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New here Hi there On our anniversary last year my husband announced he wasn't in love with me any more, then in June I discovered he was having an affair with a ... 14 Jan 09, by NewAttitude Latest 17 Jan 09 by NewAttitude	Replies:6 :366	Latest by NewAttitude 17 Jan 09
got what they wanted but still want more! hi, i have to say i'm glad i found this site,brings comfort to know your not the only one going through all this crap and have all these worries:) well ... 16 Jan 09, by mj75 Latest 16 Jan 09 by Young again	Replies:2 :349	Latest by Young again 16 Jan 09
New on the Forum hello, I just joined up. I have found out that my hubby of 38 years is having yet another affair and I have forgiven him so many times before but now at my ... 15 Jan 09, by ceebee2 Latest 15 Jan 09 by ceebee2	Replies:4 :317	Latest by ceebee2 15 Jan 09
24 years down the pan !! Hi. I have been married for the last near on 24 years and been together for 27 years. Four years ago we moved to Spain, and for two years life was good. I used ... 11 Jan 09, by spudgun Latest 15 Jan 09 by ceebee2 1 2	Replies:13 :924	Latest by ceebee2 15 Jan 09
seperation I am 37 with 4 children with a mortgage 2 months in arrears and my wife is leaving me what kind of help can i get ... 12 Jan 09, by lukedaniel Latest 15 Jan 09 by ceebee2	Replies:2 :300	Latest by ceebee2 15 Jan 09
Hello I'm 61, soon to be 62 and my husband of 16 years is leaving me. I expect my home will have to be sold, and I'll have to find somewhere else to live, but not sur ... 29 Dec 08, by kia Latest 15 Jan 09 by fleur	Replies:6 :428	Latest by fleur 15 Jan 09
First post and introduction Hi, I found this site via google and after reading a few posts I decided to make an account so I could search the posts and it felt like an introductio ... 14 Jan 09, by soren Latest 14 Jan 09 by hadenoughnow 1 2	Replies:10 :820	Latest by hadenoughnow 14 Jan 09
Child abuse - Hi, Has anyone had the experience of having there ex "flee" with the children due to allegations of child abuse and then had those allegation ... 14 Jan 09, by englishjoe Latest 14 Jan 09 by D L	Replies:1 :332	Latest by D L 14 Jan 09
Seperation Husband announced was leaving me at beginning of November and although e ... 13 Jan 09, by catliz Latest 14 Jan 09 by catliz 1 2	Replies:11 :721	Latest by catliz 14 Jan 09
After all these years Here I am 8 years later, still at odds with the ex over child maintenance. In 2001 we separated with the DN a year later, out of guilt for my wrongdoings I sign ... 13 Jan 09, by The MightyD Latest 13 Jan 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :299	Latest by NellNoRegrets 13 Jan 09
Is anger normal? or am I a freak? hi I just found this site today. And would welcome some help and advice please. My second husband left me without warning about six months ago and ref ... 12 Jan 09, by pippaluk Latest 13 Jan 09 by Mneme 1 2	Replies:9 :846	Latest by Mneme 13 Jan 09
Newbie any advice much appreciated Hello Grim New year following a horrible final quarter of 2008. Found out my wife having an affair via the medium of Internet chat, email and text. Wha ... 12 Jan 09, by old_fool Latest 12 Jan 09 by YNK000 1 2	Replies:7 :728	Latest by YNK000 12 Jan 09
Joiner Hello. I am 43. Husband same age. with my partner 7 years, 2 months after getting married he wanted out. Appartently I forced him into it. he is now seeing a ... 12 Jan 09, by online Latest 12 Jan 09 by focus123	Replies:3 :301	Latest by focus123 12 Jan 09
New, just saying hello! Hello everyone, I have just signed up to this site. I am 33 years old, separated with 3 children age between 8 1/2 and 3 1/2. My marriage with my ex ha ... 12 Jan 09, by forbidden knitter Latest 12 Jan 09 by rasher	Replies:3 :328	Latest by rasher 12 Jan 09
Introduce myself. Hi. Back in September 2006 my husband of 28 years told me he no longer loved me. This was the fifth time he'd told me this but we'd always sort of sorted it o ... 10 Jan 09, by ting Latest 10 Jan 09 by jacsmum	Replies:2 :378	Latest by jacsmum 10 Jan 09
Username says it all! Hi, I was trying to think of a username and my choice popped into my head as if by magic but sadly it is right. I have gotten myself into a right mess with some ... 09 Jan 09, by Butnotnow Latest 09 Jan 09 by Butnotnow	Replies:6 :380	Latest by Butnotnow 09 Jan 09
Don't know what to do I've been married for 25 years but the marriage hit the rocks about 10 years ago. My wife is a chronic alcoholic and life is hell on earth! We ... 09 Jan 09, by BillC Latest 09 Jan 09 by gettingpoorer	Replies:1 :326	Latest by gettingpoorer 09 Jan 09
2nd Divorce and believe me the last I have just joined this forum and would like to introduc ... 06 Jan 09, by vintage traveller Latest 08 Jan 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :339	Latest by NellNoRegrets 08 Jan 09
Divorce after Domestic Abuse I started divorce proceedings dec 08. I suffered 4 years of domestic abuse but only recently told anyone. I decided to speak up because it was affecting my 2 ye ... 07 Jan 09, by pkm Latest 08 Jan 09 by Minni	Replies:5 :361	Latest by Minni 08 Jan 09
First thoughts on a financial agreement My wife and I are not sure we will continue together so we are looking at coming to a financial agreement with a view to divorce at a later date. We have two y ... 06 Jan 09, by shredibanez Latest 08 Jan 09 by Charlie one	Replies:1 :329	Latest by Charlie one 08 Jan 09
survival tactics Hi Guys, am new to this site and would be grateful for any tips on how to survive this whole mess and get out the other side! Have just decided to ... 07 Jan 09, by tracyco Latest 08 Jan 09 by tracyco	Replies:3 :400	Latest by tracyco 08 Jan 09
i need some advise please anyone help!! I am in an unhappy marriage we still together but thats about it can i divorce on unreasonable behaviour while still living in the same house, and at what point ... 06 Jan 09, by melon cookie Latest 07 Jan 09 by lilaclace	Replies:1 :366	Latest by lilaclace 07 Jan 09
hello Hi my husband is resurrecting his 7 month old petition, which previously I agreed to and then he stopped, as i found out that he formed a non serious!! relation ... 07 Jan 09, by jaxx Latest 07 Jan 09 by Angel557	Replies:1 :265	Latest by Angel557 07 Jan 09
newlywed divorcing abisive husband Hi All, Im'm a newbie and need insight!!! Ok, on the short: Married 8 mos, fled house at 4mos. We are mid 40's, not 1st marriage no kids together. H ... 07 Jan 09, by debbieafg Latest 07 Jan 09 by IKNOWNOW	Replies:1 :455	Latest by IKNOWNOW 07 Jan 09
rosie details for a camping trip www.meadowhead.co.uk/ ... 06 Jan 09, by focus123 Latest 06 Jan 09 by Young again	Replies:2 :406	Latest by Young again 06 Jan 09
New Kid on the block Hi all obviously new to the site, I came accross Wiki looking for advice on all aspects of seperation. I have been married for some time and have two c ... 06 Jan 09, by Charlie one Latest 06 Jan 09 by Charlie one	Replies:2 :325	Latest by Charlie one 06 Jan 09
just arrived! This is sooo hard!! I decided just after christmas, which was as long as i could hold out for that my marriage had finally died, if not my marriage then certa ... 06 Jan 09, by nursek Latest 06 Jan 09 by mrsnomore	Replies:2 :338	Latest by mrsnomore 06 Jan 09
I know my marriage is over Hi All, I am 31. Married for 4 and 1/2 years. We were crazy about each other for 3 years before deciding to get married. We don't have any kids. Afte ... 02 Jan 09, by wantalife Latest 06 Jan 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:4 :479	Latest by dissapointed dad 06 Jan 09
Hi everyone. Just to introduce myself. Am 53 yrs old and have been seperated for 2 months now.After 35 yrs together I finally had to ask him to leave when I discovered he'd ... 03 Jan 09, by flick5 Latest 06 Jan 09 by freshbutterfly 1 2	Replies:7 :780	Latest by freshbutterfly 06 Jan 09
Re: Hi Just joined this site and thought I'd introduce myself. Have been married for 26years but myself and my husband have increasingly grown apart, we had problems ... 05 Jan 09, by freshbutterfly Latest 06 Jan 09 by freshbutterfly	Replies:4 :351	Latest by freshbutterfly 06 Jan 09
What do I do next??? Hi All I'm 39 years old with two daughters 14 and 12, been married 16 years (on New Year's Eve), but we've been together for 22 years! Realise ... 03 Jan 09, by jangles Latest 05 Jan 09 by koeksister 1 2	Replies:10 :852	Latest by koeksister 05 Jan 09
Help! I left my long term partner 2 yrs ago due to domestic violence/abuse. We have shared custody of our 2 youngest children, my eldest is in uni. We have ... 05 Jan 09, by daisycat1 Latest 05 Jan 09 by lizzybenn	Replies:1 :297	Latest by lizzybenn 05 Jan 09
Feeling sad and angry 10 weeks later and I am still in shock. My 66 year old husband after 33 years of marriage has ‘let somebody else into his life’. His decision was non-neg ... 29 Dec 08, by jjbell Latest 04 Jan 09 by jjbell 1 2	Replies:11 :851	Latest by jjbell 04 Jan 09
New here Hi everyone, I'm 56, my divorce is almost done, I've had the nisi. Just sorting out pension details. In December it would have been our 35th anniversary. We ... 02 Jan 09, by Deroma Latest 04 Jan 09 by Deroma	Replies:4 :423	Latest by Deroma 04 Jan 09
Hi Hi, I'm a mum of 4 kids, 23,16,15 and 6. My marriage has been over for years, but my ex refused to leave. 8 years ago I started trying to leave him, but he ... 03 Jan 09, by gettingpoorer Latest 03 Jan 09 by gettingpoorer	Replies:3 :318	Latest by gettingpoorer 03 Jan 09
Advice Hello, im after some advice. My wife left me in october 2008 for another man who promised her the world after nearly 14 years of marriage. The divorce proceedin ... 02 Jan 09, by maxcie0511 Latest 03 Jan 09 by rhiannon555	Replies:2 :312	Latest by rhiannon555 03 Jan 09
Any wiki peeps from Oxfordshire area? Does anyone live in Oxfordshire or Berkshire for eg Reading? I dread each weekend since my husband left me and would like to meet new friends even if it is just ... 02 Jan 09, by falcon Latest 02 Jan 09 by falcon	Replies:2 :350	Latest by falcon 02 Jan 09
Hello ... 02 Jan 09, by gladface Latest 02 Jan 09 by tash69 1 2	Replies:11 :813	Latest by tash69 02 Jan 09
Been kidding myself ? Hi All New to this. Ignore my name in that I'm not an animal (ie agresive), just I have empathy with them ! Married 15 years (I'm 43, wife is ... 02 Jan 09, by animal Latest 02 Jan 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:2 :327	Latest by dissapointed dad 02 Jan 09
hello from depressed & stupid I'm so glad to have found this. I'm in the process of filing for divorce. I have 3 children 14, 4 & 2. I'm English & currently living in Sweden with m ... 01 Jan 09, by tash69 Latest 02 Jan 09 by itsfinallyover 1 2	Replies:7 :751	Latest by itsfinallyover 02 Jan 09

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