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Divorce agreement My wife has within the last 2 weeks told me that she is going to divorce me on the grounds of unreasonable behavior. She is a non- working mother to our 2 child ... 16 Feb 09, by aztec1 Latest 17 Feb 09 by BigAlUK	Replies:4 :247	Latest by BigAlUK 17 Feb 09
Hi, all new to this... HI, am new to this - the single status and posting on forums! Have been lurking for a few months but only posting today. My story - Husband of 11 years ... 16 Feb 09, by jiltedwife Latest 16 Feb 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:3 :263	Latest by NellNoRegrets 16 Feb 09
ruining my life hi, i am currently going through a bad divorce, things are a bit complicated as i am british and i am married to a bulgarian, we where married 8 years ago, ... 16 Feb 09, by pete32167 Latest 16 Feb 09 by dissapointed dad	Replies:5 :265	Latest by dissapointed dad 16 Feb 09
Hi, I need some help On Monday my husband told me he was leaving me..... Today I find out it is for my boss(female). Not only has he messed up my homelife, he has ... 16 Feb 09, by Aquarius76 Latest 16 Feb 09 by Aquarius76	Replies:5 :290	Latest by Aquarius76 16 Feb 09
signed over the marital home - mistake? Hi all, was looking a bit of a viewpoint on my circumstances. I signed over the house to my ex on separation through guilt for her keeping my two girls the majo ... 15 Feb 09, by guppalo Latest 16 Feb 09 by Sera	Replies:3 :251	Latest by Sera 16 Feb 09
Can he ask me to leave? Urgent advice required. I told my OH on Saturday morning that I wanted to end the marriage and that I had found somebody else, and this obviously came ... 27 Jan 09, by SilverFir Locked Latest 15 Feb 09 by JoannaA Locked 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:30 :1270	Latest by JoannaA 15 Feb 09
New to this, never been thru it bfore Well this is my second post. I was told three weeks ago that my marriage was over. My STBX wife told me she didnt love me, wanted to seperate and moved ... 15 Feb 09, by Gitto Latest 15 Feb 09 by WeeKate	Replies:1 :254	Latest by WeeKate 15 Feb 09
I never thought it would come to this I’m 45 years old, I've been married for 15 years and we were living together for 8 years before that. 10 years ago myself and my wife moved house to be closer ... 07 Jan 09, by MrWiggle Latest 14 Feb 09 by startingagain09	Replies:6 :478	Latest by startingagain09 14 Feb 09
twinkle2 says hi hiya i have joined to get some info to help my partner. he is due to start the divorce prosses sooon after being seperated for 5 yrs xx ... 14 Feb 09, by twinkle2 Latest 14 Feb 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:1 :253	Latest by NellNoRegrets 14 Feb 09
Controlling husband, Weak Wife :( I am absolutely sure that I am right in leaving my verbally abusive husband, not least to protect our 6 month old daughter from his temper and violent rages. Ho ... 14 Feb 09, by sgreen Latest 14 Feb 09 by Sera	Replies:4 :394	Latest by Sera 14 Feb 09
I seem to have divorced my 18 year old daughter as I won't be the first person who's gone about this the wrong way, hopefully someone out there can give me some advice ? Background, after 22 years of marriage I ... 15 Sep 08, by Bob the builder Latest 14 Feb 09 by Marshy_ 1 2 3 4	Replies:27 :2401	Latest by Marshy_ 14 Feb 09
Hello everyone, I'm new. I've just joined up with a view to (hopefully) finding a supportive community. I'm separated, but even though we lived apart for a year, the state of t ... 10 Feb 09, by chris72 Latest 13 Feb 09 by JoannaA 1 2 3	Replies:15 :821	Latest by JoannaA 13 Feb 09
Will things get better? Hi everyone. I came across this site yesterday after realising I have to 'pull myself together' and do something practical about my situation. My husband of o ... 13 Feb 09, by 5LSg Latest 13 Feb 09 by JoannaA	Replies:5 :257	Latest by JoannaA 13 Feb 09
Hi Hi people Just saying 'hello' before utilising this great resource. My wife of 5 years (total almost nine years together) started to have an affair ... 13 Feb 09, by cullers Latest 13 Feb 09 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :294	Latest by hadenoughnow 13 Feb 09
Hi all Hi All Where do I start, been married 13 1/2 years been together nearly 17, 2 daughters 14 and 7. My stbx started to change from the man I mar ... 12 Feb 09, by Used09 Latest 12 Feb 09 by Sprite	Replies:1 :273	Latest by Sprite 12 Feb 09
time to bite the bullet hi everyone, my sbtx has returned to the uk after going back to Ireland last year. She has a gambling problem which has been pretty divisive over the last d ... 12 Feb 09, by skipper Latest 12 Feb 09 by Sprite	Replies:1 :247	Latest by Sprite 12 Feb 09
just when i thought..... ...it was going to be ok, reality just hit me like a steam train. short marriage of 3 years, together for 5, know each other for 12. up and do ... 12 Feb 09, by ted rogers Latest 12 Feb 09 by Sprite	Replies:2 :245	Latest by Sprite 12 Feb 09
Hello - re-introducing myself! Hello to all, I joined this site a fair while ago when my stbx and I split up due to depression/and an affair. Since then he's moved out, want ... 12 Feb 09, by siriusB Latest 12 Feb 09 by Claymic78	Replies:1 :293	Latest by Claymic78 12 Feb 09
Hi Hi, I may not be the usual person on here, as I'm the sole reason for mine and my wife's current problems and impending divorce, but despite whatever mistakes I ... 12 Feb 09, by David2109 Latest 12 Feb 09 by Claymic78	Replies:3 :513	Latest by Claymic78 12 Feb 09
hello hello, just found this site so if mixed up im sorry. im 45 and started divorce proceedings last march.have 5 kids but only 1 young enough for this to affect ... 12 Feb 09, by mumof5 Latest 12 Feb 09 by Learningfast	Replies:3 :259	Latest by Learningfast 12 Feb 09
6 months and its over! Hi ive just joined because i need to be around people who know what im going through, my best friend who does help just says "oh get rid, you will be fine& ... 09 Feb 09, by samaa Latest 11 Feb 09 by Sera	Replies:6 :293	Latest by Sera 11 Feb 09
trying to cope i have been married 19 years...two years ago i was injured working on cranes and have spent the last two years having different back surgeries...one week before ... 11 Feb 09, by Wristpin Latest 11 Feb 09 by goodmove	Replies:2 :268	Latest by goodmove 11 Feb 09
paying for my stupidty Hi I am new, separated from my ex after 7 mths of marriage, with police, courts involved after that, he stopped his harrassement, i was just grateful for peace ... 10 Feb 09, by SADKIDLEY Latest 11 Feb 09 by fade2gray	Replies:1 :254	Latest by fade2gray 11 Feb 09
Hi i'm new my names sheryl and i am a first timer here ... 10 Feb 09, by sheryl Latest 10 Feb 09 by startingagain09	Replies:3 :277	Latest by startingagain09 10 Feb 09
New to Wikivorce Hi! I'm Suzie, and I am new to this site. I am 32 years old and mum of 3 wonderful girls aged 7, 4, and almost 2. Fifteen months ago I discovered my husband had ... 08 Feb 09, by SuzieB Latest 10 Feb 09 by Imediate	Replies:4 :257	Latest by Imediate 10 Feb 09
I think this is going to be complicated Hi there everyone,I have question my wife left me on Nov 15 2008, and 3 weeks later has anew man in her life! o well lifes abitch then u die as they say,In 2004 ... 09 Feb 09, by auto47 Latest 09 Feb 09 by D L	Replies:1 :260	Latest by D L 09 Feb 09
amicable D - is this unique? Hi All Reading all the posts over the last 6 months, and contributing where I could, I feel that my situation is in the minority - amicable, no one els ... 09 Feb 09, by dissapointed dad Latest 09 Feb 09 by FrankieDG	Replies:3 :290	Latest by FrankieDG 09 Feb 09
pension and house Hello don't know if I am in the right place but hey ho here we go. Husband moved back to Edinburgh with me July 24 last year, only four days in new house(army) ... 09 Feb 09, by Biff	Replies:0 :261
Any advice please? Hi, My name is Richard and I am kind of new to this sort of thing. Let me explain my situation although its kind of complicated. I am married although currently ... 08 Feb 09, by Kataybaa Latest 09 Feb 09 by JoannaA 1 2	Replies:12 :622	Latest by JoannaA 09 Feb 09
what to do is there anyone that can help i am in a joint mortgage with now my ex partner .we still live in the house but me in one bedroom her in the other .she is mak ... 09 Feb 09, by derrickb Latest 09 Feb 09 by Zara2009	Replies:2 :241	Latest by Zara2009 09 Feb 09
newbie My husband informed me before xmas that he was going to leave. i was very unhappy during the previous year because of the way he treated me so in a way it was a ... 08 Feb 09, by janiebee Latest 09 Feb 09 by NellNoRegrets	Replies:5 :231	Latest by NellNoRegrets 09 Feb 09
New and in need of help and support please Hi everyone, I've just stumbled on this site, and hoping very much to get some help and support, as I've not spoken to anyone else yet. 09 Feb 09, by AngelFeathers Latest 09 Feb 09 by startingagain09	Replies:3 :295	Latest by startingagain09 09 Feb 09
New here - Building up strength Hi, I am new to wikivorce and I am hoping it can help me out. I want to leave my husband of 10 years and I am having trouble buidling the strength to ... 08 Feb 09, by floridagirl Latest 08 Feb 09 by startingagain09	Replies:5 :411	Latest by startingagain09 08 Feb 09
My story - sorry this could be long! Hi everyone. I found this site yesterday and already it has given me a lot of help. I hope that you will bear with my while I tell my story and apolog ... 02 Feb 09, by bevs Latest 07 Feb 09 by Biff 1 2	Replies:7 :634	Latest by Biff 07 Feb 09
Do I have to do anything? Hello, I have just joined after reading about this site in a magazine. I hope it will give me strength, support and advice - and friends in the same situati ... 06 Feb 09, by goingforward Latest 06 Feb 09 by Sera	Replies:4 :274	Latest by Sera 06 Feb 09
Not sure if I'm in the right place.. But... Hi everybody, I'm Lowlevel and I'm a 40 year old failure... (I apologise for the length - But I have a feeling that once I start typing I won't be a ... 04 Feb 09, by Lowlevel Latest 06 Feb 09 by bevs 1 2	Replies:10 :743	Latest by bevs 06 Feb 09
my partner left me hello, im new to this site,but i just wanted exspress how im feeling,ive been on my own for three months now,im still heart broken with my fiance leaving me!i w ... 05 Feb 09, by duchess Latest 06 Feb 09 by JoannaA	Replies:3 :267	Latest by JoannaA 06 Feb 09
married a raf man,do i get to stay in raf house? I have been married a year and separated for 3 months. He is in the raf so we live in service families housing. I get 3 months to vacate,so will be homeless. Do ... 05 Feb 09, by sarahsue Latest 05 Feb 09 by asram	Replies:3 :283	Latest by asram 05 Feb 09
Am i doing the right thing?? Hello every one, this is my first posted question, have been looking at the site for months and just plucked up the courage to post some thing, I would like som ... 05 Feb 09, by deang Latest 05 Feb 09 by Zara2009	Replies:2 :268	Latest by Zara2009 05 Feb 09
so confused, so much to think about, need help! hi, im Chelle. Hi to everyone out there, i'm guessing that we are basically all in the same boat, so commiserations or congratulations to you all, whichever ... 05 Feb 09, by happy2bsplit Latest 05 Feb 09 by happy2bsplit	Replies:2 :265	Latest by happy2bsplit 05 Feb 09

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