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Separated in January 2009 My husband and I separated in January 2009, after i discovered that he was having an affair with a 22 year old model he met on a photo shoot. I had no idea tha ... 10 Mar 09, by beauregard Latest 12 Mar 09 by mumtoboys 1 2	Replies:7 :537	Latest by mumtoboys 12 Mar 09
Newbie saying hello Hi Everyone, I have now plucked up the courage to say hello after so long of watching this forum. I am going through a very tough time (as man ... 10 Mar 09, by Hughie73 Latest 11 Mar 09 by Hughie73 1 2	Replies:7 :520	Latest by Hughie73 11 Mar 09
New user-need someone to talk to Hi First time on here, actually first time divorce seems real cos kept thinking wouldn't happen to me!! Stupid. ... 09 Mar 09, by tango1967 Latest 10 Mar 09 by NellNoRegrets 1 2 3	Replies:17 :731	Latest by NellNoRegrets 10 Mar 09
hello just joined....hope this helps ! hi my name is si.. separated for 2 years and divorce ongoing.. but god..it hasnt even got to the worst bit yet but its so "shitty" excuse my frenc ... 10 Mar 09, by jedun Latest 10 Mar 09 by jedun	Replies:2 :249	Latest by jedun 10 Mar 09
Civil Partnership...hardly civil...anyone else? I registered here a few weeks ago when the crisis hit...and got some pretty good initial advice that sort of grounded me a little. Not 'married' long, ... 09 Mar 09, by theonlyflag Latest 09 Mar 09 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :258	Latest by hadenoughnow 09 Mar 09
Newbie -Hello Hello everyone, good to find you . Hope I find ... 09 Mar 09, by jumpjet Latest 09 Mar 09 by janiebee	Replies:5 :240	Latest by janiebee 09 Mar 09
Newbie Going to try to give a little more than the one line introductions that seem to be on here. I split from my wife 5 years ago now, and have lived since that ... 09 Mar 09, by Paul_Strachan Latest 09 Mar 09 by paulkracken	Replies:3 :211	Latest by paulkracken 09 Mar 09
wanting a divorce and feeling guilty about it. I am 29 years old and I have a 2 1/2 year old son. My husband is 50. Neither of us ever thought age made a difference when it came to love. I feel like I can't ... 09 Mar 09, by julie5140 Latest 09 Mar 09 by julie5140	Replies:4 :265	Latest by julie5140 09 Mar 09
I think we're gonna need a bigger boat Introducing myself - recently separated from a woman I was married to for 7yrs; I knew from early on it wasnt right but, for various reasons, stuck with it; tri ... 08 Mar 09, by kebby7 Latest 09 Mar 09 by M0407	Replies:3 :261	Latest by M0407 09 Mar 09
. ... 05 Mar 09, by i am so very sorry Latest 08 Mar 09 by Elle 1 2	Replies:12 :510	Latest by Elle 08 Mar 09
WOKING AWAY IN BARNSTAPLE WHAT WILL SHE BE UP TO I have been asked to do a job in Barnstaple this means I will be staying away for 5-6 days .The thought of my wife 200 miles away all i can think of is when i g ... 03 Mar 09, by cliff Latest 07 Mar 09 by Bloke123	Replies:4 :276	Latest by Bloke123 07 Mar 09
Im new 30 and divorcing, have two children. Hello! Hi Im new to this community. I am 30 and my husband decided to leave me after discovering facebook. I was devastated at the time but now I am happily getting on ... 03 Mar 09, by SmileyGirley30 Latest 07 Mar 09 by SmileyGirley30 1 2	Replies:12 :566	Latest by SmileyGirley30 07 Mar 09
thought id say hi hi folks, this is all new to me, so bare with me please. Im 39 years old, with three fantastic children and became seperated in october 08. Id say that for ... 06 Mar 09, by bluesgig Latest 06 Mar 09 by Claymic78	Replies:2 :229	Latest by Claymic78 06 Mar 09
The ex is on a power trip? Hi i'm new to this site and just thought I'd introduce myself. I'm a male in my mid thirties and have 2 beautiful daughters. My divorce is almost final ... 06 Mar 09, by kripper Latest 06 Mar 09 by Zara2009	Replies:3 :273	Latest by Zara2009 06 Mar 09
Finally Divorcing Been seperated for around 3 years and now finally going through the divorce process, which appears to be so much as well lol Was married for around 10 ... 06 Mar 09, by MIH_ESSEX Latest 06 Mar 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :247	Latest by NellNoRegrets 06 Mar 09
Hi, I am new to this and hope to get some support. Hi, my husband of 22 years suddenly announced in the first week of Jan that he didn't love me anymore and wanted to move out, he said he needed to sort his head ... 03 Mar 09, by nasus Latest 06 Mar 09 by rainy 1 2	Replies:12 :586	Latest by rainy 06 Mar 09
The post I never wanted to make Hello everyone. Just thought I would register and introduce myself. I'm mid 30's and have been married for 14 years in a couple of weeks. For the last ... 04 Mar 09, by hurting Latest 06 Mar 09 by perrypower 1 2 3	Replies:16 :768	Latest by perrypower 06 Mar 09
Is there anyone out there who can empathise?!! Hi Im new to this website, hoping to find some useful info! I have my nisi and have been referred for mediation with my ex...tho the mediator ... 04 Mar 09, by smunden Latest 05 Mar 09 by Young again	Replies:3 :248	Latest by Young again 05 Mar 09
Feeling Fat, Old, Ugly and Unloved!!! Hi Everyone Thought I had better re-introduce myself, as I had to change my username when I came back on the site after what must be 4 - 6 months ago ... 27 Feb 09, by JJ?? Latest 05 Mar 09 by annieh	Replies:3 :1456	Latest by annieh 05 Mar 09
Hi i am new to this site Hello I am new to this site wish i had known about it three years ago. I split with my husband in July 06 after trying everything i could to make my marriag ... 05 Mar 09, by Wishing Latest 05 Mar 09 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :243	Latest by Marshy_ 05 Mar 09
Fed up ... 04 Mar 09, by josey25 Latest 04 Mar 09 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :255	Latest by hadenoughnow 04 Mar 09
Coping Hi I am in the middle of a divorce - our relationship has been really toxic for over 14 years. My husband takes no responsibility, doesn't work or supp ... 04 Mar 09, by berniep1 Latest 04 Mar 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:1 :194	Latest by dissapointed dad 04 Mar 09
Dont want to spend next 25 years unhappy Hi, this may come accross as selfish, but here it goes... I have been married for 30 years, we have raised 3 children, all now in their 20's...and still living ... 03 Mar 09, by steveps Latest 04 Mar 09 by JoannaA 1 2	Replies:9 :743	Latest by JoannaA 04 Mar 09
Hi I am new and need someone to talk to Hi I'm going through a divorce and it is very scary. I'm hurt, angry, depressed and confused. Two years ago I slipped up and slept with another man. I kno ... 03 Mar 09, by Leah82 Latest 04 Mar 09 by Marshy_ 1 2	Replies:12 :551	Latest by Marshy_ 04 Mar 09
What do I do now??? Hi, I am here because yesterday I finally managed to talk to my wife of 22 years about what's going on. We are both in our forties, don't think anyone else is i ... 01 Mar 09, by mustfocus Latest 03 Mar 09 by mustfocus	Replies:2 :330	Latest by mustfocus 03 Mar 09
Relieved but in shock After years of suspecting my husband to be gay and taking lots of bad behaviour from him, I decided to file for divorce in January. Unfortunately, I ma ... 01 Mar 09, by Magenta100 Latest 03 Mar 09 by Magenta100 1 2	Replies:11 :572	Latest by Magenta100 03 Mar 09
help! I need advice This is my first time on this or any chat forum Hello everyone!! I was wondering whether anyone might be able to give me some advice on the following. M ... 28 Feb 09, by pat19 Latest 03 Mar 09 by janiebee 1 2	Replies:11 :570	Latest by janiebee 03 Mar 09
Hi there Hi there I'm new to this site so thought I'd introduce myself. I've recently decided to separate from my husband of 3 and a half years. Was a ... 02 Mar 09, by Trishg Latest 03 Mar 09 by Trishg	Replies:4 :241	Latest by Trishg 03 Mar 09
To Divorce Lawyer T for your help. Will try and talk on the chat room if I can manage to work out how to get in!! If I dont apply the enlish law whist getting a divorce in spain ... 02 Mar 09, by mammamia Latest 03 Mar 09 by D L	Replies:1 :262	Latest by D L 03 Mar 09
Struggling!!! Hi Folks need some serious support as I have had no maintenance from my English husband who is living in Spain. He nearly killed me in April 2007 and I locked m ... 28 Feb 09, by cafelatte Latest 02 Mar 09 by pete32167 1 2	Replies:7 :538	Latest by pete32167 02 Mar 09
hello and any advice would be welcome Hi I'm 38, been seperated for over 2 years husband filed for a divorce soon after separation and we havent been able to come to an agreement yet an ... 02 Mar 09, by jacks22 Latest 02 Mar 09 by jacks22	Replies:2 :243	Latest by jacks22 02 Mar 09
Please help Hi, My life was shattered a month ago. There was a knock on the door, it was the police claiming my Internet address had been identified for downloading ind ... 02 Mar 09, by hope92 Latest 02 Mar 09 by D L 1 2	Replies:7 :689	Latest by D L 02 Mar 09
why doe sthe judge decide who pays for divorce? just received a letter from court about the cost of our divorce. Was told by my solicitor that i would get legal aid , ive now had this letter saying that a jud ... 02 Mar 09, by jools_1968 Latest 02 Mar 09 by D L	Replies:1 :270	Latest by D L 02 Mar 09
new to all this Hi, we are about to start seperation/divorce proceedings -and i`m scared. I`ve been married to him 30 years. 3 kids all at home 22, .21 and 16yrs. ... 02 Mar 09, by cecilia robo Latest 02 Mar 09 by Itgetsbetter	Replies:1 :235	Latest by Itgetsbetter 02 Mar 09
Getting on with it Yes my husband was a creep, creton, nasty piece of work. Today I'm moving on. I've even started using my maiden name even though I'm not divorced yet. ... 02 Mar 09, by JDog Latest 02 Mar 09 by Itgetsbetter	Replies:1 :252	Latest by Itgetsbetter 02 Mar 09
hearts been ripped out Hi,new on here so bear with me,been blissfully married for 4 yrs and i suppose the last 3-4mths my husband has been a little distant.he turned 40 on last fri:wo ... 02 Mar 09, by guinea11 Latest 02 Mar 09 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :206	Latest by Marshy_ 02 Mar 09
New 1 Hi, found site whilst looking for advice on separation. Married 7yrs, 3 kids (2 at home still). Have been thinking about leaving for a while but things now at a ... 23 Feb 09, by mum23 Latest 02 Mar 09 by pink123	Replies:6 :256	Latest by pink123 02 Mar 09
Hi, I'm new and I'm a worried mum!! I'm not sure where to post this so I'll post here and feel free to move to appropriate section. My Daughter is 20 and just before Christmas she met a 28 yr ... 01 Mar 09, by Aworriedmum Latest 02 Mar 09 by rasher 1 2	Replies:10 :666	Latest by rasher 02 Mar 09
need help Hi.I am at the beginning of divorce and need some help.Have 2 kids aged 7 and 8 and I am not sorry and hurt that we are getting divorced.Cant wait when it'll be ... 01 Mar 09, by alfaomega Latest 01 Mar 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :279	Latest by NellNoRegrets 01 Mar 09
Hi, I am new . xxx Hi Everyone, I am new to this site on a recommendation from a friend from another forum. I am separated from my husband of nearly 25 years as ... 23 Feb 09, by Lisianthus Latest 01 Mar 09 by Zara2009 1 2 3 4	Replies:27 :1040	Latest by Zara2009 01 Mar 09

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