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Scared and alone I know my story will probably be just another story, but at the present moment i am still hurting over my separation. I had been married to my husband for t ... 18 Nov 08, by TeresaG Latest 18 Nov 08 by cindygirl	Replies:5 :363	Latest by cindygirl 18 Nov 08
new and down I am a 32 year old father of two who was told on his 7th wedding anniversary that I was no longer loved by his wife. She claimed no one else was involved, she d ... 13 Nov 08, by markg3010 Latest 18 Nov 08 by markg3010 1 2 3	Replies:16 :1133	Latest by markg3010 18 Nov 08
recovered to be scared about what he can gain! I am still married ( 2 years sep) to an african citizen, who now has UK residency ( not gone for citizenship). It lasted a gruelling 6 years and I managed to g ... 17 Nov 08, by kuntakinte Latest 18 Nov 08 by LittleMrMike	Replies:3 :340	Latest by LittleMrMike 18 Nov 08
A huge Thanks To all of you who replied to my posts, such kind words...Im trying to find my way around this site and cannot seem to get back to my message to make a reply so ... 17 Nov 08, by jokeaside Latest 17 Nov 08 by Zara2009	Replies:1 :303	Latest by Zara2009 17 Nov 08
Don't know what to do Married for 6 years, husband Turkish, now a UK Citizen. 16 years younger than me - the kind of story you read in cheap magazines. Relationship always ... 15 Nov 08, by sillyme Latest 17 Nov 08 by kuntakinte 1 2	Replies:10 :1056	Latest by kuntakinte 17 Nov 08
I lost my wife to Second Life. At a difficult time it has been a great help reading about others going through a breakdown in their relationships and how they coped. Lots of useful advice giv ... 15 Nov 08, by falcon37 Latest 17 Nov 08 by Marshy_ 1 2	Replies:8 :1310	Latest by Marshy_ 17 Nov 08
Abusive relationship Hi I separated from my husband six months ago. For a long time I have had to put up with excessive drinking where at times he became physically and me ... 16 Nov 08, by gillmoh Latest 16 Nov 08 by gillmoh	Replies:3 :376	Latest by gillmoh 16 Nov 08
Location When initial divorce papers have been served in England then one party moves to Scotland, will the settlement have to be dealt with according to English Law ? W ... 14 Nov 08, by rocklessangel Latest 15 Nov 08 by rocklessangel 1 2	Replies:10 :923	Latest by rocklessangel 15 Nov 08
Feeling Lost Hi All My wife has recently left me after 12.5 years relationship. Married earlier in the year for 7 months and then she announced that she is unhappy ... 14 Nov 08, by geodd Latest 14 Nov 08 by angelsmum	Replies:6 :419	Latest by angelsmum 14 Nov 08
Divorce at the hands of a Ukranian woman Hi, My friend who is going through divorce pointed me in this direction. My husband and I have been supporting his brother who is suffering at the hands of ... 13 Nov 08, by Cristal12 Latest 14 Nov 08 by Cristal12	Replies:5 :402	Latest by Cristal12 14 Nov 08
New and feeling lost Hello everyone. I'm new to wiki and wanted to introduce myself. I'm a 24 year who was married for two years. One day, 8 weeks ago, my huband said he was no long ... 14 Nov 08, by Tara1984 Latest 14 Nov 08 by mrsnomore	Replies:3 :357	Latest by mrsnomore 14 Nov 08
Judges decision Hi- I am divorcing my husband of 8 years due to adultry on his part! I have a solicitor he has chosen not to have one. We have in four weeks been able to agree ... 13 Nov 08, by maccie Latest 14 Nov 08 by marriaa 1 2	Replies:8 :982	Latest by marriaa 14 Nov 08
Just found out....... Hi This is my first post on here, although I have have found great comfort from reading other peoples stories and realizing that I am not alone in going thr ... 14 Nov 08, by daisycat Latest 14 Nov 08 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :342	Latest by Marshy_ 14 Nov 08
In my own world I have just joined this forum,all new to me!!! I have been on my own now for 18months or so, after 15 years together. I'm not sure where to go with this as I ha ... 13 Nov 08, by jokeaside Latest 14 Nov 08 by LucyLou	Replies:5 :487	Latest by LucyLou 14 Nov 08
Hello! Just to say Hi and that I'm new to the forum,don't really know what to say except mine has been dragging on for ages. Trying to sell our home with the beloved C ... 14 Nov 08, by policereleaseme Latest 14 Nov 08 by marriaa	Replies:2 :318	Latest by marriaa 14 Nov 08
Making me feel like I won't cope without him! Hi all, I am 33 years old with 2 and 5 year old daughters. 7 Months ago I found out that my husband was having an affair with a women at his work and had be ... 13 Nov 08, by trudy1710 Latest 14 Nov 08 by marriaa 1 2	Replies:7 :796	Latest by marriaa 14 Nov 08
feel stupid hi,i'm 45 six foot two and i cant stop crying over my wife seeing someone else,i feel stupid ... 12 Nov 08, by adam15 Latest 13 Nov 08 by cindygirl 1 2 3	Replies:16 :1263	Latest by cindygirl 13 Nov 08
Newbie just starting my journey Hi all Im Dawn and i separated from my husband of 17 years 6 ... 04 Nov 08, by lizzybenn Latest 13 Nov 08 by cindygirl 1 2	Replies:9 :816	Latest by cindygirl 13 Nov 08
cant navigate this site help want to chat but cant please help ... 13 Nov 08, by adam15 Latest 13 Nov 08 by saffron1968	Replies:4 :344	Latest by saffron1968 13 Nov 08
Just starting on this painful road my husband has recently left me and my son, who is 3 1/2 and i am struggling with what to tell him, he has picked up on something being wrong, so far i have sai ... 13 Nov 08, by JacksMum Latest 13 Nov 08 by Marshy_	Replies:4 :358	Latest by Marshy_ 13 Nov 08
New and feeling low Hello all I've just discovered that my husband wants to seperate after almost 14 years of marriage and 2 wonderful children who he seems to have regretted h ... 05 Nov 08, by bagpuss11 Latest 13 Nov 08 by polar 1 2	Replies:11 :893	Latest by polar 13 Nov 08
hello - the whole nine yards I have decided to take the plunge and end a marriage that is not working out. I am blotting out all feelings and just want everything to be over... ... 13 Nov 08, by CyclingFanatic Latest 13 Nov 08 by Sera	Replies:1 :454	Latest by Sera 13 Nov 08
New and sad to be here Hi everyone, New to this and have been lurking for a couple of weeks... husband told me 5 weeks ago was leaving me for affair woman and her two childre ... 06 Nov 08, by Soop Latest 13 Nov 08 by Soop 1 2	Replies:10 :1052	Latest by Soop 13 Nov 08
trouble how do i get my recieved messages so i can reply bit thick cant find them lol ... 12 Nov 08, by adam15 Latest 12 Nov 08 by marriaa	Replies:1 :542	Latest by marriaa 12 Nov 08
New to this and it's a shock. Good morning to who may read this. I've been bumbling around this site for a day or 2 now looking at other peoples tales of woe. I must admit I feel for most ... 12 Nov 08, by dirk Latest 12 Nov 08 by candlelight	Replies:6 :371	Latest by candlelight 12 Nov 08
New to all this Hi - am new to all this and struggling to deal with all the emotions! basically found out my husband had been having an affair 2 years ago ( for about 2 years!) ... 12 Nov 08, by Mrs* Latest 12 Nov 08 by Imediate	Replies:3 :537	Latest by Imediate 12 Nov 08
Short end of the stick! My ex-husband and I were together for 10 years and during most of these he would beat me up (most of these were reported) and mentally abused me. And, he occasi ... 12 Nov 08, by SG4 Latest 12 Nov 08 by Marshy_	Replies:3 :391	Latest by Marshy_ 12 Nov 08
Legal Advice Surgery Hi all Just to let you know I will be hosting a legal surgery Mon to Fri in chat from 6pm to 8pm. The surgery will be subject to "fair us ... 12 Nov 08, by D L Locked	Replies:0 :555
Back to Front Hi I have already posted in relationshipd but bad manners prevented me introducing myself. Now having looked about this forum I realise that I am not alone and ... 11 Nov 08, by spaniel Latest 12 Nov 08 by cindygirl	Replies:3 :470	Latest by cindygirl 12 Nov 08
New here. . . .saying Hello to all Greetings! I just found this forum and am pleased to be a member. I am a resident of the states and will have been divorced 10 years tomorrow! I was married ... 12 Nov 08, by Lucy1995 Latest 12 Nov 08 by cindygirl	Replies:3 :276	Latest by cindygirl 12 Nov 08
What next Hi all very new to this would you believe got the idea from my daughter who turned to the internet for advise on what to do about her dads new girlfriend! I nee ... 11 Nov 08, by happytoday Latest 11 Nov 08 by happytoday	Replies:2 :303	Latest by happytoday 11 Nov 08
Newbie today and close to tears typing! Hi there I found this place today after looking for some advice on line about other stuff. Seems a really great place to be. My situation is t ... 11 Nov 08, by Sammy2 Latest 11 Nov 08 by svetpet	Replies:2 :631	Latest by svetpet 11 Nov 08
I'm lost My husband left for another woman. she is the 17th woman in our 17 year marriage. this time he wants a divorce which is in the process. I feel intensley jealous ... 09 Nov 08, by candlelight Latest 10 Nov 08 by candlelight 1 2 3 4	Replies:24 :1600	Latest by candlelight 10 Nov 08
HI HI This is quite daunting posting this as it is making everythin all too real and scary. I have been married for 4 years all though I have been seperat ... 07 Nov 08, by osprey Latest 10 Nov 08 by candlelight 1 2	Replies:7 :795	Latest by candlelight 10 Nov 08
Divorced 1997. Neg equity. PropNotSorted.NowWant I was divorced 1997. With neg-equity & £7,000 bills arrears. Ex diserted & abandoned the property. Leaving me to pick up the financial pieces on my own ... 10 Nov 08, by Luwiki Latest 10 Nov 08 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :298	Latest by Marshy_ 10 Nov 08
Preparing for the worst.... Hi, I will eventually be the respondent in a divorce that I suspect may end up being bitter, after being married for 4 years with two daughters, one ne ... 05 Nov 08, by Stewpid Latest 10 Nov 08 by Stewpid	Replies:6 :487	Latest by Stewpid 10 Nov 08
I can't hold a feeling!!!!! Hi all My world collapsed in April 2007 when my h decided that after 19 years of loving me and putting me on a pedestal that he could no longer do 'thi ... 09 Nov 08, by carie1 Latest 09 Nov 08 by The Raiven	Replies:3 :385	Latest by The Raiven 09 Nov 08
to the newbies To all of the new ones I have had no chance of saying hello to yet. Guys , I have been less active on wiki for the past few days . I have been ... 09 Nov 08, by marriaa Latest 09 Nov 08 by Poppie	Replies:3 :364	Latest by Poppie 09 Nov 08
Hi all, am new to the site and need urgent advice. Hi, I will do my best to keep this short. I have been married for over 7 years. I went abroad and got married in pakistan. I came back and applied for ... 08 Nov 08, by Nors7860 Latest 09 Nov 08 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :316	Latest by NellNoRegrets 09 Nov 08
Struggling to come to terms with everything Just a quick note to introduce myself, after being married for 23 years my husband walked out on me a year ago and within two weeks of leaving I had a letter fr ... 08 Nov 08, by snowflake10 Latest 08 Nov 08 by cindygirl	Replies:3 :393	Latest by cindygirl 08 Nov 08

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