoping for the best Latest 20 Nov 08 by ssoria	Replies:2 :382	Latest by ssoria 20 Nov 08
introducing myself/ help with petition Hi, I have been separated for 3 years, Ex working away during the week but coming back to family home weekends to see our kids. So far split has been fairly ... 20 Nov 08, by Precious2Moment Latest 20 Nov 08 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :313	Latest by Marshy_ 20 Nov 08
Still in shock over the whole thing really Hi, When I first registered here I was thinking of leaving my wife and was feeling very scared about it. For the last 5 years she had been managing ou ... 17 Nov 08, by milou Latest 20 Nov 08 by markg3010 1 2 3 4	Replies:24 :1959	Latest by markg3010 20 Nov 08
Introducing myself Hi all Well, here’s an introduction to me & some background as to why I am here. I’m 32, my Husband is 39, and we’ve been together 11 yea ... 20 Nov 08, by maisymoodle Latest 20 Nov 08 by MrSofty	Replies:2 :333	Latest by MrSofty 20 Nov 08
Only a month in a doing it tough My wife and I emmigrated to Australia 4 years ago, things went well, but we never got over the homesickness thing, so we decided to return this year 08. I sent ... 19 Nov 08, by Sadgit Latest 20 Nov 08 by Sadgit	Replies:6 :390	Latest by Sadgit 20 Nov 08
Sorry for long ramble on, feeling sad and rejected Hi I've been lurking around this site for a little while and thought it was time I joined in. I have been married for 23 years (together for 28) have two ch ... 20 Nov 08, by SammyP Latest 20 Nov 08 by SammyP	Replies:5 :471	Latest by SammyP 20 Nov 08
I doesn't end with divorce I am nearly 50 worked hard all my life, I have three daughters 23, 20, 18, I put up with numerous "affairs" and bullying from my wife till children w ... 19 Nov 08, by troubled Bob Latest 19 Nov 08 by marriaa 1 2 3	Replies:14 :1152	Latest by marriaa 19 Nov 08
A right mess! Hi everyone, This is a great site, it's a pity i didn't know about of its existence a couple of months ago...but better late than never!! I'd ... 19 Nov 08, by Static43 Latest 19 Nov 08 by LittleMrMike	Replies:4 :328	Latest by LittleMrMike 19 Nov 08
CHRISTMAS SUPPORT Hi Everyone We all know that Christmas can be hard for Wiki members, especially those who are on the first stretch of their journey. Over the ... 19 Nov 08, by D L Locked	Replies:0 :410
Feel scared and alone Hello, 9 weeks ago while I was at work my husband packed his things and left a note saying he was leaving me. the week before we had just returned from celebrat ... 17 Nov 08, by Hollyett Latest 18 Nov 08 by Molly Malone 1 2	Replies:9 :845	Latest by Molly Malone 18 Nov 08

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