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Thinking my husband is in love with another Hi there I love my husband dearly but he's been suffering from depression for some time and made some very questionable decisions with a female friend ... 28 Aug 08, by sadsadsad Latest 02 Sep 08 by cindygirl 1 2	Replies:13 :988	Latest by cindygirl 02 Sep 08
Facing up to it Hi I'm joining since I have nowhere else to turn sob. I'm 22, getting divorced after 2.5 years of marriage. I originally voiced problems in Janua ... 02 Sep 08, by rubyrodent Latest 02 Sep 08 by cindygirl	Replies:3 :394	Latest by cindygirl 02 Sep 08
Hello new to this online stuff hehe This is just to say hello dont really know where to start but my main problem at the mo is splitting the equity in the property as my hub wants 50%, and the fac ... 29 Aug 08, by lizzie65 Latest 01 Sep 08 by lizzie65 1 2	Replies:7 :870	Latest by lizzie65 01 Sep 08
Sadly, my turn. What should I do first? Hi all, I've been reading your chats for days and found them really uplifting but at the same time hoped I'd not have to join. Well, my luck has run ou ... 30 Aug 08, by Homme Latest 31 Aug 08 by Homme	Replies:6 :461	Latest by Homme 31 Aug 08
hello Hi everyone I have been reading some of the stuff on here for a week or so, and am finally brave enough to come out and admit that my marriage has fail ... 30 Aug 08, by yoyo Latest 31 Aug 08 by Daisy049 1 2	Replies:8 :881	Latest by Daisy049 31 Aug 08
what should I do????? Apologise in advance for grammer, spelling etc!!!!! I have lived with my partner for 15 years married for the last two years, we have two children toge ... 28 Aug 08, by robbieruby Latest 29 Aug 08 by BRM 1 2	Replies:9 :1480	Latest by BRM 29 Aug 08
Me I have been married for 24 years and husband has recently left me and is having an affair with someone at work 17 years his junior! This is the second time he ... 29 Aug 08, by Athlete Latest 29 Aug 08 by mike62	Replies:6 :359	Latest by mike62 29 Aug 08
Intro Hi, Im new to this but have had a good look around the site and found some real interesting information. I have been married for over 7 years. The rela ... 28 Aug 08, by Girly Latest 28 Aug 08 by cindygirl	Replies:3 :397	Latest by cindygirl 28 Aug 08
who knew it would be this stressful.... I've been married for just over 12 years and currently divorcing my husband. I think I'm up to the bit where he's seen the divorce petition and has sent it to h ... 28 Aug 08, by Jo.Fluffy Latest 28 Aug 08 by mike62	Replies:3 :400	Latest by mike62 28 Aug 08
Miss my wife dearly Me and my wife have been married for 3 yrs. we have a 4yr old and a soon to be 2yr old. We have had our share of fights in the past but we always got over them. ... 27 Aug 08, by Tasmanohio Latest 28 Aug 08 by polar	Replies:5 :865	Latest by polar 28 Aug 08
new person wanting advice stbx gone with another woman so its me & 2 kids now wandering about maintenance is £50 week right or should i be after 20% of his income ( gross or net ... 27 Aug 08, by mrsfedup Latest 27 Aug 08 by Sera	Replies:2 :366	Latest by Sera 27 Aug 08
Don't Know What To Do Anymore Hi This is my first time on here I am so down and confused. I'll try to explain and not make it too long. About ... 26 Aug 08, by LonelyFem Latest 27 Aug 08 by mrsfedup 1 2	Replies:7 :1038	Latest by mrsfedup 27 Aug 08
Need advice and some support Hi new to all of this and very stressed and confused. My husband and I have been in a relationship for 8 1/2 years married for 3. Recently we ... 27 Aug 08, by designerint Latest 27 Aug 08 by dawn1	Replies:1 :353	Latest by dawn1 27 Aug 08
Can't seem to break away... :-( Hi All, I have been with my partned for 10 years now (married for the past couple of years, most of which have been fairly unhappy for me and living in ... 26 Aug 08, by sadman Latest 26 Aug 08 by oncebittentwiceshy	Replies:2 :528	Latest by oncebittentwiceshy 26 Aug 08
Another Forum... ? ... 26 Aug 08, by War Latest 26 Aug 08 by War 1 2	Replies:10 :1061	Latest by War 26 Aug 08
New to all of this Hello, I cant believe I am on a site like this! My husband left me 18 months ago. I have two beautiful boys who are devestated by his decision. Afte ... 25 Aug 08, by louiseb Latest 26 Aug 08 by cindygirl 1 2	Replies:7 :895	Latest by cindygirl 26 Aug 08
Feeling awful I'm feeling really upset My ex came round to take youngest son to play pool. When he came back, elder son was back, so he w ... 24 Aug 08, by NellNoRegrets Latest 26 Aug 08 by cindygirl 1 2 3	Replies:15 :1384	Latest by cindygirl 26 Aug 08
Need some advice Hi Everyone, I'm new to this but would like some advice. My husband of nearly 2 years walked out at the end of June 08. It had been building for a wh ... 23 Aug 08, by redhotfire21 Latest 25 Aug 08 by polar 1 2	Replies:8 :852	Latest by polar 25 Aug 08
keeping the anger in ! Hi, Just want to sound off really...... like most people i assume! Thinking about divorce and had my first chat with my solicitor last week. ... 18 Aug 08, by fanny49 Latest 25 Aug 08 by polar 1 2 3	Replies:14 :1513	Latest by polar 25 Aug 08
living together after deciding to divorce Hi I'm new to the site. I have been with my partner for 12 years, married for 11 and this week we have finally decided to end our marriage. At the moment we are ... 21 Aug 08, by fleur Latest 25 Aug 08 by fleur 1 2	Replies:10 :1219	Latest by fleur 25 Aug 08
hopefully Hello I'm English I got married to Pole in London 26 years ago we moved to Poland and have been here for the past 16 years. Having 2small kids I was grit ... 22 Aug 08, by anne other Latest 23 Aug 08 by LittleMrMike	Replies:1 :339	Latest by LittleMrMike 23 Aug 08
Where to start? Hi, My husband has just told me that he wants to split up. It's been bubbling for a while. He had an affair about 20-24 months ago, and told m ... 23 Aug 08, by Puffas Latest 23 Aug 08 by downbutnot out 1 2	Replies:7 :1225	Latest by downbutnot out 23 Aug 08
Wondering how I'll cope Hi everyone, I'm new to this so be gentle with me. I feel like I've lost everything and my stbx seems to have it all even though she's the one ... 21 Aug 08, by mark_otu Latest 23 Aug 08 by Itgetsbetter	Replies:4 :425	Latest by Itgetsbetter 23 Aug 08
Just want out - my story so far Hi All, I’ve used forums for debt problems, baby stuff and I never thought divorce but here I am! I’m Natasha and I am desperate to end my marriag ... 17 Aug 08, by NatashaBL Latest 23 Aug 08 by NellNoRegrets 1 2	Replies:13 :1015	Latest by NellNoRegrets 23 Aug 08
Hallo I'm 52 and my husband left home 1st July. We were married for 18 years and have actually been together for 31. We have 2 teenage sons, aged 15 ... 22 Aug 08, by NellNoRegrets Latest 23 Aug 08 by NellNoRegrets 1 2 3 4	Replies:21 :1613	Latest by NellNoRegrets 23 Aug 08
Dazed and confused!!!! Where do I even start? I'll try this ag ... 18 Jul 08, by cerealkilla999 Latest 22 Aug 08 by cindygirl	Replies:5 :508	Latest by cindygirl 22 Aug 08
JUST NEED SOME HELP PLEASE Hi,my name is colin,father of three,my wife of 2 years has dropped the bombshell of ' she wants to split'....just trying to come to terms with things,and have c ... 22 Aug 08, by Happy Days Latest 22 Aug 08 by cindygirl	Replies:5 :391	Latest by cindygirl 22 Aug 08
Fingers Crossed I am 57, and after 40 years of marriage, the end is near. I had my FA last week, and this was a bit of an anti climax, as nothing seemed to move on. 20 Aug 08, by cariad Latest 22 Aug 08 by cindygirl	Replies:3 :433	Latest by cindygirl 22 Aug 08
after clean break Hi actually posted the same query early thi morning. It's the first time I haveused any kind of forum, so still not too sure how it all works. However i have ha ... 20 Aug 08, by poppy118 Latest 22 Aug 08 by poppy118	Replies:2 :717	Latest by poppy118 22 Aug 08
Divorce and Multiple Sclerosis Cabbage said: Hi, I in the middle of divorce. I also had the unfortunate timming of being diagnosed with MS 2 w ... 18 Aug 08, by mike62 Latest 21 Aug 08 by Petrof 1 2	Replies:10 :1306	Latest by Petrof 21 Aug 08
getting harrassed by his family to put house for s [ Have been married to husband for 14 years. He has been gambling for a long time. Had given him ultimatiums in the past but we worked through and i beleived he ... 20 Aug 08, by jaynie1 Latest 20 Aug 08 by dawn1	Replies:1 :298	Latest by dawn1 20 Aug 08
New Start Hello Everyone, I am about to start my divorce proceedings but before I do that thankfully I found this site where I am hoping I can learn a few things ... 05 Aug 08, by kotum45 Latest 20 Aug 08 by kotum45 1 2	Replies:7 :1029	Latest by kotum45 20 Aug 08
Desperatly seeking Advice !! Hi there, I am writing this hoping someone out there can offer some practical advice. Sorry my story may be long but as you can see I am comming to th ... 20 Aug 08, by helpless Latest 20 Aug 08 by Angel557	Replies:5 :405	Latest by Angel557 20 Aug 08
My wife & Kids My wife of ten years has just turned 40 (July). My problems started last ... 18 Aug 08, by No1 Latest 20 Aug 08 by No1	Replies:6 :476	Latest by No1 20 Aug 08
Hope things get better Hi all My life is in ruins at the minute. My wife and i separated on and off about 3 months ago and i was hoping whilst on a split things migh ... 10 Aug 08, by kirk11111 Latest 19 Aug 08 by polar 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:29 :2627	Latest by polar 19 Aug 08
Hello Just thought I would say hello. I found the site whilst looking for information on final settlements. Have been divorced for 4 yrs now and must say my experie ... 19 Aug 08, by simo Latest 19 Aug 08 by simo	Replies:2 :286	Latest by simo 19 Aug 08
Don't know how to handle Hi All I am very new to chatting, however i am seeking support and guidance as i have found myself in a very traumatic situation. Been together for 16 ... 18 Aug 08, by zara Latest 19 Aug 08 by zara	Replies:5 :568	Latest by zara 19 Aug 08
new ground I have to admit I'm a little worried about writing this, but here goes:S I got divorced last year, my ex buried his head in the sand the whole time so the divor ... 19 Aug 08, by Chel5 Latest 19 Aug 08 by Zara2009	Replies:1 :341	Latest by Zara2009 19 Aug 08
trying to be strong but very upset Hi to all & hope to get all ur help & support. I'm sorry its too long but any advice would be very much appreciated. I've no family here & ... 18 Aug 08, by chopsy Latest 19 Aug 08 by chopsy 1 2	Replies:7 :797	Latest by chopsy 19 Aug 08
Wife cheats but gets everything!?! How does that work ... 19 Aug 08, by B3nC Latest 19 Aug 08 by Zara2009	Replies:3 :463	Latest by Zara2009 19 Aug 08

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