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Hello... any thoughts/ advice? Hello all - I'm Neela. My ex and I were together for 18 years, married for 11 - we met in our late teens. We have two children, aged 1 and 4. Six mon ... 14 Dec 08, by neela Latest 15 Dec 08 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :313	Latest by NellNoRegrets 15 Dec 08
life falling apart - ex husband seeking custody Hello everyone, I am just so stressed with life right now and any advice would be welcome. I will try to explain my situation. Was married for 6 years w ... 13 Dec 08, by anniehall Latest 14 Dec 08 by Alive_in_the_water	Replies:6 :439	Latest by Alive_in_the_water 14 Dec 08
Introduction After 11 years, two gorgeous kids (7 & 8), and working really hard with a lots stress with my job, my wife has said she wants to separate. The are two c ... 20 Nov 08, by SuperMario Latest 14 Dec 08 by SuperMario 1 2 3	Replies:14 :1215	Latest by SuperMario 14 Dec 08
Need help and advice I have been with my partner for a year and a half now i am 22 and he is 24. Before we met hes was married with a child for less than a year when he discovered h ... 13 Dec 08, by evisu Latest 13 Dec 08 by Itgetsbetter	Replies:1 :307	Latest by Itgetsbetter 13 Dec 08
Howdy... Er, not normally one to post on forums -just read them. So I suppose about me - married for 3 years and together for 12 since we were 17... it's a very ... 11 Dec 08, by madmic1314 Latest 12 Dec 08 by caribee4me	Replies:3 :320	Latest by caribee4me 12 Dec 08
DESPARATE FOR ADVISE!! - Hi there I have today received back a sealed copy of my consent order from the courts (i did a diy divorce) and already my ex is giving me hassle about ... 11 Dec 08, by newlydivorced Latest 12 Dec 08 by eagle1 1 2	Replies:8 :906	Latest by eagle1 12 Dec 08
I'm new - What can I expect ? Hello, Sorry if this is too complex.....but my head is spinning from this weeks events. I have been married to my wife for 4 years and 4 month ... 04 Dec 08, by Captain Villa Latest 11 Dec 08 by osprey 1 2 3	Replies:14 :1278	Latest by osprey 11 Dec 08
Can I help too? Hi Have browsed this site before but need some help with my outgoing maintenance so have posted a question there. Divorced for over 4 years now and happily ... 10 Dec 08, by eagle1 Latest 11 Dec 08 by D L	Replies:1 :355	Latest by D L 11 Dec 08
hello I'm new here Hello, I've just found this site. A month ago my husband moved out. We have been together for thirty-one years, married for 25. We have two teenage daughter ... 09 Dec 08, by blackberry123 Latest 10 Dec 08 by candlelight 1 2	Replies:13 :869	Latest by candlelight 10 Dec 08
Introduction and Advice Hi to all on this forum. Wanted to introduce myself and really looking for a bit of advice as to what steps to take. I am male and have been m ... 09 Dec 08, by billybonzo Latest 10 Dec 08 by Imediate 1 2	Replies:8 :820	Latest by Imediate 10 Dec 08
need advice please HI, I only joined this site yesterday, am a bit new to all this. I found out 2 weeks ago that my husband is seeing someone else, mainly throug ... 08 Dec 08, by littlecloud Latest 10 Dec 08 by littlecloud	Replies:2 :376	Latest by littlecloud 10 Dec 08
Hi Folks..... I came back from a business trip to Leeds, to find out two days later - that my wife no longer wanted to be my wife - and that was the day after we made love. ... 09 Dec 08, by animo Latest 10 Dec 08 by Mainman	Replies:5 :402	Latest by Mainman 10 Dec 08
I am new here, and wow this wiki site good Hi Everyone, My Name is Jon and I am 42 years old, and have two great kids girls aged 6 and 10. I have been married for 10 years to a Filipina ... 09 Dec 08, by mousetrap Latest 10 Dec 08 by hadenoughnow	Replies:2 :337	Latest by hadenoughnow 10 Dec 08
Hello! Greetings to all members - I'm looking forward to your feedback to help guide me through this divorce morass. I'm a woman, this is my first marriage, no kid ... 09 Dec 08, by caribee4me Latest 09 Dec 08 by lizzybenn	Replies:1 :275	Latest by lizzybenn 09 Dec 08
Heart broken again Hello All. Having just stumbled accross this site out of pure luck i think it may be exactly what i need right now. Like minded people going through the simila ... 08 Dec 08, by Ditchedagain Latest 09 Dec 08 by Ditchedagain 1 2 3	Replies:15 :1398	Latest by Ditchedagain 09 Dec 08
Antibiotics! Hello - I'm very new to all this so bear with me. This is my thrid attempt at writing an introduction so not going well so far! I went to the docs a while ago ( ... 08 Dec 08, by Flump Latest 09 Dec 08 by pink123	Replies:4 :336	Latest by pink123 09 Dec 08
Should I stay or should I go? Hello, I’m rather confused at the moment and would like some advice please. The thing is I just don’t want to be with my husband anymore. ... 23 Nov 08, by pinkyp Latest 08 Dec 08 by LucyLou 1 2	Replies:10 :1011	Latest by LucyLou 08 Dec 08
Divorcing Been married 20 years 2 kids,both 12.Committed adultery after being in bad place with marriage..long story. Been separated nearly 2 years now,work away 6 mo ... 06 Dec 08, by mikemeadows Latest 08 Dec 08 by dukey	Replies:5 :373	Latest by dukey 08 Dec 08
Hi - new member Hi all, Joined up for the great support and info. I've been married 7 years and my wife has spent 6 months planning divorce. She was just going to let ... 06 Dec 08, by TAL175 Latest 08 Dec 08 by Captain Villa	Replies:5 :413	Latest by Captain Villa 08 Dec 08
I can see clearly now the rain has gone! Hi, I'm new to the site and last night was going to write my detailed account of what has brought me here but having viewed several sites that members of this ... 06 Dec 08, by newdawn54 Latest 07 Dec 08 by lizzybenn	Replies:1 :389	Latest by lizzybenn 07 Dec 08
What to do? Hi, This might be a little off topic for this site but anyway... I'm 41 never been married and in the summer met and fell in love with someone ... 06 Dec 08, by Pat H Latest 06 Dec 08 by Pat H	Replies:4 :374	Latest by Pat H 06 Dec 08
how to cope? i'm new here. partner left three days ago for someone else after 8 years. we have a 1 year old and 4 year old. it's just so horrible. how do you cope? ... 05 Dec 08, by thefirstlady Latest 06 Dec 08 by dutchgirl 1 2	Replies:8 :826	Latest by dutchgirl 06 Dec 08
Hi Hi, I'm Jainess. I'm in my mid thirties and I've had suspicions for years that my husband has been cheating on me. In fact, if I ask him to his face, he'll lo ... 29 Nov 08, by Jainess Latest 06 Dec 08 by Jainess	Replies:5 :294	Latest by Jainess 06 Dec 08
Hello - New Here Hi, I am just in the process of separating from my wife of 11 years, she wants to leave me and our two children (16 and 13) after I recently found out ... 23 Nov 08, by Mark2112 Latest 06 Dec 08 by Mark2112 1 2 3 4	Replies:21 :1723	Latest by Mark2112 06 Dec 08
new to this all hi my husband walk out on my 14 year old daughter and I. He says he want to recapure his youth. I want to know if anyone can help me find out w ... 06 Dec 08, by kindofseparated Latest 06 Dec 08 by topaz	Replies:1 :271	Latest by topaz 06 Dec 08
dealing with seperation My husband left me and our three children in june after 15 years of marriage. I had found out 18 mths prior to that that he was having an "emotional" ... 04 Dec 08, by ruth christophers Latest 04 Dec 08 by candlelight	Replies:1 :311	Latest by candlelight 04 Dec 08
Hoe do I tell the children? Hi all, I have a few blogs up but I need help on this. How do and what do I tell the children. There are 4, 1 girl and 3 boys. They are aged fro ... 04 Dec 08, by Colkitto Latest 04 Dec 08 by rootoo	Replies:1 :318	Latest by rootoo 04 Dec 08
where to go in nottingham im new to this.is there any divorce clubs in nottingham do u know ... 04 Nov 08, by suzzyq Latest 04 Dec 08 by Adwin	Replies:2 :386	Latest by Adwin 04 Dec 08
how do i cope my partner and i have been together for 16years. we think well divorce but now my best friend wants her. he's taken her out for dinner a couple of times. any su ... 02 Dec 08, by gasman alone Latest 03 Dec 08 by angelsmum 1 2	Replies:8 :904	Latest by angelsmum 03 Dec 08
How to manage to afford a divorce hi all, My wife has spent the last 6 months telling me how unhappy she is. It doesn't really matter what I do. I'm fed up with being treated like dirt, ... 02 Dec 08, by mensamusic Latest 03 Dec 08 by carpediem6 1 2	Replies:13 :876	Latest by carpediem6 03 Dec 08
finances hi everyone, thank god for this site please can anyone advice..i have been free of my ex but dont know what to do about the finances!!the 2 houses involved are ... 30 Nov 08, by sisi72 Latest 03 Dec 08 by D L	Replies:5 :347	Latest by D L 03 Dec 08
Hiya! I'm new!!!! I've been married for 20 years. My husband and I split up just over a year ago and we're just about to go through the divorce process. I have applied for the di ... 02 Dec 08, by Mitsy08 Latest 02 Dec 08 by Young again	Replies:5 :369	Latest by Young again 02 Dec 08
fee advice hey all, im in need of some asap advice, i have seperated from my wife and as she works part time tho is recieving benefits as we also have a 3 year ol ... 02 Dec 08, by shosho	Replies:0 :284
manipulative husband hi! i just joined the community.actually came across it by accident when i googled 'manipulative husband' and read a post by independentwoman that almost sounde ... 29 Nov 08, by aphrodite42 Latest 02 Dec 08 by Mitsy08	Replies:5 :609	Latest by Mitsy08 02 Dec 08
Legal advice Please Hello I'm fairly new here and wondered if I could get some advice. Because my husband is verbally abusive - I intend to leave, doing a 'moonlight'. ... 01 Dec 08, by SeeingTheLight Latest 01 Dec 08 by SeeingTheLight	Replies:2 :310	Latest by SeeingTheLight 01 Dec 08
Divorce on the cards. Hi all, I'm in my mid 30's with 2 kids and waiting for my letter to be served. Wifes in our house with the kids and i'm kipping on my mates sofa. Roll o ... 28 Nov 08, by Germandy Latest 01 Dec 08 by Germandy	Replies:3 :378	Latest by Germandy 01 Dec 08
where do I stand? ... 28 Nov 08, by Southwestie Latest 30 Nov 08 by Southwestie 1 2	Replies:7 :868	Latest by Southwestie 30 Nov 08
after more than 27 years together....... Just joined and wanted to share my story. Four months ago coming home from work one Monday afternoon I found my husband being there and telling me that ... 29 Nov 08, by dutchgirl Latest 30 Nov 08 by NellNoRegrets 1 2	Replies:12 :1476	Latest by NellNoRegrets 30 Nov 08
hiya!! Hi, not sure what to write really but feelin incredibly confused yet reading some of the other posts on here my problems seem a tad trivial. Am currentl ... 30 Nov 08, by fog horn leg horn Latest 30 Nov 08 by marriaa	Replies:1 :273	Latest by marriaa 30 Nov 08
Rejection Hi I don’t know whether this is the right thing to put on a post as am very new to all this. Would someone please explain rejection to me and why it ... 27 Nov 08, by Bestfootforward Latest 29 Nov 08 by Cooltac	Replies:6 :460	Latest by Cooltac 29 Nov 08

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