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Just joined this site Hi I just found this site and hope it can be a help for me to go through this difficult time. I am 51 and live in London and I am in the middle of a divorce ... 14 Sep 08, by Nanu Latest 15 Sep 08 by Nanu 1 2 3	Replies:20 :1546	Latest by Nanu 15 Sep 08
divorce Hi new to the site, I am going through a divorce at present started proceedings in march hoping to get nisi in 4 wks time, however my X is stumbling at every tu ... 12 Sep 08, by blueeyes2 Latest 14 Sep 08 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :398	Latest by NellNoRegrets 14 Sep 08
A weird situation to be in... Hello all, I've never used this sort of forum before, hopefully just typing this helps me - Here goes... Family situation in summary is marrie ... 09 Sep 08, by worriedperson Latest 13 Sep 08 by WeeKate	Replies:6 :453	Latest by WeeKate 13 Sep 08
so scared My wife of 28 years has gone off with another guy - a complete shock - i had no clue - we have two boys 21 and 18 one is here with me the other lives with his G ... 11 Sep 08, by prime Latest 12 Sep 08 by lyndamac 1 2	Replies:8 :960	Latest by lyndamac 12 Sep 08
When will it end! I met my new partner after he had seperated from his wife. He has been living apart from her for almost 2 years and on the whole the split was amicable. He ge ... 11 Sep 08, by boredstiff Latest 12 Sep 08 by redoctober 1 2 3 ... 7	Replies:44 :3252	Latest by redoctober 12 Sep 08
Help, this is all so terrifying Hello everybody I am new to the site, but have been lurking a while reading posts, occasionally getting some comfort but often being depressed at the a ... 11 Sep 08, by sb67 Latest 11 Sep 08 by cindygirl	Replies:1 :331	Latest by cindygirl 11 Sep 08
help! my husband moved out last week after we decided we could no longer live together. (there is no one else involved) we have a 2 year old daughter. He has said he ... 10 Sep 08, by blythe Latest 11 Sep 08 by Marshy_	Replies:6 :377	Latest by Marshy_ 11 Sep 08
Voluntary Repossession If i just dont't pay the mortgage and the house was repossessed what would be the implications of this?? (apart from probably never being able to get a mortgage ... 10 Sep 08, by ataloss Latest 11 Sep 08 by Marshy_	Replies:6 :918	Latest by Marshy_ 11 Sep 08
Alone after 21 years Hi there! My name is David and after 21 years my wife had an affair with one of the dad's of her child minding buisiness. (local man) He was a freind as well a ... 10 Sep 08, by chiroptera Latest 11 Sep 08 by JJ50 1 2 3	Replies:19 :1861	Latest by JJ50 11 Sep 08
Help :o( My marriage is definitely over. My husband has not worked for years leaving me to carry the burden of everything. I pay all the bills but the mortgage is in joi ... 10 Sep 08, by ataloss Latest 10 Sep 08 by mike62	Replies:3 :431	Latest by mike62 10 Sep 08
hello everyone and help me pehaps the ladies could help me on this one? I am 56 and my wife 43 when we first got together 14 years i was the main bread winner. In the las ... 06 Sep 08, by billy1952 Latest 10 Sep 08 by ataloss 1 2 3 4	Replies:21 :1821	Latest by ataloss 10 Sep 08
Hi and my story Hi everyone, Im avid from the midlands, england. Im brand new to the site and i am looking for like minded people to share thoughts and experiences wit ... 09 Sep 08, by avid Latest 09 Sep 08 by wheretostart	Replies:2 :399	Latest by wheretostart 09 Sep 08
Hi All Im Sam and a bit of a wreck at the moment. My hubby and i are discussing splitting and going our separate ways. I suppose it a no fault split or a mutual fault ... 09 Sep 08, by smileycheesecake Latest 09 Sep 08 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :410	Latest by NellNoRegrets 09 Sep 08
My story so far ... 08 Sep 08, by Isshehavingalaugh Latest 09 Sep 08 by stillalive	Replies:3 :516	Latest by stillalive 09 Sep 08
Hello! Hi, I've been married 18 years and got the "I love you but I'm not in love with you" speech out of the blue on 16th July. My wife refuses to ... 09 Sep 08, by mshaunb Latest 09 Sep 08 by mshaunb	Replies:2 :483	Latest by mshaunb 09 Sep 08
living with a bully Hi, I found this site while looking for info about what i can expect if separating from my husband. I am 50yrs old, but feel 100. We have been married 30 year ... 05 Sep 08, by blubird Latest 09 Sep 08 by blubird 1 2	Replies:8 :976	Latest by blubird 09 Sep 08
What's in store ? Hi all new user here ! already taking some comfort from reading that many of you guys have been through similar experiences to myself and nade it through th ... 09 Sep 08, by lightsout Latest 09 Sep 08 by lightsout	Replies:5 :406	Latest by lightsout 09 Sep 08
Hi I am new here and scared! Hi I am new to this, my husband left me 2 weeks ago, I am scared of starting out! We own a house and he has left, I can not manage the mortgage and everything e ... 08 Sep 08, by nurse Latest 08 Sep 08 by mike62	Replies:1 :346	Latest by mike62 08 Sep 08
So good to know that I'm not alone Hello Just joined tonight and posted a question and then thought I would introduce myself properly. I'm 19 months into of the most horrendous ... 07 Sep 08, by LillyB Latest 08 Sep 08 by cindygirl	Replies:6 :465	Latest by cindygirl 08 Sep 08
dont know what future holds married 31 years, marriage not working for some time but was ok with things going on as they were. husband got £ signs in his eyes and has been talking about ... 06 Sep 08, by lioness Latest 07 Sep 08 by hadenoughnow	Replies:4 :711	Latest by hadenoughnow 07 Sep 08
im new hi, just found this forum, and thought id give it a go, i today, have just found out im divorced.......my x did it behind my back, no knowledge, nothing,,,, ... 07 Sep 08, by ohmygod Latest 07 Sep 08 by cindygirl	Replies:2 :347	Latest by cindygirl 07 Sep 08
hi im new and thought id share my sory hi im new on here so i thought id share my story.....my wife left me for someone i know.3 years ago im divorced now and iv tried to move on iv tried to feel hat ... 07 Sep 08, by jowil Latest 07 Sep 08 by Tinkerbelle	Replies:2 :360	Latest by Tinkerbelle 07 Sep 08
Uselessness Hi there to every body out there, How do you get over the feeling that your divorce is all your fault even if you know in saner moments that it isn't. ... 09 Aug 08, by wumpy Latest 07 Sep 08 by goodmove 1 2 3	Replies:20 :1702	Latest by goodmove 07 Sep 08
Just joined the site. Finally separated! Now finally separated after a few attempts to make a go of it again. Glad we tried but now ready to face the open road and the divorce process. Am both happy an ... 06 Sep 08, by futureperfect Latest 07 Sep 08 by yoyo	Replies:2 :358	Latest by yoyo 07 Sep 08
heartbroken I feel a bit guilty writing my story, I have not had the turbulent times that many of you have had, however the pain I feel I can’t describe. Four we ... 06 Sep 08, by wilbie Latest 07 Sep 08 by cindygirl 1 2 3	Replies:14 :1267	Latest by cindygirl 07 Sep 08
It's a roller coaster and I want to get off!! Hi all, just wanted to introduce myself. Quick history - Two weeks ago, husband came home at midnight and asked me to go down stairs, told me in no uncertain t ... 05 Sep 08, by wheretostart Latest 06 Sep 08 by adele19 1 2 3	Replies:18 :1403	Latest by adele19 06 Sep 08
Does it get easier?? Hi everyone, ive been sat here 5 mins now thinking about what to say, so ill just start from the very beginning. I met my husband 11 years ago, we were both ver ... 05 Sep 08, by Gemma1982 Latest 06 Sep 08 by Gemma1982 1 2	Replies:12 :1109	Latest by Gemma1982 06 Sep 08
advice needed please! Hello, I'm new to all this, so hope i'm doing this right! my name is Kerry. 18 months ago my Dad left my Mum after 32 years of marriage for a woman the ... 04 Sep 08, by kerrymooney1 Latest 05 Sep 08 by Lady in Blue 1 2	Replies:9 :841	Latest by Lady in Blue 05 Sep 08
us in trouble hello im maureen just joined the site. my story is simple and a bit of a mess. i am divoced and met a new man who i love but he is a acolh ... 05 Sep 08, by sam13 Latest 05 Sep 08 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:4 :414	Latest by NellNoRegrets 05 Sep 08
testing Hi i am new and just testing how to post a question ... 05 Sep 08, by cmoptions	Replies:0 :247
Advice Needed RE Solicitor Hi, I went to see a solicitor in November to start divorce proceedings, nothing at all happened and in Jan I got a letter saying he had moved away and someone e ... 04 Sep 08, by Orny1974 Latest 04 Sep 08 by Lady in Blue	Replies:2 :353	Latest by Lady in Blue 04 Sep 08
A short introduction ? Take a deep breath.... I just need to get all this off my chest, if anyone has any constructive comments to make I’m all ears as this situation is eating away at me. Firstl ... 03 Sep 08, by markovandee Locked Latest 04 Sep 08 by Young again Locked 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:28 :2514	Latest by Young again 04 Sep 08
grounds for divorce Hi, I'v just joined the forum after scouring the net for info on divorce, I discovered that using "irreconcilable differences" is not an option and th ... 28 Jul 08, by Marge Latest 04 Sep 08 by unsureineed 1 2	Replies:9 :1156	Latest by unsureineed 04 Sep 08
A short intro to me Hi all, I have just registered on here and thought that I would start with introducing myself. Well my name is Simon,I'm 36 years young and I'm from Gw ... 03 Sep 08, by snoop1charlie Latest 03 Sep 08 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :370	Latest by NellNoRegrets 03 Sep 08
HI plz help . Hello 2 u all out there . I have viewed this site for some time for advice and tips and need urgent help ( i am self repping ) . I am in my late 30`s and se ... 03 Sep 08, by ANDRE69 Latest 03 Sep 08 by Andy11	Replies:2 :579	Latest by Andy11 03 Sep 08
New User This is my first message- Never thought I'd be on one of these sites- never thought I'd split up- been together 12 years married for 6, husband lost his mother ... 03 Sep 08, by LucyL Latest 03 Sep 08 by Zara2009	Replies:6 :390	Latest by Zara2009 03 Sep 08
Being Awkward! Hi. Been divorced for just over 2 years now. My ex had an affair with our then next door neighbour (married to him now), which was the catalyst for our divorc ... 02 Sep 08, by Dorset Father Latest 03 Sep 08 by Young again	Replies:1 :338	Latest by Young again 03 Sep 08
HI plz help . H ... 03 Sep 08, by ANDRE69 Latest 03 Sep 08 by mike62	Replies:1 :321	Latest by mike62 03 Sep 08
Hi I've been browsing these pages for the last few months but have only just plucked up courage to write something. My husband left two days ago and I am totally ... 02 Sep 08, by Sunshine10 Latest 02 Sep 08 by cindygirl 1 2	Replies:7 :702	Latest by cindygirl 02 Sep 08
Hello Dear All, I have just found this site and thought I would introduce myself. I am 43 years old and my marriage broke down in September 2006 after 10 yea ... 28 Aug 08, by worriedkitty Latest 02 Sep 08 by cindygirl	Replies:3 :338	Latest by cindygirl 02 Sep 08

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