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Wading through treacle Hi Everyone, Found this site this morning during a 10 minute break for self pity and thought I'd join in 'cos you all sound really nice. Going through vario ... 26 Jul 08, by Tarnlass Latest 28 Sep 08 by GeeWhiz 1 2	Replies:10 :1294	Latest by GeeWhiz 28 Sep 08
Dont know where to start?? Hello, I dont know if anyone can help or just wants to chat. Stupidly I got married when I feel pregnant with our son, it just seemed the right thing t ... 27 Sep 08, by Youngandconfused1 Latest 28 Sep 08 by GeeWhiz	Replies:4 :389	Latest by GeeWhiz 28 Sep 08
Need Help Urgent(problem with divorce) Hi I am new to this site. Seperated from my husband 7 and half years ago. I filed for a Divorce 6 years ago, and every letter that was sent to his apa ... 27 Sep 08, by godisgood Latest 27 Sep 08 by Fiona	Replies:1 :369	Latest by Fiona 27 Sep 08
Hi everyone Thought I'd just introduce myself. I'm divorced mum of 3 andboys just at the point of ending my new relationship. I've been with my current partner for 4 years, ... 27 Sep 08, by soxy Latest 27 Sep 08 by soxy	Replies:2 :336	Latest by soxy 27 Sep 08
Just got here, having relationship trouble Hello, everyone. I probably shouldn't be here as I am not in the process of a divorce and if all goes according to plan I never will be, but I am in the middle ... 26 Sep 08, by BigRed78 Latest 27 Sep 08 by mizmagoo	Replies:4 :349	Latest by mizmagoo 27 Sep 08
Moving on Moving on with our lives Hello all, Im new to this site and have waited a couple of weeks watching reading what this site is about. Whilst I h ... 27 Sep 08, by serper1	Replies:0 :292
Just got round to it! Hi -just decided to register after months of guest visits. Been separated ages now, getting divorced-my choice. STBX led me a right old life, I managed ... 25 Sep 08, by Drucilla37 Latest 26 Sep 08 by shinyhappypeople	Replies:5 :357	Latest by shinyhappypeople 26 Sep 08
I'm new and confused Hi all. Just found the site and think it could really help me. I have been separated from my husband for over nearly 3 years now. We have 2 sons aged 6 and 9. I ... 26 Sep 08, by timsgirl Latest 26 Sep 08 by timsgirl	Replies:2 :340	Latest by timsgirl 26 Sep 08
it's all about me !!!!!!!! Hi, I am new to all this kind of thing. Ok - I am 36 with 1 child and I own my own business. I am going through a messy divorse with a man who I don't ... 26 Sep 08, by tiny turtles Latest 26 Sep 08 by rhiannon555	Replies:2 :351	Latest by rhiannon555 26 Sep 08
hi everyon! Hi I am Debbie a recently seperated 41 year old mum with one daughter and 2 dogs still at home. (as said the third one just left lol). I work part time and hav ... 25 Sep 08, by MizzDebbie.41 Latest 26 Sep 08 by mike62	Replies:5 :449	Latest by mike62 26 Sep 08
Start of the process Hi, Quick resume - Married for 12 yrs, 2 kids under 8 and the x2b decided in June she didn't love me and wanted out. She left the family home in August ... 26 Sep 08, by Empty wallet Latest 26 Sep 08 by mike62 1 2	Replies:7 :732	Latest by mike62 26 Sep 08
Hi new here and need some help Hi everyone never thought i'd be sat reading through a divorce forum but hey ho i suppose no body would. here goes Been with the wife for 20 year been m ... 26 Sep 08, by Hadenuff Latest 26 Sep 08 by Hadenuff	Replies:2 :349	Latest by Hadenuff 26 Sep 08
introducing myself hi , god this feels weird writing to cyberspace but i desparately need connection with others who are going or have been through this. was having a really good ... 25 Sep 08, by rhiannon555 Latest 25 Sep 08 by Yummy mummy	Replies:3 :450	Latest by Yummy mummy 25 Sep 08
Hi im new here, just intruducing myself Hi, this is my 1st post and wondered if anyone could help me out. My partner and i have been living together for the past 23 years and have decided to sell up a ... 25 Sep 08, by weeping willow Latest 25 Sep 08 by weeping willow	Replies:1 :360	Latest by weeping willow 25 Sep 08
Am I being played? I have been married for 20 years - the first 18 happily, until my wife hit 43 and had an affair while we were overseas with her spanish teacher. I can rationali ... 25 Sep 08, by happychappy Latest 25 Sep 08 by rainy 1 2	Replies:8 :1047	Latest by rainy 25 Sep 08
Too scared to leave him. Hi all, Some brief background first; I met my husband when I was 15, he was 20. After a few months we parted company because my parents didn' ... 25 Sep 08, by Bemsie Latest 25 Sep 08 by bridgett1971	Replies:6 :594	Latest by bridgett1971 25 Sep 08
Hi Hi to everyone - how i wish i had found this site before my absolute came through. I have spent months being constantly stressed. Can anyone give me some advis ... 25 Sep 08, by loopylou100 Latest 25 Sep 08 by mike62	Replies:2 :320	Latest by mike62 25 Sep 08
Just joined This is the first divocre forum I felt I wanted to join, having seen several. Me: In the midst of an unpleasant divorce. Have had a very stressful time ... 25 Sep 08, by somebody Latest 25 Sep 08 by somebody	Replies:6 :389	Latest by somebody 25 Sep 08
Going through the pain? Guess were all going through some pain in one form or anot ... 24 Sep 08, by Macis Latest 24 Sep 08 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :424	Latest by NellNoRegrets 24 Sep 08
Any full time McKenzie Friends out there? Hi all, I'm considering going full time as a Lay Adviser and McKenzie Friend in Family Law. Would like to connect up with any other full or pa ... 24 Sep 08, by mckenzie.friend Latest 24 Sep 08 by mckenzie.friend	Replies:5 :510	Latest by mckenzie.friend 24 Sep 08
worried to death Hi, can anyone advise me on this? A friend's wife has out of the blue just told him she wants a divorce (subsequently he finds out she has been having an af ... 23 Sep 08, by pippa4 Latest 23 Sep 08 by pippa4 1 2	Replies:7 :853	Latest by pippa4 23 Sep 08
how to leave when wife wont work/earn ?? Find it hard to leave when partner hasnt and wont work to help herself. We have a mortgage, with equity, she wont get a job, i cant afford to move out. What wou ... 22 Sep 08, by zimmerman Latest 22 Sep 08 by rosiegirl	Replies:1 :436	Latest by rosiegirl 22 Sep 08
feeling of loss Does anyone have the feeling of loss after their divorce? i still deeply love my ex wife and just can`t seem to get over the divorce. ... 21 Sep 08, by mickeyflyn Latest 21 Sep 08 by Angel557	Replies:1 :402	Latest by Angel557 21 Sep 08
Feeling alone with the final hearing bearing down Hi there. I'm not entirely sure why I'm writing this. I think, as I said above, I'm just feeling a bit fragile and alone. My situation, I'm sure, is nowhere nea ... 13 Sep 08, by Lovelikeyouveneverbeenhur Latest 21 Sep 08 by marriaa 1 2	Replies:11 :1047	Latest by marriaa 21 Sep 08
Hi this is me THEN: Things really kicked off when my dad took ill and died suddenly 3 years ago. I felt pressure to start a new job immediately but never settled (unsurprisin ... 20 Sep 08, by pollycd Latest 21 Sep 08 by cindygirl	Replies:2 :424	Latest by cindygirl 21 Sep 08
Current Problems Hello I am new to this and would like to introduce myself to the forum. I have been married for nearly 25 years now and always thought that the relationship ... 20 Sep 08, by MrSofty Latest 20 Sep 08 by shinyhappypeople	Replies:5 :682	Latest by shinyhappypeople 20 Sep 08
Ok my intro Hi, was gonna do an introduction to myself, but y'know ... I cant be bothered explaining lol... never mind eh... i've posted on here for a coupla weeks now... b ... 19 Sep 08, by mizmagoo Latest 19 Sep 08 by Daisy049	Replies:6 :416	Latest by Daisy049 19 Sep 08
Not an intro, just a song It just sums up how I felt. Tide passes over the babbling rocks If you listen you can hear them say That you never should have opened ... 31 Aug 08, by artyfufkin Latest 19 Sep 08 by inc 1 2	Replies:8 :912	Latest by inc 19 Sep 08
I initiated my seperation..now I'm the bad guy Hi all, where to start? Well this is my first posting and a few salient (not salacious) details I guess would help. I'm British, 45, living &a ... 16 Sep 08, by scubafish Latest 18 Sep 08 by findingmyself 1 2	Replies:13 :1268	Latest by findingmyself 18 Sep 08
Hi need advice! I have been married for 10 years and have 2 girls of 11 and 16, i have been with my wife for 24 years and now she wants us to seperate. My wife asked u ... 18 Sep 08, by shaun8472 Latest 18 Sep 08 by LittleMrMike	Replies:4 :388	Latest by LittleMrMike 18 Sep 08
Mixed feelings Hi I am new to all this and it seems a bit strange as I now know that chat rooms seemed to be the thing for my stbex. We were together 17 years and married for ... 17 Sep 08, by Angel_Imp Latest 18 Sep 08 by findingmyself	Replies:1 :357	Latest by findingmyself 18 Sep 08
Intro- Do I belong I don't fit any of the categories. My partner of 35 years left at the weekend. We never married. We have 2 kids though. There is no 'divorce' as such. In fact, ... 18 Sep 08, by stellanova7 Latest 18 Sep 08 by saffron1968 1 2	Replies:7 :913	Latest by saffron1968 18 Sep 08
My Story - Sorry if it sounds very bitter My wife and I married 2 years ago after a short engagement and having never lived together. She had 2 kids from previous relationships. I paid off all her d ... 18 Sep 08, by RTW	Replies:0 :569
To date Hi all, i'm 40 years young and have been divorced for 8 years now. I have one son aged 14 in Nov. In short, my divorce was a complete walk in the park compare ... 17 Sep 08, by daisychain262 Latest 17 Sep 08 by daisychain262 1 2	Replies:7 :912	Latest by daisychain262 17 Sep 08
Just new to this Hi I am 7 months down the road to recovery from my husband leaving myself and my 3 sons. We were married for 28 years. This is the hardest thing I have ever had ... 15 Sep 08, by Kate March Latest 17 Sep 08 by shinyhappypeople 1 2	Replies:10 :874	Latest by shinyhappypeople 17 Sep 08
Greetings Hello to everyone... Just a quick intro - I separated from my wife 18 months ago after a 10 year marriage. I have 1 child who I get to see regularly so full cre ... 17 Sep 08, by Captain Underdog Latest 17 Sep 08 by Ephelia	Replies:1 :328	Latest by Ephelia 17 Sep 08
help?can anyone offer any - want to Divorce ASAP this is my first time on the site and was informed of it by a colleague at work. my situation is as follows so any help / advice would be greatly appre ... 17 Sep 08, by Boo1014 Latest 17 Sep 08 by mez	Replies:1 :530	Latest by mez 17 Sep 08
Am I mad? My husbad got a job abroad and 18months later we joined him (my Mum lives with us and my 16 yearold son from a previous marriage) I found on his laptop a photog ... 16 Sep 08, by beex67 Latest 17 Sep 08 by TMax	Replies:4 :529	Latest by TMax 17 Sep 08
hi, i'm new on here hi, i was sent to this site via a friend. i'm 26 and already divorced but have a few problems. hopefully some1 may be able to give me some advice etc ... 15 Sep 08, by amylw1 Latest 15 Sep 08 by Goofyfoot	Replies:5 :363	Latest by Goofyfoot 15 Sep 08
no one I am new to the site. just come across it by accident when I was so down and felt that my world just collapsed and my so called friends who said initially, &quo ... 13 Sep 08, by chasy1705 Latest 15 Sep 08 by Marshy_	Replies:5 :409	Latest by Marshy_ 15 Sep 08

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