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my story Hi I am a 38 yr old nearly divorced lady,glad to be getting rid of the husband i have been married to for 16yrs,who has gone off with a 29 yr old slapper,who th ... 18 Jan 09, by scangirl Latest 27 Jan 09 by catliz 1 2	Replies:9 :764	Latest by catliz 27 Jan 09
Advice please Hi Everyone...new here. I am unhappily married with 2 handsome boys ages 10 and 14. We have been married for 11 years and we bought a house 3 years ago. I caugh ... 25 Jan 09, by Lookn2bhappy Latest 27 Jan 09 by D L	Replies:4 :297	Latest by D L 27 Jan 09
Manchester Hi peeps, I have just joined this site and would love to meet up with any of you guys in the Manchester area or as close as possible. Hope to hear from you soon ... 26 Jan 09, by Loveable Latest 26 Jan 09 by Loveable	Replies:2 :235	Latest by Loveable 26 Jan 09
Not sure where to start, but hey..... ....do I start with a simple "hello" or do I go all out with a warts 'n' all account of how I came to be here. How about somewhere in between - a slig ... 26 Jan 09, by vacantone Latest 26 Jan 09 by vacantone	Replies:6 :269	Latest by vacantone 26 Jan 09
Another statistic............... Evening all, too long a story for you all to digest in a single post, two sides to every story n all that... After 3 months of mostly silent hell, despite m ... 26 Jan 09, by justthetruth Latest 26 Jan 09 by Itgetsbetter	Replies:1 :248	Latest by Itgetsbetter 26 Jan 09
Should be available on the NHS! I discovered this site last night! It should be available on the NHS. It would have been so useful to read through other peoples experiences and realise that al ... 26 Jan 09, by asram Latest 26 Jan 09 by asram	Replies:5 :256	Latest by asram 26 Jan 09
Hello Hello, I am 48 today! Moved back from London at the end of July last year with my husband of 16 years only to discover that he was having an affair. He is in th ... 26 Jan 09, by Biff Latest 26 Jan 09 by Lsot1	Replies:5 :264	Latest by Lsot1 26 Jan 09
Year of hell Last year I started to divorce my husband of 21 years. The nisi was granted then my husband died before the absolute. I now have to prove my contribution to the ... 26 Jan 09, by QMary Latest 26 Jan 09 by QMary 1 2	Replies:11 :721	Latest by QMary 26 Jan 09
how i was with my ex for 16 years found he had a afair with a girl 10years younger,he left and went to stay with her .he said many times he wish he didtleave ,she w ... 26 Jan 09, by jewels_1 Latest 26 Jan 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:2 :238	Latest by NellNoRegrets 26 Jan 09
Another divorcee to join the party... Hi guys I've been scanning the forums and found them incredibly useful. Its so helpful to find so many kindred spirits with the same feelings and issues. Th ... 22 Jan 09, by revvin Latest 26 Jan 09 by dissapointed dad 1 2	Replies:7 :705	Latest by dissapointed dad 26 Jan 09
Another newbie Hi all, new here but this site was recomended by a friend. Have been separaterd for about 4 months, his choice not mine. I am now looking for a solicit ... 25 Jan 09, by GOW2Hell Latest 26 Jan 09 by GOW2Hell	Replies:6 :279	Latest by GOW2Hell 26 Jan 09
New member - nervous hi to all Hello there, I have been separated for five months (my choice) and have just started divorce proceedings. Struggling a bit with my decision even though I know ... 25 Jan 09, by anewme Latest 25 Jan 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:4 :298	Latest by NellNoRegrets 25 Jan 09
Hello Forum looking for some advice Hello to everybody at Wikivorce, I was wondering if you could advise me on my relatives divorce situation. They have been divorced for a few y ... 24 Jan 09, by john77123 Latest 25 Jan 09 by Elle	Replies:1 :320	Latest by Elle 25 Jan 09
My introduction - & moving Scotland to England Hi'y'all After 13 years with my OH and 11 years of marriage, I told him yesterday that I wanted to end it. Obviously I'd been thinking about this for a ... 25 Jan 09, by SilverFir Latest 25 Jan 09 by D L	Replies:1 :270	Latest by D L 25 Jan 09
Hello I have been a member since May 2008 and I thought it was about time to say Hello... I am a divorcee since September 2008, I divorced by ex on the groun ... 25 Jan 09, by Betty Boop Latest 25 Jan 09 by Betty Boop	Replies:3 :261	Latest by Betty Boop 25 Jan 09
Throw in the towel or not? Hi Everyone Found this site a couple of weeks ago and reading other posts has given me more confidence for the future, whatever happens. Here' ... 24 Jan 09, by Traveller Latest 24 Jan 09 by Itgetsbetter 1 2 3	Replies:19 :1157	Latest by Itgetsbetter 24 Jan 09
new girl wanting to say hello and get advice I am struggling where to start here but firstly want to say that I am so glad that I have come across this web site to read about how you lot out there are copi ... 22 Jan 09, by wengen Latest 24 Jan 09 by Elle	Replies:6 :419	Latest by Elle 24 Jan 09
What did it all mean? My husband of less than two years (together for nearly 6) has left me. He says he doesn't love me, he's been unhappy for a long time, and he won't go to counse ... 23 Jan 09, by Allgone Latest 24 Jan 09 by wazo 1 2 3	Replies:17 :1124	Latest by wazo 24 Jan 09
Another new arrival Hi everyone, I am new here, and I came here because I need advice and feedback. That having been said, I feel awkward just joining a board and asking f ... 24 Jan 09, by pmoorhouse Latest 24 Jan 09 by Puddytat	Replies:5 :375	Latest by Puddytat 24 Jan 09
hi all well were to start hi have a question. i bought my flat after seperation wife had to remove her name from rent book as its ex council, has she any right to this flat we have 1 ch ... 24 Jan 09, by l11red Latest 24 Jan 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :262	Latest by NellNoRegrets 24 Jan 09
greetings aye aye Bloody hell why couldnt I have found this site about 2 years ago!!! 23 Jan 09, by photojunkie Latest 24 Jan 09 by photojunkie	Replies:4 :264	Latest by photojunkie 24 Jan 09
Hi everyone Hi everyone, i`m new on here, i stumbled on this site by accident while looking at divorce info. My "situation " is now 18 months down the line and so ... 23 Jan 09, by Learningfast Latest 24 Jan 09 by WeeKate	Replies:1 :323	Latest by WeeKate 24 Jan 09
another newbie! Hiya, just had this site recommended by a friend. I had been with my husband for 13 years, married ten, went through fertility treatment due to his inabilit ... 23 Jan 09, by welovepeppapig Latest 23 Jan 09 by Claymic78	Replies:3 :299	Latest by Claymic78 23 Jan 09
Advice please... Hi there, I am the partner of a man being divorced by his wife. They are in the early stages of ancillary relief and are due to attend their first app ... 23 Jan 09, by Little Miss Bump Latest 23 Jan 09 by D L	Replies:1 :253	Latest by D L 23 Jan 09
Introduction Hi there just new to this site looks like a helpful way to get thru this emotional roller coaster ride. Lots of questions! Where do you start;). Have been seper ... 23 Jan 09, by aimy Latest 23 Jan 09 by Sera	Replies:2 :245	Latest by Sera 23 Jan 09
how bad can it get hello I am currently divorcing my wife for adultery seeing solicitor but don't always understand what he is doing Wife moved her lover in within a week ... 22 Jan 09, by ben40 Latest 22 Jan 09 by fredsmith22	Replies:1 :293	Latest by fredsmith22 22 Jan 09
Feeling so guilty Reading through this forum it looks like I may be one of the few people who would be the initiator of a separation. I've been with my husband for 25 ye ... 28 Nov 08, by darwin Latest 22 Jan 09 by pink123 1 2 3 4	Replies:23 :2208	Latest by pink123 22 Jan 09
New Member - advice on legal letter hello, im a new member and would like some advice if possible. myself and my wife have seperated and we are at the 2nd stage of mediation. i have to put togethe ... 21 Jan 09, by gaz39 Latest 21 Jan 09 by Imediate	Replies:5 :298	Latest by Imediate 21 Jan 09
I am so isolated During my 18 year marriage I got to a position where I had lost contact will all my friends and family. I am now living 200 miles away from my home. I know nobo ... 17 Jan 09, by newday Latest 20 Jan 09 by MrWiggle 1 2	Replies:10 :841	Latest by MrWiggle 20 Jan 09
Just another statistic Hello new friends, After a relationship of 10 and a marriage of 8 years... I am becoming just another statistic. I have filed for divorce. I have reac ... 20 Jan 09, by Gloworm Latest 20 Jan 09 by lizzybenn	Replies:1 :294	Latest by lizzybenn 20 Jan 09
seperating hi everyone, new to site and after 23 years together my wife seperated from me last week, i basically got what i deserved from an affair several years ago,but s ... 19 Jan 09, by tomjosh Latest 20 Jan 09 by focus123	Replies:2 :289	Latest by focus123 20 Jan 09
I'M new Hello people, Have been looking for chat sites to join with sincere and cultivated conversation ( yeah I know but I live in hope ) feeling a bit lost a ... 19 Jan 09, by foodle Latest 19 Jan 09 by foodle	Replies:5 :361	Latest by foodle 19 Jan 09
newbie Hi everyone, just setting out on the divorce path and looking for advice, support and a shoulder to laugh on. Best wishes Twist of lemon ... 19 Jan 09, by twistoflemon Latest 19 Jan 09 by tash69	Replies:3 :272	Latest by tash69 19 Jan 09
Introducing Myself Am new to this. Split with my husband of 10 years last summer. Started with a bit of a 'not sure how I feel' conversation out of the blue this time last year. ... 19 Jan 09, by nmj Latest 19 Jan 09 by NewAttitude 1 2	Replies:9 :755	Latest by NewAttitude 19 Jan 09
my story WE were married for 21 years, together 24. We've now been seperated for about 16 mths now. Both myself and husband are in new relationships. Mine is almost a ... 17 Jan 09, by adarim Latest 19 Jan 09 by adarim 1 2 3	Replies:17 :1146	Latest by adarim 19 Jan 09
Hello My situation is that my husband of 25 years has just told me he's divorcing me - on the phone from USA! I'm nearly 59 years old and I am now so frightened of th ... 19 Jan 09, by january09 Latest 19 Jan 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:5 :297	Latest by NellNoRegrets 19 Jan 09
First timer - help! Husband ran out on me on 12th November, after getting a mega redundancy payment and after clearing out all of our bank accounts. He then surfaced in Oz, where h ... 12 Jan 09, by clairebee Latest 19 Jan 09 by catliz 1 2	Replies:8 :792	Latest by catliz 19 Jan 09
New to the Site Hi Everyone First post on here, I have been reading through some of the stuff and it seems like a very supportive place to be. Think I may need that.< ... 17 Jan 09, by mchllbo Latest 18 Jan 09 by NewAttitude	Replies:2 :304	Latest by NewAttitude 18 Jan 09
New here Hi there, I think I must have bored all my family & freinds with my marrige breakdown by now so decided to introduce myself here instead! I am 36 &a ... 02 Jan 09, by Emi Latest 17 Jan 09 by newday	Replies:1 :337	Latest by newday 17 Jan 09
I am recently divorced. Now working on Form E. I need some help. At the moment I am completing FORM E. Don't know what to write under Capital Needs. Also Capital Needs for children provided for ... 17 Jan 09, by energy Latest 17 Jan 09 by dukey	Replies:1 :368	Latest by dukey 17 Jan 09

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