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Your relationships change upon divorce. You lose your ex and lose touch with shared friends. And then there are the new relationships to deal with.

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Don''t know what to think anymore .... I''m not even sure what to say anymore. stbx was leading double life for approx 10 plus years, when discovered. Moved out of MH to live with OW, who btw he ... 13 Dec 13, by Caley Latest 14 Dec 13 by Caley 1 2 3	Replies:14 :1433	Latest by Caley 14 Dec 13
Not myself Currently going through the divorce process which I have been dreading. Stbx had affair over 10 yrs which I discovered accidentally. STILL hurts like he ... 05 Dec 13, by Caley Latest 05 Dec 13 by Caley	Replies:4 :384	Latest by Caley 05 Dec 13
query query ... 17 Nov 13, by Wendy29 Latest 20 Nov 13 by Wendy29 1 2	Replies:7 :958	Latest by Wendy29 20 Nov 13
Controlling jealous STBX Don''t know where to start with this but will have a go, just trying to gauge what is reasonable I suppose. Marriage been pretty crap for the whole twe ... 12 Oct 13, by geldap Latest 01 Nov 13 by hawaythelads 1 2 3	Replies:15 :1523	Latest by hawaythelads 01 Nov 13
WILL THEY EVER SPEAK TO ME AGAIN After leaving my husband my grown up children don''t want to know me , they see me as the bad person but they knew what he was like and how he controlled me.one ... 29 Oct 13, by GEORDIE62 Latest 31 Oct 13 by GEORDIE62	Replies:2 :425	Latest by GEORDIE62 31 Oct 13
Internet Dating - Not Going Well I have been trying out Internet dating. It didn''t really exist before I was married, and being a bit of a geek I was quite excited to try it out. I ha ... 27 Oct 13, by Londonguy1975 Latest 27 Oct 13 by carast1	Replies:5 :466	Latest by carast1 27 Oct 13
New relationship - age gap?? Loveless marriage for years, finally decided to go my own way 12m+ ago....no one else involved but I''d had enough. I''ve interacting with a long time ... 01 Oct 13, by Sunshine smile Latest 12 Oct 13 by daisygreen 1 2 3	Replies:19 :1246	Latest by daisygreen 12 Oct 13
Songs that make you feel positive I was listening to some music to try and feel more positive and up beat and came across this song. 12 Jun 08, by ivorytower Latest 11 Oct 13 by ozzie10538 1 2 3 ... 8	Replies:52 :6752	Latest by ozzie10538 11 Oct 13
Watershed Hi all, well just had the day from hell! My wife had used my credit card to pay for a non molestation order (£1000) and injunction preventing my returning home ... 23 Sep 13, by Stomsystem Latest 23 Sep 13 by Marshy_	Replies:1 :532	Latest by Marshy_ 23 Sep 13
my second divorce Hi, Does any one know how to ignore husband''s disgusting behaviour, going on dating sites abroad, taking advantage of younger girls who are looking to marr ... 13 Sep 13, by Mana Olana Latest 15 Sep 13 by Mana Olana	Replies:2 :421	Latest by Mana Olana 15 Sep 13
Feeling so confused with current relationship..... I am in love with someone who doesn''t share his feelings verbally, he says he has never shared anything with his family about how he feels about them. I feel t ... 09 Sep 13, by tillibud Latest 11 Sep 13 by tillibud 1 2 3	Replies:16 :1324	Latest by tillibud 11 Sep 13
Boyfriend shows true colours Boyfriend finally gone after months of sulks and things ''he didn''t like'' turned up last night full of drink trying to convince me I''d done the wrong thing, ... 07 Sep 13, by Catliz1 Latest 07 Sep 13 by Shoegirl	Replies:1 :459	Latest by Shoegirl 07 Sep 13
Difficult week These past 5 weeks have seen my world torn apart, this week is going to be a particularly difficult week. At times like this I say to my self the words I read i ... 18 Aug 13, by Onajourney Latest 24 Aug 13 by Onajourney	Replies:3 :441	Latest by Onajourney 24 Aug 13
Urgent advise. Agressive eightyear old step son. Hi all. I need urgent adivise on the following: My BF has two children, a six year old daughter and an eight year old son that are currently v ... 22 Aug 13, by Chained Latest 23 Aug 13 by Chained 1 2 3	Replies:15 :1252	Latest by Chained 23 Aug 13
Need advise pls My partner got married in pakistan 2010, when he came back he left the family for me as he didnt want to go through with the marriage. He claimed he got divorce ... 21 Aug 13, by Secretb Latest 21 Aug 13 by Tiger7861	Replies:4 :490	Latest by Tiger7861 21 Aug 13
HOW did I become the enemy?? How did I become the enemy when I am NOT the one who has done anything wrong? This is a topsy turvy world and I am not able to come to terms with it. Just can ... 15 Jul 13, by elizadoolittle Latest 18 Aug 13 by Onajourney 1 2 3	Replies:16 :1285	Latest by Onajourney 18 Aug 13
well you were right I dont know if this is the right place to write this but here goes. Some time ago i wrote about my wife leaving to find her own head space just before ... 02 Apr 13, by Tom321 Latest 11 Aug 13 by flowerofscotland 1 2 3 ... 8	Replies:50 :3181	Latest by flowerofscotland 11 Aug 13
doubts Hello. I found so much good technical advice re divorce on here. Now I am 6 weeks into the process, gone through hell with my wife trying to agree with her on t ... 09 Aug 13, by trek102 Latest 10 Aug 13 by fairylandtime	Replies:1 :392	Latest by fairylandtime 10 Aug 13
Cannot decide Hello, New to the site. Read thourgh some of the posts, found good advices. I''m going through a period, cannot decide to get a divorce or not. And I think ... 28 Nov 12, by shoeinn Latest 09 Aug 13 by pawtrack 1 2	Replies:11 :1163	Latest by pawtrack 09 Aug 13
Issue with g/f My g/f is a bit excessive. If I go the shops and I take 10 minutes longer than expected because I got stuck in a traffic jam she wants to know who I have been w ... 04 Aug 13, by Kevin1908 Latest 05 Aug 13 by Kevin1908 1 2	Replies:11 :989	Latest by Kevin1908 05 Aug 13
What a mess Three and a half years ago my STBX walked out on me, he left me for someone else. For the last one and a half years we have been going through divorce. Got the ... 28 Jul 13, by schloer Latest 28 Jul 13 by schloer	Replies:3 :486	Latest by schloer 28 Jul 13
Who are we protecting? X or self? Eight months down the road, though it''s still twisting and turning, and I ask myself, why is it so hard to think badly of him? I have spent so long defending ... 23 Jul 13, by elizadoolittle Latest 28 Jul 13 by Nigella19 1 2	Replies:11 :1130	Latest by Nigella19 28 Jul 13
Relationship with someone going through a divorce I have been reading the forums a while now and I can relate to many of the posts having gone through a difficult split and then sorting of assets etc. I wish I ... 12 Jul 13, by idealist Latest 23 Jul 13 by Marshy_ 1 2	Replies:8 :1028	Latest by Marshy_ 23 Jul 13
Drink Driving Husband Looking for some advice please. I have been with my husband for nearly six years and he has always enjoyed a drink. He likes a drink at home most nights to unwi ... 26 Jun 13, by ScobbyDoo Latest 21 Jul 13 by Vastra1	Replies:4 :1999	Latest by Vastra1 21 Jul 13
Agreement for cheating spouse? It has been 2 months since my husband confessed that he''d cheated on me for 2 years but I have not seen any lawyer or counselor. My husband is an expa ... 16 Jul 13, by 123I2free Latest 16 Jul 13 by flowerofscotland	Replies:4 :700	Latest by flowerofscotland 16 Jul 13
Divorced but entering into Step monster role..help Well divorce done and dusted so the next phase is step monster... My partner who I have been with for almost 3 years has yet to start proceedings but w ... 08 Jul 13, by Abbey girl Latest 09 Jul 13 by McGraw	Replies:4 :546	Latest by McGraw 09 Jul 13
Relationships with in-laws, nieces & nephews etc Can any give me any pointers about renegotiating relationships with my STBX''s family - his parents are being fine, but things are very strained with his younge ... 01 Jul 13, by Vastra1 Latest 05 Jul 13 by mightyredmen 1 2	Replies:13 :1294	Latest by mightyredmen 05 Jul 13
finances destroying my relationship part 2! not sure if anyone remembers my previous post. my partner and i took your advice and went to see a solicitor yesterday (not free advice £285/hr!) the s ... 26 Jun 13, by Sam46 Latest 01 Jul 13 by Sam46 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:32 :1833	Latest by Sam46 01 Jul 13
Can''t see anything good will come out of this... Ranty, sorry... Partner finally got round to thinking about sorting finances out, 12 months after Absolute. 4 years ago they agreed his ex was going to get ... 29 Jun 13, by strongerthanithought Latest 29 Jun 13 by strongerthanithought 1 2	Replies:8 :951	Latest by strongerthanithought 29 Jun 13
finances are destroying my relationship I have tried to be patient but this is destroying our relationship. My partner and I live together and have a joint current account. We earn £23000/yr ... 13 Jun 13, by Sam46 Latest 28 Jun 13 by Sam46 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:32 :2041	Latest by Sam46 28 Jun 13
girlfriend A friend of mine just came over to tell me the news; he has a girlfriend. No other details, not sure how long etc. It''s bad enough without this. Not enough ... 22 Jun 13, by elizadoolittle Latest 24 Jun 13 by NoWhereToTurnl 1 2 3	Replies:14 :1338	Latest by NoWhereToTurnl 24 Jun 13
scared I''m just after abit of the amazing Wiki reasurrance as i''m feeling abit scared today. I''m starting to let go of the business my STBX and i have built over t ... 21 Jun 13, by nicwin Latest 21 Jun 13 by tinkerbell1606	Replies:1 :397	Latest by tinkerbell1606 21 Jun 13
New relationship during divorce Could any one advice if having a new relationship during the divorce process has an impact on child custody or the financial settlement? If not living together? ... 06 Jun 13, by lolamola Latest 21 Jun 13 by Fiona	Replies:6 :680	Latest by Fiona 21 Jun 13
Fallen in love again, need advice!! It''s been a year since my husband and I split, I''ve dated but nothing serious, and certainly not worth introducing to my children. But now I''ve met someone I ... 16 Jun 13, by Animus Latest 21 Jun 13 by Animus 1 2 3	Replies:17 :1119	Latest by Animus 21 Jun 13
Leaving temporarily? Has anyone just upped and left their spouse after an argument? I have considered it many times when feeling bleak and desperate. I could simply tel ... 19 Jun 13, by ConnieT Latest 19 Jun 13 by ConnieT	Replies:2 :337	Latest by ConnieT 19 Jun 13
Online Dating - She''s Way Out of My League!?!! I''m average looking, I even have a beard which is an acquired taste! I have been speaking to a girl by e-mail for a couple of days now. I''ve done the checks - ... 05 Jun 13, by Palermo Latest 06 Jun 13 by Palermo 1 2 3 4	Replies:26 :1944	Latest by Palermo 06 Jun 13
letting him off A quick recap first of all STBH had an affair for a year told me day after boxing day they now live together and i''m left to pick up the pieces the usual story ... 03 Jun 13, by nicwin Latest 04 Jun 13 by littlegreen	Replies:3 :363	Latest by littlegreen 04 Jun 13
Dating Dilemma! Just looking for advice on how to decline further dates politely. Normally don''t have bother but this instance we have mutual friends & will likely bump ... 11 May 13, by redwine47 Latest 03 Jun 13 by redwine47 1 2 3	Replies:15 :1191	Latest by redwine47 03 Jun 13
Sometimes it''s hard to know how to help...... Hi everyone Sorry this post may be a bit of an off load/rant, if that makes sense. First off my partner and I got together way after he separa ... 03 Jun 13, by CakesandFlowers Latest 03 Jun 13 by Marshy_	Replies:3 :440	Latest by Marshy_ 03 Jun 13
Definition of ''co-habiting'' please? Hi there, I''m in process of divorce and have arranged a defered buy out agreement with ex. The triggering events are, remarry, youngest child turning ... 28 May 13, by Blonde13 Latest 31 May 13 by Forseti	Replies:4 :686	Latest by Forseti 31 May 13

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