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not sure what to do found wife cheeting married 34 years found a love letter my wife wrote to another man sha says it has been going on since october08 but she wants me not him.But she says she is sti ... 27 Feb 09, by cliff Latest 28 Feb 09 by Elle	Replies:6 :339	Latest by Elle 28 Feb 09
Wife has withdrawn all joint money from account I am 49 and my wife is 42 Two children, 15 and 13 Spend all time with wife at present as I am having to stay with a friend Cohabited ... 25 Feb 09, by sbs49 Latest 27 Feb 09 by sbs49 1 2	Replies:7 :769	Latest by sbs49 27 Feb 09
Transfer of Equity Headache Hi anyone out there that can give me a few tips on what to do with this bleading form she keeps pushing under my nose ! "I'ts only to get things starte ... 26 Feb 09, by brokebloke50 Latest 27 Feb 09 by Zara2009 1 2	Replies:8 :648	Latest by Zara2009 27 Feb 09
New to this site Hi all. xx Hi All I have never done anything like this before but it cant make my situation any worse!!!! 27 Feb 09, by Billine Latest 27 Feb 09 by Billine	Replies:4 :230	Latest by Billine 27 Feb 09
Splitting up, still in shock! Hi, after 10 years my wife has told me wants to leave me. I have accepted this & now we are trying to be amiacable until we have parted. We have a 3 year ol ... 26 Feb 09, by lennox Latest 27 Feb 09 by lennox	Replies:3 :236	Latest by lennox 27 Feb 09
cancer was a piece of cake Hi Mine is a cautionery tale it begins with the diagnosis of bowel cancer in may 07 being rushed into surgery a month later when the tumour seemed to tighte ... 26 Feb 09, by bil717 Latest 26 Feb 09 by daisygreen	Replies:4 :228	Latest by daisygreen 26 Feb 09
Hello and good evening. Just found this forum following the end of my 23 year marriage. All is very amicable, but its the end. My wife has moved on very quickly, and after ju ... 24 Feb 09, by liftman Latest 26 Feb 09 by liftman	Replies:6 :267	Latest by liftman 26 Feb 09
I'm new/ Legal Seperations without a solicitor Hi there..I'm new to this site and this whole ballgame! My husband and I are considering seperating amicably without solicitors if possible, we don't have kids ... 25 Feb 09, by chadders Latest 25 Feb 09 by poppy5	Replies:2 :258	Latest by poppy5 25 Feb 09
Wife left me on 30th Jan 2009 My wife left me on 30th Jan 2009. She had been having an affair with the husband of her sister's best friend and his wife found out. They had intended to try to ... 25 Feb 09, by Paul57 Latest 25 Feb 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:4 :219	Latest by NellNoRegrets 25 Feb 09
On the verge Hello all I'm hoping you can help make this difficult time go smoother. For all of you that have already been through this traumatic process i'd like yo ... 29 Jan 09, by Sonning Latest 25 Feb 09 by Sonning 1 2 3 ... 7	Replies:44 :1900	Latest by Sonning 25 Feb 09
This is long - forgive me I have lived with a control freak for over 30 years. He always lived his own life, continued with clubs etc while I sat at home waiting. Our children are grow ... 24 Feb 09, by blubird Latest 25 Feb 09 by Elle	Replies:2 :253	Latest by Elle 25 Feb 09
Womanising ex with no conscience I've decided to pull my finger out and talk to people in a similar boat - i.e. divorcing. Only in a way, I feel like I'm in a somewhat weird situation. I was ut ... 27 Jan 09, by herasdaughter Latest 25 Feb 09 by fade2gray 1 2 3 4	Replies:26 :1172	Latest by fade2gray 25 Feb 09
OK here goes, its happening Hey, I have been married for 10 years, wife is an alcoholic. She is getting drunk and recently started staying out all night so with a 7 year old angel in tow I ... 24 Feb 09, by MXI Latest 24 Feb 09 by Used09	Replies:4 :328	Latest by Used09 24 Feb 09
My situation any advice? Hi all I have been separated from my husband for 15 months now. I left the home as I could never have afforded the mortgage and bills there. We have ... 21 Feb 09, by snuggle Latest 24 Feb 09 by Marshy_	Replies:4 :267	Latest by Marshy_ 24 Feb 09
Newbie Hello. Im new at this so thought id just introduce myself... My ex and i were together for five years when we seperated for a number of reasons. At the ... 22 Feb 09, by arabellafigg Latest 23 Feb 09 by rhiannon555	Replies:2 :181	Latest by rhiannon555 23 Feb 09
scared to take the step Hi all, I'm new to this site and found it whilst searching on the web. I have been thinking of divorce for a while, (years actually) but am so scared of tak ... 23 Feb 09, by kjohal Latest 23 Feb 09 by mum23	Replies:1 :303	Latest by mum23 23 Feb 09
Wife has left, very sad and loanly Hi to everyone out there, this is my first time not quite sure what to do, my wife of 5 years and been together 12 years has left me. Not sure what to do she ha ... 22 Feb 09, by bikerphil Latest 22 Feb 09 by bikerphil 1 2	Replies:12 :607	Latest by bikerphil 22 Feb 09
bad day hi all, an up date of what has been going on! tonight i am feeling realy bad, the other day i found out that my wife now has her boyfriend and another f ... 20 Feb 09, by pete32167 Latest 22 Feb 09 by pete32167 1 2	Replies:7 :625	Latest by pete32167 22 Feb 09
Separated I didn't realize that I blew it. I do miss my ex- she was I nice person- but now that I am single- I do all the things she never let me take care of. I ... 21 Feb 09, by BronxMike Latest 22 Feb 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :264	Latest by NellNoRegrets 22 Feb 09
Separated (just about) I have been married for nearly 18 years with 2 girls, aged 9 and 13. The last 11 of those years have been unhappy. After our first daughter was born he lost i ... 21 Feb 09, by Cloud65 Latest 21 Feb 09 by Claymic78	Replies:4 :266	Latest by Claymic78 21 Feb 09
How can someone so special rip your heart out Hi to you all I stumbled accross this sight in the early hours, what a heaven sent surprise for me!!! I am usually a bright bubbly person full ... 19 Feb 09, by teen Latest 21 Feb 09 by teen 1 2 3 4	Replies:24 :1053	Latest by teen 21 Feb 09
occupation order/ false allegations Hello, I need some advice,I am in the middle of divorce,been together since 17,married 1990. I am 43(worried), stbx 43(abuser), daughter 18(alienated), son ... 21 Feb 09, by tinkerbell66 Latest 21 Feb 09 by Claymic78	Replies:2 :252	Latest by Claymic78 21 Feb 09
Rock and a hard place - any advice? Hi, I joined this forum some time ago and have just got round to posting. So far, it's the only thing that has provided me with guidance during what i ... 20 Feb 09, by sd17 Latest 21 Feb 09 by fade2gray 1 2 3	Replies:15 :802	Latest by fade2gray 21 Feb 09
What to do with this man and the kids Hi, I have been married for 24 years and let's put it alot of have been a hell. I was coerced into a marrying a guy who is not only hot-tempered,impatient, ... 19 Feb 09, by lifeisgood Latest 20 Feb 09 by lifeisgood	Replies:2 :300	Latest by lifeisgood 20 Feb 09
wife wants to leave me Hi I am in desperate need of help. My wife of 10 years (who ive known since school, and mother of our 2 preschoolers) wants to separate citing that sh ... 17 Feb 09, by mnstr Latest 20 Feb 09 by mnstr 1 2 3 4	Replies:27 :1210	Latest by mnstr 20 Feb 09
Why does the phone always ring when ur in the bath Given to me by my mum yesterday. Cut out of a magazine. I do not know which one but is by a lady called Wilfred Vaill, who may sue me for copyright if I claim i ... 16 Feb 09, by fade2gray Latest 19 Feb 09 by Elle	Replies:1 :283	Latest by Elle 19 Feb 09
Cohabitee recovery Hi All Newbie here....... I left my ex-partner 7 months ago, i had been with him 23yrs, in the time spent with him we had 3 kids, and gained 3 ... 19 Feb 09, by DottyP Latest 19 Feb 09 by DottyP	Replies:4 :246	Latest by DottyP 19 Feb 09
I need advice. (I am sorry it is a long post...) Ok, here it goes. I am a 27-year-old man living in Southern California. I enlisted in the USMC in 1999 at 17 years old, but after a few years had to le ... 19 Feb 09, by Tiredanddone Latest 19 Feb 09 by smurfy	Replies:1 :268	Latest by smurfy 19 Feb 09
love of my life gone I am nearly 51 & have been married for twenty years. I have two sons ... 18 Feb 09, by outonalimb Latest 18 Feb 09 by NellNoRegrets 1 2	Replies:8 :643	Latest by NellNoRegrets 18 Feb 09
The black hole Syndrome Hello internet, I do have friends but none of them are divorced or going through divorce. I have of course talk to them but after a while it must get boring. So ... 18 Oct 08, by Cobweb Latest 18 Feb 09 by Learningfast 1 2	Replies:8 :768	Latest by Learningfast 18 Feb 09
Anyone out there in my shoes? Hi - I am in the process of splitting with my husband. We are currently at loggerheads as to who should remain in the MH. He feels that I should leave a ... 18 Feb 09, by KatyBlue Latest 18 Feb 09 by Gitto	Replies:2 :234	Latest by Gitto 18 Feb 09
Newbie and in a mess Hi everybody. Been lurking for some weeks now and only just plucked the courage up to tell my story. Here goes... Been speparated since Nov 2007 from ... 13 Feb 09, by GENIEG Latest 18 Feb 09 by GENIEG 1 2 3	Replies:17 :924	Latest by GENIEG 18 Feb 09
First meeting at solicitors I am about to start divorce proceedings. My ex and I have been seperated 8 months and he moved in with his new partner immediately. We have no mortgag ... 18 Feb 09, by TT2009 Latest 18 Feb 09 by Imediate	Replies:2 :266	Latest by Imediate 18 Feb 09
Im new here and this is my story Hi, My name is Rick and Im from South Africa. Im 36 and very recently separated and divorced, all in just over 2 months. I was married for 7 years and in a rela ... 18 Feb 09, by Hoarfen Latest 18 Feb 09 by Shezi	Replies:3 :265	Latest by Shezi 18 Feb 09
Help!!! New to this & seeking advice .... husband & I not had good marriage for many years (been together 19 years) Adopted 3 kids 12 years ago. In our own ... 17 Feb 09, by je1 Latest 17 Feb 09 by Itgetsbetter	Replies:2 :208	Latest by Itgetsbetter 17 Feb 09
Introducing myself Hi guys Just found this site tonight and initially I hope it can answer my concerns. My wife and I have been existing for a number of years no ... 16 Feb 09, by bankofdad Latest 17 Feb 09 by Fiona 1 2	Replies:10 :847	Latest by Fiona 17 Feb 09
Hi I am new here and starting my divorce Hi my name is Carolina and I Live in the US. I am thinking about getting a divorce and I can use advice from you. I have been with my soon to be X'husband for 5 ... 17 Feb 09, by carolva1977 Latest 17 Feb 09 by D L	Replies:1 :260	Latest by D L 17 Feb 09
Hello every1 - It's all about the ex Hi every1, I'm new to this website, thought i'd pop on, say hello and share my story. I'm the partner of some1 going through a divorce. They have been seper ... 17 Feb 09, by Gunner Dee Dee Latest 17 Feb 09 by mez	Replies:2 :295	Latest by mez 17 Feb 09
Absolutely devastated :-( Hi I'm new to this site, found it googling in tears earlier today. I've been living with my partner for 6 years, he was married when I met him ... 12 Feb 09, by snowdrops Latest 17 Feb 09 by Shezi 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:28 :1493	Latest by Shezi 17 Feb 09
Where to go from here? Hi! I'm a 32 year old mother of 4 and have recently split from my husband. We are still living together because of children, money etc but in seperate rooms. ... 17 Feb 09, by auntyems Latest 17 Feb 09 by Shezi	Replies:2 :248	Latest by Shezi 17 Feb 09

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